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nlPoster:
Are you asking your fellow marlians because I dont know why you are this interested in what other people do.

Please shut up and get out of this thread

As a man, you should only expend energy on a woman you want.

All women will give you the same amount of stress, whether ugly or fine.

Anyway derailments aside, guys how many of you have plans to go back to Naija some day to retire? And if you do, do you not feel it would be better to do so with a Naija wife?

Goodlyhrt:
EmpressT I think we share much alike. I want to love with every fiber in me just like you, we could start something explosive.

I dont know you yet but I am making it official

Can we share this together?

Will you be my Emprees?

This is insincere as Bleep because you don't even know her yet neither have you seen her...

A simple "I hope you brought your purses. I'm only covering me and my girlfriend" is good enough to clear the air.

You should never be a bitch to women. You should never portray yourself as weak. You don't know it yet, but all the women knew what was happening and you allowing it made them lose redirect for you because now they know you are not assertive.

Without that respect, you will never get that girl.

yeyeosoronga:
African Americans are not so bad tbh. Marry the educated ones among them, and make sure you're not a bum meaning you have a job and can provide for your family. You will be well taken care of by an AA woman. They are also keen to learn about your Nigerian culture and are more than happy to be assimilated to it. They want their children to have an African identity, and they aren't bad generally. Though, they won't take some foolishness some Naija women take from their men o. You will see correct craze if you try am.

Foolishness like what?

Oya let's go to frontpage to discuss this further.

@Lalasticlala abeg wave that your beautfiul wand.

khia:
You are one boring mor.an. Having fun playing, and communicating with members now equates to being thirsty? Posts to members don't always have to be serious and intense, there is room for humor and fun. SMH. I do believe you are jealous.

Answer this question genius. What can a Nigerian man do to quench my supposed thirst when I'm in the US and he is in Nigeria?

Aunty I'm not a mind reader. only you can answer that question.
I don't know why you are that thirsty for Naija guys.

I actually think they should do it.
It will lead to a more productive society.

Although... Those who know, know that things like that is what vpn proxies are for.

Expensiverichyb:
You date them, have fun with them, but can't marry them?

Men and women are different.
That's all I can say to that

khia:
Skmoda360
Senior, I will be your temporary/fake Senorita . I will cook for you some Tacos, Burritos, Enchiladas, Chili Verde, Tamales.
This food is delicious.

At the rate of this your thirst, I'm sure you can drink piss as long as it's from a Naija man. Cool down!

kollinzgee:
Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

You sound young.
The problem with guys like you is that you do not have any expectations from women and you don't tell them these expectations. You are not assertive.

I would tell them "Hey you're probably indisposed but if we're going to have a conversation on text, we can't do it with mono syllables. Let me know when you're more available to chat". Then stick true to your word and don't contact then until they reach back to you.

When you do this, 1 of 3 things will be achieved:

1- If she wasn't interested, doesn't respect you enough and was just tolerating you, this will make her respect you more and it will make her face the reality of you not being attractive to her. She will never get back to you. Which is good riddance because you should not have time for people not interested in you. Delete her number and chats. If this happens too often and you start to feel like a loser because they all never get back when you assert yourself like such, go to the gym and start bettering yourself. I promise you, your experiences with other girls will change...

2- If she sends you in any way (as friend, romantic or whatever), she will apologize and get back to you. You will also notice improvements in communication on her end as she now considered you someone more worthy of respect because you have been assertive.

3- If she doesn't even know what the term "mono-syllabic" means, bruh, you should be the one deleting and blocking this dumb bish. Why would you want such unintelligent things anywhere near your social circle?

khia:
LMAO, most of the attracted women in Atlanta are actually men. I would think you would find Houston to have the most beautiful women since it has a large African community. How would you know how old am I am?

That statement self-reveals you to be jealous of actual beautiful women.
This is how I know you are old and quite possibly ugly.

maasoap:
I put down my brother's name as guarantor for a 2 million naira loan from Sterling Bank in 2016. When the loan was approved and I was told that he has to submit his properties documents plus bank accounts (for a soft loan which was originally from the CBN at 9% interest rate for the unemployed graduates, we were to submit our school and nysc certificates), I didn't bother to go back to my brother to inform him. This was because I knew that he wouldn't even use the documents to collect loans for himself, why would I expect him to do it for me? That was the end of the approved loan.
I attached the personal guarantee form that was sent to me to this post

I wouldn't even ask someone to do that for me. Not because "they won't", but because I don't want that kind of pressure.
Whatever it is I wanted to do with the money, there must be another way.

Proverbs 17:18
A man lacking judgment strikes hands in pledge and puts up security for his neighbor.

The bible would have taught you some game if you read it.
It is not your job to save anyone.

