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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 8:01am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Wish you knew. You're seeing this from the lenses of men vs women. You probably think I'm a weakling. Been on the grind for the past three years. If I wanted control I wouldn't be here. I just want me n my wife to be a team. She can keep her money, but I will never cede my family and the moral code to another 24 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Blazinraj01(f): 8:02am On Jan 01, 2020 |
SmithRussell:lmao 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 8:04am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39:I didn't say you were woman hating,not you. I suspected some people may try to take the sides of their gender as its common with gender bigots on this forum. Men supporting men,women supporting women,so I adviced he be wary of the advice he receives. And also you are generalising which ain't true,not at all cases will women behave that way 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Rahyberg(m): 8:04am On Jan 01, 2020 |
LordKO: Sir, I was really amazed when I saw the first paragraph.. May God continue to bless you sir as you want To Help a soul. Moreover, I'm still an undergraduate in Mechanical engineering, I'll love to know you sir because I'll be doing my IT next year. Guess I'm highly welcome Sir? |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 8:07am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: He's right. Every decision that involved us was thoroughly discussed. We may have differing opinions but we always met in d middle. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 8:11am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:All women will behave that way. Men are nothing but utility to women. I agree with you that a woman too can be a bread winner after all, having equal rights and opportunities as men comes with equal responsibilities as well but women selfishly disregard this put all the responsibility and, where applicable, blame on men. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 8:14am On Jan 01, 2020 |
DNSPro: Will take this advice. Need to learn a new skill and unlearn some habits. Maybe I should focus on myself. I've been more about making others happy as I derive happiness from it 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 8:19am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:All women will behave that way. Men are nothing but utility to women. I agree with you that a woman too can be a bread winner after all, having equal rights and opportunities as men comes with equal responsibilities as well but women selfishly disregard this put all the responsibility and, where applicable, blame on men. Women want equal rights and opportunities yet no responsibilities so that they can have it easy. Not only does selfishness play a role in this, men's ego are to be blamed as well. Men, despite supporting equal rights and opportunities which comes with equal opportunities, foolishly massage their ego by being "real men" (men who can comfortably be a woman's ATM machine) and not demanding money from a woman. Given how both mentalities are suitable for each other, why won't have women behaving like this? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by internationalman(m): 8:20am On Jan 01, 2020 |
otipoju:the idea is to lie but don't lie too far above your standard 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Yinibixema: 8:31am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Which money are you making as a doctor ? Do they pay you more than 200-250k? 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 8:34am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:I don't remember quoting you, biitch 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Craig24: 8:35am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Skmoda360(m): 8:35am On Jan 01, 2020 |
simonlee:Jesu mi oooo......boboclat is your option ooooo.....gbam!!! She go reset sha ni 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by patjane(f): 8:40am On Jan 01, 2020 |
I won’t say anything till I hear from your wife.. sometimes we judge matters to suit us. Let’s not be too fast in passing judgment .. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by 1x2x3: 8:45am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Dehindepgenius: Bear in mind that unhealthy financial competition between spouses can bring in bad energy. If the wife wants to remain more financially buoyant then she will obviously keep wishing he never grows so she Can remain in charge. I would advise the man to leave the house then hustle away from bad energy. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by SmellingAnus(m): 8:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
mascot87:forget... na their type dey chop beatings when dem marry then them go use alternate account take open thread say husband beat her even when she no do anything.. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MedicH: 8:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
why are you complaining? and it's possible you are evn throwing tantrums and challeneging her on how you are the head of house. it means nothing. allow her to do all she wants as long as she doesnt start to beat u up. focus on getting yourself a job no matter how small so u go out and come back in. help her in the ways u can surprisingly i am saying these because she be ur wife and not girlfriend. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by seanwilliam(m): 8:51am On Jan 01, 2020 |
One of the reasons I'm glued to nairaland is that you are opened to different point of views, when you thought you've seen it all, another brilliant contribution will emerge. I am not married yet and not even close to it in 5 years, but I will use the parents as case study.... this is not being misogynistic, or trying to bad mouth ladies, but that is how it is no matter how u want to twist the story to suit your perception. My dad practically took care of over 90% of OUR needs at home but When he lost his job and my mum assumed the bread winner role, hahaha, the hell let loose... if she did anything( financial contribution especially)she would make sure everyone see that she was the one.. though she did well for the first six months oo.. I'm the last born and all my brothers are married and not leaving with us, but my daddy eyes see shege.. it got to stage where i almost turned my back against my dad cos of my mama emotional blasphemy.. but when I got to school and see life outside I began to retrace my step and started settling the difference between us and dad.. all this period, my dad never leave my mum( she go dey indirectly tell him to go find work say we are tired, this na man wey be say na him dey take care of us WELLWELL I mean WELL WELL wen he get better job oo).. later sha, one of old friends that my dad helped during is picking time, saw my dad where he always go to read new paper with him friends ( my dad has passed 50 years of age, so you cant be expecting him to do anyhow job just to fend for us).. he showed my dad some stuffs and the old man begin dey pick back.. na this time I know the different between commanding respect and demanding respect.. though my brothers are trying In taking care of our parents but my dad still insist that he prefers making his own money till he dies.. that A MAN WITH RESPECT WOULD MAKE his own money and not wait for people to give him.. that in as much as he is still able to work, that he would never loose guard... my mum is a loving and supporting mother , no doubt, but when my dad had a downturn in fortune, and my mother assumed his role ( na just for little period of time oo)sincerely, we feel am for house. And this is a marriage of over 40 years oo. . one thing I learnt from my dad is his resilient nature... so all what I'm saying is women cant handle power without punching the man.. no matter how u want to twist it, that is the fact.. My advice to you sir are; 1. Pick urself up 2. Be resilient 3. Play reverse psychology on her 4. Move out of the house for the moment 5.Dont even try to have heart to heart talk with her cos the bitter truth is that he no go work.. 6. Try your hand on new jobs( some people have suggested that on this thread) 7. Live below your means 8. Pray 9. Ignore her for a while 10. Be optimistic Never worry about your kiddos she turned against u, when you get back on your feet, they would all naturally retract their steps. When u finally pick( which I am sure) do the following 1. Never leave above your means 2. Dont ever think or try to satisfy women because you CANT 3 focus more on your kids 4. Dont leave prayer 5. Get more source of income 6. Save 7. Invest 8. Reduce your commitment to her 9. Make sure you dont go broke again 10. Remember 7 days make a week , 7 days without making money makes man weak, so MAKE MONEY EVERYday no matter how small.. I'm still a young man, but that is my little contribution.. Cc strungup79, martinez39,harddon, ubunja, make una come help this man out oo 66 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 8:54am On Jan 01, 2020 |
