₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
Yes I love basmati rice. Very very much.

Walmart does sell parboiled rice too in case you’ve never been there. And since Costco is out, they are naturally my next choice because of their big size and likelihood of having supply.

Yea but do they sell the ones 90% of Nigerians in abroad eat? I know Samsclub does but Walmart? Perhaps the ones in Atlanta just don't have it, either way Basmati, really? ***Looking at you funny***

Knowledge is power and without it a lot will perish! Americans are used to the flu virus, Corona is just a new strain of the flu virus. Hundreds die yearly from the flu virus in the USA it is nothing new, in fact I've had the flu this year and it took almost a week to feel better. The people who would die from the Corona are those with compromised immune system, the elderly or smokers. The fact reamins simple, if you are used to malaria yearly and you no die, Corona no fit do you anything, all the panic and mayhem is because most Europeans and Americans(White) already have poor immune system due to their diet and climate, this is not Ebola wey be say if you don get am, na death sure pass. The chance of dying from Corona is lesser than that of food poisoning or malaria, so make we all chill abeg!

cococandy:
I went to buy rice . Even Walmart is out of rice.
Costco is out of toilet paper and all the stores even online are out of cleaning solutions and sanitizers.
All major activities closed and schools closed.
All we need is zombies and the apocalypse will be complete.

Who the hell buys rice at Walmart? You sure say you be Nigerian sef, abi you are one of those wey dey chop Bismanti or one of those fancy rice...yuck

Unlawful imprisonment, kidnapping and slavery is now part of the Nigerian Constitution. There is no way we can act like Buhari is not part of this. Who be Ganduje? Who are the state council? A word from Buhari would squash this immediately but it is obvious they've turned their backs on Sanusi hence he is on his own. Even ordinary protest or social media outrage he won't get, when the zoo is against you, your own don finish be that. Yesterday it was Sowore, today it is Sanusi, don't be surprised if it is Tinubu tomorrow.....Sad!

Latashia:
Don't just talk when you don't know whats happening to her.

Ok next time a wife steals her husband's money, he has the right to tie her up and attempt to murder her. Na wa o, may frustrations no let us reason like animals....AMEN!

Bad people get cheated on, good people get cheated on. The trick here is to prepare yourself for the worst case scenario. Do you want to live long or you don't want to see bad things? You can only choose one! This issue here isn't even about cheating cos people cheat all the time but having the GUTS to bring a man into your matrimonal home, romping on your matrimonal bed.....That's gangsta!

These people are animals, plain & simple! As someone from an Islamic background and often a supporter of the religion, YOU SIMPLY CANNOT FIGHT FOR ALLAH! Burning his house, arresting his parents, FOR WHAT? Name the Consitutional law that he violated? Unless Sharia Law supercedes the Nigerian Constitution in which case I say to hell with this demonic nation called Nigeria, let everyone go their separate ways!

You Nigerians think say na only una get craze, oyingbo craze is using 5G

Vietnam: All that were infected are now cured.

Sensible Human: How were they cured?

Vietnam: WE BURNED THEM

Me: Bomboclaat!

Michellekabod2:
You didnt comprehend my post and yet offered a rebuttal not related to my post.
Norms are more of stereotype a society adapts,both men and women are influenced by this.
I never and will never endorse conforming to norms ,I only made mention of norms to buttress my point. Where did I say norms are to be practiced by males or females only?

You call providing for the family a privilege and not a right,so why do men believe being the home maker that cooks and take Care of the kids is their right?why don't they also see it as a privilege?
I made a comparison of praising a woman for enduring cheating and bullshit from a man and a woman praising her husband for just being faithful.
Did I made mention of submissiveness or being a home maker?
Please read my posts carefully.



I know many women that are contented with the fact that their husbands don't cheat or get drunk . Thats enough for her to idolize him. Each time I complain of my dad my mum will say "be grateful for your dad,he doesn't have kids outside,he doesn't drink etc"
But for a man to praise a woman it means she did the extraordinary like giving up her career, enduring his baggage like (smoking,drinking,chasing girls and domestic violence).

It seems you had a very rough childhood hence the bias in your statements. Let's examine your quote:

You call providing for the family a privilege and not a right,so why do men believe being the home maker that cooks and take Care of the kids is their right?why don't they also see it as a privilege?

Here's your initial statement:

Most times married ladies praise men for doing the "norm" ,for simply fulfilling their gender roles.
Most times married men praise women for enduring bullshit and turning herself into a slave and not for fufilling her gender roles.

You are the one that believes men fulfilling gender roles is the norm but when a woman does the same it is not seen as such. I only pointed out the hypocrisy in such statements. You obviously believe a woman taking care of the home, being submissive is equal to being a slave rather than her just fulfilling her gender role hence my rebuttal.