After getting more info on the subject and applying some sensible compassion, I am happy to say that I stand corrected.

The UK tabloids were crazy harsh on Megan. They are racists.
Yes, Wanting to be a princess is a dream for most women, but the English royal palace is for white women.
She did not want to raise a child in that race-hating toxic environment.

Harry showed his loyalty to his nuclear family as a good man should.
You leave your father/mother and act in the best interest of your wife and children.
He has done his part and acted with strength and wisdom given the current situation (given that he has already non-optimally married a black woman in spite of his racist family circle).

Leaving royalty to be with and suffer with her is a Jesus move. Megan is lucky to have a good man willing to sacrifice that much for her. That much is certain.
It is now up to Megan to not selfishly Bleep this up and further give American women a bad name when it comes to marriage.
As a divorcee, she has been given a second chance to not be a selfish feminist screw up.
She should grab hold of and love on that man till the day she dies...not to be doing all that indisciplined american feminist nonsense.

khia:
Tell me, what is intense about many Nigerian men other than their ability to get on a woman's last nerve, like yourself for example?

If I was so desperate for a Nigerian man I would go to Atlanta Georgia, the *Gay Capital* of the US where you are and pim*p you out.

It is only your AA men that are gay here.
That is why you are using style to shop for real men on this Naija forum. We still won't send you.

Also, ATL has the best looking women in all the US. If you decide to come here prepare for low self esteem as you hide your face in shame.... With your old ass.

nlPoster:
Are you referring to non Nigerians or Americans/Diasporans who are of Nigerian descent? ie with one or more Nigerian parents.

Can you marry someone who has no lineage ties to Nigeria? e.g an american

khia:
Come to me, *Come a little bit closer* right there, now turn your cheek towards me. *This is for you*. Stay a good, loving, compassionate human being.

Aww your dream has finally come true. Oya thank me for opening this thread. Your loneliness and intense craving for Nigerian men can finally be cured.

Homeboiy:
Who Nigeria women help?


I rather marry a Ghanian than marry a Nigerian.

Ndi oso chi egbu

Them ghanian girls do be thick too...and dark skin. Yum.

khiaa:
It's annoying how you can't stand black American women but can't keep them out of your thoughts. You are not a good catch for any woman other than a Nigerian one so stick with who will tolerate you.

I think you are talking about yourself.
If you are not here looking for Naija PHALLUS, what are you doing on a nigerian forum?

It's because you wish your men were like us.
You don't get to have us though.
Begone thot.

Kennedyiheme:
true i agree with you.. but feminists are making us change out minds.. if they are strong as men.. we should treat them as equals right

Whoever wants to use feminism to kill herself, leave her on the shelf.
Whoever has sense and sees all that stuff for the pointless noise it is, pick her.

Abi why you wan buy rat poison add am to your soup?

My guy just do the needful.
Don't let feminism deceive you... Women are not built for certain things.

khiaa:
Here you go again, always bringing AA into your mess. I wonder why you think AA women would be interested in a long term relationship/marriage with you.

It's paining this one

Offpoint:
I'll do it for the paper, anything to escape Nigeria.

Marrying for paper is not a long term thing...

pansophist:
As a diasporean Nigerian, i will prefer to marry a woman from my own culture. It's just easier, and our life goals are much likely to compliment. The farthest I can go will be other African women. I've been in interracial relationships and mehn, its damn stressful, I can't tolerate that stress in marriage abeg.

What about African American?

For a long-term marriage, I don't think I can. At least she would have to be african. I don't think I can wholeheartedly marry an african american.

Besides general compatibility, You can't go to some Naija events otherwise e.g BasketMouth comedy show in town.
Also there is always the option every Nigerian likes to keep open...which is the possibility of one day going back to naija. This is far easier to do in the future if the woman is also from Naij.

Even with that, there are still levels of naija babes.
She still has to be intelligent, loving and feminine.

Gentlemen, what are your views?

Smart black woman.

She did not want to be in the castle because she would not be the queen there.

She would be held accountable in the castle and would not be able to get everything she wants thru the usual pussy whipping tactics.

How can you be a prince and marry a bitch who is too feminist to even take your epic, ROYAL last name?

I would not be surprised if their idea of sex is her busting his ass wide open with her oversized strap-on... Without lube.

Sad.

See somebody's mother

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apQ0LXn54us&feature=emb_logo

Akata meehn.

herzernIsHere:
The question should be : "Why was she fuçking niggas" ?

Fuçk the hoes. Marry the virgin.

But you are fucking, aren't you?
I don't care if she's fucking, she just shouldn't be dong it raw. She's dumb for that.

No...

Why was she fucking niggas raw?