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If you're not sexually attracted to her, all the loyalty she can give won't matter... Unless she can accept to be a cuckquean.

donstan18:
This claim is a big scam to humanity and we all know that. Any woman supporting her on this is nothing but a gender bigotic coward.

You cannot freely eat from a woman without complain, you can NEVER eat from a woman and go scot free, no responsible man will ever pray to be fed by a woman because we all know th kind of attitude they possess when such happen, they are not worth taking from, they are not worth feeding from, they are not worth hoping on, they are not worth depending on.


A woman will give you x6 bad attitude for being the breadwinner of the family, ask any of your friend that's being fed by a woman, they are living in hell, they seize to have a say, they take all manner of attitudes from the said woman.


They won't publicize it to siblings and family friends, but the attitude and the controlling power they give and possess to their men in private will be more and worse than terrorists and devil.

Saying women don't publicize it when they feed the family is a big LIE, they discuss it with their friends, the attitude they give to their husband or man will be x6 of what the feed them on.

That's why you'll see a single rich woman of 30-40 years yet to be married, their attitude is shitty, dumb and frustrating to adapt with.

You'll be surprised to know that these women killing themselves and supporting her on this haven't for one day bought a bathroom slippers for their man.

Take and eat from any woman at your own peril, they don't worth it, they can't tolerate what men tolerate when feeding the family

Most Nigerian females are Takists. The ones that are not, will emasculate you if you ever depend on them. There is no partnership in a Nigerian marriage. It's all on the man, no matter how big her personal income.

Feminism says it's trying to change this, but so far has been more concerned with demanding even more for women to still take beyond their current benefits, instead of first starting out with what they can actually give to balance out the equation that's already slanted in their favor.

I have an entrepreneur friend who was doing well, too care of wifey and was always proud of her. but now he is going thru some challenges with the biz and transitioning to another market. During this transition, wife is the major breadwinner. The things she does to this guy eh... It's like sometimes Naija girls have no souls when they get small power! Incapable of even thinking ahead to "oh wait, this is temporary he will soon get back up. What happens to me then after I've been demonic to him and he gets back on his feet?"

Dude is primed to make full business recovery soon and can't wait for the tables to turn... Might replace the Bitch after

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6lL11Tf0cY

MissWrite:
I would return it.

Then, in this matter, you are a sensible girl.

Takists have no idea how pathetic they look.
I would personally look down on a girl who keeps a cancelled engagement ring.

I like the 27 number for a woman.
I generally don't take any girl under 24 seriously relationship-wise as they just are not yet there mentally.

A woman with a good body at 27 is a good indicator that she has established some good habits that will speak for her in her later years, as opposed to a 21 year old whose body has not shown any proof of discipline or a lack thereof.

As to a guy, I really don't know. All I know is you better be 30+ before you marry.
You really need to Spread your wild oats to get some perspective as a man.
Late 20s to mid 30s are some of the best years for a man. You want to enjoy those without disturbance...

kimbraa:
And what a "classy" man as used in this context would do if she does give him the ring is that she keeps it.

Obviously whether she keeps it or not is not an issue to a classy man as I inferred in my post.

A classy girl would actually WANT to give it back because it represents something immaterial and she doesn't want to be reminded of what it represents.
It's like keeping pictures of your ex. Who needs that baggage?

Where-as the mind of A takist female would just want to sha collect something material make nothing for loss. Takism is the foundation of a prostitution mindset.

Sagamite:
When an engagement is cancelled and the couple previously intending to marry decide to go their separate ways, what do you think should happen to the engagement ring?

Did you put a ring on someone Saga?
Even though I wouldn't ask for it back, in my opinion The Right and Classy thing for the girl to do is to give back the ring.
If she doesn't, this is one of the ways you know you dodged a bullet and should thus thank God because it speaks to her character as a #takist.
The last thing a brotha wants legally tied to him in this era, is a fawking takist.

CHIGIM:
it depends on the kind of job the bf is doing,guy

Leave all these sour losers.
That sort of thinking is exactly why they will forever remain broke.
Because they keep using their own mouth to swear for their future aka "to be rich is to be evil".

God doesn't want you to be evil so....

TheUpsetGirl1:
nothing justifies being broke.. go make some cool cash and get a nice lady... stop arguing with ladies on nl... spilling trash just to get likes won't make you rich..

I love dominating girls like you and making y'all toss my salad whenever I please.
The things money-hungry girls do to be "seen" with rich dudes is crazy!

Keep at it please. Don't mind these broke guys. They don't understand our dynamics

Meh. Everyone should be allowed to hope and pray.
It is natural for a woman to seek richer suitors. Guys just need to get over it.
A rich dude is like a cute woman with a big ass. Know that all the other members of the opposite sex wants in on that.
So if as a guy, you are broke, you might lose that girl to mr moneybags.
Just as if you are a girl, and you are ugly and without a sexy body, you might lose that rich man. #GetOverIt

That's just how it is. It's serious business. Why do you think women save all their money just to go suffer risk of silicon leakage by getting a boob/butt job? It sure ain't for your broke ass. She is trying to secure the attention of Mr Moneybags.

