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Guys should learn how to stop being gentlemen and CUSS biches out when they are being biches.
I have kicked a girl out of my house for much less (i.e coming to visit with unshaved bush after telling her I like things shaved), talkless of to now be on RED?! and asking for HEAD?!!
Her ancestors will be ashamed with the kind of insult I will lambast that decrepit cow with!

As in, You must have really portrayed yourself to her as a thirsty idiot so she wanted to see how much power she had over you. Now she knows you have no self-respect and she will continue to disrespect you unless you fix it. Next time she will make you eat an unwiped ass fresh from the toilet to degrade you further. Learn from this OP and be more strict. Never be a bich to any woman.

Repeat after me: IT IS PERFECTLY OKAY TO INSULT FOOLISH GIRLS.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IS8jTSz1WiE

YelloweWest:
What in God's name is sexual about that BABY
WHAT'S WRONG WITH U PEOPLE??

CHILDREN THIS ARE BATH OUTSIDE AND RUM AROUND NAKÈD!

There is nothing sexual about it, but the response by the man was uncalled for and is really just a projection of his own unresolved mental fuckery

PAGAN9JA:
Can I ask you who the F.VCK are you to ask someone else to cover their 1 yr old child up? You mist be a pedophile yourself if u see somwthing sexuall in a fvcking BABY for Gods sake!even if the child was naked what the fvck is se.xual about it!


Seriously this country is filled with animals! you should go and live in saudi arabia. boko haram.mentality. spits*


Our ancestors never covered themselves in adulthood and it was seen as normal. here we have fvxking PEDOS picking on kids. this world is going downhill.


Thanks to religitard abrahamist bas.tards!

YOU and others who subscribe to your way of thinking are the true perverted pedophilic scum.
Have you had chicken breast before? Was it floppy and sexual to you you sick f*ck? Do you understand that breast basically means chest?
You are the one overly sexualizing things like the fucking pervert that you are.

Instead of you to just be disgusted at your perverted mind for going there, you feel the "righteous fury" thing to do is to project the disgust to someone else and start acting like a little bich .

People shouldn't be exposing their children on social media in such ways that would seem suggestive to sick f*cks like you.

Seems like a legit question though.

I think the Nwachukwu fellow is just still mentally ill from his trauma and so responds in foolish ways to simple questions based on his unresolved issues. He still needs more time in the psych ward from his aunt f*cking with him.

If I basically ask someone to "cover your child up" and the best response their foolish brain can muster is to come at me with a club, I'm beating their ass up AND THEN handing them over to the police to chill in a cell until their brain resets for attempting to bringing that shit to my zone.

SJW/ Emotionalist bullshit be damned. All that righteous fury is misplaced. He should go and find his aunty to beat and solve his problem directly instead of acting like a b!tch.

The people agreeing with him are just trying to get on some perceived social justice warrior shit for social media browny points. It's common these days as people really don't think for themselves anymore. For most, Social movements trump common sense.
Any well-adjusted thinking person actually sees the assaulter for the psycho he is.

ubunja:
LOOOOOL
and so the mask falls off.
just another h0rny loser who cant get laid and has decided to play nice with gals to earn that pvssy.
LMFAOO!!!!!!!!

Sad thing is...that's not even how to earn pvssy.
Pvssy is earned by having self-respect & being generally selfish.
OP just can't win

This OP must be the king of vag-ass-lickers

africanusvu:
Well.I am from mbaise.and married an mbaise lady.lives happily. I was given 260k pride price in 2010.but I end up paying just 12anand I was accepted. They asked for 160tubers of yam.but I managed to bring 20tubers.itaccepted. My elder sis just got married she is a medical doc.the husband from
orlu payef only 6k for bride price.I don't know how come all these lazy talks ac

Please when next outsiders are talking about these things, please you Mbaise people need to shut the fawk up.
Why will they not gree for you, are you not their kinsman.

At the end of the day, as with all things ibo, it all boils down to current and future economics.
They can sell give her to you for cheap because they know that if you have daughters and want to marry out their granddaughter, as a kinsman, you will in the future come and ask them what they want to add on the list for them. Thus by letting you have her easily than some outsider, they ensure that wealth still keeps making its way into the village.

