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Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Wesely01(m): 12:55am On Oct 16, 2019 |
kurupt1: People like her don't understand the meaning of true love all they know is fame love. It's like Linda ikeji that was telling ladies to abstain from sex why she was getting it at the corner and got pregnant. The funny thing is that most ladies listen to them. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mstick: 12:55am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Seriously I can't even deal. They're already praising her for her "brain" Madam please come and tell us the book you read about woman power and influence so we can also read. AntiBrutus: 4 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by bukatyne(f): 12:56am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6: There is a difference between marrying an ex-prostítute or ex-drug addict and someone still active will you both are together. I interestingly agree with Toke in this. However, if the Gucci's wife to be was fine with putting up with all that crap, Wetin concern me? If a woman does not love herself enough to pick the right man or walk away from one who is disrespectful to her, why should I cry more than the bereaved? Are there women who follows Snoop's school of thought? Yes. Are there men who do? You bet. What is my responsibility? Stay clear from them all, choose well and teach my daughters to do same. I am a firm believer of personal responsibility. Full stop. 6 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:56am On Oct 16, 2019 |
cococandy: I know him na, but since he decided to stick to his gender change- lets address him by his new gender. Obviously hasn't gotten over you. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:57am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine:I don't know of coco.candy but I'm very sure Anti.Brutus debunked your baby factory prediction. Anyways you are entitled to your illusions. Dey dere make g-string dey wear you. But he go shock you sha, if you live in Nigeria and dey dream like that. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mstick: 12:57am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Me that isn't a Christian I wonder what's my own crown. Ariza: 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mstick: 1:00am On Oct 16, 2019 |
The Gucci Mane wife that they're using as an example of superwoman do you know she has THREE KIDS for other men? She abandoned them in Jamaica to chase Gucci Mane all around now we are expected to emulate. AntiBrutus: 4 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 1:02am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine: If you read my first post, you will see I specifically said "such issues". We talking drugs, jail time, cheating...etc. These are serious issues and I wouldn't try to fix such. Marriage is not a rehab home for broken people. These ones would pull you under. Tiwa tried it, how did it end? He was using all her money to take drugs and drink in Lagos. Churchill tried it with Tonto? How far? There are issues you leave to the cosmos. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 1:02am On Oct 16, 2019 |
moshino:If this is the limit to your reasoning, you are delightfully excused. 4 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by cococandy(f): 1:03am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Okay. I was wondering if it’s been long enough that you forgot. As for the newbies auntying and sissing him. I’m just reading and laughing. But seriously I shouldn’t be laughing because I’m a firm believer in gender fluidity. Freedom of choice is sweet. @bolded . AntiBrutus: 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Slimdada(m): 1:04am On Oct 16, 2019 |
That's why she's still single and proud |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by crackhaus: 1:07am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: Come, they will eat you raw here. This is what they are known for, gathering like fleas to shut down any female who dares drop it cold. It will not end well and you will be tagged. You've made your point. 7 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 1:10am On Oct 16, 2019 |
cococandy: A true man cannot stick with a cheating partner, his condo may no longer get full attention or no attention at all. So it's better his woman cheat secretly until the day she gets caught. Same with women who finds a better diick and start acting up to their present partner. It has to do with psychological and mental issues and not morality or sentiment. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 1:11am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick:. What I know is that according to Proverb 12 :4, it says and I quote. ' A woman with a noble character is the crown of her husband, a disgraceful wife is a cancer to his bones'. I don't know where Ginaz got her own from . 5 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 1:15am On Oct 16, 2019 |
bukatyne: Since you wanna be so petty and argue for the sake of it . I will leave you to these bible verse if you like accept it or not. Your cup of tea. This bible verse clearly states that a man and woman are not equal since the man is the head. That doesn’t mean we are lesser beings by the way, we are powerful in our own rights than always playing the victim card when things doesn’t go our way. Ephesians 5:23 Because a husband is head of his wife just as the Christ is the head of the congregation. Colossians 3:18 You wives , be in subjection to your husbands, as it is becoming in the lord. Titus 2:5 “To be sound in mind , chaste , working at home, good, subjecting themselves to their own husbands, so that the word of God may not be spoken abusively . *dont bother quoting back. I won’t answer you. You don’t wanna learn but argue I don’t have energy for that* 5 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Magnoliaa(f): 1:24am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: This is not always bad. The Bible said women are helpers . We are not equal and can never be equal to men. Until women learn this hard and naked truth they will always be at the receiving end of pain! lol. I think I 'see' what you're attacking here, but anyway, whatever you think—your perceptions. Be careful of the type of advise you take as a woman. Physical violence of any kind should not be taken though. In that area I suggest you walk away. But physical violence has always been a part of the deal sha. All you've said are things that are, something that is. Nothing new. Things are actually changing *gradually* in the past few centuries. Women have always been all those things you mentioned. I know everything you listed - as a woman - those 'secret' truths, 'unseen' influences and lived trying to absorb and be all that. Now, women want to live for themselves. It's not a hidden belief—that a woman should be a help meet and change man, we know that. