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FamilyRe: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by abidem4real: 8:34am On Jun 29, 2021
AmazonTopaz:
Shut up
E choke

FamilyRe: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by abidem4real: 9:43pm On Jun 28, 2021
AmazonTopaz:
The husband doesn't know how to communicate to her,the husband ignores her and keeps malice with her.

You skipped those bad sides of his to focus on her alone and what she did wrong which I wouldn't excuse but why do women like you know how to absorb men of blame?

Also @bolded parts,Using the word 'obey' for an adult doesn't seem right respect is the better word or listening which for me should apply to both of them.

Also what if the husband's decision is wrong the woman shouldn't voice her displeasure on it and correct him?she should always be a yes sir yes sir woman Ah huh

Call me modern or whatever but in a civilised household a husband should not make the final decision and always override his wife without getting to understand her view point.I don't understand that kind of marriage but as for me I have never submitted to rubbish.A woman can also have a final say at times because she can be right as well.
The writer does not require your type. All that she wants is advice and way forward to keep her home because it seems she still loves her husband and hence the need for people to pinpoint on her faults as written by her and to tell her what to do in order to safeguard her home.

Your type can never have a peaceful home and therefore, your advice is clearly unwanted because you can't give what you don't have.
FamilyRe: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by abidem4real: 9:12pm On Jun 28, 2021
Kriss216:
That's good.

I love seeing Nigerian girls in this situation. It gives me joy. It makes me have faith in restoration of brains for SIMP.le guys.


If you're a lady here, you've gone through heartbreak or you're going through heartbreak, DM me.







I want to scatter that heart kpata kpata cool
Guy, ti a ko ba gbagbe oro ana, a kii r'eni ba sere naw! Honestly, if we real and good men think about how we've been unreasonably and callously dealt with emotionally by the beasts called women, we would want to shoot them at sight.
But, we have to take solace in the fact that they(women that abandoned us) have always regretted their actions after meeting with their waterloo occasioned by Carma.
PoliticsRe: Igboho On Planned Lagos Rally: Some People Threatening To Kill Us In Lagos by abidem4real: 8:21pm On Jun 28, 2021
Kingosytex:
This guy should thread with caution. Naija GUNment is evil and deadly. Even the devil fears Naija GUNmentundecided
You are right but I believe God of suffering masses and Yoruba ancestors are behind him. I wish him and Yoruba nation a success
CelebritiesRe: TAMPPAN Warns Iyabo Ojo And Nkechi Blessing Over Reckless Abuses by abidem4real: 8:12pm On Jun 28, 2021
adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/We-wont-tolerate-Iyabo-Ojo-Nkechi-Blessings-reckless-abuses-TAMPPAN
Everybody is a sinner in one way or the other. Sin is sin! Let those lousy speakers stop shouting on Baba Ijesha's case and face their lives. Pots calling kettles black!
PoliticsRe: Ayade Stops Salaries Of Aides, LG Chairmen, Others Who Refused To Join APC by abidem4real: 7:53pm On Jun 28, 2021
PoliticsRe: Ayade Stops Salaries Of Aides, LG Chairmen, Others Who Refused To Join APC by abidem4real: 7:52pm On Jun 28, 2021
ElectroLyte:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/ayade-stops-salaries-of-aides-lg-chairmen-others-who-refused-to-join-apc/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter
Is this part of their plans to remain perpetually in office? I guess they have forgotten God in their plans. I dey laugh oooo
PoliticsRe: CJN Orders Justice Olasunbo To Retake Oath After Mentioning Allah by abidem4real: 7:47pm On Jun 28, 2021
Ctorch:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/470391-cjn-orders-new-appeal-court-judge-to-retake-oath-after-mentioning-allah.html?fbclid=IwAR0ppC144OKbfcN9-J1y7usvwxRFfmOlK4NFGAvOdm_obnUs5Nxd1FIusjE
Hmmmm! I think from whom much is given, much is required.
Sometimes I wonder why Nigerian politicians become terrified, trembled, quaking and shivering at the sound, voice or hearing the name of Bubu. But little do I know that only the saint and blameless would be bold like a lion and vice versa
RomanceRe: As A Single Father, Who Is Better To Be Remarried To Between A Single Mother And by abidem4real(op): 6:20pm On Jun 28, 2021
frozen70:
To me, I think you should look for a matured woman to marry

