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Reminderz:
make una dey calm down for this life.

Vawulence only.. peace is not an option

Wordsfrombimpe:
Interesting but that's not a valid point because in friendship people do that

What is this one saying.??...is my point meant for friends ..or for two people dating......it's supposed to be a funny way of saying "when u tolerate each other better and become more understanding" ....?? Be like Ur ram low gaan

When u start becoming comfortable about farting Infront of each other and laffing about it instead of vexing.....

MrBrownJay1:
the above you mentionned is called a "fantasy" which every single person on earth have... and different from a man finally getting unrestricted access to toto. here is the difference: one of them is hoping to finally taste toto while the other married one is tired of mounting the same toto.

I mean there are porn and masturbátion addicts that are married.... U clearly don't get what I am saying

oak202:
If they tick yes if ATAS is required for the role on a
Health Care Support worker CoS.what does it mean?
Does the person need to apply for it before applying?

I can't tick yes for ATAS if it's a Care job...
ATAS is for jobs that involve research

MrBrownJay1:
by tthe time this man has unrestricted access to toto, all his addiction will go away. p0rnography and masturbation is just the substitute for the real thing (aka sex)

BTW some women out there also desire nothing more than to to be bleeped 10times a day... as the r/ship progress, so will the sex subside.

Masturbation addicts actually have seperate desire for pórn actors from the woman they are dating or married to....it like virtual cheating....I hope u know married men watch porn and masturbáte...

MrBrownJay1:
get a gf/wife and you will automatically stop!

Wife?? Where will get a wife that will allow him have sex with her 10times a day....
His solution is not a wife... His solution is cutting off is masturbation trigger which is pornógraphy.... It's always pórn for addicted masturbatórs...

IyaebeTheGreat:
How does supporting Tinubu makes me bad? It means you are a bad person as well for supporting Obi. And where have you seen me hating on men who make small decent living? All these you programmed in your head and not for me please. We are all not nice if we should go by your definition of niceness

I ddnt say u are not nice because u support tinubu....u dont know how to read....

and i dont do politics... u see why u are not nice now

IyaebeTheGreat:
Do you know me too well to have made that conclusion? I’m entitled to make choices so does everyone else.

Iyaebe... we know u for this forum naaa...

Tinubu supporter...always looking for rich man and hating on men make smalldecent living

U are not nice joor...

IyaebeTheGreat:
Nice one . God knows I don’t like doctors as a partner. Lailai I can’t.

You are not that much of a nice person urself....we dont expect u to want good men

Moji12:
Please how true is this? People abroad have been sending it to me since Monday.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/code-of-practice-for-the-international-recruitment-of-health-and-social-care-personnel/code-of-practice-for-the-international-recruitment-of-health-and-social-care-personnel-in-england#annex-a-red-and-amber-list-countries

Fingers crossed

samzheee:
somebody should please explain this to us.

It means no more japa true health care route directly from Nigeria.....greedy agents can now rest

You find out years later...

Wainey:
I seriously think successful people are naturally attractive.
Whether gold digging or not, you will be swept off ur feet if you could shake the hands of Elon musk

Thats u....
...I dont like elon musk...money can impair my judgement about him or any other person....

Wainey:
When you see ladies getting attracted to rich people, it may necessarily not be gold digging, successful people that are very humble are naturally attractive

U are just Sugar coating!!
Its gold digging when u chose someone only because of how much they have....

Its superficial and vain...the moment money is gone or a bigger spender comes along ur loyalty dissapears..... fvck loyalty right?? Yeah thats why its called gold digging...

even rich pple dont want someone to be with them just because of money

Nairae:
What do you mean by ELIGIBLE JOB

Some visas has list of eligible jobs under it...

For example ....Under health &care visa..there list of eligible jobs like doctors, nurse, care assistant...etc...

care assitant was never on the list before... it was approved last year which made it possible for pple to take advantage of it....