But if you were an outsider, they know after this one nothing for them again. They can't be too sure when they will get something from you again. So naturally, you would have to pay everything on their list. That is when you see people arguing that the 100 yams you bought are too small and will be counted as half so you have to either go additionally buy 50 bigger yams or 100 of the same size.

And I know you know what I'm saying is true.
Your corner-corner Igbotic logic to detract from the core facts are pointless.

Hedonistically:
Assuming you agree with him, then you and your lecturer are bunkers. Your father should marry you instead, since he is looking for millions to compensate for your "never be understated" value that is lost by giving you away in marriage.

The Nigerian female is a spectacularly disturbed human species. They pressure men for marriage, need marriage more than anything else, and yet they somehow believe that the man should kill himself to marry them because they think they hold some sort of vaguely defined value. If we're fucking or "dating" for a prolonged period of time, you are the one that would start pestering me 'when are we getting married', which means that marriage is more important to you than it is to me. That is the blatant truth for most men. Out of sheer pressure, a man would decide to marry, and then you start talking about bride price (or list) in the millions for you, because your value to your parents "cannot be understated". Na who send you?

Confused girls who want to be feminists and 'gender equalists' in the morning, and traditional commoditised African females at night. Choose your stance, and stick with it. Don't speak from both sides of your mouth.

Chop knuckle x5

Personally I can't date (talk less marry) a woman I cannot discuss real things with and who can't hold her own financially and intelligently.

I for one prefer a partner, not a child who's answer to everything is "wait, my husband will soon come".

Although, I think both view points have value based on where one is geographically.

Now, the saddest creature to ever exist in all of courtshipdom is the female idiot who is past her 20-30 prime who still says dumb shit like "my money is mine, his money is ours".

Bich you Betta make yourself financially relevant or your old ass Betta start getting ready to be replaced. If he's going to be an ATM to you, then he might as well be an ATM to a much younger hotter girl.

Love it when a girl gets buttshots then goes to pose in the gym like that's how she got the ass

DLondonboiy:
Why can't we help the poor ourselves...? Why must we give it to some pastors?

This is the kind of people Jesus called GOAT in the bible...

Are you?

Enoma222:
_am_20_she_is_17

Op why are you speaking in underscore?

OP and how old are you?

Dude looks fierce

Abi no be so dem dey call am for fashion world?

MissRaine69:
This is a reality most refuse to acknowledge exists
It does . Since the fall of Gaddafi in Libya and the subsequent massive increase of African women coming into Europe via Italy, mostly recruited from Nigeria, often by “madams”,women that are sometimes known to the families, “boyfriends” are also paid to look for untarnished girls. The women are tricked into leaving through family contacts. With promises of work in Europe families are reassured that their daughters will be taken care of . Many will never see their children again. They are saddled with an unpayable debt and are often terrified into silence by “Juju” voodoo rituals. The women are beaten severely by their madams if they refuse to work.
The problem that some don’t know exist , blame the women or are very critical. Either way this is happening and the people profiteering are fellow Nigerians.
Full article:,
https://www.theguardian.com/news/2017/nov/24/on-the-road-living-and-working-on-the-italian-road-of-love?CMP=fb_gu

I watched a video of a brutal murdering of one. He was bludgeoned and stabbed to death.
It's terrible.

Black people have been selling black people from Day 1. It is why black people still lack a certain kind of respect globally.

bitcoinmilliona:
She is now in her fathers house. I was greatly insulted by her people. It was so much that i told dem i will return but i doubt if il ever go back. I was called stupid and a fool and saying i have an intention. I had a mission of coming to thier family. Imagine. The father inlaw even went to the bank to verify if i booked his fixed deposit that the bank shud confirm the investment letter. he helped me with deposit to meet my target. Im so down

So at a point you depended on her father for money AND YET cheating on her as well?!

Can you not understand how useless of a man you sound like right now?
How can you not comprehend that you are acting like a fool tho?

