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It would seem that of all tribes, igbo are the most geographically tied to their village.

We dey yankee. Yet All the igbo girls I know who marry require that she and her boo travel back to her village to do trad ceremonies even when the girl and her necessary family members live abroad.
These add to costs. Is this something to be expected when a guy is considering an igbo girl abroad?

Tallesty1:
How exactly is this your business? Does their going home to marry affect you in any way?

If your problem is the jollof rice and drink that you're going to miss then book a flight.

Later you people will say "there are no jobs" when you can't even apply BASIC reading and comprehension before typing.
I have nothing to say to you.

Afam4eva:
I don't understand your question. Is it that the girls go back to their village to look for husbands or go there for the traditional marriage rites?

Guy, I don't think its too hard to comprehend the question. Just try and read the post again. slowly. particularly the last sentence.

It would seem that of all tribes, igbo are the most geographically tied to their village.

We dey yankee.
All the igbo girls I know who marry require traveling back to their villages even when the girl and her necessary family members live abroad.
These add to costs. Is this something to be expected when a guy is considering an igbo girl abroad?

Adeboyefa:
Every story is either true or false.
If her claims are true and you can't afford it, go and marry elsewhere where the in-law demands are more pocket-friendly.
If her claims are false, she doesn't love you and wants to scare you away with that story. You don't want to marry a woman who doesn't love you, do you?

SUMMARY: If you can't afford what she said, leave her.

That's the thing.
It may not even be about the village, but the woman herself and her desire to EAT you for her family member's sake.
A lot of women from that side would rather destroy their husband as long as it means her parents and siblings get to jaiye.

sheDD:
Whether its in real life , on facebook or phone /text , girls will never message me. If I msg them or something they respond and maybe we will hang out (probably not ) but they NEVER talk to me. Its not like this with any of my friends, I dont get it , I have a very friendly personality and I am very nice to everyone . And I watch my friends and I dont see anything they are doing differently than I am yet they get text ' s all the time and messages on Facebook . Also I am a average good looking guy who is very talented and I am always looking to have a good time .
Even when I meet girls with my friends I can have the same type of conversation as one of my friends, yet they are so much more friendly to them than to me. No girls ever come up and joke around with me and smile and giggle like what they do with my friends. I am not always too serious , i not a huge jokester but am nice and people who know me have a great time with me. But girls seem to not care to give me the light of day. I just really dont understand why, I dont think I come off as intimidating because its not like im extremely good looking , but I above average looking at least .
Haba! I am no longer a kid nah,I just left "teens league" some days ago,
There is nothing more excruciating than be the ignored fellow!!!

Don't worry OP, you will soon become a player (super villian) in the future.
This is your origin story, the part in your life where you realize girls are silly creatures that crave abuse, regardless of what they say.

You said you just left teen-mode. Young, unselfish guys have it bad in their teens and early 20's.
What you want to do right now, is to raise your personal value and you can only do so by focusing on YOU.

- Go to the gym and sculpt your body, for YOU. In 2 -3 months, results will help you mentally become more selfish.(a good thing)
- Learn about how to trade in the stock market or crypto market, for YOU.
- Don't even give girls attention unless they are offering to do something, for YOU.

At this stage in your life, what a girl wants should mean absolutely nothing to you.

Sounds harsh, but that is the only way to survive dating in your age range as a man.
It is what it is. Na woman dem start the rough play.

Cause and effect. It drags all the blood from the brain, hence the madness.

"spell".....Why do Nigerians attribute everything to witchcraft?

I guess it is used as a crutch to eliminate one's own personal responsibility on a matter.

BearHugss:
On the contrary they are cute blokes.

As I said, Weak OR disgusting.
In your case, they are the former.

Tell me now, how much respect do you have for the men who's faces you just slimed for free without feeling any mandate to repay the pleasure?

None, that's how much.
If you both get into an argument tomorrow your mind will just be like "look at this thirsty dude talking like one oga when he eats pussy (& groceries?) without reciprocation" .

