₦airaland Forum

IamMobisola:
Oga you are a liar jare. It’s happening worldwide, in a case of a divorce mother gets the custody of the children except for the reasons I listed.

I'm not talking about worldwide I'm talking about Nigeria, if you don't know what you're talking about keep shut and seek knowledge! Calling me a liar is not an intellectual argument!

IamMobisola:
Lie of the century. Na him born the child with his womb? Lol. Except there’s a case sickness or mental disorder with the mother or if the mother poses a danger to the child(ren). The mother always gets custody of the child(ren), even here in Nigeria except of course the father is wealthy and dirty person who would rather bribe a judge to get custody.

I'm not here for the sentiments, go pull the data and check for yourself, grandfather was a judge and I also have two family members that are lawyers, please don't argue without doing adequate research!

angelboy01:
Bros see for this life everything no be gra gra. Doing all that might lead to regret later, I will advice he frees her for now. He should take care of his son. The guy sef get anger issues bros. Just because you are broke you start nagging, the thing is irritating bro, very irritating. The best is to control your emotions and put it in check. If after a while she doesn't accept coming back then it's up to him to move on or divorce her.

I have no issue with the wife, it is the in-laws that get problem. Man can get angry but as long as he is not physically abusive, the situation can still be resolved. Responsible in-laws find a way to resolve things not make it harder. The man has a right to fight for his son, it would be irresponsible for him to not do so.

Mr. man do you want to hear the truth or gibberish from people whose homes are not tidy itself? Concentrate on your son, hire a good lawyer, go to court and sue for custody. In Nigeria, the father gets to keep the child 90% of the time especially if the child is no longer a baby. Why did I say forget the woman? It is simple, she can be a nice lovely wife but her family's behavior is unacceptable. A good parent would call the husband over and find ways to resolve the issues not pour kerosene on it!

See, it is clear that they don't rate you and the best you can do is be a man and not show weakness in this situation. Yes you have anger issue, yes you said hurtful words but a wife that cannot discern the difference between anger and hate deserves to be single. Give her what she wants, time at her father's house but make sure you fight for your son, nothing more, nothing less.....RUBBISH!

JoeNL22:
You are talking from a political point of view.
I am talking from a moral point of view.
I want to ask you a question. Will you employ a sick dying man to run your company?

Ok then we're talking about two different things, morality in politics especially Nigerian politics is fantasy unless we want to deceive ourselves. Would I hire a dying man to run my company? Depends on the value of that dying man, we are all dying little by little every day, Steve Jobs had cancer for years before the illness took him, many other greats in history have had one ailment or another, let's stop being overly sentimental!

JoeNL22:
Is it in the constitution to greet your parents when you wake up in the morning?
Stop this nonsense. If we can't allow sick and unhealthy people into our establishments and organisations, why should allow them to run this country?

You're not making sense! Public position is different from a private entity. How GTB or any private firm chooses to screen applicants is completely different to how we elect public/political officials. Furthermore even if we ignore that, private companies only test for certain things (physical/blood work(HIV, Tuberculosis) they don't have access to your entire medical history.

omonnakoda:
80% of Nigerians do not have sextuplets

What is the cost of daily care in a Neonatal intensive Care Unit? FOR ONE CHILD
Just do a Google search from around the world

I'm not debating that, kindly look at the comment I responded to.

JoeNL22:
The last time I checked.
Health Is very important for you to function effectively and efficiently.
If you health is bad, you will continue with you job or take care of your health?
No matter the achievements, if your health is bad, nobody will want to employ you. UBA FOR example will demand you do medical examinations and test before they employ you. I have gone through the process. Therefore I know what am talking about. If you can't allow an unhealthy person to run your company. Why should you allow him to run our society?. Reason am!

Logic over emotions! A good idea will only see the light of day if due process is followed. Can you show where in the Nigerian Constitution that demands such tests be carried out on presidential candidates? If the requirements are not there, what makes you think anyone rich or poor would subject themselves to their health record being made public? Again, we must desist from wuruwuru to the answer or knee jerk reactions, an idea like this should have been brought up by the Legislative and voted into law.

casualobserver:
you cant afford to deliver them, how will you raise them? Are you going to again appeal to the public when it is time for school fees?

I'm pretty sure it won't cost 19 million to school them, also 80% of Nigerians don't have 10 million in their account.

ednut1:
this is false. The doctors, nurses, auditors, tech people being hired from Nigeria studied where The Nigerians in Canada and USA getting good jobs are also using their 9ja degrees

It's a game of percentages, if you took time to research the data, you'll discover less than 20% of Nigerian degree holders actually secure a professional job in their field without additional education/certification/training abroad. Once people set this realistic expectation, abroad can be very rewarding, either way having that bachelor/first degree is very crucial because it is way better than starting from scratch!