OFCOURSE they will take you to be a gold-digger.
I don't even understand how some people think. You expect people to "love and respect" you while you're acting like a total b*tch?

You are focusing on "my wife reports me" and that is what you have convinced yourself to be the main issue here because you are trying to redirect blame of the situation to her. You remind me so much of so many idiots I have run across who lack the ability to introspect and see their part in an issue. Like a dumbo that slaps somebody and is suddenly surprised that the person slaps you back.

If you were my brother I for wine your ear. Take Responsibility and address things from a position of "I was wrong" or you have no business leading a family. Too bad you have let it denigrate to this. While thing were still easily salvagable You should have taken that woman out on romantic dates and re-declare your love to her /"toasted" her again and re-win her heart so her boyfriends no for see chance and also to rebuild trust after all those your fuckups. You just cheated and was like, "yup I'm a man issallowed" and expected things to still be moving fine.

You are such a typical nigerian caveman. Level up dude.

Lol blue eyes oshi

The girl is posing with contacts

betafuture:
hmm. Because I have cheated before now, it gives her the liberty to cheat under my roof. Ok ooo

You are such a typical Nigerian man.
Apparently, You are the only one who SHOULD cheat abi?

Yeah she messed up, but given that YOU brought this demon of infidelity into your home, you have no f*cking right to be getting TOO bent out of shape over it. Take responsibility for YOUR PART in this, cool the f*ck down, and have a heart to heart forgiving conversation with her. Where in you blame yourself for introducing this cheating concept to your family, and how it will do nothing but break the fam and how the fam is better off without such.

bitcoinmilliona:
My wife always tells her family all the details that happen in my home even the very messy quarrels. She spills our deepest secrets to the public when there is an issue. One of the times my father said he was very disappointed at me when i cheated once. This makes her family build resentment towards me and my father filled with worry. When I visit they all are never free and im isolated. This in return make me feel uncomfortable with my inlaws and also dislike my wife. Now we have anoder family meeting i knw messy details wont be spared. What should i do? I feel like running away i swear. Marriage is so much stress

So why'd you cheat though?
You seem to be more angry that you were caught than sorry that you cheated.

Naija guys in naija take a lot of things for granted.
Do you know that in this part of the world, that shit could make her divorce you, kick you out of your house and take all your shit?
You'd then probably be stuck paying her alimony for the rest of your life. Women are evil out here dude. Better thank God you are in naija.

I dunno about this, but ever since I discovered silk boxer shorts, I've never gone back to cotton.

johnime:
am a pretty girl with welcoming attributes, a 19 years old 300 level student. But I think something is wrong with me, at times I think and end up tearing so bad.
Ever since my last relationship by last year November, it's been difficult getting another date, at first I didn't consider it an issue cos I know am pretty and young too but right now I can't help but panic.. Have been single for a whole year, no sex, no fling, no boyfriend. Is something wrong with meOr did my ex bf curse me?? I don't know.

Apart from my parents, I don't have any guy at all that could dash me even 5k, not even subscription. Nlers please is something wrong with me?? The funny and annoying thing is that most people don't even believe I don't have a boyfriend, they are always like "fine girl like you?? Na lie jor".

Am just confused and worried. Isn't this something I should be worried about Am not disabled ooo, am not ugly at all, I don't have bad personality. Am even a seamstress ooo plus my academic excellence. So please what's the problem I know a lot of bad girls with bf that would die for them, ugly girls too. And I wonder if I have an issue I can't see. Have always wished to marry immediately after my N.Y.S.C, but is this how I will marry when I can't even get myself a boyfriend??
P.S. that my ex is the only guy have dated and it took me months to get over him. Now I believe am fully over him but I can't get another date..
nlers followers something is wrong with me right Please my identity should be hidden

If that's you and that's how you dress, with the weave, it's possible that you are being seen as an olosho. Also what's your voice like? Fine girl that looks like you and throws bullet Everytime she talks is not in.

iamJ:
No child, no husband forming accomplished

Come on now, obviously you don't have a whole lot going on in YOUR life otherwise you wouldn't say something like this.

