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Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.
I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.
Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

My dear friend, your feelings are normal. Teenage girls attract most young men. Those castigating you here have slept with almost all their housegirls. I have had many housegirls in my house. Did I ever sleep with any? NO! Was there chance to do so? Yes! Did I ever have sexual feelings for them? YES if pretty. How did I do it? I usually think about my status and dignity. Some wud even seduce me, I stood my ground. My wife is very meticulous as well but not because of her, I neva yielded because of my own dignity. So, u too can succeed unless u can stand societal shame! See and leave. You wnt die! If u cannot, pls go outside and sleep with girls! If u are sexually satisfied, u will not see her!

AprokoGirl:
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Una time don pass. You missed it wen you were supposed to hold on. Younger ones have taken over the industry!

Mrkumareze:
professor of rape, what a shameful downfall ..I hope NGO takes up the case for a proper follow up

The Prof has not spoken! A girl of 12 slapping an old man! A girl of 12 saying "I dont like that nonsense!" It is easy to trap every man with this kind of thing in Nigeria. "Justice for Professor"!

Baawaa:
He owned this he owned that, vanity upon vanity all is vanity

Yes. Vanity upon vanity. Poverty too na vanity. I will rather chase wealth and die than staying and perish in penury. Mr. Dangote had all he could enjoy.

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2023-Tinubu-as-president-will-be-disaster-Primate-Ayodele-predicts

Fake prophet. But u prophesied that Sakraki wud win PDP primary then and eventually win the general election. Tinubu or Akinwumi Adesina.

RapportNaija:
Hey guys,

Let's do something worthwhile today...

Something that could benefit you, me, and a whole lot of people for many years to come...

I've been thinking about this for many years...and Nairaland looks like the perfect platform to get numerous ideas.

I want everyone with knowledge & experience to (please) participate:

As a Nigerian living in Nigeria, what BUSINESS can one venture into with a capital of N50,000 - 500,000...


...that can bring in a daily profit of N10,000 - 20,000 (That's N200,000 - 600,000 per month profit)?

Any idea is welcomed; whether physical or digital business, virtual or on-site...

Let the ideas flow in!

Best if you can provide brief details of how to go about it and necessary requirements.

Thanks for your time!

(I hope & plead with the MODS to please push this to the home page - so we can get a lot of inputs, and many more people can benefit as well. Thanks)

P.S. If there's been a thread with similar stuff, kindly point me to it. Thanks

Olosho. The business is Capital free! You may even make 100k per day over negotiation. The business dey cash well ooo

Greenerhealth:
Read this using the link below


https://greenerhealth.com.ng/vaginal-candidiasis-and-the-most-common-yeast-infection-in-women/

Nice one. Educative!

ChizzyBuna:
The idea that you should only love 1 person out of 6 billion people in this world is VERY STUPID AND UNREALISTIC.

Love should not be controlled
It should be given FREELY
When you try to control love you end up devastated, disappointed, heartbroken.

But when you and your partner are tired of each other sexually.
It is very very OK for any of them to cheat as long as it won't affect the raising up the kids.
THE MAIN REASON FOR MARRIAGE
IS TO BRING FORTH CHILDREN AND BUILD A FAMILY.
NOT TO CONTROL YOUR PARTNER AND EXPECT THEM TO BE ONLY YOURS.

WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?
THAT A MAN WILL ONLY FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE AND NOBODY ELSE.
SHOW ME A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN
AND I WILL SHOW U A MAN TIRED OF FVCKING HER.

Marriages fail because the 2 partners believe that they own each other.
It is impossible to be sexually attracted to one person for the rest of your life.

Ask Jay z why he cheat on Beyonce
Love is not possessive
True love is freedom of choice
Both men and women need to understand that once you are tired of each other sexually.
It is very ok to find sexual pleasure from someone else.
It doesn't mean you don't love each other NO!!!
It means your love has transformed from sexual love to agape love or family love.

You are very correct. Cheating is very natural most especially in men. Look, humans are not the only inhabitants of this planet. Other creatures, like animals have sex with several partners. Humans are selfish in nature, the reason for marriage. Marriage is a limited phenomenon. Men who have not had sex outside marriage are so few and wish to do it one day. Cheating is a choice and should not be demonized! It is normal and very normal among all living creatures. However, men just have sex outside marriage not because they hate their family. But women who have sex outside their marriage do so because they dont love their partners! Research has shown this across the world!

