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jesusjnr2020:
Who Is The Head Of A Christian Home? Christ Or The Husband?

There cannot be two heads of a Christian home, for a man cannot serve two masters. Matthew 6:24

Therefore It has to be one or the other, so which is it?

I have heard some say or seen a written message in some homes, "Christ is the head of this house." On the other hand, i have also heard some claim that the husband is the head of the home or marriage, therefore I would like to know which is really true, since both cannot be right at the same time.

If Christ is the head of the home, then both the husband and wife ought to submit themselves to the authority of Christ. But if it's the husband instead, then the woman has to submit herself to the authority of the husband.

My own belief is that Christ ought to be the head of every Christian home, so both the husband and wife ought to submit themselves to His own authority.

Anything contrary to that is not of God, but of men or the devil, hence it would only lead to dangerous repercussions in the home, as it was in the beginning when the husband and wife both rejected the authority of Christ, even the Word of God that was in the beginning, and chose to listen and heed the voice of someone else.

Although the marriage didn't end up in a divorce as a result, and they wear yet able to bear children, it became a total failure as the purpose for which God made the marriage, which was to multiply sinless children (those born in obedience), was not achieved.

It also led to hostility in the marriage, because the same man who loved his wife and called her "the bone of my bones" and "flesh of my flesh", now saw her as an enemy or a stranger called "the woman you gave me". Genesis 2:23; 3:12

So the authority and head of a Christian home, as God made it to be in the beginning, ought to be the Word of God which Christ is, and that's one of things which was in the beginning that Christ came to restore. Therefore taking that authority from Him and giving it to someone else, including the husband, would only prevent the purpose of God concerning the marriage from being fulfilled, and could also lead to hostility among the married couples.

That's what would have happened in the marriage of Smith Wigglesworth, as the husband thought he was the head of their home, and had authority over his wife, hence tried to use it against her and to prevent her from serving God as she ought to, when he derailed from the faith.

But thank God he had a wife who knew that he was just her husband, not her Head or Head of their marriage, but Jesus, as she'd let Him know. So he couldn't make her do things contrary to what Christ demands of her, because she was meant to be under Christ's authority, not his.

This eventually led to her husband's restoration to the faith, and for this reason he loved appreciated his wife much more than he'd ever done beforehand, because what he learnt from the wife in the process was an invaluable lesson, which had not only helped to restore him, but also made him to be a better vessel for God's use, and better husband for his wife and marriage.

That's what many Christian' marriage stands to lose whenever someone else is put in the placed of Christ as the Head of a Christian home. It ends up more or less as the marriage in the beginning, when God's purpose for the marriage was not achieved.

And once that purpose is not achieved, the marriage become a total failure even if it doesn't end in divorce and they're yet having children as Adam and Eve, because God purpose for a Christian marriage that determines the success of a marriage, not that of man.

So it's up to choose who will be the head of your home, but if it's not Christ, do not expect Him to also act as the Head, because He cannot share His position or authority in any marriage or home with anyone. It's either Him in charge or not Him.

God bless.

You are an evil man preaching the doctrine of demons attached to feminism. Christ is the head of every Christian. In a Christian home however, the husband is the head of the home!

You are a foolish feminist masquerading as a Christian.
Christ is the head of every person even, whether Christian or not believer or unbeliever. He is the head of all principalities and power. But in a home setting the HUSBAND IS THE HEAD.

cruzita:
I find it hard to love I cant say I know why ,I have a lot of admirers and lovers I ended up putting in the friend zone not because they deserve to be there but because I can't return their love.

