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uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

Lungdick:
are we to soak all together

Borntosmoke:
One girl just slapped me beacuse we had an arguments and I called her broke Olosho, my head is still ringing on how I'm going to deal with her. Because I don't like beating woman. My niggas have been telling me to beat her. But, I just dey pity her make I no kill person. I hate it when someone doesn't fear me. I'm looking for another way to deal with her. My Redpillers abeg give me advice??

saintbillion:
God4bit. The difference between a mother love and wife love. Anything your mother does for you, is for your survival, Anything your wife does for you is for Her survival.
I can never love my wife more than my mother.

alpharoyalty:
I feel I'm the only person on this forum that understand you.
May I wish that you create a website or blog to share your information instead of nairaland because I feel a lot of people are not ready for the truth.

brain54:
Lol at smoke lizard shi.t…

Seems everybody is smoking something these days.


Anyway my issue with you our truth is that you create and abandon threads and then move on to create new ones.


Not cool!

OurTruth24:
I would have gladly engaged you in debate, but you are actually not making any sense. The other Christian lady I quoted made some sense, but you are talking like you smoked the lizard shit you accused me of smoking.

oteneaaron:
Sure thing!

Keep up the good work and let no one deter you.

Truth is stranger than fiction.

People will only fear and hate what they do not understand.

Karlifate:
"A blunt a day keeps the drama away."

You're not adhering to your siggy.

Karlifate:
A quick glance at their pictures, shows the girl is the dominant one in the relationship.

mymadam:
Babe, isn't it time for you to financially assist the dude? U follow chop im ego nau, right? Chai, dis life no balance, at all, at all 🤔

Fedrick100:
When we started dating at 2021 , I thought she was an Angel in human form, she was a virgin then and i was the one that disflowered her. This guy can do anything to make sure I’m okay, i don’t really know she hid her through character because of the benefits she’s getting when i wasn’t broke


Then 2022 August period when things become difficult for me her attitude changed all of a sudden, she Became selfish and Toxic, Even when I was broke throughout last year, i still celebrated her birthday got her gifts. Fast forward to this February that was my birthday, she couldn’t get a gift for me even when she had the money.

This morning i was telling her how she has been acting since I become broke and how selfish she has become,all of a sudden she told me she’s no longer interested in the relationship

Pharaohny:

Jennyclay:
That woman beater should be arrested for physical assault.

It's her fundamental human rights to support whoever she wants to support. So why raise your filthy hands on her? .

Stupid men everywhere!!