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 1:26am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Did you know that Barack Obama was a chain smoker and drug addict? Did you know that Bill Clinton was a cheat? Did you know that many of our politicians today have been jailed for one reason or the other? So you know, they all have wives who stood by them to see them become the better person. Don't mind that Americana wannabe, she's just a local mbaise girl 11 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 1:32am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick: You’re the one foolish here. Both times I have said if you don’t wanna stay then walk away. Nobody held you at a gun point for God’s sake. some women , they are the architect of their own bitterness . They play the victim card at all times. If it’s too much then walk away . If you wanna stay STAY!!! If you wanna walk away WALK!! If you’re not so blind you would have seen where I said physical violence should not be condoned. What I’m saying is, we should stop trying to say men can’t take bullshit so we can’t . It’s like we are trying to equalized instead of putting to good use what our woman power could do . Stop looking for holes cos you want to argue for the sake of it . You crying black mentality, how many women have your white mentality helped ? 7 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 1:38am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: Babe, don't go down this route with them, they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with stupidity. No cussing plz, your self esteem is priceless. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Magnoliaa(f): 1:43am On Oct 16, 2019 |
12inchess: Exactly! So should we not take any advice from Snoop Dogg nor praised Gucci's love life - because they are both nothing to write home about. Divorced, became a grandfather at 43 or so, weed smokers, had a child out of wedlock, and so many, many more unspeakable things they were involved in. If we follow this your advice, no one should speak on anything at all - except God. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 1:44am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine: I done hear you. In fact, I done retract my sweetened post to @Ginaz. Una no vex. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 1:46am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine: Thank you my dear. I’m done with this topic . Women they will always play the victim card. The toke that is preaching, was she not the one they said was sleeping with someone’s husband last year, an old man like that? She’s here crying wolf and acting like she has done good all her life when it comes to men. 9 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mstick: 1:48am On Oct 16, 2019 |
You're a just FISH BRAINED pick me. You can't even defend your own argument. What is this magical women power you've been talking about, can you please name one? You were asked to bring up bible verses that supported your initial comment about men and women not being equal and you pulled up verses about husband and wives. You trying to trivialize real life issues women in Africa go through every day and calling it "victim card" shows how stupid and weak you're. Using your religion as a back up further shows how useless you're because am sure you wouldn't appreciate if a Muslim lady uses the Quran same way. I have every right to say I wouldn't take bullshît from any man because I am not going to do the same. Relationship is about partnership and respect and once respect is lost love follows. Ginaz: 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Magnoliaa(f): 1:51am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Niccoloimhotep: For your mind, getting your respect rare reach like that? Na gold abi diamond? 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 1:56am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick: I have 2 words for you. “YOU ARE VERY FOOLISH and you “LACK INSIGHTS. If you wanna argue be my guest. When you’re done acting like an empty brain devoid of sense but think you do have sense , THEN YOU CAN GO TO BED! 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Magnoliaa(f): 2:00am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: Do you know history? Through all civilizations? How women have been treated? If women had 'unshakable' power --- why aren't they allowed to put in to use? Why were they not at helm of institutions and things in the society? I mean, it only makes sense for someone with supposed power, intuition, an ability to build and fix things, and all special characteristics to be at the front, be the first and driving change. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mstick: 2:01am On Oct 16, 2019 |
See madam woman power calling me foolish. You're the brainless nitwit sis. Like your post you reek of ignorance and low low self esteem. Women are not equal to men right? Show me any female graduate that spent lesser years studying the same course as her male counterparts. Am sure if you existed during the period women were fighting for the right to vote you would have talked down on them after all the Bible said. Gedifok outta here! Ginaz: 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mstick: 2:05am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Don't mind the IDIOT! How can you claim women are not equal to men then in the same post claim women have power? What power? If not for women that decided that enough is enough would madam unshakable power have gotten an education? Magnoliaa: 4 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 2:09am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Stop modifying to sweeten your post . Your number 1 point I have said severally a woman should not condone any act of violence. The door is still open , if you wanna walk away do that. If you think you could instill a good influence on your man then stay in. Life there is always a choice . Toke is playing a victim card though she may be right in her assertions but no one ever held her to stay where she isn’t wanted cos of love . Our power should be put in good use instead of putting blames on men for mostly everything. You’re in a tight relationship you are no longer happy instead to make a choice , you say men won’t take the crap you take so you have to walk away doesn’t sound right in my ears. You’re equalizing it . Toke is confused and she doesn’t know it . If you wanna compare what a man can’t take to what a woman would , you gonna lost it cos the two are different in everything. 6 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by arthorjnr(m): 2:09am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Nnemuka: TM made some valid points that am not disputing. But she has poor comprehension skills because she missed the message like you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 2:10am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick: The 12 disciples of jesus were men, abraham father of nations was a man, Adam was a man and all the movers and shakers of christendom were men except when babies were to be made like the birth of jesus and Cain and abel at all. Here the Christian God believes men are head of the women. The Muslim God same, Buddhist same, Judaism same, traditionally cultural institutions same and you said you're fighting the Male headship of women. What angle are you fighting from, satanism? 6 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Magnoliaa(f): 2:12am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick: Exactly. The people(read women) who argue against feminism don't know they are speaking against it because of feminism. You're having an opinion against feminism because of feminism! If not - how dare you talk or contribute to discussions as a woman? 3 Likes |
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