Maturity plays a big role in every thing especially relationships

A single mother would be a better option because she knows what it is to have a child and care for the child

A spinster would be an option if she is willing to help you with the raising of your children, just be sure she will be humble in doing it

Any woman that wants to come into your life must love those children more, than loving you
Wise saying! Thanks
CrimeRe: Baba Ijesha Undergoes Medical Examination For Stooling And Coughing Out Blood by abidem4real: 5:12pm On Jun 28, 2021
FalseProphet1:
See what he's going through simply because he couldn't control his 3rd leg, another was murdered over the same issue last week, if men don't learn to control their sexual urges, by 2023, there would be less than 10% of the total number of men today alive, the rest will have been driven to early graves through the same same hole they came into this world from.

This I have seen.
Welcome palmist
CrimeRe: Jude Eze: LASTMA Officials Absconded With My Bleeding Wife, Stole N150,000 by abidem4real: 4:41pm On Jun 28, 2021
Sir, I think you're the foolish man here due to your comprehension problem coupled with your inability to read thoroughly, if not, you wouldn't have been blaming the poor man in this matter.

#ReadWellBeforeComment
RomanceRe: As A Single Father, Who Is Better To Be Remarried To Between A Single Mother And by abidem4real(op): 6:58pm On Jun 27, 2021
Womanizer:
It's better you go for a single mother or a widow.

She already knows that she's disadvantaged therefore she will do everything to win the hearts of your children so that the marriage will work
Hmmmm!
RomanceRe: As A Single Father, Who Is Better To Be Remarried To Between A Single Mother And by abidem4real(op): 10:19am On Jun 27, 2021
Amotolongbo:
It is better for you to look for a widow sir or single mother. But make sure you do a thorough research and ascertain on why the woman became a single mother

The single may not take care of you and your children sir. I guess this is your reason for wanting to marry again. A single woman might not be able to do this and many issues may arise between the children and the new wife
Thanks
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Umah Udah Dresses Like A Warlord To Church (Pictures) by abidem4real: 9:54am On Jun 27, 2021
Mrincredy:
The Senior pastor of a faith-based church(Tower of Revelation Ministry) in enyimba city of Aba, Apostle Umah Udah shocked everyone on sunday when he came to church dressed like an Ohafia warlord.The man of God who hails from Akanu Ohafia is incidentally a prince too and as a way of promoting the rich culture of the African people chose to minister this past sunday dressed like a warlord.

This act has generated mixed reactions among Nigerians with many however commending the clergy for promoting the African culture while calling on other men of God and celebrities to toe the same line.




Front page pls
Hahaha! I think the fear of unknown gunmen is now the beginning of fortification
RomanceAs A Single Father, Who Is Better To Be Remarried To Between A Single Mother And by abidem4real(op): 9:44am On Jun 27, 2021
I've been a single and responsible father for some years now and I'm contemplating on getting remarried. The bottom line is, who should I go for between a single mother and a spinster? Advice and without insult please ......
CrimeRe: Chidinma Ojukwu: I Don’t Want To Die Over Usifo Ataga's Case by abidem4real: 8:01am On Jun 27, 2021
NairalandProf:
https://punchng.com/exclusive-i-dont-want-to-die-alleged-killer-of-super-tv-ceo-cries-out/
You don't want to die but you can kill? You killed a once living soul like you who even happened to be your man friend over what? Is it over your already uselessly sexually massacred pussy you are carrying around? You should even be grateful that someone was helping you oiling it. Shameless gender! Women are just beasts in human skin.
Foreign AffairsRe: Matt Hancock Resigns As Britain's Health Secretary Over Kissing Scandal by abidem4real: 7:53am On Jun 27, 2021
wwwihy:
Previous thread:


https://www.nairaland.com/6620412/matt-hancock-gina-coladangelo-kissing

Matt Hancock, Britain's beleaguered health secretary, resigns after being caught kissing aide

Matt Hancock resigned as Britain's Health Secretary Saturday, one day after he apologized for breaching Covid regulations.