She better be picking those in-grown hairs too

Rokia2:
2buff what's up with you though? These few days you been on the subject of women a lot more then usual.

Everything ok?

Yes ma. Just having fun with y'all. It's all love.

My favorite comedian on the subject of women


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0vZhz3sN_E

Lol look, this happens a lot more frequently than people know.
A woman knows what she wants to do with a man within the first 5 minutes.
Whether to be his slut or to be his girlfriend.

Sad to say but I've had girls on their knees, commanding them to swallow, yet meanwhile these same girls had a "gentleman" that she kept "posting" and putting on long thing as per "forming good girl/ need more time to sort out emotions blah blah blah". These were not teenagers, they were women, with jobs and ish.

Only an idiotic man allows himself to be played out like this in 21st century modern dating game.
You can't survive the modern dating scene by being a "gentleman". All you'll get are damaged goods and be cleanup-boy for other mens semen.

Men who take female advice on the subject or buy into the emotionalist bullshit in the media today are pretty much bleeped.

Now don't get me wrong, there are ladies worth chasing, but you need to be keen enough to know which ones and that chase shouldn't be for too long.
Every borehole feels she should be chased, but most don't deserve it, as they themselves know and respond to. They only deserve to be commanded to swallow, and when in the dark, they will willingly oblige to their base animalistic urges to please this commander no matter what transpired minutes before.

A guide to modern dating...for gentlemen

A Gentleman will arrive at a ladies dwelling early Friday evening and present her with a selection of beautiful, expensive and exotic flowers. He will compliment her beauty as he escorts her to his moderately priced but environmentally friendly automobile and opens the door for her.

They will arrive at the expensive French restaurant where he will pull out the chair for his exquisite date. He will tenderly ask her what she likes to eat, when the waiter arrives he will order (in French) exactly what she likes and nothing she doesn't. The date will go very well, they have so many things in common.

He thinks she could be the one he has been waiting for his whole life. He starts to imagine their life together. It's just going so well and she's so perfect he doesn't want to rush things. Which is good because she said she doesn't want to rush things either.

He drops her off early (she has to wake up early) and he kisses her on the cheek and tells her what a great time he had. He eagerly makes plans for their next date and she accepts. He drives home. He hops online and updates his social internet account with a new status about the evening and what a great time he had. He then goes to bed, still thinking about the future with this girl, masturbates and falls asleep with a smile.

When the girl is dropped off, she goes inside to her apartment and logs on to social internet account. She then opens her apple cellular telephone and sends a message to an alpha wolf she has been casually seeing for the past few weeks, asking what he is doing. He does not respond.

After one hour she decides to go to bed. She is awoken two hours later when she receives a new message from the alpha wolf which simply says “come over dont wear anything but a coat”. She responds that she is sleeping and can she see him tomorrow. He does not respond. 10 minutes later she text messages him and says she is on her way. She arrives at his apartment, he pulls off her coat, tells her to get on her knees and she eagerly complies, saying I wilst do that for thee. The next morning at work she is very tired but has no regrets.

The next Wednesday cannot come soon enough for the gentlemen, for that is when he will go on date #2 with his potential new girlfriend. He arrives 4 minutes early to their arranged time, she is still getting ready but that is ok, he is an understanding person. When she is finally ready 27 minutes later he presents her with a gift, just a small necklace that made him think of her. Again, he escorts her to his automobile and drives her to the ice-skating rink inside the mall.

They have a fantastic time ice-skating and then they go to the food court for pizza, she tries to pay for half but he declines for a gentleman always pays for a lady. And he knows how to treat a lady. They eat for a while. She casually mentions how early she has to be at work the next day. Concerned about the time, he asks her if she needs to go home. She says yes. Without hesitation he drives her home. When they arrive at her apartment he works up the courage to ask if he can come in for some hot chocolate. She replies that she really wants to take it slow this time, and besides, she has work the next day. He understands and kisses her on the cheek.

