₦airaland Forum

peepydelano:
What a disrespectful uncultured woman. The husband should do the needful with her asap

If this is your view of the situation, then I fear for the lady that makes the mistake of saying "Yes I do" to you. The man is a disgrace to his home, unfortunately for him its in public view

Nextlife1:
My friend is the person that wear shoe no where is paining him.
One every body is not the same yes she have wrong me and humanity .
I can't pay evil with evil
Let her have the result that's my gift to her.
Bro we have come along way.
There was a time we don't have things to eat or clothes to wear but she was with me .
But today is different I was even planning to send her to UK by next year before I discovered this cheating.
But life goes on.
Am bagging God to heal my pain.
I keep my body for my wife alone even as she is living in school.
I don't have thought of looking after another woman.

Your house is on fire and you are more concerned about the damage the water used to extinguish the flame will cause to the wall paintings, then I doubt there is any way you can help the situation.

Your wife is cheating on you (according to you) but you are more bothered about how confronting her about your findings will affect her studies, then I doubt you will find any solution on nairaland.

I imagine you are also the one making the repairs? Who will be responsible for the wear and tear for the 2 weeks?

Omoapena:
Guys
Pls help me, I had an HP agreement with someone and we have gone 8months down the agreement...
Suddenly, this my partner just messaged me now that he wants to use the car during the festive period for 2 weeks.

This is HP agreement we have and not rentals and he's sounding so personal...
Pls, what do I do...

Bro...dont yield to such rubbish except it is clearly stated in the contract. If the guy will use ut for 2 weeks, it should either be taken off the lease period or he pays a rental because you use it to feed and for those period you would be rendered incomeless.

You need to emphasize this.

Nextlife1:
Yes am for real
We went through alot together
She cheating on me is a very big mistake she chose to make for herself.
I don't want to away the only last thing that can keep her moving that her results.
She can get work and continue her life. Reason I don't want to come between her success.
She have destroyed me around.
I will wait till after her exams just like I said before discussing it with her.

You paid a caterer to prepare a meal for you. The caterer starts preparing it but is dishing out the meal you paid for to others.

You notice the fraud but will not challenge it because you are concerned the caterer may get distracted and burn the food. So you'll just wait till the caterer finishes cooking.

Bros, keep waiting there

Nextlife1:
Am not
I spent alot on the education
And we both managed together when we have nothing and she was loving caring and above all understanding. I mate her vagin.

You claim your wife is cheating on you but you are bothered if telling her will affect her performance in her exams and how much you spent on her education..are you for real man?

Nextlife1:
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.

You must be a comedian

annisy:
Why are northerners not too fascinated with the japa fever, 8 out of every 10 relocating are from Southern Nigeria!!

Most educated northerners have good jobs as they are more favoured in recruitment into gov agencies so they have little interest in looking outside Nigeria .

They uneducated ones are largely unenlightened about what goes on outside their communities which is why most southern candidates struggle to get their votes

Perkins1:
The hearing, we were given awaiting trial and had to be transferred to Oko prison pending when our case will be visited. The family of the guy that sets us up we're t satisfied with the way the judgment is going and how 8 of us now remain 5 had to pull strings together and one night after roll call, we were dressed in prison clothe and leg cuffed in an Hilux car to be transferred.

By morning we found ourselves in Abuja, As the policemen that brought us were doing paperworks and handing us over to the wardens and custodians of the Kuje prison. I was so tired as I had already urinated on my body because the Hilux only stop when they want to stop not when any of us asked to be stop even if you're pressed. I was at the back of the Hilux with 3 other guys guarded at each flank by arm wielding Mobile Police while two persons were in the front cabin of the vehicle. Next day we had already changed to the prison wear and assigned a cell. I was paired with some other inmates who weren't friendly nor foes as many of them were hausas-fulani, they really didn't care about me or why I am here, most of their conversation were in fafulde (don't think I got that right). At this time I had already spent 1 month 2 weeks in prison custody combine. My father now was doing his job trying to get a court to see our case and at least sentence us so he can appeal or whatever (I wouldn't know since I didn't get to find out) again, when you're arrested, then you will know why they say LIFE NA PER HEAD. Nobody not even big shoe whom I thought would give his life for me or even my Head or Zonal head to at least make some calls, I began to hate the NBM and curse everyday I led myself into this bondage.

