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BlaqCoffee109:
so you are one of those men Ini Edo spoke about abi? Na guys like you sef sabi cry on top some good ol' pussy

Sorry, I don't really follow celebs. What did ini Edo say about these type of men you speak of?

BlaqCoffee109:
so it's now basic common pussy abi? Aren't these young men you mentioned the same on Nairaland forming Voltron? Lmao ...you dey koba some people oh!

My dear, as long as that pussy doesn't come with money or something else of value attached to it (e.g the owner of said pussy being able to do my taxes), it is basic and common.

zombieTRACKER:
They can't try this xenophobia sh*t with an organised country..

They definitely know that our country is a joke right now.. Let me not talk about the president that looks for dead people to enlist in his cabinet...

Nigerians are suffering everywhere

The government is just not existent

Actually they've been doing the same to whites as well.
The South Africans on a full rampage....which...to be honest...is something they should have done long ago.
Seeing as they were made to live like second=class citizens in their own country again by said whites.

Team dark-skin and thick here.

BlaqCoffee109:
Naso... you nko?

I no get issue. I visited Naija recently and I noticed how some young men kept on collecting insult over basic common pussy.
It was painful to watch. This sort of nonsence mostly gets tolerated in Naija.

I'm letting young men know that their dignity comes first before any female.

BlaqCoffee109:
2Buff? @ the bolded...conversant with the femme fatale role, what are you on about here? High School girls?

LOL just trying to help out these young men to not kill themselves over una O.

IamD18:
Trash Trashier Trashiest!!!!

You can never see them preach against "Rape" with free mind. Always wanting to impress women by preaching and putting it like a "Men" thing.

If you wanna preach against "Rape". Preach against it by advising men and women to desist and erase rape mentality.

Not men alone.

You have shown yourself to be one of these educated illiterates who don't read before posting [face-palm].

A deliberate trap anyway so your ilk can be exposing yourselves like that. This way, sensible viewers can instinctively ignore you

Biglittlelois:
I would prefer a man who makes money and is domesticated, after all, some women do both, so it should be balanced.

Absolutely, that's what we all want from each other.
But given one with money vs domestication... Which one will you pick?

Biglittlelois:
Who wouldnt like a domesticated man, that's every woman's dream.

These are half answers.
The REAL question to be answered here is:

Will you prefer a man who makes money and is not domesticated?
Or would you prefer a domesticated man who doesn't make money?

Maybe I've been away from the Naija way of things for a while but...

I remember in naija, young men "pursue" uninterested women until the poor things have to keep insulting him to stop.
This is borderline-rapist behavior (And sometimes even graduates to full rape sef).

A lot of guys don't get that this "pursuit" thing they think they are on can only really begin when BOTH of you already like each other.

Pursuit: "I can't meet up this evening....how about next week?"
NOT pursuit: "Leave me alone! I am not interested!!!"

Pursuit: "Sorry I can't talk right now...perhaps tomorrow evening?"
NOT pursuit: "Look here Mr Man. Don't call my phone again!"

Pursuit: "I'll think about it"..... (How to behave with this one: DO NOT contact her immediately again. Text her 3 days later to inform her that you'll be calling her 2 days later to continue the previous discussion you raised)"
NOT Pursuit: "<some insult>"

You get the gist right fellas?
Even the pursuit thing sef, has a limit. You can only be posted so many times before you abandon the project and move on to other things. It should never be that serious, and most especially, it should never involve insults .

You will not die if you don't get that girl. You give her way too much power with that mentality. You'll also notice that withholding said power is even what will make her start thinking she has missed out and you find the role of pursuer suddenly switch... If she is actually feeling you. All because you had some self-decency.

If you respect yourself, there is no reason to debase yourself when expressing your intentions to a woman you like.
ALWAYS have a mindset of "plenty of fish in the sea"....a mindset of Abundance.
Understand that whenever you convince yourself that "It must be this particular girl or no one else", you are simply lying to yourself.
There are tons of other girls even better than her, some you just haven't met yet in your current stage of life. (And trust me, you will meet tire as you get older.)

If she isn't feeling you, she isn't feeling you. Keep it light, respectful and wish her all the best in her journeys.
IF she IS feeling you, and yet is foolish enough to be sending *NOT pursuit* signals to you, walk away all the same. Your dignity must come first. Don't tolerate or accept that baseline disrespect from the start of your non-existent relationship. Start training these women not to form too much lest they miss out....and thats if she is interested and forming. If he is trully not interested, not every girl is for you.

Females are funny .
This is how they cuss out all their potential husbands and then when they become old and decrepit 10 years later, they start doing the shiloh and MFM thing.

Yeah maybe the dude didn't come with game, but that was too harsh a put down.
I'm sure that felt good for her ego.
She doesn't know what he might become later and what changes he would have undergone if per chance she needed him in the future.

A simple "I am not interested. All the best finding your woman" and then ignore him if he insists would have been best.

