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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by cococandy(f): 1:42am On Aug 09, 2015 |
ORALL: You're the only one that knows o. Not we all. You dey your house know exactly what happened. SMH 6 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Kennedyiheme: 1:43am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Op you should also tell ladies to stop acting like hungry lions, looking for were to eat, that's wht happn to someone that likes sweetmouth |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:45am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Ndipe: you should have quoted that statement completely, you left the most important part out where i said "but that's not always true"... |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tayediggss: 1:56am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Deleayo88:I do not support immodest dressing but your argument is one sided. Even with all the covering in the Muslim world, rape still exists. what about those who molest 2yr olds or underage? will you blame it on tight pampas? Anyone who forces himself on another sexually is sick and needs to be locked up away from normal people. 3 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ManTiger(m): 2:00am On Aug 09, 2015 |
ahsekeena: Can I come and dine with you? I have a Rolex Roice, Ashton Martene but to mention just few of my rydes. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by LasoulMacuby(m): 2:14am On Aug 09, 2015 |
bullshit analysis, bullshit conclusion. o.p, u go to a guys house to do what exactly? u no fit stay for ur papa house? Sandra closes from Sunday school, and goes to moses house, to do what exactly? when ur folks are going home. I have never raped a woman, and will never, but I have sister's I don't toy with, but if they can't stay in their father's house, but go around visiting random male friends, then I don't give a damm if they are bleeped to hell. . . OK, imagine Medunah come visit me now, and I come meet am for bed, wan pull her bra, she go cry rape. why she no visit Ngozi or Rokiatu, and wetin she come do for my room? All in all, guys, rape is not an option. If konji too hold u, u fit still see babe Bleep for 5h 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dfrost: 2:16am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Brugo: classicB see if you can heed Brugo's advice to discuss within his context. Please note that most men, I repeat, most men feel your pain. Most men are not monsters, same way not all women/ladies/girls dress indecently. I'll never forget what one of my uncles told me: the society prepares the crime, the criminal only commits it. Most of the comments I've read on this discourse, borders on the fact that some of the female folk dress in a manner that provokes or invites the criminal to commit the crime. If possible, don't counter the points but see how you can educate the female folks around you on dressing. Also, some women insult men that don't have sex with them giving all sorts of reason: Not caring Not man enough Not serious (to mention just a few) On the other hand, some men are just beasts. Does a 2 year-old dress provocatively? No. Absolutely no. The male folks amongst us need to rise up and assist these ones and show them how to channel their thinking into something other than sex. In school then, I had board games. So if any of my female classmate visits, we play the games thereby channeling our minds into something else. If any human feeds his/her mind on anything, the body acts in resonance with the mind. We should never feed our demons, else they will consume us eventually. Which is why I insist on when a man/woman are courting, there should be a chaperone that is nearby but not close enough to be able to eavesdrop on their conversation so as to safeguard, most especially the woman. Lastly, with the help of God, we will all conquer someday. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by vetsolo28(m): 2:20am On Aug 09, 2015 |
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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dfrost: 2:25am On Aug 09, 2015 |
tayediggss: More like help the person if you'll agree. I know that not all of us can change but let's give the person the benefit of doubt. Obviously we can't lock the person up forever or can we? It's really disheartening to hear of the little ones falling victim to such dastardly acts... |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 2:31am On Aug 09, 2015 |
biz2get: Your signature proceeds you |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Eluwilussit(m): 2:33am On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB: First, there's no such thing like "innocently" when u visit a guy in his room. Every girl who has a male friend, knows too well that at the end of the day, the whole talk will drift towards sex. Men want sex. Men like sex. Women too. If a guy is your male friend, chances are that he admires you. Even sexually. Truth is that the "innocent" visitor is usually not so innocent. The difference is just "timing". The girls wanna take their time to get to know the guys better, use the guys, and not appear cheap, while the guys are always too impatient and can't wait. As for motives, both have the same motive. Sex. Our girls are gold diggers. When a fellow student buys u drinks, food, recharge cards etc, why do u think he's doing it? Don't forget that guys show their "love" tru gifts and dotting on gals. In return, what do you think they want? "Thank u broda"? Well, they want only one thing. If you can't figure that out, that probably explains why u nearly got yourself into trouble, severally. There's no such thing as a "good guy" at a certain stage in a guy's life. It's either u are a sharp guy or a magga. Who wants to be a magga? Not my guy. Solution is very simple. Don't visit a guy in his house, unless you are his girlfriend and ready to "comfort him".Whatever that might be. Goat and yam no dey stay one place. These days sef, goat and goat to stay together fit turn to wahala. Women should stop playing victims. When a true rape case happens, ehnn, we can all come together to condemn it. On campus, all man na he goat. Konji tins full ground. Most guys are still learners and lack self-control. 99% of the time, u will sleep with oyibo girls same day u meet dem if them dig u. But naija gals, go use u die before u go even know their real names. Lol. If u lay with dogs, you get ticks. Girls should stop assuming that there's such thing as a free meal. Boys just wanna have fun. Ask Sigmund Freud. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by babasade(m): 2:36am On Aug 09, 2015 |