Now to the topic ,there is this guy ,he is a family friend and I have known him since I was 10,he always come to pick me from school then and takes me to school in the morning.last year he proposed marriage to me(I know he has a thing for me).but because I'm into sports and marriage is not a priority for me and also I find it hard to love ,I don't know how to tell him I cant marry him .I have always called him brother or uncle so how can I start calling him sweetheart or stuffs like dat.He has really helped me so I want to tell him in a way that won't hurt him.MATURED ADVICE

But you are a lesbian na! A hardcore lesbian, though you pretend a lot and are coded!

jesusjnr2020:
Some women who God has used to greater effect as Smith Wigglesworth's wife actually questioned their husband when he had strayed from the faith and began to demand things of her that were not of God.

She told him that he was her husband but that Jesus was her Lord!

That was the saving grace of the husband as he was hence restored back to the faith, and would never play with his wife afterwards. That's probably why we hardly have women of such such spiritual calibre these days, because they have made their husbands to take the place of God as the Lord and Master of their lives, hence God cannot use them for much because He cannot share His position with any man.

Moreover, the wife of Abraham questioned her husband concerning Hagar and her son Ishmael, that it was said to have grieved Abraham much, but God told him to hearken to his wife's voice.

Genesis 21:12 (KJV)

And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called.

So you can actually see that even though it's what men love to hear, this saying of a woman not questioning her husband and being demonic is not of God but of men.

God bless

You are an enemy of the Kingdom of God. Your philosophy is to attack any good thing from men and women of God. Where did Smith Wigglesworths wife attack his authority as her husband? Some of you will eventually get the judgement of God for your evil conspiracies which threaten the kingdom of God.

In Abraham's case God Almighty had to talk to him. Where did Sarah question Abraham's Authority as her husband? Show me any scripture where Sarah Challenged her husbands authority?

You are an agent of darkness masquerading as an angel of light and your will get your recompense very soon.

In your own marriage go and do whatever you like.

Later, you will also question our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for choosing only male Apostles!

SeeHim:
South African Police has arrested a 26-year-old woman over her alleged involvement in the murder of her husband, which took place in October last year at a farm outside Groblersdal.

As extensive investigations by the South African Police Service went on, a 23-year-old female suspect, Patricia Lee Smith who was reportedly a lesbian girlfriend of the 26-year-old widow, was arrested on 27 October, 2021. She was later released on bail.

The duo were accused of attempting to kill the man on May 9, 2020 by food poisoning. The victim was admitted at the hospital and later discharged. Months later, the man was allegedly shot and killed by the suspects who staged it to look like a farm attack.

Limpopo police commissioner. Lieutenant-General Thembi Hadebe welcomed the arrests and the extensive work by police to crack the complex case. The two suspects are expected to appear in the Groblersdal Magistrate's Court on Friday, 13 August 2021, facing charges of murder, conspiracy to commit murder, possession of an unlicensed firearm and ammunition, attempted murder and defeating the ends of justice.

Limpopo police spokesperson, Brigadier Motlafela Mojapelo said;

“What was initially thought to be a farm attack was unearthed by rigorous police investigations as an alleged blatant and orchestrated murder of a 36-year-old man.

"Police investigations brought to light the allegation that the suspect and her female companion conspired to murder her husband in an incident in which the victim was shot and killed in the manner that the suspects reportedly made it look like a farm attack.

“It is also alleged that the deceased's wife (had earlier) attempted to kill him on 09 May 2020 by food poisoning. The victim was admitted at the hospital and later discharged.

“The two suspects are expected to appear in the Groblersdal Magistrate's Court on Friday, 13 August 2021, facing charges of murder, conspiracy to commit murder, possession of an unlicensed firearm and ammunition, attempted murder and defeating the ends of justice.”

Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2021/8/husband-murdered-by-wife-and-her-lesbian-girlfriend-2.html

As usual, the hegoats here still do not understand the implications of this news. This is to those hegoats who insist on dating and marrying lesbians because they want to satisfy their party fantasies.