I was highly malnourished as loss so much appetite, I hated life and started avoiding people, I was washing my uniform one afternoon by the corner when a warden came for me that I have a visitor. Me? Perkins? A visitor? How? Where? I immediately followed him because if you delay you would not be allowed to see the person. I came out, met my GF and the family of the boy that arrested us, the boy told me he has pleaded with his father that he had agreed to kill the case if we sign undertaking that nothing at all will happen to the boy or any member of his family and we will keep our distance from him in this life and next.

I couldn't believe what I was hearing maybe malnutrition has deafened my hearing system till it was re-echoed and this time I quickly accepted and a member of the family said they will contact our parents and let them know, that day was my happiest day at that time because again, I will soon be free little did I know the devil cannot give you anything for free, I was so happy that in my head I hald already started a new life. I thank my GF and assured her I am fine she shouldn't worry much that I will soon be out, she gave me 11,000 for my upkeep, I gave the warder 2k and kept the rest with me. It was a long night that night as I couldn't sleep o was just smiling and gushing over what I heard earlier today.

Our case will was rearrange as just cultist and not murderers and we are to meet with a competent court sooner than later. I started counting days and nights but it kept eloping as it draws near. Till the d day we filed in in a mini black Maria bus to Federal High Court. The judge didn't waste time as he passed judgement on us for 2 years in prisonment subject to change in behavior and good manners.

I wailed so bad because at that time I know I had lost everything, two years in prison is too hard, I would have liked to be flogged 50 strokes of wipe everyday instead. I and 2 others guys was what was left as others had been secretly released and taken to a new town hence the change in the case file, with an IPO. I a known hard and rugged demon now reduced to a mere baby crying like a woman. We were taken back to the prison and instead of feeling and praying for me, other inmates were telling me congratulations for getting two years that some of them had been there longer than the two years I was given still awaiting trials.

I took solace in my God and my fate. I was sleeping after morning drill when I was called to the waiting room and there I met one of my uncle whom stays in Abuja tho it's been long but I knew him, he told me my mum wants to speak with me on phone and he called, my mum was crying, I was just telling her I am sorry mummy, please don't cry, I am fine. I am fine thinking she was crying because of me until she said amidst cries. Nnamdi, your father is dead, he died last week on his way to Abuja for your case hearing. Immediately I sat down and look at my uncle's face for confirmation and he nodded in agreement. Then I knew I am finished.

In this life or next, if you love yourself and have any atom of humanity, shun cultism it will kill you, it will destroy the man you are inside and reduce your worth before you know it.

Don't be deceived, Cultism is evil. I will stop here, I can't continue this story no more. Peace be unto everyone.

God bless

Sorry I had to quote this in full because I believe God on this day is speaking to someone and I am happy to re-echo it.

If you still choose cultism or remain in it after this guy's story, you are a big fool. Davido did not make it because of cultism, he made it because he is from a wealthy family and has talent..I am yet to see the person that has live a long fulfilling life because he is a cultist. very foolish fellows

Sorry bro, I recall you mentioned this months ago, but seeing the whole detail, I feel really bad. Even a s a student I wondered how people chose to leave their peaceful life as students with unfettered freedom from parents to enter the bondage of cultism where they live with the hearts in their mouths that every day could be their last.

othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

Remarriage is not the issue, why would he have to leave his father's house so a stranger can live there? does that not sound abnormal to you?

A responsible man would not even agree that the former husband's only son be ejected from his father's house so he can live there. He wants to start a home, where is his own house?

A man that would do that will likely lay claim to the house later in the future

Greattestman:
Which stupid side of the story permits a mother to send her son to go and suffer while she brings in a useless street dick to enjoy the son's father's hard labour? You don't know how irritating it is that is why you are running your mouth like water tap. Wait until it happens to you.

Is there a reason why your mum isnt moving to her husband-to-be-house? Also, let your family intervene to decide/share your dad's property if he died intestate because it appears your mum is prioritizing her new partner over you

AreaFada2:
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Even if they caused problems, indiscriminate shooting is bad. Controlling them should be done cautiously.
Back in the day, during holiday visits to the village, hunters and trappers used to hunt wild pigs, deers & antelopes easily. Traps caught many too.

But now they are hard to come by.

Those monitor lizards, it should be a crime killing them.