Moving on, any woman that you see contented with her husband not showing any sign of progress or goals is FOOLISH at best and WICKED at worst! How do you know what women are praised for or not? You mean generally men don't appreciate their submissive wife? You mean they don't praise how delicious her food tastes? You mean they are not proud when she visits her in-laws and she is celebrated? Perhaps you mean, husbands don't appreciate their wives managing their financial resources wisely? I'm trying to figure out how you came to your conclusion because as a guy, I can tell you EMPHATICALLY that we boast about our wives submissiveness and resourcefulness. It is only a foolish man that would take such things for granted in this age of feminist wannabees. Just like women praise their husband for buying them things and staying faithful, we men value such sentimental things as well. Do not deceive yourself, every marriage is different, the dyanmics of one should not be compared to another. Your experience stems from that of your parents, you'll be surprised another person might have a way different point of view based on his or her own experiences.

Michellekabod2:
Most times married ladies praise men for doing the "norm" ,for simply fulfilling their gender roles.
Most times married men praise women for enduring bullshit and turning herself into a slave and not for fufilling her gender roles.

Can you see the difference?

Women will give testimonies of how their husband has not cheated . while men will give testimony of how he gives his wife #200 to cook soup and she hands him over pounded yam and soup with five chunks of meat. Or he gives testimony of how despite his cheating,she stayed with him.


How are the scenarios the same?

You're exaggerating! 200 Naira for soup, abeg be serious! What do you call norm? Who gave you the definition of norm? As a guy if I chose not to build a house, to remain in my father's house in the village and not to buy a car, would you as a woman love me unconditionally? men aspire to be more because the burden has already been placed on their head. Taking care of you, building a house, buying cars, paying school fees for the kids, these things that you call norm are not your RIGHTS but privileges. Now as a woman if you feel taking care of your husband, being the homemaker, being submissive should not be the norm, then ask yourself. WHO'S THE SELFISH ONE HERE?

Michellekabod2:
To a man,a good wife is one that submits to him,tolerate him,compromise for him. Just he,himself and him.

What men call good in a woman is what benefits them not the woman themselves.
You can never see a man praise his wife saying "she is a strong woman,pursued her dreams and goal,made a name for himself. I admire her confidence,her diligence and how she takes Care of herself". It always has to be "I love her so much,she sacrificed for ME,made compromises for ME, stood by ME and endured MY excesses"

A woman's need is never in a man's agenda.

Today a man opened a thread praising his wife, all I saw was celebrating self centeredness and encouraging women to settle for the less(when men aren't willing to settle for less).


Self duty is the best form of sacrifice.

So what then does women call good in a man? Being responsible? A good provider? Remembering anniversaries, valentine & birthdays? Forsaking other women? Putting her above his own family? A man being all these things is it a benefit to only himself or for the woman as well? What if a man just wants to be average, live modest life? Would most women be okay with that?

otipoju:
You can wake a man that is sleeping. You cant wake a man that is pretending to be sleeping. I leave you to your delusions. Cheers.

Have you tried pouring cold water on the man that is pretending to sleep? Cheers

otipoju:
Na so una go dey find trouble. State ur opinion and keep it moving, you dey call somebody papa kid. Better respect yourself.

Tell me that a bleeding ear and all that blood from wilder's nose is scripted. Na Wrestling you call an. All those 4 deaths in the ring last year is scripted. Chairman respect yourself I warn you.

Kid is not by age alone, an ignorant person is also a kid besides I'm also someone's papa and there are quite a few people who can still call me kid, everyone get oga . I'm glad you used wrestling as an example, do you belive with all the scripting in wrestling, the wrestlers still suffer serious injuries SHOCKING! If you no sabi something simply ask and if you can't then stick your warning for your fellow ignoramus!

otipoju:
Na boxing is not orchestrated. Its far too dangerous to be scripted. Wilder willfully ignored the basics of boxing and paid dearly for it against a proper fearless and very technical boxer.

AJ will destroy Fury though. Fury remains a pillow fist.

Go and sleep kid, you must know the legendary Don King and the mafias of New York. Here are some famous shady events in boxing:

https://bleacherreport.com/articles/965780-13-most-shocking-scandals-in-boxing-history#slide10

People don't realize how boxing works nowadays. This dude is going to get a rematch and depending on who the powers that be wants to win, he might end up regaining his title just like Joshua did. Just like Joshua's first fight with Ruiz, something just felt off the whole night almost as if it was orchestrated. It will be interesting to see what happens next...Popcorn

Good move by the bank, bastaard child of bastard upbringing. Firing squad next!

Charleys:
Quote one part of the Constitution to buttress you claim.

Read the Child's Rights Act of 2003, I know you're lazy so let me quote it for you:

68.-( 1)Where the father and mother of a child were not married to each other
at the time ofthe birth of the child-
(a) the Family Court established under section 153 of this Act may-
(i) on the application of the father, order that he shall have parental
responsibility for the child, or
(ii) on the application of the mother, order that she shall have parental
responsibility for the child, or
(b) the father and mother may by agr .uent have joint parental responsibility
for the child.

DO YOU SEE ANY MENTION OF THE MOTHER'S PARENTS OR TRIBESMEN

tunapawizzy:
which of the courts of law ma?