Idiots will never learn. This is not about women killing men. This is about lesbians conniving to kill men. When you think you are in a relationship with a lesbian, you are nothing but a compound fool! Your level of stupidity may never be resolvable.
For young men, watch and observe carefully whether you are dating a lesbian.

societyreelnews:
Societyreelnews can authoritatively reveal to you that WPSL boss, Bidemi Fahm has acquired for himself a private jet. The jet which is said to be a Cessna 172 gulp a whooping amount of N49,200,000 ($307,500).

Educated as a Pilot, the young amiable Managing Director/Chief Executive Officer of Westoil Petroleum Services Ltd (WPSL), Mr. Bidemi Fahm has been involved in the oil trading business since 1999 and serves as the Chairman of Westoil Petroleum

http://www.societyreelnews.com/wpsl-boss-bidemi-fahm-acquires-n49m-private-jet/

Please, it is not a jet. It is a propeller driven piston engine plane. Do your research. Haba na!

SultanOfPuna:
What happened to me last week was a testament that man cannot satisfy women.
I have been with this girl for a year and things have been good.
She used my phone some months ago to order shoes from Jumia.
Since then I haven't had interest in whatever she is buying.
I accidentally clicked a Jumia advert on facebook and it sent me to Jumia website.
Found out her account was still open, She forgot to logout
I was about to close the page until I saw 4 items in cart.
My curiosity made me check what is inside the cart.
To my greatest surprise I saw
1. Spanish fly
2. 6 inch realistic Love Machine
3. Oil perfume
4. Vibrating pen for vagina
All this total cost close to 21k
I have been feeling depressed about the whole situation. Should I confront her on the issue or should I break up with her?

Is it not absolutely shocking that most of the people here making excuses for your former girlfriend are males? Yes that is how stupid, idiotic and cursed most young men of nowadays are! Yeah that is how they were making excuses for Chidinma that brutally murdered Usifo Ataga. Yeah that's how they reason. Empty heads everywhere!
For starters, you are supposed to be worried and apprehensive about this discovery. It is shocking that you didn't notice her preferences because most young women of nowadays are expert pretenders. Most are lesbians and prostitutes. But they keep pretending. They masturbate more than men but they keep pretending. They sleep with their fellow women as lesbians but they keep pretending.

To humour yourself, just tell her that you once considered buying a sex Doll. You will be amazed at how she will condemn it and 3ven tell you that you are disgusting! The exact same person buying all kinds of intimacy gadgets.

My candid advice, just send her packing. She doesn't deserve you.

SamuelOamen:
By Robert Egbe



https://thenationonlineng.net/super-tv-boss-murder-prisons-pamper-chidinma-with-special-car-ride/

A hegoat is protecting this female beast Murderer! Indeed some men are scum!

Kobojunkie:
Anyone gullible enough to swallow the many lies out of this man's mouth is not just ignorant of God's Truth but gunning for the worst of punishments from God.

According to the Bible, woman was cursed, condemned by God to be ruled over by man and perish in the end - cease to exist / return to dust when she dies!

However, through Jesus Christ all who believe in Him, including women, are saved from this condemning curse(all those who live under the curse perish much like Adam), and are made equal members of the Kingdom of God.

Sadly, your Mogs have no knowledge of this and so continue to preach lies as sermons in the name of God.

In all honesty, you are confused! The same Bible confers marital authority to the man in the new testament. Women are to be submissive to their husband as men as submissive to Christ. There is no ambiguity there. Haba na.

Timoleon:
To what end? Why dilly dally on such an important case? Remanded for 30 days only to come and be remanded again without any meaningful headway.


This country tire me aswear!

The hegoats fucking her are trying to frustrated the case.

allwell51:
BBNaija star, Ozo, gift him brand new SUV

Watch video here

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSU8PVnth79/?utm_medium=share_sheet


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DQ0OtZO82Ng

This is refurbished and upgraded.

Businesslist:
Shared with Caption ...



Source: https://www.instagram.com/realchidimmaaneke/

The village lesbians still dey?