Thebigheart:
My people, I wan ask one question.
Wetin consign electricity generation with popcorn?

Because, when I listen to baba EMILOKAN, he said dem don chop dollaaaaaaar and Dem not fit generate electricity for popcorn.
NA FOR EDO STATE RALLY HE TALK AM.
So Electrical and Mechanical Engineer's in this forum. Is this a new invention from our bulaba?

Elderly supposed respect themselves.

Those who are not friends with saapa still use microwave or popcorn machine to make popcorn, this requires electricity most times. Those who are friends with saapa will prefer to do it the old school way of using fire

Kreddy:
Trash! you're spitting out nonsense!

He couldn't afford bread yet she bought bread, but the useless man ended up eating the bread. What a shameful man

If you actually believe this was about bread then you've not been paying attention. I doubt there's any man out there that would not put money down for bread and then have the guts to finish all the bread bought by the wife and leave nothing for the kids. Even possessed and evil men still have some bit of shame.

Bigchristo:
Donald Trump laid a bad legacy on ground, everyone in the world are looking up to the US govt that has been trying to champion democracy n trying to police the world, whereas they can’t even put their house in order, this move by Brazilians was copied from the riot at Capitol Hill

Isn't that the essence of democracy? More freedom to express thyself! There's no such thing as a perfect democracy, it's all about wants and needs, two things that is never truly constant. In contrast, dem born their papa well to try this under military era? Blood go flow like river.......For better or worse, democracy allows good and bad things to happen, a double edge sword!

waice6571:
God has spoken already.... Tinubu will win the election but Naira will get worse. Tinubu will pump money into the economy but the elites especially from the west will deny people from reaping the benefits of the money pumped into the economy.
Many will cry and beg for food in pains and agon.

This I have seen..

Better sell those eyes for recharge card

People actually believe Tinubu will not get 1 MILLION votes in Lagos? My advice to Obi is to not rely on these polls o, these people dey whine you ni o

alizma:
People are free to express their feelings but one person's expression doesn't represent everyone's. As much as there are bad police officer, there are also good ones.

Yes but when the bad ones outnumbers the good ones, it is time for the police force to be revamped from the top down. Even in the USA bad police exist and many do hate the police but overall people still thank God for the ability to use 911 because they do their job, in Nigeria na OYO people dey, na you sef go blame yourself why you involved police

With such a dire state of the nation, who do we want in charge next? Experience vs inexperience? Negotiator vs hype? Someone that can convince the Legislative branch to rewrite the Constitution vs someone that will never have the support of the Legislative branch?

Talk is cheap and ideas are lovely but useless without the will and determination to implement. One man can never fix Nigeria but the ability of that man to surround himself with bright minds and realist just might be what the country needs......VOTE WISELY, VOTE REALITY NOT FANTASY!

Surely we are living in a simulation, 10,000 naira for a life? If these ones meet wealthy man or politician that is willing to pay 500,000 Naira or more, OMO dem go kill the entire village o....CHAI ABOMINATION!

Lekan239:
you should also know a job that pays $10 per hour in Los Angeles, Seattle and New York, same job will pay $7 or $8per hour in Montana and Alabama.

Which is $28,000 annually without tax. Poverty things

Even that amount is not poverty in Alabama, you can search USA federal poverty guideline, you would be surprised at what is actually considered poverty

Lekan239:
$100 per day is about $3,000 per month. $3000 for one month for usa is poverty. Very deep poverty

Depends on where you live, $36,000 a year is not poverty for a single or married person, in fact the government does not even consider it poverty for a married couple with one child. In reality that amount is more than adequate for Montana, Alabama etc. but it would be suicidal in places like Los Angeles, Seattle and New York.

BloomingDale:
The white people are just better at hiding theirs. Do you know most white children are born with tails, but they are cut off at birth?

Did you pull that stat out of your ass?

Just stop eating shit......90% of these weird cases can be traced to India or one Asian country, so much weird shit going on wouldn't be surprised if Satan herself reincarnates from there

Next time you hear the name Brentford just know say wahala loading......Only Arsenal don escape dem which almost means Arsenal might actually win this thing this year.....Chai

Farfalla:
You don't get my point. I'm not in support of the woman withholding of sex (although there could exist valid reasons for this). My post was a response to the OP's post where he claimed he's good in bed and knows many sexual styles, thus ruling out "poor performance" as a possible reason as to why his wife hates being intimate (with him).