Based on principle alone, the girl has to figure out a way to give pleasure back in these things or something is lost in the exchange, one of it being RESPECT.

BearHugss:
Who gives felllatio to blokes anymore.
Get cunnilingus and don't return the favor

Unless na weak/disgusting man you dey find, all the best on that journey.

agbonkamen:
You should have asked us to suck our man's anus too

If you don't eat your man's ass, you'll soon be replaced. These are commonly fulfilled requirements
Learn to love it.

She's not lying... What are all these hypocrites commenting about here?

olayiwola4u:
For those saying is friends suggestion alone...

This is my friends request snapshot below

Can't you read?
It says "People you may know".
It then proceeds to encourage YOU to thirstilly add them as FB friends.

You're not as popular as you think

They don't even have yansh or thighs.
They won't be missed.

It would only be a waste if girls that looked like Rokiatu went full lesbo.

He might also be adjusting..(.in a no fukcs given kinda way .)...which means he might have a massive dingo

desreek9:
How will a man be this weak to the extent of his wife telling him she wants to bring her lover to stay in his house, and even requested that her husband shud continue to pay for upkeep of the twins pending dna result after telling him he is not the father!!

Some women are just evil.

The only person I look at with disgust in this story is the man.
Blaming a Woman for this kind of bad behavior is like blaming body odour for being on your body instead of going to take a shower with soap.

This kind of thing can only happen when a weak man is present.
Woman that he is supposed to handle with iron Titanium hand.
Women are generally powerless creatures and only get away with what they are allowed to get away with!

That's whats up. Solid babe. Enjoyment 2018 by the grace of God!

As to the haters that so evidently fill this thread, go read up on what happened to David's wife when she was giving him shade for openly praising God. Na una wahala be that.

Serious waste of okpo

ubunja:
which reminds me of Genesis 3:16:
"Unto the woman He said I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." (KJV)
which other Bible versions have put like so:
"Then he said to the woman, "I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you" (New Living Translation)
" to the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.” (English Standard Version)
" to the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your labor pains; with pain you will give birth to children. You will want to control your husband, but he will dominate you." (NET bible)

LOOOOL that spirit to challange a man and wrestle for control is nothing but you fulfilling Bible prophecy.and just like the Bible says the man will rule over you at the end of the day.

Teach them

LadyMarionette:
Kai, my God will not agree o. He will vex and sit me down to tell me: Marion, I'm very disappointed in you. The reason I give you dissatisfaction and rebellious heart which manifests itself over time is so that you can inspire change. The world was not meant to be static. You don't expect me to wipe the slate clean every single time that I want progress. You are a dynamic system running on autopilot.

And I'll say: the man, whom you've created as the head, wants things to stay how you've made them.

Then he'll scoff: The man? Don't make me laugh. Haven't you learnt any thing from the parable of the talents? Give me fulfilled potential. Don't mind the man, he was only my first attempt at creating the human being, so he definitely isn't perfect. But you.....you are my opus magnum, and I'm counting on you to make this world what I intended for it to be. Do not let me down. Don't go back into the kitchen.

This your "god" must be Satania herself.
Not the God I know.

At the end of the day Humans should look for humans, and animals should look for animals.
There. Case closed.

Pataricatering:
She will move on ! Why do women carry man like they married them in heaven before God sent down together ? No man is obligated to marry you if he doesn’t want to - same if it were a woman ! It’s only African women that don’t mind a man marrying them even out of pity as long as he marries them ! It’s obvious from the story there were no serious emotions - it was just a case of man abroad and woman will marry him based on abroad arrangement . He probably met the friend and developed something stronger with her - sad but now t the end of the world!

Exactly! She was probably boring as Bleep too.
You can derive this when she says things like "I'm not the s*x type".
To me when I hear that I just assume she is a bore.

