₦airaland Forum

blank:
You're right. If they are not offering companionship, faithfulness, they should as well pay compensation. I'm just happy that I don't see these type of men around me.

ZIMDRILL:
let me speak as a southern african, precise zimbabwe, to me the upkeep nigerian concept is weird

why? your wife doesnt need to given the upkeep, she is supposed to run the daily finances of the house, therefore family budget is run buy her based on what husband put on the table

from there thats were she puts aside her own
money for personal needs, so she doesnt need to given but she gives herself from family income present to her by husband

this is what i grow up knowing and being practised in families

Nene05:
when you single you have freedom also.
im not a room mate I'm his wife.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GbuHhQDNgmg

MrBrownJay1:
i cant believe this rubbish.... this deluded man (pretending to be a woman) must be mentally sick.

oh shiiit, this news comes from the "pluralist" website.... i should have known this rubbish only come from a BS news website
here is another one from them:
ALABAMA MAN GETS RUN OVER BY ATV DRIVEN BY HIS OWN DOG

A transgender British model filed a police report alleging a hate crime after she says a photographer rejected her attempt to perform in an adult film because she has a penis.

“This man messaged me saying he wanted to take my picture, have sex with me and film it to make money and then once he found out I was trans he stopped all contact with me,” Ria Cooper told U.K. outlet Hull Live in an interview published Friday.

“No one should be treated like this – this is discriminating and appalling behaviour,” Cooper added.

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Cooper, now 25, held the title of Britain’s youngest transgender woman when she was 15.


These days, Cooper works as a model and produces explicit content, which she promotes on social media.

Cooper told Hull Live the photographer found her through her online portfolio.

But after initiating contact, the man told her he couldn’t work with her because she “had a c–k.”


“This is absolutely f—ing disgusting behavior,” Cooper said.

“I want to be a glamour model and a porn star – that’s what I want to do. I don’t think I should be treated like this,” Cooper added.

The remarks prompted Cooper to file a hate crime report with local authorities.

“I just think those comments could easily make someone commit suicide. It is so bad that I have gone to the police,” Cooper said.

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A spokeswoman for Humberside Police confirmed to Hull Live that officers were investigating the incident..

A British transgender model named Ria Cooper has filed a complaint against a man who rescinded an offer of sex and photography, according to Hull Live.

The man, claiming to be a photographer who could help Cooper’s prospective modeling and pornography career, allegedly reached out to Cooper in response to a new glamour portfolio linked on social media.

Cooper claimed that the photographer abruptly ceased contact once he found out that Cooper was transgender.

After resuming the conversation, the man gave his reason for refusing to have sex with Cooper: The model still had male Instruments.

In fact, the photographer allegedly bluntly stated, “you have a c—.”


Cooper compared the act of rescinding the offer to the use of a racial slur.

“This is absolutely f—— disgusting behaviour,” the model said. “No one should be treated like this — this is discriminating and appalling behaviour.”

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“This man messaged me saying he wanted to take my picture, have sex with me and film it to make money and then once he found out I was trans he stopped all contact with me.”

Cooper has transitioned between genders multiple times, as discussed in the interview below.


“I am reporting this as a hate crime,” Cooper continued. “It’s like calling someone who is black the ‘N’ word. I doesn’t matter if I have c— or not. The pictures should be judged as they are.”

“It says on my social media profile that I am a ladyboy, I didn’t ever say that I wasn’t and I thought he knew.”

“I want to be a glamour model and a porn star — that’s what I want to do. I don’t think I should be treated like this.”

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Treated like what, exactly? How was Cooper treated?

Cooper was treated like a normal person who was turned down for sex. It happens all the time to women, men and transgender people regardless of how they identify.


Instead of sticking to the mantra of “live and let live” and trying to live life as a woman, Cooper is trying to exercise transgender privilege.



In what other demographic would a person be taken seriously if they filed a police report because someone refused to have sex with them? Women? Of course not. Straight men? Laughable.

This may be news to Cooper, but “you have a c—” is a perfectly valid reason to turn down sex. In fact, every reason to turn down sex is a valid reason.

The logic behind Cooper’s argument is woefully simplistic. No one is entitled to someone else’s body.

Imagine a world where Cooper has a legitimate claim to force this man to “live up to his word” and have sex. Such a world is an undesirable dystopia.

Since the police have acknowledged that they have received the complaint and are investigating the incident, it’s only a matter of time until a precedent is set.

Hopefully it’s the right one.

MrBrownJay1:
LEAVE?! WHERE?! if thats my house, she gets the fukc out.... if there is anything in that house that is mine (i paid for it), then i'd rather burn it to the ground, or sell it than for this ungrateful woman to have it. if court grant her my house, i'll burn it to the ground and destroy it before she can lay her hands on it. there are NO FREE RIDE in my world.



bro, hoes aint suppose to be loyal, thats why they are HOES

khiaa:
Have you gotten your Green card yet? That's the most important thing right, otherwise those years you spent with her would have been in vain. If you have received your Green card you are on the right track, stay where you are don't go back, and for goodness sake don't get that girl pregnant.

I think it is so hypocritical that Nigerian men wont marry or even date single mothers in Nigeria but will jump for joy to marry an older foreign hoodrat with multiple children still living in the home who he helps support.

That Green Card is a hell of a motivator.

MrBrownJay1:
Bro, When she starts handling you in bed, as if she is in charge, and ride you mercilessly while looking you dead in your eyes, na that time you will run from them feminazis.

Nikkol:
Back home single mothers are being stigmatized. Yet our men travel far to get married to people older than them who order them around. They compare us to the white yet they can't even endure the slightest mistake we make but carry the trashes of foreigners like cross.
I feel your pain o but sort yourself out. If you can't live forever with it then get your ass off that union.

blackpanthar:
My sister he is cheating on you technically BUT kind enough to give you warning signs that the relationship wont last, because he is BORED and TIRED of you... HE ALSO WILL KEEP GETTING ANGRY AND SOON BLAME YOU FOR HIS POVERTY.

pls be prayerful

meobizy:
I’m not going to address anything because you’ll only bring up more points till it becomes a merry go round of repeated opinions. Your mind is made up. I dropped a comment or two and will go the next thread.

meobizy:
...and this is why people think differently when they travel out or dump those books which constrict free thinking (bible, Quran etc).

meobizy:
Yes, as people do with tattoos.

meobizy:
People are different with varying tastes. Tattoos are only a means to differentiate themselves from the horde. Why do men wear watches, bandanas, t-shirts, cut their hair etc?