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Gorgeous with fallen olimpus

ubunja:
start by always dealing with 2 or 3 girls at the same time. It makes a difference in terms of giving you that "I don't care attitude" cause really you don't care too much about 1 girl.



Then learn to put yourself first in EVERYTHING. your interests need to get priority. Where to go, what to eat, what to do etc it must be what YOU like not her.

Ok thanks
I really need to break out.

kkins25:
My brother!!! Salute. I was going to reply madam funmisticqueen then i saw your comment.
Let me add, i was once a victim of the seductive spell of these "smart" women. I used to be a mr nice guy. Oh lord i suffered. I suffered fumi. I suffered. I always thought women were creatures that wanted to be treated nice, petted and adhored but my lord i never got any babes. I watched in terror as the babes i loved and was willing to do anything for fall into the hands of less handsome guys whom treated them awfully.
I became psychological affected. Having being rejected several times until i bagan to read post like this.
I am now irresistible..
however i am not interested in banging from left to right. No ma, im not in for that game. But i like to have phone every now and then. Ubunja hit the nail on its head.

The emboldened is my situation right now.
How do I break out, starting with the one I'm going for at the moment?

Booked

When I go taste this toto sef

And the prospective constable is from Rivers state, south south nigeria.

Had it been he was from the north, southerners will start spewing rubbish.

What sort of online business will take you to a hotel room with a total stranger?

African women are beautiful, true!
But there issues just too much.
Instead of their good outweighing their bad, the reverse is the case.

Their bad outweighs their good.

From playing hard to get, to cheating, to been materialistic, to poor communication, to countless mood swings, to excessive financial demands.

That playing hard to get thing irks the life out of me.

But no doubt, them fine!

What are the odds of a successful kidney transplant?

Me sef for find babe here but nobody don testify say him find him heart robe for nairaland.

Not with all these bashing from both genders

ladyprowezs:
25-35 years

25 serious relationship?
How old is the girl in question?
19, 20 I guess

Ok seen

Innoxxacs:
that's a youtube and Twitter link to verify the news not some ..
Blog.. lol 9ja ppl sef lolz

No be him you tube channel?

Blackivy29:
Owe the world no apologies. I can love who i want. The society can accept me or blind itself, not my buiz. My life, my choice, my love.

No offense but how do you manage to stay on every thread in this romance section?

Like, I must see your comment on every thread I view.

Na WA oooo

I think that's the the more reason why I will marry her.
Because for her to come from this village and still win over my heart says a lot about her kinda person.

Last last, fixing a bad road is not her civil duty. Last I checked, it's for Buhari, Ameachi and Fashola to do.

What many (I mean many) girls don't know is that guys who smoke every kind of substance are toxic and mischievous. Sadly, they (such guys) are most ladies dream kinda man. About 90% of ladies are in awe of such guys, simply because they are bold and raw and good in bed.

What the ladies fail to understand is that such guys get their energy, inspiration and boldness from the substances they consume. Take away those "high" substances and you'll find a weak man who can't approach a girl.

If you're a lady dating any such guy, just know that you're not in love with him, you're in love with the feeling he gets from consuming such toxic stuffs.

Date cool headed guys you said no. Now see the results?

You can't tell me you are not aware of his smoking habit. Right from the day he stood before you to make his feelings known, you should sense something. For both families to know of the relationship, you guys must have gone far and you can't tell me you didn't notice he smokes.
Yes, I know you might only know of cigarettes but smokers can smoke anything. They like variety.

Sometimes I try to feel for women due to their nature and all that but they hate you feeling for them. They want you been hard on them.

Now imagine the second opinion she's considering?
Another "them them crew." Girls why?

I can't advice you because I know you'll end up going for one of these two guys, and I can bet my left ball that it will be the first guy.

Divorce is looming for her

I don't know how many hours.

Codeine been show me love

There's nothing stopping this from going to the promise land

WeRblessed:
Only biafra can save this country

Oga, I be middle beltan.
Nothing concern me with Igbo or Biafra.

Just stating the obvious truth

10 years from 2015 or ten years from 2019?

Which ever it is, it's not possible.

Finish your four years and give another criminal a chance.

I swear to God, nigeria will never be better than it is now.

Yes, there might be new roads, new buildings, and other infrastructure but the life inside? It will only get worse, no matter who rules.

Unemployment, lack of adequate power, nepotism, looting, poverty, illiteracy, bigotry, fanatism, discrimination, etc will never cease. In fact, it will only get worse.

It's not a prayer or wish, it's the stark reality.

Do whatever you can to better your life but this country don cast

healthserve:


Locate Harddon and ubunja and read their threads carefully

Will do.
Thanks

healthserve:
Puppy love. Okay you're learning. Which obviously means you don't understand the ubunja epistles evidently. The goal is to stimulate so much desire in a lady that She'll be the one desirous of having you and not the other way around. Cause the moment you make the move first, she's already won and retains the greater power in the relationship

Lol
Ok, thanks

healthserve:
Start with this. When you feel like calling don't call even if it'll take days.

Let her do the calling and emotional investment.


Use her emotions to run the game while you keep yours

Lol
Isn't that rather risky?
I'm still trying to win her oo.
Don't you think lack of calls will affect my chances?
It's not like I'm even sure she likes me that much.
It's still early days o

healthserve:
Its not hard


Ignore her when you feel like getting close to her


Turn her down when she gives you attention


Speak harshly for no just cause.


Your heart will get stronger as you do this. Remember, its mind over emotions.

I didn't advice maltreating anyone, but you need to bring omyour emotions under the control of your better judgement.

Ok thanks.
I will try so hard to do these things you said.
Problem is... We just met, we haven't even clicked yet.
Just some few phone calls so far.

healthserve:
Its simple na


Find a gal you love and feel for deeply, break her heart and walk away like you don't care. Out of the ashes of your own broken heart will come. a new being. Simple

Or simply mistreat the ladies you feel for deeply and talk thrashy to them, the new you is born. Straight up

How do I start doing these things?
I don't have a relationship at the moment but I have a girl I just met. I want her to experience these things you just said. It might not necessarily be a heartbreak, but my ability to talk trashy and still get her to fall. I ve been gentle for too long. I hate the gentle guy I am I swear.

You can never ever find this type of discrimination among northerners.
The only major discrimination in the north is religion.

You see aboki girl? Forget her, you no fit get her.


The only language most northerners hate having a wife/husband from is the Tivs. You know why? Yes, you do.

So if the so called northerners can be this tolerant, why can't southerners follow suit?

As a northerner, I intend to marry from the south, are you telling me I might face this challenge?

Well, till then.

Not a partner per say but a potential one

Her forming hard to get irks the hell out of me.
She's too young for that kind of forming.

Am way, much older than her but she doesn't give a damn.

I think I enjoy talking to her over the phone than one on one.

I wish these ubunja threads could get to me like it gets to other guys but it's not just working for me.

I want to be mean, I want to be brutal to girls.

I'm too gentle and I soo hate it.
I respect girls too much.
I can't start taking hard drugs as it's not just my thing.
Even alcohol that I take is occasionally.

I just want to be brutal to girls without the influence of alcohol and drugs.

I'm been taken advantage of.


I need help.

How can I be so mean and brutal to girls?

Ji ma sun

J

The struggle is real