So its the list of jobs under a particular visa route that an employer can sponsor .... if u are in doubt ....the list of jobs under each visa class is on UKVI website.....google is ur friend

Gbagura:
It's ukvi gt

If u are sure its ukvi ielts..then u are good to go

Gbagura:
I scored 6.5 overall from the ielts I wrote last week, hope I can use that for Healthcare Jobs? Thanks

Which ielts....??
U need ukvi ielts...

Not the used for canada express entry

Mjshexy:
Just send me half of the money if you don't know what to use it for. (

Send half which money??

Dizzyyish:
Vawulence is not the answer.. but life is multiple choice.

Dey disguise.....

Women generally just like the idea of spending another person's money even if they have lots of it in their account.....sadly most of them dey broke which makes their I never chop behavior really awful

canada123:
Good thing is it’s a faceless forum and I’m using my second Nairaland account to post this, so I feel like pouring out my heart and seeking genuine help.

I just feel really disgusted with myself.

U don't sound disgusted..u sound like u here to advertise only fans and the girls u see there.

......u sound like u know ur "problem" which is ur pornographiç appetite but u appear to be enjoying ur "problem"

... Until u reach that curve where u realize ur addiction is robbing u of something that matters....it is not yet a problem to you....oga ade, carry Go....

Dizzyyish:
Reminder from your friendly neighbourhood Nairalander:

1.) Nigeria has the second highest rate of paternity fraud on the planet. At least 1 in 3 men are raising someone else's spawn (because she pinned it on him to get his commitment, had a fling with an ex, was aroused by the taboo of it, resents her man, etc.)
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4.) If you haven't as a Nigerian man, married to a Nigerian woman, in Nigeria, sought out DNA tests for your kids nor have any intention to.. then, chances are you've lost guard (pls refer to point 1.)

Vawulence only... Peace is not allowed

Eblaze21:
Just like you said, context is important in asserting whether something is applicable or not.

I would assume that you were quoting John 8:44 where the Devil was called a liar and the father of it. Let us consider contextually what progressed in that verse.

You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.
John 8:44 NKJV
https://bible.com/bible/114/jhn.8.44.NKJV

"....when he speaks a lie" - it may be fallacious to say that the Devil always lies (considering the context of the verse)

Let us look at the deceit you referenced that happened in Eden. We will start with what God said and juxtapose it with the serpent said.

Then the Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to tend and keep it. And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, “Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat; but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.”
Genesis 2:15‭-‬17 NKJV
https://bible.com/bible/114/gen.2.15-17.NKJV

What the serpent said:
Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said to the woman, “Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden’?” And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.’ ” Then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”.......v7 Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings.
Genesis 3:1‭-‬5‭, ‬7 NKJV
https://bible.com/bible/114/gen.3.1-7.NKJV

The areas highlighted shows us one of the lies that the serpent said. However, if we look at what the serpent said about the eyes opening, the outcome shows that the eyes of Adam and Eve were truly opened.

In John 10:10, we see that the thief comes to do three things:
1. Kill
2. Steal
3. Destroy

The Devil will employ truths and lies to achieve at least any or all of the three objectives of the thief above.

When I attempted to discuss the authority that the Devil may have had, it was done within the context of the temptation that Jesus Christ faced. For Jesus to have been tempted, the object of enticement had to be real.

Like you said, I may be right or wrong, which is very true. However, you and I can look at the context of the temptation and draw plausible conclusions on right or wrong.

But we also have a superior context...
ps 24.."the earth is the lord's" and Isa 66v1 heaven is my throne,earth is my foot stool....The lord is not clearly not sharing ownership or lordship or rulership of the world with anyone.....

So the liar's rulership and ownership is likely and probably a context connoting his ability to influence men to sin against God( a pseudo control).....he did same in heaven and was casted out...