That Friday, the gentlemen calls her and asks if she would like to attend a movie that evening. She replies that she has already made plans with her best girlfriends. He asks her what she is doing tomorrow, she says she has plans but that maybe she can break them. She will let him know tomorrow. He says ok and tells her to have a great night. She says you too.

She goes to the local discotheque with her best girlfriends and they dance. Many guys try to dance with her and she brushes them off, other guys she dances with. One guy in particular she thought was attractive at first but turned out to be really rude. She asked him to buy her a drink, he said sure, went to the bar and returned with two drinks: a whiskey and coke for himself and a glass of tap-water for her. He even laughed at her. She bids him adieu.

During the evening the gentleman text messages her and asks if she is having a good time. She ignores the messages. Instead, she has been unable to stop watching her new gentleman caller, the one who returned with a water for her. He has been talking and smiling with a lot of other girls and guys. He hasn't paid very much attention to her except for the occasional glances in which she breaks eye-contact before he does.

Nearer the end of the evening, when the discotheque is about to close, he casually strolls up to her and says lets go. Surprised, she says where. He says my home. She acts flabbergasted and waits for him to explain. He says nothing. After 15 seconds she says ok, I'd like to. They arrive at his apartment home and have sex without a condom.

Her gentlemen caller cannot sleep for he is worried about her as she has not returned any of his three text messages. He calls her the next morning to make sure she is ok, she mentioned how her phone died the night before and that she didn't receive any of his messages. He asks her to accompany him for the evening and she says she can't but if something changes she will let him know. He says ok, have fun.

That evening the lady returns to the discotheque scene with her best girlfriends, where she runs into the alpha wolf from the previous Friday evening. He is with another young lady and ignores her. She chatters with her best girlfriends about what ungentlemanly like behavior the alpha wolf displays.

When she returns home for the evening she logs into her social internet account and leaves a comment lamenting the fact that there are no good men left and what a shame it is. The gentleman, fearing she is speaking of him, instantly responds and says that he is there for her if she would like to talk. She says thank you, you are so sweet and then she goes to sleep. The gentlemen understands that this is merely a test for her love and affection and devises a very romantic plan to win her heart forever.

The next afternoon the gentleman, understanding how emotionally vulnerable she is, asks if she'd like to go shopping to make her feel better. She says yes, that is so sweet. They go to the mall and he patiently waits while she tries on her stylish new clothes and when it is time to pay he hands the cashier his visa credit card. Surely the lady will see that he can provide for her and will do anything to win her heart.

He drives her back to her apartment home and this time she invites him in. They sit on the sofa and she again tries on some of her new clothes. He comments how pretty she looks, to which she responds with a smile. She sits down on the sofa and she kisses him. He kisses back, eagerly. After a minute she pushes him away and says she doesn't want to go to fast or get too involved, don't you see her heart has been broken before. He says yes, I understand. I would never want to rush you. Whenever you are ready let me know and I will be here for you.

The gentleman leaves her apartment, understanding she she needs some space and some time to sort out her feelings. The lady, using the camera on her apple cellular telephone, takes a picture of herself in the bathroom mirror with her breasts exposed and messages the picture to the alpha wolf who ignored her the previous evening. She captions the photograph with the words this is what you could have had.

The alpha wolf does not respond. The lady again logs into her social internet account and reports to her friend network that guys are such pigs and only want one thing and there are no good guys left and that at least she is following her heart.

To be continued.

https://boldanddetermined.com/the-gentlemens-guide-to-modern-american-dating/

makydebbie:
If he's going to be doing all that, what's the need of getting married and subjecting the woman to such?




And have no say in the marriage? Watching telenovelas and lazing around is complete happiness?

So what's stopping her from starting a hobby? a business of her own?
If he needed a maid he would have gotten one. He married her for companionship like you lot always complain about.
I think she is just divorcing him because idle women like having things to complain about. When faced with the horrid possibility of never having anything to complain about, she has no other way of validating her existence, so she triggers "the final complaint"...the "harakiri of complaints"....divorce.

She is a useless female.