He's talking about knowing many "styles" like it's what makes a man good in bed, when we know that's not the case.

All that regurgitated crap about the OP being a "simp" with no control over his wife is irrelevant to my point.

You're only partially right but being a simp is quite relevant here, even if a guy is a poor performer, if he paid your bride price you better service him and if you don't then be prepared to end the marriage. The OP coming on Nairaland to ask for advice when he should already know the right thing to do is SIMPING 101, forget grammar, we are built differently, abi OP is handicapped?

We all know Obasanjo would never endorse Atiku, those two hate each other with passion but I was expecting baba to show Yoruba solidarity but then again the same man has never done anything for the Yorubas so I am not actually surprised.

Farfalla:
You must be a novice if you believe knowing "many styles" is what makes a man a good lover in bed. I'll never for the life of me understand this crazy fascination novice lovers have with sexual styles.

Find out what your wife wants before sex, during sex and after sex. The pre-sex atmosphere especially is crucial to many women. Was there a time she used to enjoy being intimate with you? If she gets to share one or two good sexual experience(s) with you, I swear to you she'll be the one initiating it.

Sex is not just about whipping out peñis and inserting it into her like USB drive into a port, while making formal inquiries about which style she may want to explore. Or worse, you begin to talk about mattress foam density and the science behind manufacturing mattresses while fumbling with peñis and then expecting explosive sex under such atmosphere. If you like, do headstand or coil around each other like serpents. If she's not turned on before the act, your "performance" is dead on arrival.

"I sabi many styles" my foot!

All that one na rubbish, person wey love you go stylishly teach you how he or she wants to be loved, you don't have to turn yourself into professor bedmatics overnight. Honestly una too dey make this thing complicated, the Op is a simp that probably has no control of his won home. No woman wey man paid her bride price and does his responsibilities has any right to deny a man of sex, NO WOMAN! Ruling out health issues and occasional tiredness or emotional imbalance, the woman serves at the pleasure of her husband and vice versa, if she refuses to serve then the marital agreement becomes null and void!

In a country like Nigeria, a simple autopsy won't even get done, they might discover the true cause of death such as abortion. I find it perplexing a daughter would be so bold to use her father's phone to call her boyfriend at age 16. Makes no damn sense!

Nothing to see here, this one na family matter, LP is PDP, PDP is LP.....Know this and know peace......JOKERS

Agbegbaorogboye:
It's not my fault you're dull at heart.
It's not my fault you're a lying ignorant biatch
Fuçk off

Werey Idumota, e pain am

MrColdsweat:
American owners ruined Liverpool with their silly transfer model. After they bought liverpool we didn't win the league for 30 years. Na iron condemn scrap like this we been dey buy. Ngog, konchesky, degen etc
We had to take hicks and Gillett to court to force them to sell the club.


I wish chelsea well.

American owners haven't owned Liverpool for 30 years put down that expired weed right now!

Agbegbaorogboye:
Lol. Look at this dafto.
English is your problem.
In sane climes, police don't carry assault weapons for traffic duty. That much is clear.
In Nigeria, we have multiple agencies saddled with traffic duty so police in Nigeria shouldn't even be doing traffic duty especially in low risk areas like Lagos. In Lagos, there's LASTMA, VIO and FRSC who are all for traffic management. None of them are armed and that has never prevented them from being effective at their jobs. That shows that the police don't even need to be armed to do traffic duty in a place like Lagos. That was the first point I made that you're too dumb to digest.
Secondly, even if they need to be armed, it should not be with an assault weapon. That's my second point to which you retorted that I can't decide for the police what to carry.
It's on that premise the other guy came in to correct you but here you are still saying nonsense.
You're calling for police reforms but still believe they should carry an assault rifle for routine traffic duty.
You're not smart at all.

Professor, you still haven't shown where you specifically said they should replace the assault riffles with a pistol. I'm looking at your original comment right now, no mention of pistol, are you mad? Stop wasting my time with your useless rants, show me where you said pistol or forever hold your peace.

Agbegbaorogboye:
Not my fault you're deficient in English comprehension coupled with your lying ability.
This was a post from you and this was my response. Now you're backtracking when you're beginning to realise how daft you sound.
Seems lying is in your blood

Still you haven't shown where in your original post you mentioned repeatedly that pistol is okay, until you show me that you're just ranting like a buffoon, everything I said remains the same, no be you go tell police wetin dem fit carry to defend themselves, the law right now allows them to carry riffles if you no like am insist on your leaders to change the law, your useless ranting ain't gon solve shin shin.