Thank God u mentioned eden... God said they will die if they eat...and they did die...spiritually and physically...
.devil said they wont die and added an icing on the cake, that their eyes will be opened, which God ddnt want them to have...the devil even presented the eye opening as something good or as good reward

so again...the world he's claiming to have in his possession to give jesus is obviously a distorted version of the world, presented as a reward to jesus...

The world probably and likely wasnt his to give in the first place...and only presented his distorted version or wateva context he meant by the whole world....

Abubanty:
Thanks for always being proactive in always assisting.

Pls Apart from wife's COS do I need to upload her offer letter. Or COS alone is fine

If u have it.. i can upload

Wait.....I dont undertsand the mistake part....
Were u walking, hit a rock, fell and and ur dick fell into the vagina....

or u were masturbatinģ in ur room and ur sprem flew out the window into the naked lady's vagina two blocks away??

U were skin-diving without cońdom, and ddnt use after sex pills...what were u expccting??.a plasma tv or an iPhone 14 pro max??

How u go do business with person wey part of the moniker na "pablo" ??

U suppose know say nothing good can come out of that transaction.....

Honestfrend:
I met this beautiful lady last year... Although i have know her over 10years ago but we just walk pass each other. We stay in the same area.

So last year wen we met and started dating. I told her that i love her and would like 2 marry her. Ever since then our relationship hve since been going on smoothly.

But just yesterday i was explaining something 2 her, because we always talk about relationship especially after watching movies that involves it..i told her that i am not assuring that our relationship will be 100% perfect but i will try my best fix any issue that might arise because we re humans n no one is perfect. We talked at length sha before she left.

Few minutes later she sent me a message this " why are you telling me that you are not assuring me of anything, that's not what we talked about when we started"

Immediately i told her y she would make this knid of comment.. I have to explain 2 her that i never said that am not assuring her of anything.. I only said that am not assuring her that our relationship will be 100%perfect..

Am getting worried because its seems she accepts to start a relationship with me because i said i will like have a future(marry) with her.. No because she loves me.

Please advice me..i truly love this girl.. Also am over 30 n she is around 30..

Tnk u

Ur relationship is too peaceful.. and u are too gentle...u dey do lover boy....tony umez...dey do cho cho cho every five mins.....and u are dealing with an emotionally unstable person.

she dey try test her hold on you to see how ur mumu and beggy beggy buttons works.
hope u no start dey beg and over explain....?? If u did....U will soon lose the levarage of ir relationship cos she will be starting fight for no reason just so u can beg.


.e dey sweet when u have somebody's mumu button

Eblaze21:
I get you bro/sis. We may also need to consider what makes a temptation a temptation. If we conclude that all that the devil offered were non-existent because he is liar, then we may have to rethink whether Jesus was tempted at all.

The bible records that Jesus Christ was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the Devil (Luke 4:1). In James 1:14, the writer highlighted a major ingredient for a temptation to occur called, Human Desire.

The first enticement the tempter attempted was on Jesus Christ's desire for food. In Luke 4:2b, the bible records that Jesus was hungry. Jesus Christ's desire for food (hunger) was apparent, hence he could be tempted of food.

Jesus Christ's response in Luke 4:4 (..."it is written, 'Man shall not leave by bread alone, but by every word of God.'" shows that the bread was an option that was available to him.

The options in the other two instances where Jesus was tempted would have to be available for it to be a temptation. Hence, the Devil had to have had the kingdoms of this world to be able to entice Jesus Christ with the option.

U are doing the same thing i accused the op of ..u are over-thinking context and fallaciously summing up 1+1 to make 11.... now dont get me wrong...u could be right... but u could also be wrong.....

Now...do u agree manipulator need not have ur heart desire in his pocket before he can deceive or manipulate you to do what he wants....he just needs to know what u desire.....??

Which brings me back to my first point...We have one fact about the devil...the fallen angel is a confirmed liar....he twisted the very words of God in eden...his words cannot be trusted.

victooman:
my brother even if l become a priest l wont finish this family issues,,,

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