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Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by SpaceAngel: 4:10pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
If you want to enjoy your remaining days on this planet, run as fast as possible from this kind of person. What you are seeing now is most likely a tip of iceberg of what you'll see if you continue with the relationship and eventually marry her. Forget about her changing for the better after marriage, you'll see coming home as hell once you are married and this will be till the end of your life. 3 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Skmoda360(m): 4:11pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
No she won't and she will never ever change ok..... 2 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Alxmyr(m): 4:12pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
I stopped reading after I read about your mom's advise. If you don't take your own mother's advise, how are we sure you will take correction here? 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by onyepapa(m): 4:13pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Make una leave this man! I've been there and don that!! There's one thing his not telling which is the girl can Bleep the living day light out of you!! His not holding unto her but holding unto her good pussy! That's all 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nnemuka(f): 4:14pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
mumu The fact that u think feminists are disrespectful speaks volume of the type of man u are. You deserve that girl 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by seancombs617: 4:19pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
This sounds like my ex Kike...same bs 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Alxmyr(m): 4:23pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
onyepapa: Exactly, he is infatuated by her beautiful body and probably good sex and maybe prospect of her good job. They both deserve one another, two players playing each other to marriage. .. 6 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by frozen70(f): 4:23pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx: Since the colour of the red flag is not bright enough for you to see and believe that the boat you want to sail is having two captains That means, it will capsize and guess what, you will get drawn and she will move on to the shore. Either by swimming or by rescue Pls what's so special about this lady, that you still kept her with you ❓ Character, zero, what again do you think you can use to replace it ❓ No matter how well built she is, No matter her beauty No matter her class When her attitude matures beyond taming, those attractions become useless You tied up your love to her that's why you don't even know how or where to start from Guy, am a woman but for a woman to possess all you just mentioned, if your are being sincere Just walk away pls 4 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by bixton(m): 4:23pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx: It appears you have not finally made peace with yourself to let her go. Try this out and let the outcome be the judge.... Bring out all your dirty clothes of one month ago and that of about 3 of your friends. Also add hers to it and tell her to do the washing while you sit down and observe. ....... I'll like to know how it plays |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
This guy is funny... Your girlfriend is the boss of that relationship. . She does whatever she want because you lack leadership quality.. Guy, you can't handle that girl.. . She is bigger than you.. Break that relationship if you want to achieve your God given height and authority!!! You haven't seen anything.. Wait till she has like 3 kids... That is the time you will understand the concept of toxicity called Feminism better!!! OP is a Nurse in his relationship.... I think he deserves a lady that sync with him and not this Tacha 3 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by naijadrivablog: 4:24pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx, RUN! Dont say you were not warned. Let her go slowly. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by naijadrivablog: 4:26pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
dominique: @bolded is not always true. You have to find out why they don't approve before taking the final decision, well as a man. 4 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
dominique:You are a married woman |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Meomonla: 4:28pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
No try am bros....trust me,from experience |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by allcomage: 4:28pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx:I aligned with the person you replied. Let December 2019 be your walkaway deadline even if you trained her in school, built a house or the sweetest kpekus in the world, set a trap for her and walk away from her for good with out looking back if not calamity will be your second name. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
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Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Zubi10(m): 4:30pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
I have similar experience with this guy. But we tend to fall in love so much to these girls .God help us |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by samguru(m): 4:31pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
@op The best that can happen after marriage is for her to graduate from insults to assaults. She is a bad market for you, am sure she has tried all her best to conceal her attitudes but seemed concealable. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by jidxin(m): 4:32pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx: NOOOOOOOOOOOO capital NO. i am in your shoes but i was wise enough to understand on time that this lady will become nuclear after marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by zedman1(m): 4:33pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
dominique:Good advice, but most ladies, from experience and research will never ever ever tell you the reason they're breaking up with you but demand a reason if reverse is the case. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
You guys say Feminism and jump to a disrespectful person. A feminist only ask to get the same respect they diss out. Asking to be treated equally as you treat a guy and having the pride not to settle for less is tag disrespectful? Men! 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx:We don japa tay tay.. This is a straightforward case.. What can make it a dilemma is if she is good in other aspects: "neat, faithful, cook well, romantic when in mood, wants the best for you out of sincere mind.. "etc But the chief of it all is Character and respect.. If she doesn't have that, those other good qualities should not lure you into marrying her.. By the time she explode in marriage, your house will be hotter than a furnace.. You won't be able to bear it.. Character is everything bro!!! |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by sacramento1212: 4:36pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
jidxin: @ nuclear after marriage [img]https://media1./images/e82c2cd09db0bf410917cda2ef22ffd4/tenor.gif?itemid=4986298[/img] 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Burggerxbabe: 4:37pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Hey baby you forgot to mention how you keep cheating and beating me each time you go out and get drunk. I’ve lost count really . You are here calling all sorts of names but you are actually the abuser, disrespectful and manipulative boyfriend. Break up with me already if all these things are true. What do you expect me to do when I catch you cheating, smile and hug you? Instead of you to work on yourself, you are here laying blames. Let’s see a relationship expert and work on the relationship but you always say No. How can a lady who you treat as a queen disrespect you? Please answer my question! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 4:37pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
frozen70:I'm being sincere dear and God knows everything I've written here is nothing but the truth |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by zelaws: 4:38pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx You are who you are. Nothing changes. What you do now is the same thing you have being doing for years in different forms at different places. Your mum has warned you. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
hkidola00:She don Kayamata you.. Jaruma I hail you o |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by yeyeosoronga: 4:40pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
No . Leave her alone and marry someone else. You guys are incompatible. She will meet someone wlaw whom she will respect, while you will meet someone who will respect you 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by sacramento1212: 4:41pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
eni4real: If the character issues is from her growing up as per from a toxic environment, then that's a big issue but if it's a clear issue of Spiritual manipulation, it can be handled and she'll be tamed. Provided she has a lot she's bringing to the table as the good sides that is not easily gotten from another 2 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
iRepNaija1:He is frustrated, man |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by biggy26: 4:42pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
dominique:Your counsel is good, but has two sides. If hardness is embedded in her, even if you tell her her flaws and leave her, she might become more rebellious towards men and feel they ain't worth it. The best thing is for him to tell someone she respects to talk to her and counsel her after he has left her, then, she might listen and become sober. 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
If all you have said is true and u have not embellished the story in any way, then u will cry hot tears if u marry her. You don't even seem to have any positive thing to say about her. Flee my friend |
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