Peter532:
no I am not

You robed her of her teenage years...she's gone to rediscover it .

Remember those younger days when you wanted to explore all to life? She at that age.

Sorry for d child caught inbetween

Demolakay:

First class ignorance.Russia is d biggest country in d world! more Dan 3 times bigger Dan china,how can such b a province in china? some pple sha!

The ignorance on display here is yours.

Russia's economy is smaller than Italy's (despite russia being 57 times bigger than Italy in land mass).

The Russian economy is 1/8 the size of china's.

Russia is largely has an extractive industry with very limited capacity to produce consumer goods. If China doesnt show mercy on russia, the country will flounder. The west has also started phases out Russian oil and gas from their value chain...this is by far Russias moat significant export and they need a big uptaker to replace the west.

China is Russia's lifeline to survive western sanctions which is why the G7 recently warned China to not undermine russia's sanction (https://www.google.com/amp/s/tass.com/world/1451391/amp). I quoted Tass because some russian bots on NL will quote it as propaganda...but this is russian gov official news outlet.

In any relationship between china ans russia, russia will have to bow to china and trust the chinese to take advantage of it

1stGenAmerican:


Every time the Russian Army retreats from the failed takeover of a Ukrainian city, you guys try to convince us that the city was considered strategically unimportant. We know better, starting with Kiev. Which strategy includes retreating from the capital without leaving soldiers to occupy the entire city? Which Army would waste time and resources attacking cities that are ‘strategically unimportant’?
You know better, just like we know better.

Dont waste your time arguing with them. I have come to believe they are paid Russian trolls. There explanation often defies common sense

APC2:

My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

Oga sometimes you live and let live. From your write up you had money for hotel and money for a 2nd wife, why didnt you just give your wife money or part of it when you realise she was insistent? You could jokinly just tell her you expect a miracle for this bag of rice or no more buying or some other joke that clearly conveys your opposition to it. With time she will understand your perspective. No woman in her right sense will want to impoverish the home she lives in...she is just misled and oga you must learn a more matured way to deal with that. That is why you are the head of the home and by God's grace the bread winner.

In this 21st century you may not find a spouse that you expect to say yes to your every instruction or opinion. Women today will like you to debate them and explain why they are wrong and honestly even your 2nd wife may not be any better. She may just be letting you have your way because you have the leverage (money).

God forbid, if you lose the ability to carter for her or she starts earning as much as you, then you will know every woman has her opinion and being the head of the home, you must learn how to manage and control such without being dismissive.

Also banish domestic violence from your home....never tolerate her raising her hand on you and never raise your hands on her. You beat her till she could not stand? What if she developed some serious medical issue? If she cant be civil in her behaviour, send her out of the house

subsidywise18:


Naira is falling because we are not a manufacturing and exporting society

We sell oil and the price most of the time does not favour us

Petrol has been trading at highs for over 1year now, why then is the naira still in a steep decline?

A lot of civil servants are less diligent in their work and more focus on politics and other distractions. No accountability....ASUU is on strike , Ngige rather than dealing with the frequent and longing strike, Emefiele is fixated on politics than salvaging the destructive diff between the official & parallel rate that is driving round-tripping

Larryfest:

Ahahaha pls don't make me laugh... More eggs to sell Even this one she sold I'm so pissed off about it, who knows if there will be consequences later.

Bros ask her when she is ovulating next
....perhaps this is the God-given solution to your financial problem.

Also, you should be happy putting a smile on some chidless couple somewhere

post=112685575:

Like seriously
Wakanda fvckery is this?

This was the kind of fuckery you displayed for 8 years with the lifeless one....pls let them have their time....Sylvia is a performer

ElijahIme1992:
looooooooooool so why are the Ukrainians crying about the 60 people killed? If Ukrainians kill na soldiers but if Russia kill Dem go say na women and children abeg leave us make we continue the killings dey go we go see who go tire...

Incase you don't realise the war is not just fought on the battlefield, its being fought in the information space.

One of the reasons why there was a "blitzkrieg" of sanctions on Russia was because the Ukrainians were able to distill the required information that demonised russia quite quickly in the war....nairaland is not the place for such arguements though

OBAGADAFFI:


What Russia is facing in Ukraine is not new
The US also lost Men and Arms in Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan.

The biggest loser is the one whose territory is been invaded.

It sad the Zelensky is ignoring advice from Europe and dancing to the US.

@bolded, wrong!!
Russia has taking bits of territory from Georgia, Moldova and Ukraine in the past, with all soviet states too fearful of confronting Russia.
This is the first time a "junior" soviet state will stand up to russia and go head to head with it and put up a credible defence that has caused russia significant loss

When this war is done, other soviet states would fancy their chance going against RUssia.