Sophiebabe85:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bf_dFZbMAGc

Davido's babymama chioma dancing and showing off her thick curvy body

Nonsense! Apart from fucking Davido what else is her achievement in life?

stephanie11:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6687005/lady-kills-boyfriend-uyo-after


https://politicsnigeria.com/side-chick-kills-married-man-in-uyo/

More hegoats will be murdered unless and until other female murderers see that Chidinma the killer of Usifo Ataga is sentenced to death and killed! The stupidity and foolishness of men is the reason girls keep killing men. They see that they get soft landing. Just see Chidinma granting interviews looking like a BBnaija participant. Haba na! What message does it send?

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM



https://politicsnigeria.com/just-in-fani-kayodes-ex-wife-arrested-photos/

Another extremely foolish man working for Precious Chikwendu against his own gender in hopes of eventually fucking her or getting favourable rep from women.

Women used to be each other's worst enemies but the cursed, foolish, immature, aimless hegoats of this generation have taken over from women. Animals who lack proper sense of reasoning.

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

You were not in any relationship with anybody. Console yourself with this.

Hezzyluv:
Desperado

Stupid quote that gives women the guts to attack men! Very very stupid quote.

Odewaleadesoye:
https://punchng.com/bbnaija-s6-i-dont-chase-women-they-come-to-me-says-whitemoney/

Foolish fool!

Doja2000:
Still waiting for more lies again.

Yes it has to be a lie because na woman commit! Bunch of hypochrites!

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM


https://politicsnigeria.com/in-2003-south-east-voted-for-obasanjo-against-ojukwu/

Complete hogwash! Everybody knows the terrible disservice Maurice Iwu did to this Country as INEC Chairman. Under him the INEC was anything but independent. Please let's not go there. Complete nonsense. In a free and fair elections 100 Obasanjos could not defeat half an Ojukwu in Igbo land.

DoggoneDogg:
BY SAHARAREPORTERS, NEW YORK


http://saharareporters.com/2021/07/29/nigerias-celebrated-policeman-kyari-tells-international-fraudster-hushpuppi-i-will-send

Supercop my foot! The innocent blood of those ESN guys murdered in cold blood is set to destroy Abba Kyari.

Pecoleee345:
So over last weekend....I called family meeting my mum,elder brother and I went to my wife parents house...her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.
I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eye straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My device to young men.
1.make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....there way of life etc
The mistake I made wasn't evaluating her background......we from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parent house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2.See forget love and looks......Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.
I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life....She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3.For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by there mother.
They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what there mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

Smart man Kudos.

ogbiwa:
https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/world-news/top-surgeon-divorces-beauty-queen-24630092

He didn't believed everything about her just because she is a woman. Idiats.

TheGidRedpiller:
His name is Jeffery Gregory, he is a celebrity youtuber with a lot of things to his name. One might say he is successful in and out!!

He is charged with sexxual grooming and abuse, not because anybody caught him in the act but because women came and said he did!!
This guy was never tried or taken to court whatsoever, he was just taken down with immediate effect, to further understand my points here, Youtube completely DEMONITIZED his youtube account, Yes! That exact same reason he surfaced in the first place!! Now even if he did it, how did he bypass that process?
Redpillers should be able to relate this situation to Michael Jackson's

I remember one time i purposely created a thread to warn men and advice them to implant camera's in every of their residences before they even think about inviting any person of the female gender! That shiit is as risky as riding a car with no breaks i tell you!!

Women could weaponize absolutely anything you let them get at your expense. BE WISE!!!

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

You missed it completely. Hegoats, foolish men are the ones who sold their gender down the line to impress women! Foolish fools. Idiats. If men have not ceded all their rights in the Western World to women will this be happening?

Until and unless men regain their rights on the platform of equal rights things like this will keep happening.