Vote for Omoleye Sowore/AAC if you want to stop this spiral of retrdation that has plagued Nigeria for decades.

Masturbation takes up bio-energy.
I bet you: You have no energy to do anything serious or further your life if you masturbate 3-4 times per day. That's an excess.

If you must masturbate, only masturbate once per week if you can help it. (you also don't want to get addicted as that will give you sexual retrdation)
Leave some bio-energy to achieve more for your life...

No successful hustler has time/energy to be masturbating 3-4 times all day everyday!
It means there will be no resources left for actually hustle progression.

We only have a finite amount of energy in a day O. Use it wisely!

Anybody can wake up one morning and say they are a pastor.
Some of them are even sent by witches with the eventual goal of pulling the body of Christ into ill-repute.

This is why I don't allow anybody thrill me with their "pastor, pastor" thing.
The average Nigerian has this mental stronghold that because someone calls themself a "pastor" you should automatically give them of yourself.
With that kind of precedence, why will yahoo boyz like this idiot not open church to enhance business?

ZionWEALTH? What Holy-spirit based church business names itself that?
APOSTLE? Do they even know what that tag means?

Rahull:
Since guys have been calling ladies from 30yrs upward "Evening Newspapers", so I thought that this set of ladies, their chances of getting wifed is very slim.


Today after work, I was bored at home so I hit the street to make a little research.

I walked up to over 30 guys and asked them the below question.



Which of these ladies will you marry assuming you are to marry either ?

1. A LADY WITHIN THE AGE RANGE OF 30 TO 35 YRS THAT HAS NOT GIVEN BIRTH.

2. A LADY WITHIN THE AGE RANGE OF 22 TO 28 YRS THAT HAS GIVEN BIRTH.


To my greatest surprised, 75% of the guys went for the lady in number one. Each with their reasons..

Old news paper is better than used toilet paper.

But neither of them are prime choices.

Seeing as young childless women in they're 20s never finish, we shall skip them both ... Especially number 2 that one has failed.

Rahull:
1. A single lady within the age of 30 to 35 that has not given birth.





2. A single lady within the age of 22 to 28 that has given birth. (A.K.A baby mama)

Number 1

itsmeurLady:
Lmao stop deceiving yourself... Why did u now emphasize that u are one, hypocrite

This is why we say a lot women have nothing to offer.
You can't even read.

Where in that response did I emphasize that "I was one"?
Or are you just currently high on foundation powder

itsmeurLady:
By their words u shall know them , u don't need to tell us that you are a real man... A real Man does not advertise it the way u do, it shows in their posts

That emboldened phrase only works on the idiots of this generation TBH
Men of this generation couldn't give 2 shits about what your ever-morphing, self-serving, parasitic definitions of what a real man is.
They make their own definitions, and are enjoying their lives free of such obvious societal scams...to the detriment of y'all who have little to nothing to offer anyway.

Go and cry if ee too pain you

Continuously smelling decrepit old pussy gases have killed this boy

The older women get, the more they have to rely on more than just their body.
There is always a rude awakening in store for women who delay either starting a family or making serious money before they get too old.

Because by then, WHEN (not if) your beauty has degraded, you at least have money to pay for suger-son.

princfred:
Lol . Guy sex what a Gf whose promiscuity is unascertainable to a good degree of certainty is almost as, if not more, risky health wise. The main difference is psychological i guess.

Very true.
At least with olosho, you know what you are dealing with so you can wrap that thing twice.

Some of you who have wakawaka girlfriends only wrap once or don't even wrap at all because you think you're in some exclusive ish

Something that if they even manage to build, they will still not maintain it. With naija attitude, the whole thing will be rusted and bush-looking within a year of use.

A lot of us have to finish our time on earth before naija can trully move forward...and I don't just mean the politicians. We as a people get problem.

Hopefully the following generations learns from our general stupidity towards handling things.

CocoaOla:
AND STEEEL PLANT AROUND THE WORLD COST LESS THAN $10BILLION DOLLARS NIGERIA HAVE SPENT $80 BILLION DOLLAR AND ITS
STILL NOT FUNCTIONING THEY ARE USING THE PROJECT TO STEAL NIGERIANS MONEY SPIT ON NIGERIA GOVERMENTS

This is the primary way money is looted from the country.
80% of it is thru projects. It is the cleanest way than just going to pack bags of money due to EFCC having more guidelines.

Now it's all government project scams i.e If I give you this government project, make sure you buy cement from ABC company and your metal from XYZ company....which costs x100 of the normal price of said materials.

Of course, ABC and XYZ company will codedly kick back a huge chunk of their proceeds to said politicians or help the politician acquire things (basically what Madueke did). And on and on the cycle goes.

Where in the world does it cost $80 billion dollars to build just a simple stinking steel plant?!

What will a (much needed) power plant now cost to build?
Naija is the MVP of facepalms.

GOFRONT:


Dude should be drunk by now, going by the way people are ordering crates of beer for him......