The fact that neighbouring states like Sweden and Finland that erswhile would dare to challenge russia have openly declared during the war that they will strongly consider joining Nato is an indication of the damage to russia's standing.

Russia's economy will remain extraction based a longer period also, outside the Chinese, there will be very little FDI going there

Dvdpity:
Ukraine still losing territories.. losing equipment, losing soldiers, losing various infrastructures, losing a lot, do you know how many generals, majors, and other ranks that Russia has? Soldiers will always die in wars. And will be replaced but the lose of territories and infrastructures is very hard to get back again. Especially territories that are the bread basket of country. Well let keep the show on.. Ukraine is winning.. hahahaha.

Russia is the invading army...its for Putin to justify why the country has to suffer the continuing loss of men and armour at a rate that has tarnished Russia image as a superpower and rather than deter, encouraged neighbouring states to take an anti-Russian stance some even threatening to join Nato (https://www.oryxspioenkop.com/2022/02/attack-on-europe-documenting-equipment.html)

For Ukraine, they are fighting for their home and very existence, the loss is higher at other end, but it is an easier story to sell at their end as a battle for the very survival of their statehood for which no price is to small. Its a battle of will,and with weapons flowing in from the west unabated , Russia will blink first, I can bet that with you. Russia knows this to that's why we have the near weekly threat of nuclear weapons from Russia. The fact that Ukraine has been foot dragging and changing its stance in negotiations should tell you they are also smelling a bleeding bear with a potential to further humiliate russia (https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2022/4/22/russia-putin-ukraine-inconsistency-negotiations)

Ballzproblemm:
until the woman go divorce am take half of his wealth,black footballers never learn, I no say make you no date white ,but to marry them, absolutely no

You're spot on bro..what most of them don't realise is a black woman is more likely to be tolerant of your failings than a white woman because they have more respect for family as a unit and co-parenting. Ignore those saying the race of the wife doesn't matter.

PerfectStranger:

C. Ronaldo na og. Baba no wan marry that him baby mama. Fear of child support and shit.

Irrespective of marital status, you must take responsibility for your child. What he may probably avoid is sharing his property with the girlfriend.

Mooh247:





Thank God he is making the work of other aspirants easier by castigating his own Government which he spent 8 years as number 2 man, trying to exonerate himself forming Saint

Ask Him what he did with his security votes for 8 years and what he spent his office running cost on



.

I guess this is to say the VP is bad but Tinubu is good. For as much as it is agreed that Buhari failed Nigerians both are responsible because the additional 4 years of suffering Nigerians will suffer under Buhari was largely as a result of both men not having the basic sincerity to admit Buhari's first term was a failure and he was not going to take Nigeria anywhere good if given 4 years.

And no,Nigeria should not be Tinubu's gift for loyalty or whatever virtue. Anyone who wants to shown gratitude to Tinubu can offer any personal gift to him including his wife and children. The lives of 200million nigerians should not be a gift to anybody.

micro111:
I was scam from this person Kuda customer yesterday.
Account number: 2000799340
Account name: Kuda
Name: Ibukunoluwa Imoleayo Adeyemi
Phone number: +234 915 843 6428

I was trying to buy usdt to save my money but he blocked me on WhatsApp after I made the payment
The sum of #105,966

I posted it here to serve as a morral lessons to us, and if there is any way you guys can help me retrieve the money, your help is highly needed

you have binance? why do unsecured transaction?

Anyway you can implicate the guy by filing a compliant with kuda emphasing clearly that it was a cryptotransaction

paracolaxnear1:
Jagaban Borgu slayer of Meth cannibals. The man that singlehandedly reformed policing in Lagos by bringing the RRS which has til today been the most equipped and best police division in the country. That is exactly why we are supporting this man

You're supporring him because of hunger....confess bro. .
Hopefully his bullion van will reach your side

Very wrong of him but could it be your husband likes dirty talk and you come up as being too godly for such dirty talk

baby124:

Do you have a comment or advise for the lady or are you just an arm chair critic. Drop your advise and go away.

as I suspected, you dont have a logical response to the comment.

@lefemmechoclat, dont let anyone mislead you. Your husband was clearly very wrong. It's a complete betrayal of trust. Should you decide to forgive him it's totally up to you.

baby124:

Go and make up with your husband and stop coming here to find support that will break your home. You have a provider and a hard worker but here you are ranting and raving. You married him without even bothering to know where he is from and understanding his culture, yet you want to blame him. That is your fault, own it! You don’t marry a stranger and form ignorant when they start doing things relating to their culture. You have a hard time admitting to faults and you are hell bent on blaming him.