Pork is widely available now to buy.

Happy to see we have many pro-conservationist on this thread. This is not about scarcity of food because it cost more to purchase than a goat or domesticated pig, it is also not about economic empowerment for the hunter because they are very poor people and it is dangerous work.

If you leave it to politicians, these animals would be extinct before the next generation because they don't even care much about the lives of even the humans in the country.

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Dgamezzz:
She will not be the first woman to be pregnant before marriage neither the last. If she becomes pregnant I love her and I will still marry her.

The last woman that got pregnant for you, you didnt marry , you've started promising marriage to anther one

sukkot:
i lived in the state of Illinois for 10 years. thats still in america the last time i checked. Chicago to be exact. went to the same school jagaban went to

Did you also work in Deloitte?

eventainment:
My policy has been my friend without being told I pay for referrals immediately.... I give 10-20% . it has given more clients; try not be greedy with money people like getting rewarded for trying to help you

This is how we normalise bad things. Why would you normalise kick-backs? The silly lady left Nigeria because she clearly realise its not a working country largely because of corruption and went to the uk to practice same.

@dailyparrot, dont give her 1kobo.

If she is proud of her action, when billing next time, tell her referrals there is an additional 10-20% surcharge to cover her commission.

Btw why will someone in the uk be asking for her cut on ngn25,000? . Some people are just too greedy

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asanausana91:
where did you get the south west in my reply

Why would I be referring to any other place in the south? At that, the only other place that had security issues before Buhari was the south south which was linked to militancy in the oil-rich regions

asanausana91:
don't forget that kidnapping started in the south when Buhari was not the president.

Oga, point your reference of where kidnapping started in the southwest?

I grew up in Lagos and had projects taking me across the southwest almost every weekend. I had never for once heard of people being kidnapped even at night. It was only occasional robberies and accidents due to the state of the road.

asanausana91:
evil people like you will not appreciate and commend the soldiers, but you will be the first person to insult buhari and the soldiers if a fake news is spread against them.

Sorry to say but you lack common sense. I spent most of my life in Nigeria and this is the first time Lagos Ibadan is now a road to dread travelling. Some years back I use to commute lagos -Ibadan every weekend for over 1 year and no one ever taught of kidnapping as something to be bothered about. How did the country get to this point under buhari where we hold our hearts when people use interstate roads even in the west?

Eight years of Buhari and APC has done such harm across the country that the next administration would almost certainly struggle

Jones4190:
tinubu is coming to save Nigeria

Save Ngr from Apc, Buhari or both?

Ekundayo7574:
All this stuff are not my problem my main problem are those deceivers hiding under the labor party disturbing our peace

Upon an already fail election

If insecurity, dollar rate tending to ngn1,000, hyper inflation, fuel scarcity, high unemployment are not considered problems by you but an opposition party hoping to turn things around is...you do not know what a problem is

handsomeyinka:
I believe Tinubu will try his best. May God Help Us.
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If tinubu can support buhari for 8 years then its he either doesnt know bettee or knows better but hates the country

salbis:
Some northern parts of the country gets their supplies from Niger according to some gas dealers. Perhaps, that could be the reason.

We dont have infrastructure to ship large quantities of gas from niger to nigeria, that is wrong

pat077:
How come is it cheaper in the North than the South, is the state government subsidising it or what?

Nlng is probably the largest player in the market and they are probably selling at a common wholesale price same way your pepsi and fanta is sold. So, every wholesaler can get at same price but since the cost of running a business is higher in the south than north, southern retailers build a larger margin into their selling price, making it more expensive in the south

Terminator0x0:
I am seeking for job I deserve it but the baby doesn't deserve she doesn't know anything

Keep pushing to help the child and keep your home...I dont know what your exact circumstances it but many are truggling in Nigeria not because they are lazy or dumb...its just a hard country , no thanks to its leaders

doggedfighter:
A lecturer got as low as assisting his daughter in boyfriend ,sugar daddy dragging matter.



A tout in academia


Is he getting returns from his daughter ?

The man being dragged must be a politician.

Who are the stupid boys engaged to flog and brutalize a girl ?

Undergraduates, maybe !


She was even taken to a location for proper manhandling.

She's lucky to escape being murdered.



A show of shame !

the Nigerian education system is not designed to retain the best minds out of the lot, many of his colleagues are not better than him

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