I don't support rape and will never, but ladies abeg dress well, I was @ a park a girl wore a very short shirt alone covering her private part alone even the woman beside me was complaining to make it worse she took a bike. Guys too before you rape a lady just imagine if this your sister or your daughter been raped. How will you feel??karma is really..@op, u keep meeting random men @eatery. How will you know who is who. But rape is real I know of a close friend a girl that was raped by her own boyfriend under the pretence he was sick and she went visiting, but all men and ladies ain't the same,so you shouldn't generalise. If a girl visit me in my house I won't even touch her for her 2 come that 101% trust. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by sweetgala(m): 2:46am On Aug 09, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Those societies exist in Nigeria, however the judicial system is flawed and doesn't prescribe adequate justice oftentimes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by chigoizie7(m): 2:50am On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB: And ur point Is? In as much as I don't support the idea of young ladies,kids, maids being raped, but as regards to the guy u mentioned and the topic of the thread. Those helpless young gals didn't visit the guys house neither do the innocent maids. U can really campaign against rape, I will support u on that, but pointing it all out to gals visiting guys is really wrong. Yes, the 18 old gal was innocent and helpless, she found herself also n the wrong place, I don't blame her. In as much as I don't support rapists, but @ the same time, with respect to your topic of gals stopping to visit guys, all I can say is "gals, please stop setting yourselves up". I was once a student, I know how it all goes down,I know how ladies walk the streets almost naked, and how they will also come to your house virtually naked, and den do all the things that can lead to sex to a sexually active guy and then expect him not to react. An igbo adage says"okwa onye kpara nku aruru sii ngwere putara ya uno onwu". Btw, in no circumstance will I be a party to a pro rapists, it is very wrong and I don't support it. Whatever happens to dressing decently and engaging in a meaningful conversations that is not sex related and then the guy goes ahead to try to rape u?. Ur campaign against rape is good, but bothering it all on visiting guys is very wrong, I ve had many girls visit me, I ve never raped any. Just as u can't just tell me to stop dating girls because they are all gold diggers and cheats or whores. Yes, there are bad guys. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by sweetgala(m): 2:51am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Rockyfancino: Your argument is that you have seen American movies and thereby that should be our mortal compass. Your comment says three things clearly - You are a child and also stupid - You have never been to america and most definitely not suited for civil life there - You are likely to have sexually assaulted another individual before 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by sweetgala(m): 2:53am On Aug 09, 2015 |
wordbank: What kind of supid comprehension do I need to see through you being an apologist to rapist. Tranfering the blame to the victim for seduction. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tpiander: 2:57am On Aug 09, 2015 |
sweetgala: Check the thread title before you start yarning one kain. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by 400billionman: 3:00am On Aug 09, 2015 |
I am supporting this thread with N100. Op, send ur account number.. But girls dey very cunning shaa. One lady after her first visit to my house said as we walked to the driveway. Boy, I expected and was prepared for a fight with you today. I said, no I don't rush girls. I take it if you give it. We laughed not knowing same girl will later say, YOU ARE NOT MAN ENOUGH. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Coraje(m): 3:04am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Op I support you. If at least it will prevent our girls from getting raped. But labeling all guys as rapists ain't fair cost hate to be seen as one. Moreover, most guys could come here and start faulting your claim saying not all guys are the same but no one can really know the few guys that have the fear of God and won't rape. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 3:26am On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB: So all men are rapists? I have a female friend who szpend d weekend with me and she is dressed in her gown nd all and we dont do abything than talk nd play, shes just coming to relax, away from school, do her assignment read etc and we aint related in anyway. She has no sexual hang ups i have none too..... The point is this, ladies should be more observant of cues a guy is giving. If he is talkin too sexual distance urself without apologies, ladies should stop taking from men you aint dating. If u beg a man for a favour u dont deserve, he probably will feel entitled, a man whho grants u a job or admission u ddont deserve is already morally bankrupt and rape isnt a problem. Be confident:Any guy u dont desire in anyway treat him as such politely but be stern. Be strict in standing ur ground, such a guy cannot evn ggather thhhe guts to invite u over bbecause ur too disciplined. Just be discciplined. And only a disciplined man can stand or even date disciplined woman. Never compromise for any man, never!!! The advice id give if i had a sister. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by easystudy101: 3:30am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Perfect social engineering. Everyday there is a rape story |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 3:33am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Dragonking: All your insulting will not work, she has said the truth 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 3:36am On Aug 09, 2015 |
rezzy: The decent guys i have met are few and far in between. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by simdam500(m): 3:45am On Aug 09, 2015 |
misspicy: |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 3:46am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Dragonking: Is the issue of rape a molehill to you? 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by happney65: 3:48am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Medunah: Meant i dont have one girlfriend..hehehehe |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 3:49am On Aug 09, 2015 |
searching4love: You are mental. As you wish for her, so will it be for your entire female family members idiot! 4 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tpiander: 3:51am On Aug 09, 2015 |
easystudy101: jeez. then later these harpies will start looking for some divorced man or widower to sink their claws into. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 3:54am On Aug 09, 2015 |
EgunMogaji: She and almost 90% of Nigerian women that have either been raped or lucky to escape have poor choice in men right? 3 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 3:55am On Aug 09, 2015 |
AikayDaWrapper: Then sit on it and do nothing, until it happens to a female you care for. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tpiander: 3:56am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Pidggin: 90% of Nigerian women meaning what? are you saying 90% of Nigerian women have been raped or met rapists? Are you mad? have 90% of Nigerian men also been raped? 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 3:59am On Aug 09, 2015 |
worshipdevice: She is useless to you because her topic has exposed you right? 2 Likes |
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