Look, he will take care of you and family as he’s doing well and, he will take care of his family at home. It’s our culture, we have responsibilities. Best to advise him to get his dependents something doing, like a skill. Cheaper and he can hands off after that. His parents though, he will have to care fir them till they die, especially as a first son because, he inherits everything in their culture. Your fault for marrying without thinking. Now, you are married, work it out! You think taking care of a special needs child all by yourself is going to be easy abi?

If he cannot afford your demands after divorce, now what? Continue on the path you have slowly designed for yourself. You will come here and relate it. You need to learn the art of thinking, telling yourself the truth and trying to weigh risks and benefits for your own good. All the best. Lawyer is there to make his own money and does not care. At the end of the day, you will realize you played yourself.

As a lady, you consider it right for a partner to make a significant financial decision that could imperil the family without bothering to carry you along?

The husband is completely wrong and just abused his partner's trust. How many of the wife's tradition does the husband understand and will he be open to being a casually of an illogical decision arising from her tradition without his consent?

lefemmechoclat:
I'm a joker? Ok so be it. I worked 2 jobs for 2 years at one point even 3 jobs.. 2 during the day and a rotating at night to support my home. Even first car I helped him buy and cosigned..where is it? In nigeria with his parents. So you telling me i didn't deserve to know and how his igbo responsibility is most important. That is fine that is why i paid my retainer and signed the paperwork to initiate the divorce. You can sit here and really think him doing what igbo men do should supercede all the responsibility at home and the debts am carrying.

your husband's actions are inexcusable. He failed to liberate himsel from certain backward traditions held by the igbos.

I have igbo friends with successful careers, who lived and worked in Lagos, but were building mansions in their home towns which they only ever used when they went for the christmas holidays. I often questioned the logic of this reasoning.

I understand it's some kind of tradition that arose from the igbos having their assets outside their homelands expropriated during the Nigerian civil war of the 1960s. The traditional is now a main stay in igbo home town.

I am sure your husband knew it would sound illogical to you that is why he hid it from you.

Sorry....you married an igbo man that failed to break free from a tradition that many outside their region find illogical.

justwise:


Did you notice how other black celebrities were comforting him and not Chris? Did you notice that he received an award and standing ovations just after assaulting someone on live TV?

He did not even apologies to CR during his speech, only after hours of news coverage that he decided to apologise.

He laughed at that joke a first then turned around and noticed that his wife did not find it funny then lashed out.

Shame to those black celebrities comforting and supporting him after what he did.

Smith's behavior is inexcusable.

He is a comedian himself, and he no doubt has been poking fun at others, how many slapped him? are they not also people wives, husband, children e.t.c

Nigeria playing well....unfortunate early goal.

SE for the win!!!

Vaughanlanrewaj:

It takes someone with digusting lack of empathy to know one.
Right now, I will join other patriotic Nigerians to insist that FG must get justice for all the victims.,No terrorist must be spared! If this is US where terrorist kill their citizens, they will first unite against the terrorists even before going tribal or clannish like you are doing.
Every victim on the ill fated train is my brother or sister.
The evil though you wished upon Nigeria and Nigerians will visit you.

just go and write a cv. when tinubu loses you may need to apply for a job that requires you to use your sense.

Vaughanlanrewaj:


All you see is politics and that is why you pollute this thread with your hatred and bigotry against Buhari.

This is a time most citizens unite to beat evil forces but to hateful lots like you, anyone saying otherwise is supporting Buhari. How can evil forces maul down our own citizens and we can not unite to insist that those evil forces be dealt with just beggars belief. No terrorist should be allowed to go scot free killing or wounding a Nigerian!
You will reap the evil thoughts you have towards Nigeria and Nigerians in your life.

If you are still able to use your brain cells, I will leave you to draw conclusion between your dispicable comments and your fellow bmc.

I dont intend to drag it with you though, arguement with a bmc is a waste of time. same with those pushing the deadbeat tinubu.

Your disgusting lack of empathy is enough reason for anyone to knw that tinubu should never have anything to do in abuja. so I am not surprised...your mentor was also the one that mocked people complaining of herdsmen attacks.

Vaughanlanrewaj:

Your hate for buhari that always makes you wish evil upon Nigeria and Nigerians will eventually consume you.
The evil you wish upon others will visit you first because you reap what you sow in life.

I knew you evil lot deliberately used twitter as usual and I repeat, only the less discerning will not query your intention.
If you did not kill her and confirmed her dead, you should not get jittery and spiteful because I insisted that I will never believe any negative news from ipob hijacked twitter because of my past experience

I will not bow to your negative evil and toxic ipob terrorism .
Until her family or FG confirms her dead, I wish her soonest recovery and pray she is alive the same way those you reported dead during endsars turned out to be alive

Just checking, you are the freeloader that started as Buhari's bmc cum Tinub bmc...