Sex is important to a man. He needs to be teased by his woman or he just won't take her seriously when another sharp babe comes along.
Few things disgust a guy than thinking "If I marry this one now, na iya she go dey do for my house with wrapper instead of sisi with mini-skirt". No time.

soberdrunk:
I find it rather insulting and demeaning when words like "snatched" and "stole" are used when referring to men, as if we are handbags

THIS. It's not fair. Men have a friend-zone too you know?

Imagine how pathetic a guy would look saying that some girl who put him in the friendzone was "snatched" by a sharp guy.

With the right woman, you too can do like Jeff Bezos and Found the most valuable company in the world i.e Amazon.

http://www.businessinsider.com/jeff-bezos-wife-mackenzie-2017-11/#mackenzie-became-an-accountant-for-amazon-and-was-one-of-the-companys-earliest-employees-8

This is impossible and dangerous for a man.
Only women can do this.

Even pastor's wife these days has to be the hottest MILF in church otherwise pastor will we snatched.

Hmm...I would commend her on the seed but let her know not to do such again without consulting me.
Now really, it also depends on the financial dynamic in your marriage.

Does she make her salary available for family improvement? Or is you guys marriage the type where the woman just keeps her money and says "what's yours is ours, whats mine is mine".

I asked Google a question: "chartered plane cost?"

This is what google said:

How much does it cost to charter a jet? Hourly charter rates vary from about $1,200 to $8,500 per flight hour, depending on the type of aircraft you require.

Take close inspection to the term "per flight hour".
In Naija, I expect this rate to be about $3500 - $4500 per flight hour.

So 50 hours of flying in a month (for the busy apostle) => $175k - $225k per month => 2.1M - 2.7M per year.

Sounds expensive.

Let's look at owning an aircraft....

google: "Cost of ownership airplane"

Cheapest 2nd hand plane I could find was https://www.avbuyer.com/aircraft/private-jets/bombardier-learjet/55/290593 for like 500k.
Somehow, I think this one might be too old for our nigerian daddy GOs (built 1982) and it might even have problems. They might insist on something more modern like https://www.avbuyer.com/aircraft/private-jets/cessna-citation/cj4/351190 for over 7.2mil. Notice the difference between the cockpits. The less manual things to do when flying a plane the better for safety.

If daddy GO requires an even flashier donkey than that, a brand new private jet can set you back AT LEAST 24mil.

Anyway that aside, besides the cost of the actual plane, "it can cost between $700,000 to $4 million per year to run your own aircraft". So let's just say $2million a year for maintenance.

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Now that the numbers have been found...It's hard to really still say which is better as it depends on the scenarios and realities of that ministry's needs.

In conclusion: There is sense in owning a plane...IF YOU INSIST ON TRAVELING AROUND SO MUCH AND DON'T WANT TO MINGLE WITH THE MASSES. More saving avenues if pastors were also trained pilots. It's a skill that can be learned and you would be even more useful to the kingdom of God.

At the end of the day, it pains me that a man as wealthy as Warren Buffet is the one teaching us about curbing excesses and not our very own kingdom workers.

I think this goes beyond just "girl asking guy out".
If they are already in a relationship, most women do not compliment their men.
They feel they are the only one's that should be complimented.
They fear complimenting him will "make his head big".

Most girlfriends proceed in this light foolishly, until Nkiru starts using her sweet-mouth to toast the guy with words he has never heard a woman say to him before. He may not show it as per man, but dude is giggling like a flustered schoolgirl inside at Nkiru's sweet-mouth

This is how small, insecure girls get usurped.

All Alpha women must read this book before doing anything with a man.

http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/02/08/society-is-creating-new-crop-alpha-women-who-are-unable-to-love.html

AdaezeJesus:
Hi, am Mary Ogochukwu from Anambra state but based in Enugu state. Am 25 and a graduate. Am à devoted Christian girl searching for true love. Am averagely tall and slim fair and beautiful. Genotype is AA. Desiring a dark handsome igbo guy 28-33 graduate and working. A lover of God's word and righteousness. Here's my watspp number 07035652266

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