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Praise the Lord somebody!

Oga o Mr. Shapey -well i dont really blame u sha cause this is a learning curve for the both of u.
Now u know what to do when other trials come your way- u are only getting trained for the journey of marriage ahead.

Hurry up sha and start the baby process o - cause i wanna see the fruit of all the wahala that we have been doing with both of u.

Oga o.
Its real good to see that everything is sorted out.

Am happy for u o shapey cause u really needs to start trying for baby o.
Maybe that will even keep the family at bay for a while.

I see a little girl coming ur way and she will be a little - 'Yewande / Yetunde' - mother has come back.
Hurry up sha cause u no the Nija tribe dont permit waiting after marriage for too long to have a baby.

So get moving Mr. Shapey and Mrs. Shapey.

No D-Loaded - i really didnt.
He was warri and i am yoruba.

D-reloaded:
i wouldnt exactly give that title to a guy known as being an advocate for female circumsion, amsky but hey whatever

adeboo, you didnrt understand the language at all??

What language?

I dont no much about all that but from ma understnding- thats just adultery.

There is grace and mercy available to u from God but all i know is that thats just adultery o.

You really need to do ur best to provide for ur family.
You just gotta try harder.

No because i would hate to be a football widow.

I cant stand all that trainings and away matches that happen all the time - cause i want ma man near me all the time.

Only the need to know ones - it would be pointless letting him no of instances that dont even deserve a mention.

I got beat down regular cause i was a wise ass.

My worst one was when i was like 14 i think and ma dad slapped me.
That wasnt a good thng- i was so angry.

I would love to do that cause i like the double barrel surnames - thats if ma man is cool with it.

NOPE.
I better get married to him before we commit some atrocities before God.

Oga o.
Me thinking this story was over and i see like 5 more pages.

Na wa o.
Shapey welcome back jare and i thank God for journey mercies.

All i can say is that tank God for brilliant family members.
Your cousin, sister, mother etc.

Girl, i have experience the whole different language palava.
In my case, they even brought a wife to him, into our house and they spoke their language - me still being all nice and cordial while they killed me in their native tongue.

Girl, this is a real eye opener sha - you and ur man has some serious issues to discuss - for sure.
And girl dont even think that its over, get on ur knees and get closer to the God that was present when u said ur vows.

I dont blame ur Mum, i would have done the same thing.

yankite:
ok adeboo for hw long do u think your man could be out of sight
and u will still hv him strongly on your mind and what distance

Well, i like to keep it real sha.
I am not one to have a man living too far from me.
I would also mention to him that he shouldnt stay away from me for a long period of time sha.

All this long distance thing just doesnt wash with me.

To answer ur question - if he happened to travel for work or whatever - maybe a few months o (none of this years nonsense).
MAYBE A FEW MONTHS AT THE MOST

How are u certain she is an ogbanje?

Well i suppose that if u wanted her bad enough and she wanted to leave the 'club' then u both need to sit and talk about ur options.

I would go out and buy maself the cd of Toni Braxton - He wasnt man enough for me.

I would play that to maself over and over again.

No i sure cant.
I have no time to waste and what if during the course of us dating, i maybe get pregnant?
There is no way i can be with someone i dont like.

Alot of people say that.

But if u are in love with someone, and u leave their side, then - this saying shouldnt really apply.

If i was outta the side of ma man, he is definitely on ma mind for sure.

You seriously neeed deliverance.
What do u honestly think could be attracting u to a cleaner?

This isnt a laughing matter o - you need to address this issue before it gets u in trouble.
What even trips u about the cleaners? Is it their uniform or their lipstick or what?

May kelly:
I don't celebrate/spend valentine because is not a Godly celebration

Not a godly celebration?

Well, its just a day to appreciate the people in ur life or person in ur life that has been truly loving to u.

I just treated it like any other day when i was single - went to work etc.

Tell him your concerns and then see what he says.
Girl, dont settle for less - if he is indecisive then you have ur answer.

Oga o. If she had said you shouldnt and u did, then she should get angry.

My gut instincts tell me its an abortion.

For me, it was just doing things impromptu.

And knowing what direction you need to take before u have a man in ur life (for when he does come)

BOTH.
I have seen men and women that can lie for the whle of England.

I cant stand anytype of violence against someone u claim to love.
Absolutely unacceptable.

You say you are in a relationship with your 'good friend' -
Good friend and u are expecting marriage?

but if u have been in a loving relationship for ten years and its going nowhere- then, what are u waiting for?
He doesnt have a job and doesnt plan to get one. So this is the preview of things to come - he appears irresponsible.

Just see it as ten years of ur life wasted, girl - whats the point of investing into something that has no returns. isnt that just a waste of time.

Sweetie its all gonna be well.

Time will definitely heal all wounds.
I believe u should really commit ur ways to God and He will definitely soothe ur wounds.

In our culture for sure, the head of the house that cant provide for his family is definitely less than a man - and in that issue he can never be the head of the home.

This is good stuff.
Thanks.

I am not against it.
But personally, i wanna marry someone that is from ma side of the world that we speak the same language, have the same culture and understand and have the same sense of humor.

babycool:
sylvao2000 and adeboo

The question you should be asking yourselves are; Why do you get attracted to dirty girls?

And the answer is; Birds of the same feathers attracts each other!

I dont know why there is such a song and dance about this post.
He posted something and i responded. Its true there are girls that do smell bad and guys too.
But its especially rampant amongst women - and for the fact that i should attract smelly girls?

I dont think so, i looooooooooooooooooove ma men too much.