I hope tinubu will give you something else doing when nigerian throws his presidential ambition into the bin

Also, hw is everyone who critises buhari , ipob? you guys need to do better in selling your candidates, if at all there is something to sell there

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Truth will still come out.
Past gory images on twitter have turned out to be fake.
I believe she has a family and one should expect to hear from them by now.

This should not be another lekkilies where suddenly all those reportedly killed turned out alive or having no relatives come out to state that any of their relative missing or dead.
Never again will we allow twitter be used to peddle fake news and hate news.

Her family should please speak up. Twitter is not her family or family compound.

Those speaking ill of Nigeria because they hate Buhari will reap what they sow.

If you sow good in Nigeria, good you will reap and if you sow curses, curses and badluck you will eventually reap from Nigeria. Nigeria will never bless you and whatever you sow in Nigeria.

another senseless one speaks .

What exactly does buhari give you guys to make you drop your basic sense of reasoning and self-respect?

Please if you have nothing better to say , keep quiet.

At least I noted some hardcore BMC monikers that have learnt that.

You support buhari not, no true nationalist can say the country isnt in a very sorry state right now.

Kobojunkie:
Please stop praying and go get him to see a child therapist. That boy does not need "deliverance", what he needs is special attention, and the clues you get from therapists can help you better understand and give him the kind of attention he needs..

Not to discount your good advice, but really do you think prayer isnt necessary?

Also, why do we look down on everything African?

The white men have their way of dealing with this, Africans also have their way. I for one, know the African way works quite well. Let us not be brainwashed into thinking the whiteman's way is always better.

I for one know if I can get him to Nigeria for 3-4 years he will be straightened up, I am concern about the emotional toll of family seperation

klassyguy:
I appreciate all the comments, suggestions, and criticisms from everyone. Some of the comments reminded me of some things I have observed of him.

1. He does seem to be technical. My son talks about trains, fire engines, and other stuff. He has several toy trains and he is always taking them apart and tries to put them back together.

2. Contrary to some comments, I manage their screen time. They do not watch anything or play the PS5 until the weekend. The games he plays are not violent. I intentionally have Parental Control on the console, and he only asks me to download his train simulator, Firetruck games, and once in a while he plays the Lego Jurassic park.

3. He knows he gets to only play during the weekend. So he doesn't even bother asking for the PS or even logging into Youtube until Saturday or Sunday. He does not go behind my back to play it while I'm not hime, and if he does want to play on weekends and I'm not home, he always calls me on his mom's phone to ask for permission first. Most of the week, he just plays with his toys and lego bricks.

Like some of you fine people said, he may be bored at the level he is and needs something more challenging. I remember one day I caught him watching something out of the norm. I insisted he showed me what he was watching. The kid was shaking that day. Only for me to see a video on how airplanes work. I asked him why he was scared, and he told me he thought I will slap him for watching something other than kids stuff on YouTube. another day he asked me if we can continue to watch the video I was watching on History channel. I asked him which video, and he said "Bismarck". I was surprised he knew about it, and when I asked him what it was, he said it was a big battleship that shoots. Right now as I type this, I can see him watching something about the design of school buses.

I plan on setting up an appointment to see his pediatrician this week to rule out the ADHD.

Thank you all and I will keep you all posted.

Bro, you're not alone. I have a son that about behaves this exact way except he is three years old. I also suspect attention deficit disorder.

It has gotten so bad, my wife is scared and embarrassed to take him outside because he can very easily throw a feat of tantrum.

On my part I must carry or hold him while strolling or else bros will get lost looking left and right.

I have also considered and still consider having him raised in Nigeria till he is at least 6 or 7 years and can properly understand instructions with proper discipline installed. His situation is putting a strain on us too...I have even started praying about his situation.

GerogeI:


Yes, this is a big possibility, but the real truth is that there ain't so many countries rich in oil and gas, and capable in technology, and with a stable government able to prevent war from Russian territories. So investors will readily lend to Russia, again and again as long as they issue that directive for Payment and the funds exist. Who is more risky to lend to, Russia or Nigeria?

Now I know many argue blindly here. Only government held investment funds with a political mandate symphathic to russia will be willing to invest in their debt market right now.

Even their stock and capital market remains closed because most international companies are are the door waiting to exit the economy.

Neither the economy of russia nor ukraine will come off better from this war

https://www.aa.com.tr/en/russia-ukraine-war/russia-s-stock-market-to-remain-closed-this-week/2534261

Mynd44:


Queen to D7; Check!

Nothing to check bro... in the near future when the government goes to the market to raise funds. They will know the implication of their actions.

The private sector will also struggle to refinance or issue new bonds with very high interest rate to compensate for the risk of non-payment