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Why do ladies think they can give definitions of a man in comparison to a boy?

You read their submissions and encounter cloying parochial sensationalism.

ajl:
And down the road they become oppressed just like any African-American and Black Briton. Maybe the first generation may pick some of your culture but from the second generation down they will be no different from African-Americans or blacks in Europe who are daily sent to prisons for minor crimes compared to white, some even killed in their home by white cops. And if their population get too much, their "master" could choose to obliterate some of them systematically from the face of the earth.

You all do not know you are under continuous attack in Africa and elsewhere you choose to run. As your master perfectly describe you, most of you only have the power of the Now but not the vision of the future. You are virtually owned because your narratives is in the hands of your master.

And who is my master? Your own master has enslaved you right here in your own land; in the land of your ancestors. If you resist his yoke, he will scourge you with his soldiers and send you to jail and you will weep and trend hash tags that will last for a week and fade into oblivion.

I will come visiting from my sojourn and be treated as expatriate and made Lord over you regardless of your prowess and qualification and I would be deemed better than you by those who rule you. If I chose to oppress you with your own police, there would be nothing you could do because even your own courtrooms are the havens of your masters who invited me to be captain over your irrelevant life.

Do away with your foolery. Your brothers have enslaved you and your descendants, yet you are proud of your dung hill of a home. What a joke.

This is what we should do for our kids. Give them better opportunities to excel.

Female welder?

Like she welds only female pieces of steel or what?



Why do women think adding “female” to their profession makes them more admirable? Female doctors, female photographer, female pilot.

Isn’t that lending credence to the concept of patriarchy they work so hard to demonise? That you can do something men do, should make you special? Why? Are men gods? Does it mean, measuring up to us is a feat to be celebrated.

This equality journey is a rough ride.

But somehow it won’t catch these Danfos.

Now I understand why people would call a story one sided.

cooooooks:
He's not innocent. He's cheated before.

She didn’t catch him. And it’s her insecurities that probably drove him to seek fresh air outside.

Selfkontrol, you can marry her if you think she is not the type that would wake up one day and stab you before breakfast.

Me I can’t deal with insecure chicks. They will snap one day and break your head.

I thought you said she loves you.



Don’t let one small girl mess with your mind. Dump her. There are plenty replacements.

Inthemoment:

You missed “idîot girl”.

Maybe she’s planning to be unfortunate and useless in life and not earn any money cos she has nothing of value to offer to employers or customers.

Maybe you’re running a charity.

One thing is certain. She doesn’t have sense.

bjtinz:
Shuo!! easy naa no be fight! E come be like your own pass the bf own self.

Na joke oo

No vex.

I’m just tired of seeing people get hurt because they manage violent partners.

Fountainofyouth:
[s]Next time, go for a working class, independent, mature lady, not a student or someone you want to control with money.[/s]

Wow! What a senseless angle! Somehow you concluded that he wanted to control her with money?

Can any man control you with money? Are you so bereft of dignity, that controlling her with money actually seems like a valid factor to you?

Nonsense talk.

Another nice guy eating dust here.


Sorry bro. Ladies don’t love nice guys.

These days, it appears they want bossy, angry, disrespectful but handsome guys.

I know how it feels to be dumped without any reasonable reason. Now it’s time for you to do the dumping.

This is how girls create loveless monsters out of men and later come to cry on twitter that men are scum.

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I know a sad story. I’ll summarise.

A guy was cheated on and dumped (for no reason) and had his heart shattered by a woman he loved deeply. He was devastated. Age was not on his side any more and pressure to marry arose from family. He married another woman and has kids with her now.

He confessed to a friend that he actually doesn’t love his wife and he suspects she knows it. He says he just does his duty as a husband and father but love is an alien concept to him now. He doesn’t cheat on her though. But there is no love. Just duty.

It’s not my story.

ibkayee:
I was being sarcastic, it didn’t translate that way because you’re not the first to question me about it, my bad.