So let it be decreed as such:
If thou art male, and thou art broke...go for ugly and/or plain girls who will give you peace of mind...for the alternative, thou canst not hold.
But if thou art female, and thou art decrepit and without a pleasing female form...go for broke guys who cannot get better...for the alternative, thou canst not hold.
Amen.

Addiction is a psychological problem. Even if "deliverance" works, the actress in this nollywood movie has not fixed her mind yet, and it will still go back to that habit given enough boredom because she has not replaced it with anything.

It takes time to rewrite ones psyche.

marvin906:
you do know your contradicting yourself...
if I tell you word now..
I will look like a bad person

Na smallie, and na girl. Wetin you expect?
Mouth and brain no go too dey connect like dat.

hayfay:
tribe should not be considered as a major factor in a relationship. Most times when we hear people say this tribe is this and that, who you are in a relationship can be totally different from that view , meanwhile the persin is from that tribe.

You're a girl so what do you know?
It is the man that has to deal with the weirdness of your culture when he wants to marry you.

All most of you care about is the color of the flower in the wedding hall and stuff like that.

Men know what they have to deal with when it comes down to cultural gbese your people place on us.

MhizzAJ:
Abeg that gal is too beautiful for him
Thank God he has set her free

Who day give these kind of men morale self
This isn't encouraging at all
What's with this divorce here and there

See this okpono.
This is how ugly cows like yourselves put on make up and start deceiving yourselves that you are "too beautiful". Wishful thinking oshi

The guy isn't too bad. But You can just tell that the bride will look like ayamatanga with fcked up teeth when her makeup comes off.

Virginkpekus:
I have warned my sister to stop doing skin to skin for several years now but she refused to heed to my advice. She insists on doing it raw with her irresponsible boy friend.

She has gotten pregnant several times for this idiot...now after the 17th abortion he wants to dump her...pls advice us on what to do.

Your username alone makes me know you are a guy. Furthermore the exaggeration of your story makes me know your story is fake.

How much has Seun paid you now that you have Wasted your time to open this BS thread?

dominique:
This is why I hate this bride price of a thing. I still don't see how it's any different from slave trade.

Good. We are also tired of paying it.
Be sure to tell your people next time it comes to that.

The Bride price and list thing na wash. You are being sold like fish and a lot of you will be there happy that you are being traded like tilapia.

Kobicove:
Let no one fool you...tribe is very important when considering a permanent relationship!

I agree!
Everybody likes to post on the internet these days to sound modern, but at the end of the day, everyone has their prejudices.... And there's nothing wrong with that! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I personally can do any tribe but igbo girls because I don't want to have to travel to Naija to do any stinking traditional wedding (even if her actual family is where I am). Whatever can't be done where I am needs not be done.

There are other things too, but makes no sense writing them out as I have already made my decision.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opbpBEGR9po

@ubunja

body count....like any warrior

dairykidd:
I really need to stop going down south... For real this time

Liar! All that one will go out the window the next time a bad chick spreads for you.

lefulefu:
At least she's been honest...kudos to her for her honesty. But then most lesbians i have come across still sleep with men for money.

'lesbianism' is just a tactic oloshos use to be able to add the illusion of rareness to their pussy so you pay more for it.

At the end of the day, they all want dick otherwise they won't be using dildos.

Its not today that women been scheming to seperate men from their money.

Where are the young?
Or have they all been brow beaten by the evils of these old men?

The Young must rule.] now.

XhosaNostra:
Good for her.

I heard that women are better lovers. They know exactly where to touch each other because they understand the female body more.

I guess this same logic applies to gay males

XhosaNostra:
Good for her.

I heard that women are better lovers. They know exactly where to touch each other because they understand the female body more.

I guess this same logic applies to gays

MhizAJ:
It's not new...Some people act in that manner too...They must have sex before marriage

She's not a virgin afterall so there's no need pretending about it or trying to tell her man to hold on till the wedding night

However, I do not support pre marital sex...It's wrong

The whole point behind not having Pre-marital sex is defeated when a woman busses that pussy wide open several times before marriage. It's to avoid all these pointless comparisons.
That's why virginity played a serious role in previous marriages.

The point of marriage was an exchange of an unused womb with protection and resources.
Nowadays, feminism (satanism against men) tells women they should be sluts and use it up. So when it is time to exchange things with your husband, there is no tightness left.

It's like buying a bottle of coke, only for them to go in and bring out a bottle of coke that has already been opened and has been drank with multiple people's saliva at the bottle tip. And yet this is something they still want to charge full price for....

Ahamefuna0001:
I really don't know what our girls are gradually turning into. look at what a young girl wore to effurun market in warri, delta state today which made area boy with uncouth mouth to Howl insults at her, she must have felt embarrassed.

Nothing wrong with this though...
Guys with 6-pack walk around shirtless all the time.

Feminists I can't take them seriously until these things change otherwise its just a joke. I can't respect foolishness.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hEzynAixS10

So did any Nigerians (in naija) go crazy about black panther or was the craziness just an American thing?