Infact he received a credit alert from somebody ontop that comment

Who saw that part where someone suggested to him to share the money with some other less privilege guys online?

Well, as for me, I have done all he wrote on that comment before, that is, (staying without having a girlfriend because of the trauma that is involved). But I came to a point, I couldnt continue that way. I gave it up, cos I couldnt cheat nature. I need a woman.

We must need a woman, we cant cheat nature, We must need a woman, I repeat we must need a woma

This is why you short-change yourself.
Carry with you the mindset that A woman must also need a man, along with a mindset of abundance...and you will never lack for opportunities to get your need met.

#DignityAndRespectOverToto

itsmeurLady:
No be only MGTOW , na MGWAGON.... The person u quoted is a male to start with and you can promote your movement somewhere else or better still create a thread for it rather than promoting it on other people's thread Mr MGTOW

I am not "Mr MGTOW".

I am simply educating your ilk (be they man or woman) of the realities of psychological responses and the situations that cause them....something you should be looking into instead of pathetically complaining in this thread.

Geenosko:
I understand that everyone has the right to air their views but it's very disturbing that men can actually reason like this and people actually support this line of thought.

One significant reason is that certain people (male and female) have reduced relationships to being transactional.

As a lady pray to avoid men like the person who was quoted and as a guy pray that your sisters never come across men like him.

It's terrible to have such a mindset.

You're just caught up in your feelings because if ALL men thought like this (i.e thinking only about themselves, like most women do), you females would become quite wretched.

Men are already thinking like this in droves.
Have you never heard of the MGTOW movement? (Men going their own way)
It is growing into quite the popular lifestyle. It is as a response to the unheard frustrations of men over the current modern years...seeing as men who express their pain regarding women just generally get laughed at or called pathetic.

In fact this response shows that you are STILL being selfish. Imagine people calling you pathetic each time you express your pain...what will you eventually do? You haven't thought about that. All you care about is how it affects you, hence y'all whining in this thread.

That's what happens when you keep laughing at peoples pain. They stop caring after a point and forge a life of happiness away from said pain and other pointless social norms that, upon honest personal evaluation, doesn't really benefit them as it does the other party.

You don't have to pray to avoid MGTOW men as you can bet they are ALREADY avoiding you.
You naive females tend to think that the only way a man can have sex outside of marriage is by wither paying for it or lying to some girl.
I assure you, a man does not need to lie or pay for sex. He can state the terms of whatever "relationship" he wants and that won't stop women from still applying with their CV. Only idiotic men lie for sex.

MGTOW is only going to grow. Did your bible not tell you these times were coming?

otherway:
Habba aunty why the curse nah

E be like sey this one get tatoo all over plus including special areas where I dey fear. Abeg who write am there?

E dey pain am because she get tattoo scatter for body.

I lifted weights....and had the body of a god

If you MUST do this kind of questionable wedding, just simply go and do it in court without all this celebration.
Last last, wedding na paper. No be by force to do all these "look at me" wahala when you are both already 100% sure you are marrying for the wrong reasons.
All you do is expose yourselves to the people in attendance.

HigherEd:
You've written a whole lot of ridiculous stuff. You are just making a storm out of a glass of water - the bishop has in many cases met with a whole number of presidential aspirants and has never told anyone specifically to vote any particular candidate. So what is all this epistle about?

Because I know you people. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I used to be among you.


Without him needing to say anything, over 90% of you will run and throw your votes over to the party he has basically endorsed. And y'all will do it purely because "that's what papa did" or because "I don't want him to open the gate of hell over my political choice" ...or whatever fear based stronghold he has created over your hearts.

Also stop with the logical fallacies. He IS endorsing PDP. You don't make a public appearance with a political party unless that is who you are endorsing. Enough with trying to play on people's intelligence. It's unbecoming.

What I'm saying is that, IT IS OKAY for him to do that... But it should not stop the rest of you from going by what is right for your country without this bias.

Choose a political party that does not entrenched backwardness. They have shown themselves to do exactly this over the past decades... They won't suddenly stop now.

A lot of the ideas they are even talking about were stolen from Sowore's party AAC. It is all mouth. Let's stop being religiously gullible please.

Jopreshous:
while Y'all are arguing about the tattoos, I want to know more about the forever gf box

The forever GF box is where men eventually put women who they won't carry past GF. She has basically been capped.

The forever GF protocal, however, varies from guy to guy.

For lesser man, they lie and promise this capped female that they will still marry....until he finds and moves on to a woman who makes better sense for him.

For rare men of dignity (such as yours truly), when it becomes clear that she is not a good long-term match, we lovingly explain this to her. And then we let her decide if she wants to hang around or go find her happy ever after. This honesty can be such a breath of fresh air to the ladies that they wouldn't actually mind staying just because you are a real man who kept it 100 with them. Women aren't that complicated or naive. They can be okay with a lot of situations as long as you spell it out and give them their options early enough.