My favorite blogger, Victor Pride on why you should stop diddling your man-clits

We could be PC and pretend masturbating and internet porn don't exist, but they do. And there is a very big problem with internet porn. Internet porn is a succubus LovePeddler from Hell intent on draining you of your vital seed, your testosterone, your energy, and your desire to succeed and conquer.

Or, to put it mildly, masturbating to internet porn does not do a body good. Internet porn is like a drug addiciton. The access to endless variety of porn causes you to constantly search for the “perfect” scene. This leads to massive overstimulation of the brain, the overstimulation causes a dopamine (dope) release into the brain (your fix).

After you have an orgasm it's like coming down off a drug. After all that excitement, that endless stimuli for the brain, your body just shuts off and you turn into a lazy piece of shit. How many time have you been about to do something, decided to just have a “quick one”, and by the end 30 minutes later had no motivation to do anything? I already know the answer: a lot.

Here are 10 reasons to stop masturbating to internet porn:


1) Internet porn saps you of precious energy – When you give up the porn and the endless masturbation sessions you have a lot more energy and drive. You want to get out and take care of business. You want to make money, you want to hit the weights, and you want to go and talk to that cute little blonde in the cereal aisle – and you just may have blueballs enough to do it.

2) Internet porn can lead to erectile dysfunction – Keep at it and eventually you will only be aroused by internet porn. Right now guys in their TWENTIES and even guys in their TEENS are having trouble getting hard without porn. They have to keep finding more and more disgusting and outrageous porn scenes to satisfy their hunger. Eventually nothing will do it but seeing a naked black man buttfucking a dog. That's serious business. Keep up with the porn and it will happen to you too.

3) Internet porn will make you want to stop having sex – Why bother with sex when you have every fantasy in the world available at one of your hands? Japan is a notoriously porn friendly country. Japan is saturated with porn. In Japan there is an entire culture of young guys called “Herbivores”. These herbivores have no desire for sex. All this porn and now the guys don't want girls, they want sex with their hand, or sex with robots or nothing at all. Japan now has the lowest birthrate in the world. Can you see the connection?

4) After you stop masturbating to internet porn your voice may become deeper – Straight from the horses mouth, this is what guys who have stopped masturbating are saying happens.

5) After you stop masturbating to internet porn you will have more self control and will power – I'm telling you from personal experience you just plain feel better and stronger and more masculine. It's the opposite feeling after masturbating to internet porn.

6) After you stop masturbating to internet porn your Testosterone will rise – According to this article, Testosterone is slightly higher when abstaining from orgasm. And it does rise slightly during sexual activity—before dropping back down to normal. Having sex with a real life girl increases your testosterone while having sex with your hand and sitting in front of a computer with 5 different pages open decreases it. I don't need a science article to tell me that, I know it to be true from experience.

7) After you stop masturbating to internet porn you will become calmer, more rational, and less anxious – Again, straight from the horses mouth. Check out the link below to see all the positive results guys are getting.

You will become more attractive to women – Let's assess the situation. Who do you think women find more attractive?

A) Guys who spend their time in the dark, jacking off to endless streams of porn, finish after about an hour, take a nap, finally make it out in the sunlight (or not) and can't even look them in the eye.

Or B) Guys who don't spend their time playing with themselves for hours, are full of testosterone, not having spilled their precious seed twice that day, have a deeper voice, and have the ability to make eye contact. Easy answer.

9) You can stop getting viruses on your computer- Viruses are a pain in the ass and can sometimes take days to deal with. Most computer viruses come from porn. Eliminate the source, eliminate the virus.

10) If you can't believe me, then take the word of these gentlemen who beat their addiction to internet porn and reaped the benefits – There are 90 pages worth of positive results. I've only quoted from the first few pages:....

Continued here
https://boldanddetermined.com/stop-using-internet-porn/

Cosmotelli:
Eyaah fine girl

Decay of society.
A man lost his life and all you care for is that [the makeup of] the girl is fine.

This is how a good number of you think and why men handle some of you in merciless ways.
Females that reason like you can't be trusted with any modicum of independent thought.

It just doesn't look natural. Sorry.