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Sixfeetbelle:
Simple question that required simple answer, yet you went on a tirade.

Have a good day

Because it was a dishonest question.

Sixfeetbelle:
This is a case of infidelity and paternity fraud. In this situation, the man could have taken a walk but he didn't.

Did she deserve it or not?

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Are you also justifying murder? Why are you uncertain whether she deserved it or not. Anyway, I wouldn’t be surprised if you believe she deserved to die for her infidelity. You have expressed somewhat similar sentiments before.

I am not surprised you are making a case for broke and entitled women. There are quite a number of young guys who share your views.

When you are conditioned to think a boyfriend should be financially responsible for his girlfriend, you would express the same sentiments as the OP.

Broke and entitled girls would broke-shame you so that your ego would drive you to spend on your girlfriend. Spending on your babe is not a thing of pride. It is not a benchmark for financial freedom or maturity or masculinity.

Saying ONLY broke guys complain about a girl‘s “financial downside” (whatever that means) is a clear indication that you are firmly under manipulation and largely oblivious to the fact.

There is nothing wrong with guys refusing to settle for broke girls. Women routinely choose men who earn more than they do. You have no problem with that. Why then do you have a problem with men who want women who can at least “hold their side”?

Why is your claim to manhood attached to spending on a girlfriend? A man who needs to spend money to obtain a woman’s loyalty or love, is miserable. Your love life is pay as you go. The affection you get is only as good as the cash you spend on her. How can that be normal to you?

Is she commodity? Are you paying her in gratitude for stooping low to date you? Are you that undesirable? Look man, you don’t have to prove anything. If she draws parallels between your money and her involvement in the relationship then she is the commodity. Your relationship is a mere transaction and is only as good as your last payment.

Don’t play yourself.

I think people misuse the term “hacking” these days.

The elders can have this. Abeg. Too much for me. My will is still very scanty.

He says he’s going to take legal action.

Watch feminists come her to claim he’s bullying the victim.

This is a clear case of false rape accusation. The man was not even at the hotel at the time.


Justin Bieber is the victim here.

Fruit Orchard?

Are there other kinds of orchard? Like beans orchard perhaps?

Yeah, it’s quite amusing to you people cos it’s a woman doing this shît.

I’m sure it wouldn’t be so funny if a man bought his wife a coffin for Mother’s Day.


Too many toxic women these days.

Nice!

Collect.

Then you step!

Why should you be shy to say “No, I’m not giving you that money”? Don’t you have things you’ve earmarked your funds for?

If they bill you and you’re not ready to dash your money out, say no. Let’s see if they really like you.

If you pay because you don’t want them to broke-shame you, then sorry, you’re not in control of your self esteem. Cos they can broke-shame anybody, even Dangote, if he refuses to spend on them. They’ll say he should look at his mates, Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos, who are spending on their wives. They forget that they, themselves, should also look at Oprah, their mothers’ mate or Kylie Jenner their younger sisters’ mate.

This their format should not work anymore. Guys, learn how to say no.

May we not attlact curses to ourselves.

Aksnoopy:
I tell each one of them that I have a gf, but they still don't seem to care.

If not because I have seen this kind of situation before I would have said you’re lying.

This guy told these two chicks that he has a babe he intends to marry. They didn’t listen. They were still hustling to replace the main babe.

One of them succeeded sha.

Aksnoopy:
Lol! I am in a relationship with 2, while 4 are in a relationship with me. I have the intention of marrying one of the two that I am in a relationship with.

So you’re wasting the time of 4 of them? That’s wickedness na.

GODPUNISHUNA:
It's very possible. I know someone dating 8 girls and they are on a timetable for visiting. The dude doesn't tolerate any of them visiting without calling him first

Timetable? There’s levels to this thing.

I was about to take you seriously until I read that you were in a relationship with 6 girls.

LuvSwollenPussy:
Marry who you are compatible with, simple! Feminist are humans and they are very vulnerable. In fact their rigidity is a defence mechanism to protect their fragile vulnerability

Don’t set yourself up.

Feminists are not persons you’d want to marry unless you actually don’t value your happiness.

If you desire a peaceful life, without living with someone who blames you for literally everything wrong in society, don’t date or marry a feminist.

Sixfeetbelle:
Wait, do you really think men who sleep with their maids consider the age? Besides, even if she isn't underage, she can still claim he forced her, because some men in truth may force the maid and threaten to send her back to her penury if she didn't comply.

Please you're not a child and giving you all these examples is wasting my time.

Like I said you assumed the age of the maid. Nobody mentioned her being a minor. Why would you be so excited to add that into the discussion?