I am pro woman yes, but there are times that I am against women especially when they are wrong for example when they are violent to other people or trying to scam them. I don't get along with all women. But you wound me when you said I am not objective Michellekabod2: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BilltheDON(m): 9:00am On Jan 01, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Isokoboy(m): 9:01am On Jan 01, 2020 |
LordKO: bros abeg ooo...i studied Chemical engr... i will greatly appreciate 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 9:07am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: You dont need to say too much. I am same too but the worse mistake we can make is deprive ourselves the comfort and happiness we give others and deny ourselves same... It diminishes our values in the eyes of those we give it to than when the reverse is the case... Some things happen for a reason... It was meant to show you whom you have been sacrificing for. Please go watch Tyler Perry's movies, I can't remember the name and you will see what you are experiencing in the movie. In that movie, a guy married this lady, he wasn't financially buoyant but just getting by. Then he and his wife work in same company, I think the dude was a labourer in the construction company and his wife a secretary of sort. Then the son to the owner of the company picked interest in her and she started getting money more than her salary. When her husband tries to touch her she avoids him, she was furking a white guy and avoiding her legally married husband. At this stage the husband had no clue what was happening behind his back because he trusted her wholly. I mean, why shouldn't he? The husband was a friend to TYLER Perry in the movie and Tyler got to find out what was happening and he told his friend. He was shocked and confronted her and she rebuked him. Out of anger, he slapped her so much that she fell behind a counter in her mother's shop. Well to cut long story shut, table turned, white guy went back to his wife, her husband got his business running after moving out, the business he tried to present to the white guy who forked his wife but got declined. She then tried to "form" love but dude refused. She also didn't know her own mother whom she insulted cos of the diick she was forking for trying to correct her was a shareholder in the said company. At the end, she lost everything. Do you want me to tell you what a girl said to me just to get rid of me, even when she is not financially better than I? But my God has always have a way of exposing useless elements in my life, and I MEAN ALWAYS in caps. I prayed one night before going to bed... It was one of those deep prayers I often indulge in when my backs is against the wall because I am an orphan without any relative in high places to rescue me, no big man friend of sort. It was this sort of prayer I did few years ago that made me my first millions but I was carried away and squandered it. 2 weeks later after that prayer a massive door opened in my life that had me shocked. Till this moment I still do not believe it. If the door had opened while she was with me, I wouldn't know I was getting "fake love" and when I go down tomorrow, she will start acting like your wife. A month after I have another business developed and its gaining interest from every organisation we have presented it to... They love the idea and all I can tell you is that my 2020 is made. I have become humble because this not the first time God has saved me from what could have wrecked me had some misfortune(blessing in disguise) hadn't occur.. I am not a regular church goer, I am not a strong praying person but there are some prayers I have involved that got answered. I do hope you can pick a lesson from this. I want you to cry to God...i do not mean those unserious noisy prayers that people indulge in. I mean the silent kind that connects your soul,even when you are not moving lips but mind is speaking heavily. If you do not believe in God like some person's, speak whatever you want into your existence... Ask for ideas and direction, then go out and work like a mad man. Also try to change the kind of people you hang out with. If everyone is always complaining around you, you will always complain. Make new friends with movers and those who make mountains move. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by boiz2men(m): 9:13am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: To be honest, it will be difficult getting a job at 42. Only managerial positions at that age. And if you didn't acquire certifications and experience in your glory days, you will be needing a miracle. Stories like this make me plan to retire before I am 40. This year will usher in favor for you. That's what you need. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:24am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: I pity your BF, that's if you have one for having such a mentality. You think those wealthy men today are wealthy because they hustle more. Life has its way, there are many contributed factors. Some acquire their wealth through illegal/dubious means, others came from a rich homes with connect, some the course they read isn't a favourable, others work their way to the top. etc. This is the reason we have so many yahoo boys, ritualist etc just to prove to their women that they are "hustler". Money changes men and women but that doesn't make what she's does right. Is like saying a lot of men cheat so you should get a pass for cheating on an innocent man. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Skmoda360(m): 9:25am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39:To the bolded bro, it's absolute truth and nothing less....happy new year. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ahmeduana(m): 9:26am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:The first dumb comment of the year! 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by oluxy(m): 9:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Asshole - pitHell. Imagine ur response. It shows u are worse, terrible and heart stoned. Oponu 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 9:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
BiggyB242: Leave them. They don't know. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Balladinplus: 9:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Na them. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by oodua1stson: 9:28am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Whatever you do for 90% of Nigerian woman is a waste. They are never in love. Only in love with what we give to them 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:28am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Yinibixema:No. But I don't underestimate people, and neither should you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MJBOLT: 9:28am On Jan 01, 2020 |
i'm currently watching a movie on Africa Magic titled Broken Power,it's is similar to the op's predicament. 4 Likes |
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