WriterNig:
Influencer Biyi Suffers Domestic Violence From His Girlfriend Bena (Photo)

[b@thebiyitudors[/b] tweeted;

2. Destroyed TV
3. Destroyed Macbook

I am not going to blame the girl here because it is men like the OP that enables this kind of evil female beasts! Stupid men that always supports everything female until they become the victim. When I knew how foolish and hopeless some men are was when I saw a man dating Tonto Dike, I immediately knew that some men are cursed. Cursed with foolishness eternally.

So my dear carry your cross until and unless you show me where you have been very vocal against violent women in the past. Until I see that, you caused your problem. If not for this I am very sure na people like una dey do " Justice for Chidinma". Yeah that's how foolish some men are!

Doraty1:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/07/breaking-baba-ijesha-princess-identifies-two-other-suspects-who-sexually-harassed-her-daughter/amp/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter&__twitter_impression=true

Princess is a criminal. She can't remember why it took her so long to report her neighbor who molested the child to police? Ok na.

The matter is already taking a different dimension.

Doradorwa:
She died with him
Their love was a solidarity till end.

It was genuine love

simbaleo:
Wait, a woman spent 20 years in jail after admitting to murdering her 2 husbands, and after she was released, another man carried himself to marry her? Some stupidity should be studied as a course

Are you surprised at the cursed stupidity of some men? Watch and see Chidinma walk free and another man start dating her. Some men are cursed with stupidity! No be one hegoat dey date Tonto Dike?

Bola146:
I guess you both murdered her, check your hypocrite spelling

Stop speaking from both sides of the mouth. Stop supporting evil.

Bola146:
Useless thing! Send him to life jail

Yet you can't say the same things about your murderer sister Chidinma that murdered Usifo
Ataga in cold blood. Hypochrite.

MatterAriseLive:
Meet Angel 21 years old Bbnaija Season 6 Housemate.

This is what lesbian boobs suckers can do to a woman breast. If you see where this daughters of perdition are devouring each other's mamary glands like a battalion of Nigeria troops pursuing Boko Haram insurgent you will marvel.
RIP to the breasts.

AquaBekee:
Anambra 2021: 'Accord, The Only Alternative Party For Ndi Anambra' - Guber Candidate, Alexreports

As the November 6, governorship election in Anambra State draws near, the Accord has been described as the only viable alternative for the people of the State.

This was disclosed by the youngest governorship candidate of the party, Mr. Ekene Alex Nwankwo, popularly called AlexReports.

Speaking to newsmen in Awka, Anambra State capital, Nwankwo noted that Accord has massive followership across the nooks and crannies of the State, which underscores it's capacity to win the forthcoming Anambra State governorship election.

He noted that the party's manifesto is geared towards ensuring good governance, security of lives and property, the welfare of the citizens and adherence to the rule of law.

He noted that the party is the only peaceful party in the State, which held its governorship primary, devoid of internal squabbles as witnessed in other political parties.

He said "Because we are in accord with the people of Anambra State, we remain the most peaceful political party in Anambra State.

"Others are still wallowing in crisis, and when they are in crisis, they cannot deliver" he said.

He noted that an Accord led government in Anambra State will change the fortunes of the State, by transforming the State to a beacon of development.

His words "We in Accord with the People, Anambra State, we shall bequeath to the State, good governance and responsible leadership.

He noted that Accord, is not new in the political terrain of the State, having elected a representative to the Senate and House of Reps.

Nwankwo, a Public Relations consultant, called on the people of the State, not to hesitate in their support for the party as the governorship election draws near.

He said "Accord is peaceful and we are the only political party committed to the socio economic development and rearmament of Anambra State.

"We are driven by the passion, to ensure the well being of the young, the old and the vulnerable

"In one accord, we shall make Anambra State great again" he concluded.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/07/anambra-2021-accord-only-alternative-party-for-ndi-anambra-guber-candidate-alexreports/

This guy, you just don't have it. There is a funny, local derelict look around you. Please work on your appearance. Seriously, you look like a clown!