Abi, you dey mind the drunkards

Armaggedon:
Matters haven't gotten serious yet until another man marries the chioma girl. Davido has no Legal basis to claim the child of a girl who still lives under her parents. If he does that then that is not different from a rapist coming back to claim the fruit of his rape. funny you're rather the person who see women as incubators for random men. the same thing Igbo tradition protects them from.

You're joking right? Please remove the term "legal"! If we are talking legally, your quote is entirely rubbish! Better review the 9ja Constitution so that you don't land in trouble one day with this your comical tribal beliefs

SyrusdeHansome:
Get out!

Get in!

Illiteracy/ignorance is Africa's biggest ailment. Imagine learned and respectable political office holders believing a problem can only be solved by further imposing more restrictions on its citizens. So today it is cow, what tomorrow? Chicken, cars, jean, etc?

SARS will not end anytime soon until one son or daughter of a very influential person is killed. Even if they kill a thousand nobodies, our politician would turn a blind eye but let them kill the son of a Chieftain, Governor, Senator etc, GBAM.....Shine your eyes my people, average lives does not matter in 9ja!

shogsman:
Who the Fvck is the fool,typical Nigerian always jumping the gun without anything upstairs,they respect you and they banned your ass from coming to their country,how much more dumb can you be,for all I know you haven’t even been to the USA talk less of Europe how d Fvck would you know how things work there.you read craps online and suddenly you think you know something

Comedy....You deduced all that from a simple statement online, your mouth just dey run bonkers like Atlanta weather....ODE!

shogsman:
Not wasting my time on you,you just proved my point,it is people like you that process American visa year after year like it’s your heaven,you got a pretty low self esteem if not you won’t need a foreigner to validate your country and the fact that if gives you a feeling of EUPHORIA shows how far your level of asslicking is.people like you are why this countries keep treating us like shit.no self respect whatsoever.

Stop embarassing yourself. Even Americans are awed when Asians and/or Africans wave American flags and shout USA. It has nothing to do with low self esteem, must everything be war with you Nigerians....GTFO!

Exodora:
And you know some of this pastors berely have time for their children . It takes only the grace of God same with their wives.
Like I said earlier "teach a child the way he should go so that he does not depart from it .
Charlie Boy is not the only son of Oputa yet he chose that way of life.Many of them are the over pammered ones when they can't get those attentions again they drift to something else that is what I meant by he was a spoilt child.

I'm glad you used the example of Oputa's other children. Are you now saying Charlie Boy was spoiled and the rest of them were trained strictly? Perhaps all of them were spoiled and only Charlie Boy turned out rebellious? Either way you're making my point for me....lol.

Exodora:
Enlightment you say?
Even the Bible said train up a child in the way he should go so that when he is old he will not depart from it.
How can you give what you yourself don't have.
They spoilt that child believe it or not.

Then explain the case of a very strict pastor whose daughter ended up being a prostitute? Can you explain the case of Justice Oputa whose son ended up to be Charly Boy....Abeg human reasoning differs from divine reasoning!

Let me get this straight, the same Buhari that was replaced by an imposter, is now being controlled by his chief of staff? I'm confused here, did the imposter also lost his cognitive functions? Could it be that Buhari was never replaced in the first place? Could it be that this is another one of those made up lies? Could it be the truth? I guess we'll never know, this is what happenes when a country is run on 50% propaganda and 50% truth.

Exodora:
They failed as parents , they are not the first people that have adopted a child before.
Have seen many adopted children who grew to make their foster parents proud.

Blood is ticker than water yet we have many case where the parents don't have any form of criminal act in their vain but have one child that does.
They have failed as parents that is all I know cause they said the way you make your bed so will you lay on it , this boy is supposed to take care of them in near future but look at how they have allowed him rubbish his life wonder what will become of them when they are old and could not fed for theirselves.

Good parents can raise bad children, bad parents can raise good children. You can give your all to your child and he or she still ends up making the wrong decisions. You can choose not to give a f*ck about a child and that child ends up being the next CEO/President. Enlighten yourself!

Burna is who he is, he sees himself as self made and his only inspiration in the music industry is Fela. Now now, I know a lot of you whackos never believed in him in the first place hence the hypocritic outrage but look at Burna well well, does he look like he gives a f*ck? Old man Eedris was more arrogant in his days, from blasting his peers to blasting his own producers. Yet he has the guts to talk about Burna.....Wonders shall never end

We all know kneeling down to propose is for the hype and nothing else. 9ja girls after knacking a man for several years, discussing una future and everything else, still wants a man to go on his knees and propose, is this not hypocrisy? I only dated my wife for six months, once I confirmed she ticked all the right buttons, I told her I would like her to be my wife, met her parents, took her to the nearest jewelry store and that's it! No need for drama, no photos for social media, simple man to woman talk but I understand you kids of nowadays prefer the glam life, if it ain't on Instagram/Facebook it ain't real....lol.

The issue is very simple. Whenever you're out or driving. Activate guest mode on your phone. It only allows basic application and most of your private files are not shown. Another option if you're person with influence, be friendly with the DPO's and commanders in your area, Nigeria is a jungle so you must always be 2 steps ahead of stupidity!