You are refusing to consider the possibility of her sleeping with Oga for benefits. The discussions here by the OP and others focus on infidelity not coercion or rape. Why is your own different? Why must you contribute something vile? Come on!

Ariza:
The truth is always jabs to you Nl guys. But seriously do most Nigerian men know how to create geninue bond?

Most use money as a way to show love, unfortunately women make money too now that's why they find it easy to dismiss Men. Just look at it with an open mind. I'm not insulting anyone neither am I chauvinistic. My personality isn't that easy to classify that's why I either laugh or just ignore guys reactions towards me. I insult/correct women too but they have never called me names like you guys do. Why?

Why? Cos they think you’re posturing.

Why can’t wives take care of their husbands without taking him through hell? A husband can marry a jobless wife and take care of her for years but a wife cannot abide a husband that loses his job and remains unemployed for 6 months. She will wake him up with nagging and say goodnight to him with insults.

Then one day, they’d have a small fight and their next door neighbour would hear how she has been feeding the jobless man.

PinkHealthGroup:
Spoken like a True rapist... it's almost as if adult women are exempt from your unwanted advances
fucking low IQ buffooon. Your mates are doing big thungs to move their countries forward but a shameless rapist like you can hop on nairaland to proudly beat your chest as a sex abuser! God punish you idiot

Read again, slowly.

I say the maid is not a minor, you jump straight to what you always intended to do: label me a rapist.

That’s all you can do.

You need to see a psychiatrist. A sane person would never justify grievous bodily harm as retribution for infidelity.

I wonder what your ex must have done that has left you unhinged. Perhaps you have always been damaged.

Sixfeetbelle:
You should feel guilty for encouraging men sleep with their wife's sister and their maids. That's gross infidelity and betrayal to his wife he made a promise to. It's a pity the law does not have punishments for such acts

Like I said you should be scared of the person you are. You cannot equate infidelity and aggravated assault. They are different. I’m sorry for anyone who wrongs you. They don’t know how close they are to suffering grievous bodily harm.

Sixfeetbelle:
Wouldn't you term it false rape accusation if the maid is 15? I hope you know who the law will side with if this issue arises

Where did you see the age of the maid in this article? Any maid that would replace a wife cannot be a minor. Why would you even imagine she’d be a minor? Your imagination is too negative this woman. Calm down.

Ariza:
I wonder why it affects most Men when women earn higher. If you create geninue bond , respect, friendship and love between you and your woman, little material things like 'earnings' shouldn't create insecurity in you or gaps in your relationship/marriage. A woman who loves you will never disregard you. Work towards creating unbreakable bond with your partner then you will not have to worry about them earning more.


I'm directing this to men because most of you do not know how to create lasting impression but will wail, cry, throw trantrums when replaced.

I saw this on FP just now and I knew I’d find you here. You didn’t disappoint. As usual, you are throwing jabs at innocent men. Continue.

It is a known fact that wives are anything but gracious when they earn more than their husbands. It should not be so.

Rest in peace sir.

Sixfeetbelle:
And when wife bathes him in hot water for infidelity, the "After God, fear women" crew will not do well to remember it was the man who went to wake up trouble.

Isorait

How can you justify such a wicked crime? You should be afraid of yourself.

Sixfeetbelle:
When he is accused of rape in later years, please ensure you have this same energy then

So you are justifying false rape accusation? Not surprised though.

Rozz:
Leaches everywhere disguised as men.Real men went into extinction since the 1980s

Nor be only 1980s.

You people will be praying for that one rare case of the man depending on his woman so that you can talk.

See your mouth like 1980s.

Orchestrated by a woman. A mature woman at that.

Good.

It would be great if their findings could be made public. The matter needs to get to court abeg. Anybody can just come on social media to accuse you and say they don’t want to seek justice, that they only want to tell their truth.

That’s bullshît.

There’s only one truth. It is not your truth. It is THE truth.

If he’s guilty, he must pay. And if she’s a liar, she must pay and her name must be dragged the way she and her feminist supporters dragged his.

I will never understand why these online feminists never advocate legal proceedings but always jump to cancelling and labelling people based on the stories of “victims”. They will call your sponsors and employers but never will they call for an investigation or a proper court case.

Apparently, the OP was the builder on this project.

Whatever money we think we can save by not hiring pros, we often end up spending to correct the mistakes.

No project is too small to hire a professional. This is true in projects that touch on accounting, health, tech, law, any discipline.

All those keypad warriors who defended him as a “hardworking” young man, where are you people now?


They said “why question his wealth when you didn’t question his poverty?”

Well, we can see where said wealth came from.

donbachi:
Wife's food nourishes ur whole body.while,dat of side chick nourishes ur toilet.

Bro, you need to change your side chick.

Thank goodness. Every life spared is worth celebrating.



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