The married politician was pictured kissing and embracing his adviser, with whom British tabloid The Sun alleges he is having an affair. The newspaper reported that the images were from May 6, two weeks before cross-household contact was allowed indoors in England

I've been to see the Prime Minister to resign as Secretary of State for Health and Social care... Those of us who make these rules have got to stick by them, and that's why I've got to resign," Hancock said in a video posted on his Twitter page.
"I'm very proud of what we've done to protect the NHS at the peak, to deliver that vaccine rollout -- one of the fastest in the world -- and I look forward to supporting the government and the Prime Minister from the backbenches," he added.
In a letter to Boris Johnson, he apologized writing, "I want to reiterate my apology for breaking the guidance and apologise to my family and loved ones for putting them through this."

The Sun's report had sparked accusations of apparent cronyism -- an allegation that the health secretary has faced previously for awarding a contract to a former neighbor for Covid-19 test kits.
Hancock has been under pressure for months over his handling of the coronavirus pandemic in Britain, but had managed to cling onto his role.
He was accused by Prime Minister Boris Johnson's former chief adviser Dominic Cummings of botching the country's coronavirus testing program, as well as lying about the dire situation in care homes and the shortage of personal protective equipment (PPE). Hancock has denied the claims.
To date, more than 128,000 people have died in the United Kingdom from Covid-19 -- the highest death toll in Europe. One of the biggest early failures of the UK's response to Covid-19 was in building a test-and-trace system. The British government has also been criticized for neglecting care homes, allowing many facilities to go without sufficient PPE, testing and clear guidelines.

https://www.cnn.com/2021/06/26/uk/uk-health-secretary-matt-hancock-resigns-gbr-intl/index.html
How I wish I was White! The way dem colour be the way dem brain be. A whole country is perishing here, no action not even sympathy or empathy not to talk of resignation. Africans and their brains!!!
CrimeRe: Pastor Richard Onyekachukwu Plans His Kidnap, Demands N10m Ransom by abidem4real: 7:22pm On Jun 26, 2021
PoliticsRe: Ife-Ifewara Road: Senate Hails RCCG, Asks FG’s Contractors To Refund ₦140M by abidem4real: 1:22pm On Jun 26, 2021
Lexusgs430:
RCCG try......


What is Oyedepo, Oyakhilome etc etc doing.........
Busy collecting tithes and offerings from their magas
Foreign AffairsRe: Helicopter Carrying Colombia's President Ivan Duque Struck By Bullets In Attack by abidem4real: 9:35am On Jun 26, 2021
Christianity EtcRe: SCOAN: Evelyn Joshua Emerges As Successor Of TB Joshua - African News by abidem4real: 9:15am On Jun 26, 2021
topmag2019:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.africanews.com/amp/2021/06/24/who-is-evelyn-joshua-who-is-to-succeed-nigeria-s-televangelist-tb-joshua/
When you marry a sound, reasonable, intelligent, Godly and an educated wife, your things will never fall apart either in your presence or in your absence. I wish Evelyn a successful spiritual journey.

CelebritiesRe: Baba Ijesha: “Nollywood Actresses Have Sex Freely” – Olofa Ina Attacks Iyabo Ojo by abidem4real: 6:06pm On Jun 25, 2021
xynerise:
How is this news? We all know that. Is he trying to justify the rape case with this?
Which rape case? Was the girl raped? The whole scenario was scripted and acted. Baba Ijesha was just an accused villain. The so called minor had said Baba Ijesha never slept with her not to talk of raping her. The man is just being punished for sins known to Princess herself.
TV/MoviesRe: Kaisha & Lucy Fight At The Big Brother Reunion Show by abidem4real: 12:41pm On Jun 25, 2021
Fredlongs:
Any female fight wey Dem no tear each other clothes, no b fight... We Wan de see somethings, u know
Asawo oniwokuwo!

PoliticsRe: PMB Allocates Houses To 1994 Super Eagles Squad by abidem4real: 10:39am On Jun 25, 2021
presidency:
President Muhammadu Buhari has approved allocation of 3-bedroom houses to the Super Eagles Squad that won the African Cup of Nations in Tunis, Tunisia, in 1994, making real a promise by the Federal Government.

