laplace12:
This is not news nah.

Lets be factual, any grown up girls That visits a Guy in his room alone didn't go with innocent mind. She knows There could some advances but she simply prays It doesn't get out of hand.

The bad news is they won't stop visiting....just like one is on my neck now, calling me day and nite

Dragonking:
She said No and you still went ahead to cajole her and even sucked her breast? You are a bloody rapist!!! Na this mistake timaya make...oya classicB I don catch one suspect for you.

happney65:


Lol..I cajoled her,i never forced her clothes off..na she remove them,the bra for me herself after me sef use style do like say i dey vex..i leave her go sit the extreme corner,na she come dey beg me..Rape is when there is physical force to sleep with a woman.There wasnt a physical alteration..It was Mutual..You Dig bro?

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

Dragonking:
Can you show us the source of this statistics if not shut da fvck up.

Dragonking:
She said No and you still went ahead to cajole her and even sucked her breast? You are a bloody rapist!!! Na this mistake timaya make...oya classicB I don catch one suspect for you.

wordbank:
Ur conclusion makes no sense in any way. U met d wrong dude so what? So others should be slaves to their own selves?
U r just amusing!

Lovesdaisied:


Do you need statistics to prove that the sky is blue?

Virtually all Nigerian girls in Nigeria have been exposed to sexual assault and/or rape. Yeah I said it!

Cutehector:
Why must it be an eatery? Food no dey ya hous

Cutehector:
Why must it be an eatery? Food no dey ya hous

ahsekeena:
But ehn? Tbh,I cannot visit a guy in his house o! The last time I visited a guy who was not my boyfriend was in 2006,was much younger and naïve.



But now! No way!

sonofananimal:
DON'T WORRY, WITH TIME NA YOU GO EVEN DEY RAPE GUYS

YOU NO KNOW SAY YOU DON DEY OLD ABI

Dharniel:
those guys molested you buh they didn't have their way.
to me, when it comes to rape the two parties are guilty but that's not always true cuz at times the lady raped might just be completely innocent.
op, there's something you've gotta always remember which is "NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME", we still have good eggs among us buh nah the bads ones full market, so i put it to the ladies to be watchful and very careful...

chi4ik4:
ladies should stop collecting money from Men, theft & lies are bad

classicB:
I can actually foot my own bill

chi4ik4:
so many girls will enjoy sex finish & they will shout rape! who is raping who? pls girls should learn how to dress & stop seducing Men!

Dragonking:
Go to family section, there is another edioot that open a thread on rape.

Brugo:
Girl dresses scantily to visit a guy who is sexually active. They get cuddly and start kissing and touching then she says no when he makes further moves to take off her clothes. Not all guys have the will to stop when the process has been initiated.

Ladies if you don't want to get raped, stop setting yourselves up. Don't get to the point of heavy petting then pull away. You may be dealing with a guy who has little control when aroused. You can't put hot coal on your lap and hope it won't burn you.

SirShymexx:


Lol. These heaux probably just discovered the word or there's a serial rapist in their neck of the woods, raping everyone. How is that our business?

Nobody wants to hear that shyte all the time. It is a cruel act but come on, this is 2015 not 1850, and rape victims are well catered to and the culprits are dealt with severely. Just report to the authorities if you're a victim and if you have got brothers, tell them, so they can handle the mofo who violated their sister the best way they deem right. And don't put yourself in a vulnerable position cos a lot of these chicken headed chics get carried away easily as soon as their preying eyes see material things they can benefit from.

There are more things going on in the world than disturbing folks with rape, while trying to paint every guy out there as a rapist. Stop it.

sweetgala:


You know something young man( I've chosen to refer to you as so, because no adult can type what you did) , if you have nothing good to say , keep you words. A fool is considered wise till he parts his lips.

I'm not a woman , and can not imagine the difficulties they experience and the fact that I'm aware sexual harassment and assault is a reality in their lives , even worse the abysmal lack of justice.

SirShymexx:


Lol. These heaux probably just discovered the word or there's a serial rapist in their neck of the woods, raping everyone. How is that our business?

Nobody wants to hear that shyte all the time. It is a cruel act but come on, this is 2015 not 1850, and rape victims are well catered to and the culprits are dealt with severely. Just report to the authorities if you're a victim and if you have got brothers, tell them, so they can handle the mofo who violated their sister the best way they deem right. And don't put yourself in a vulnerable position cos a lot of these chicken headed chics get carried away easily as soon as their preying eyes see material things they can benefit from.

There are more things going on in the world than disturbing folks with rape, while trying to paint every guy out there as a rapist. Stop it.

Dragonking:
I don't need statistics for the obvious but[b] I need statistical proof for the none obvious which you stated earlier on.[/b]

Brugo:
Girl dresses scantily to visit a guy who is sexually active. They get cuddly and start kissing and touching then she says no when he makes further moves to take off her clothes. Not all guys have the will to stop when the process has been initiated.

Ladies if you don't want to get raped, stop setting yourselves up. Don't get to the point of heavy petting then pull away. You may be dealing with a guy who has little control when aroused. You can't put hot coal on your lap and hope it won't burn you.

sweetgala:


What kind of nonsense have you typed. That is the same as saying a man who has a gun in his hand has the right to kill people because he has been handed a deadly weapon and therefore is not absolutely responsible for his actions.

While a lady might be happy to kiss a guy she might be opposed to sexual intercourse. What kind of foolish FOB argument did you just put up.