₦airaland Forum

That awkward moment when you are not free in your country but you are celebrating independence.

Suffering and celebrating

Very, very true.

We are a lawless nation.

That's the reason why Nigerians in the diaspora get easily deported or sent to prison because we carry our lawlessness every where we go.

The constitution is just there but it's not in full use. The only time it's been used is when it favours those in power.

Court cases taking like forever to finish.

The lawlessness is just too much.


In a billion years from now, Nigeria will not change for good.

Nepotism, kidnapping, armed robbery, boko haram, corruption, electoral manipulations, lack of power supply, bad roads, manipulation of the judiciary, and every negative thing will not cease from Nigeria.
As far as the name of the country is Nigeria and we're using the 1999 constitution, no redemption in sight.

It's not a prayer, it's the stack reality.

The country just bad.

Even if it's Botswana, Kenya or Zambia, I will get my children another passport for sure. At least those countries have light and good roads.

K

RIP

Imagine!
These are the kind of people that are ruling us.

Even God know say I no go vote 2023.

I no go ever vote for anybody again. This country is never going to be what we want it to be even in 2000 years.

Thank God my E- National ID card is ready, I will start using it for identification while my voter's card languishes under my box.

I don tire for 9ja

Pettyprincess:
The easiest way is to marry a foreign guy or lady nd get permanent citizenship.

What other moniker do you operate?
Cos you just registered over one week ago but you're so active. Don't lie, you have another moniker

Funmmyastic:
Wow,you are lucky o,I don't even have a blood brother.We are all girls lol.

Give me one na.
I'm a gentle guy.

Blackivy29:
i like this
Men who cheat lack self restraint. Honestly forget this manipulation stuff, he will still most likely cheat. If he's liable or you dont trust him then end things. Any man that keeps me at the edge of my seat aint worth it.[b] I want to believe i can leave my man with a naked woman alone. If i cant, if he gives me that community dick vibe then he can swerve. [/b ]No room for heartbreak nor stress.

Smallie, if you do this and nothing happens, then your oga is impotent.
I always promise myself to be faithful to a deserving girl but there are no guarantees.
The sweetest thing in the world for a man is a vagina, I'm not sure if I will see something as sweet as that staring at me and wouldn't want to eat it.

Guest007:
I'm a cheerleader, there's a difference

How can you be a guest and you're commenting?
Better go and get a new moniker

Fountainofyouth:
Who gives two fvcks about your god? Worship him till thy kingdom come who cares.....

No offense but you talk too much.
How can you be quoting every male on this thread? I initially didn't want to reply you cos I know you enjoy mentioning people but I feel it's necessary. Please, reduce the way you talk, it's dem too much.

I just wonder how your to be husband will cope now that you will soon walk down the isle. Stop taking things you read here seriously and reduce the way you quote people.

Peace

Sandra8:
I'm being me dear. Love me for me and my write up too

Yes ma.
You're loved and respected. (No homo incase you're a guy)

Guest007:
Op... Elaborate on ways to use testosterone to your advantage

Sandra disciple
I see you bae

In all honesty, she made some valid points.

Hahahahahahahaha

Kikikikiki

Lmao

Sandra why?

If it's not ubunja, it can never be like him

If you want chop clean mouth, then shoot your shot.

But if the thing go hook you for throat, you don cast be that.

I personally cannot date a girl older than me. I can't even date my age mate. I must just have that age advantage over you.

seanwilliam:
GOD abeg i no want this kind tin for my life o.@op, take the kids to ur parent and desert the lady for 6mnth straight( until she comes with her family to beg and genuinely promise to change for beta)if nt, divorce her and luk before u leap again. sorry

Divorce her?
How can he divorce someone he's not married to?

Abi na how you take read your own

How on earth did you get yourself into this mess?

Everything is just wrong with this relationship.

Lemme book space

I'm so anti Buhari but I support this.

Charity begins at home.

What that useless Goodluck couldn't do for south east and south south, that's what this Sharia advocate called Buhari is doing.

I'm not even from the south but Goodluck was an absolute disgrace.

When I have the opportunity to rule my state or this shit hole, the kind of development and infrastructures that will be laid down within months in my village will scare the devil himself.

Sometimes, I de wish say all the 9ja guys de this nairaland.

9ja girls bad, asin very, very bad.
No be say na go come.


Thank Goodness for your freedom.

Ilamina:
Are you hausa?

I'm from one of those three places I mentioned. I speak and write Hausa but I'm not hausa. I have my own language.

When will you guys ever ask about men from central 9ja? Like men from Plateau, Abuja and Nasarawa? It is always southern men.

And men from these three places I mentioned have a much, much better culture that favours women in marriage than most southern cultures.

Lemme book space

blessedweapon:
With stolen hair, if you chyke am now she go deh form Queen Elizabeth

I de tell you my brother

9ja girls be hating and disgracing themselves since the days of John the Baptist

Wtf

What is it with nairaland and fake stories these days?

How on earth can you allow such fake story hit front page?

Islam why?

There's nothing like through love other than the one that exists between a mother and a child.
You said it yourself "improve yourself". If I have to improve myself academically, socially, physically, spiritually etc to find a girlfriend, then I don't think that's true love.
This goes to show you that someone cannot just love you like that.

What people are looking for in who they want to love these days are height, money, degrees, good in bed, exposure, etc. If you need all these to consider a person's proposal, then it's not true love.

I don't think compatibility equates to true love, because that's what many people are looking for.

I will only believe in true love when I see a girl that will love me because I'm a human being, not because I have a degree and all that.
True love existed, during the time of our parents, but not anymore.
What we have now is conditional love.
Times have changed.

Bottom line is nothing like true love

Adamumd:
She's not only attractive but homely, more decent than my crush, she is jovial, kindhearted and cooks well. The exact kind of woman ve been looking for while the one i initially had a crush on is just a lazy ass, that kind of woman that would suck a nigga dry and has nothing to offer, i really wish you can understand my whole point since you re a woman.

Thought you said you just met them for the first time? How did you get to know them this much on the first day? Especially that your first crush, how did you know she's a lazy ass that can suck a man dry and offer nothing?

Nonsense at it's peak.

Zlatan has nothing to offer if not these wack kinda stuff.

I pray the song gets banned when it's released.



PS: I'm no Tacha fan. In fact I only know her by reputation cos I don't and will never watch that trash.

I also commented on that thread.
I don't care about any oath, I will comment if I feel I have something to say.

Now back to the matter...

That guy is doomed. I am not entirely a religious person myself but I can't change my religious beliefs because of one useless love that will end one day.

Let me also use this opportunity to call on our Christian sisters to help make things easy for us. Because for an igbo guy to contemplate converting to Islam because of a poor girl, he really has seen terrible treatment from our girls. Christian sisters will frustrate you right from when you stand to woo her till the day she agrees to be your girl. After that, it's from one drama to another. If it's not cheating, it's excessive financial demand or something that will make you feel like you're the worse guy. You see those ubunja threads, it's not applicable to girls up north.

You need to go up north and see how humble their girls are when a fellow Muslim guy shows interest. They are so humble in relationship, no games. I am very sure that's what this inyamiri boy saw in that aboki girl that is making him considering that decision. Aboki girl will not just waste your time or frustrate your efforts to win her over.

But Christian girls? Their issues just too much abeg.

But I hope to get lucky one day by seeing my miss right.