Following a memo by Minister of Works and Housing, Babatunde Raji Fashola, the President approved the allocations in their states of preference, noting that six players and three technical crews received their houses already.

The players are: Peter Rufai, Alloy Agu, Ike Shorounmu, Uche Okechukwu, Samson Siasia, Efan Ekoku, Sunday Oliseh, Benedict Iroha, Isaac Semitoje, Mutiu Adepoju, Emmanuel Amunike, Victor Ikpeba, Austin Eguavoen and Wilfred Agbonavbare (Deceased).

Others are: Uche Okafor (Deceased), Thompson Oliha (Deceased), Stephen Keshi (Deceased), Christian Chukwu, Dr Akin Amao, Stephen Edema, Col. A Asielue and B. Aromasodun.

Garba Shehu
Senior Special Assistant to the President
(Media & Publicity)
June 24, 2021
Hahahaha! Awon alaimo n tokan eda
FamilyRe: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by abidem4real: 10:35am On Jun 25, 2021
HonNL:
https://i1.wp.com/pmnewsnigeria.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/Brenda-Ataga-Usifo-Ataga-and-Chidinma-Ojukwu-the-side-chick-.jpg?resize=768%2C512&ssl=1
Brenda Ataga, Usifo Ataga and Chidinma Ojukwu, the side chick


https://i2.wp.com/pmnewsnigeria.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/Michael-Usifo-Ataga-and-Brenda-Ataga.jpg?resize=768%2C576&ssl=1
Michael Usifo Ataga and his wife Brenda Ataga

https://i1.wp.com/pmnewsnigeria.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/Michael-Usifo-Ataga-and-his-side-chick-Chidinma-Ojukwu-.jpg?resize=768%2C576&ssl=1
Michael Usifo Ataga and his side chick Chidinma Ojukwu


PM NEWS
Every man is a potential cheat because of our polygamous nature. Besides, the extreme beauty possessed by the ladies of these days and how their endowments are being made public and flaunted even in the prying eyes of sex starved and addicted men could not make them go untouched.Only the poor behave like saints.

#NoOneHolyPassMyBrother

PoliticsRe: Army Replies Gumi’s Allegations Of Military Supporting Bandits by abidem4real: 10:19pm On Jun 23, 2021
ogododo:
Why army and DSS no arrest Gunmi and drill am?
It is because they are criminal siblings
PoliticsRe: Lai Mohammed: Stop Using VPN. You Think You Are Hurting Me By Using VPN (Video) by abidem4real: 10:13pm On Jun 23, 2021
Gamer999:
Lair Mohammed thunder ⚡ fire you
Iseeeeee!!!
PoliticsRe: Lai Mohammed: Stop Using VPN. You Think You Are Hurting Me By Using VPN (Video) by abidem4real: 10:05pm On Jun 23, 2021
PoliticsRe: Court Convicts Farouk Lawan Over $500,000 Bribe by abidem4real: 8:13pm On Jun 22, 2021
maximunimpact:
https://www.financialwatchngr.com/2021/06/22/breaking-finally-court-convicts-farouk-lawan-over-2013-500000-bribe/
His sins were not forgiven because he didn't join them. May God forgive your sins and give you a second chance (Amen).

#AllAreSinners
Foreign AffairsRe: Duterte To Jail Those Who Refuse COVID-19 Vaccines by abidem4real: 3:29pm On Jun 22, 2021
PlayMaker14:
This uncircumcised Philippine president reminds me of one tyrant who threatens to deal with his citizens in a language that they will understand.

Na by force to take Vaccine? This is an infringement against their fundamental human right.
Fundamental human right? I guess if there is any
CrimeRe: EFCC Arrests Two For N768.5 Million Fraud In Lagos (Pictures) by abidem4real: 7:19pm On Jun 21, 2021
fergie0o1:
EFCC
But why are they disturbing those people using their devil's workshops as a result of probably their idle hands occasioned by bad government? Besides, this is a case of thieves catching fellow thieves. #Owrongnow

PoliticsRe: Edo Demolishes Victor Ighile Mojo's Hotel by abidem4real: 12:07pm On Jun 21, 2021

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