I think she should definitely leave him just to be clear

My bad. I didn’t see the sarcasm at all, especially given the simplistic reasons many young ladies concoct for staying in abusive relationships.

I’m sorry.

How many “bye” did I read in that chat log? Like 100 or so.


This girl suspects too much. Ah ahn. Innocent brother like this, you’re suspecting him. For what?

If you’re sure she can’t poison you later on in life, stay with her.


But this your breakup chat is too funny abeg.

ibkayee:
You should probably leave him

Probably? How do you small girls think?

You think he’s in a phase and would grow out of it later? You think you can change him into a better man?

You think his handsomeness is something to die for? Or you just don’t value your life because deep down, you’re suicidal?


I pity you.

Stupîd girl.

I have no pity for you. You deserve further beating since you have no sense to leave him.

If you were my sister, I would knock the both of you soundly on your empty heads. Idîot girl.

With the inundating stories online, of violence in relationships, this stubborn girl is still managing a violent boyfriend.

Stupîd girl.



Mods forgive me but it’s really heartbreaking that this girl wants to join the statistic so bad.

The wedding is quite confusing.

Who is the guy? Udeme or Godwin?

Girls be looking for reasons to breakup with broke guys and still retain their “good girl” reputation. They don’t want people to know that money is the factor that drives their decisions.

Break up with him with your full chest. No fear.

She say money is not a problem Comedy Half hour.

Misogynist007:
Treat guys here with respect if you don't want your self confidence shattered
And I hope you are not a feminist?
Cause we slaughter feminist for food here


Welcome to the family

SeunDobo:
Thank you bro

You’re welcome bro

Good. Too much insanity on Lagos roads. Especially the return of those pesky Okada riders. There is no space too small for them. They’ll just brush your side mirror and disappear.

I don laugh tire.

Bro, you are dating your husband.

Translate it to Yoruba to understand the nuances.




Dump her like bad habit.

The biggest investor in Nigeria today. What a mantle to wear.

kingkakaone:
A big and skillful one at that.

I tell you!

One of my biggest mistakes in my love life was dating an introvert.

I had to prise her opinions out of her like, every damn time, and it was so exhausting.

Date an introvert only if you’re comfortable playing guessing games every time you need an explanation.

kingkakaone:
Just look at the story you will understand that the guy is being played by the girl here.

A virgin only gets attached to someone she's slept with, so having feelings for her ex means she slept with him in the past or the ex is pumping money on her.

Secondly, the lady is a confused one here. How can you still get attached to a guy who cheated on you which ended the relationship and still have feelings as a virgin?

Thirdly, this guy will get tired if he eventually, from things I learned in the past, you get tired after victory that little things may get you pissed and feel you fought for something that you never truly understood.

Finally, we might be dealing with teenagers here so no advice we give can work. You know how teenagers behave.

To end it, I might be wrong with my analysis too.

You are not wrong. That girl is a player.

A runs girl in training.

Eyeness:
i dont do micropenises

Somehow you can see that from whatever hole you crawled out of, this morning.

Girl, you have no idea. (I could say that literally and still be spot on!)

Luckily for me, I don’t do bimbos. Better luck next time.

funmisticqueen:
pervert

Hush! Don’t call your boyfriend’s name in public like that. Have you no manners?

In other words, you can hôe around until he weds your àss, as relationships/courtships are merely cosmetic and not serious commitments in any sense.



This opening post reads pretty much like an excerpt from the memoirs of a runs girl.



I can imagine the amount of “thought” (thoughtlessness- more like ) that informed this advice.

Eyeness:
medication from a quack with STD infected dick? I'll rather take from doctor funmisticqueen

Same dick you just can’t but twerk on all day, moaning and singing off key to your heart’s content? Yeah, I understand you miss the action.

Why are you calling on your friend? Want a party? Not sure I swing that way anymore.