TMSMedia:
Kogi State First Lady, Mrs. Rashida Yahaya Bello took to her Facebook page to celebrate her husband, Yahaya Bello's 46th birthday and also her daughter's birthday today June 18, IgbereTV reports.

Sharing photos of her husband and her daughter, Rashida wrote;


https://www.facebook.com/681733928571035/posts/4050138458397215/?app=fbl

It is better you face your religion instead of politics. No righteous man will love Bello as a leader. As far as I know you can even like the bravado of Lucifer for challenging Jehovah! Boldness alone doesnot make a good leader. I wish u had said Bello was compassionate and humane. All these are missing in Bello!

Draslo:
For most couples, infidelity marks the end of the relationship. I have noticed that it's easier for women to forgive an unfaithful partner than for men to do the same. As a matter of fact, men who do are considered weaklings while women are encouraged to forgive.

Now to the main issue, does having sex with someone other than your current partner mean you love them less? Less discuss, maturely like adults, please.

Love is not sex. And the word love is a feeling which the white man names love. Sex is an act that satisfies a soul just like food. It is culture that created marriage. Nothing like marriage in nature. Those of us who are married never know we are in boundage. Phychologically, a man can sleep with several women and stilĺ love one same with a woman. Women fantisize sleeping with their crush whever they have sex with other men they dont love. Love does not limit an individual to just one partner otherwise wen u are in love with someone, u are not even supposed to be aroused by any dick or pussy. Look, check ur heart. Some of u here are limited by religion. We all love to poke new pussies and dicks!

Righteousness2:
The time of the Prince is over on Earth .

All the whole Ramatazz and Paparazzi happening here on Earth for Him is totally irrelevant to Him wherever he is.

Infact He is long gone to Eternity based on whom he believed and lived for.
For it is Appointed unto man to Die once! After that, the Judgement..

The worst thing that could happen to a man/ woman is to Depart this World without JESUS..

No Matter what you are! No Matter your Position, appointment or whatever! If you Depart without JESUS, it is a Waste.

Live your one life well Righteousness 2. Ur religiousity is good but takes you nowhere. I see u as a miserable human being waiting for one gold house beneath the sky! However, what do u expect from death? Nothingness! Pursue happiness on earth righteousness b4 u drop off all the pieces of ur body. You may not be lucky as Prince Philip to hit 99.

Racoon:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=281688629984801&id=100044309985681

Prophet Abodunrin neva knew he had only read a fable! What a pity!People should learn from history. I expected those pastors and bishops to have spoken during lockdown for Corona virus to die a natural death like Jesus cast out demons!

Righteousness2:
Proper Folly!
Pity the man tho he lives long on Earth and has all the Material things and Knows not the Giver of Life.

May your Eyes of Understanding be open b4 it's late .
With this way u are, Had I know is ring bel around u..

Your own folly is a million multiplied!

Righteousness2:
TM that's some Great and Wonderful aspirations from you and I Pray you attain your desired Heights.

It's Good for the World to know your Name.
It's Good to be a Trillionaire , Billionaire or Millionaire as the case may be, But what is the Place of your SOUL in all these?

Having the world at your feet is Good
Having a Name that rings bell is Awesome but if the Place of your Soul in Eternity is not top Priority in all these , it is an act of Spiritual Suicide.

No Matter who you are on Earth
No Matter what you Have on Earth
If you Don't Have JESUS or you Depart this Earth without a Genuie relationship with JESUS, it is a Wasted Life.

The Place of our Soul in Eternity should be Top Pirioty in anything we do

I was once blind like you. Money is my priority not Soul in Eternity. Make money pls. Dont settle for poverty. You will die even as a poor being. My desire is to make money legally b4 death!

jaybenugo:
MC Oluomo's Daughter, Nofisat Becomes A Registered Nurse In US State Of Georgia

Nofisat, daughter of Chairman of the Lagos state chapter of the National Union of Road Transport Workers, MC Oluomo, has become a registered nurse in US state of Georgia, IgbereTV reports.

Nofisat who revealed that she passed her National Council Licensure Examination (NCLEX) with the minimal number of questions, said her support system was always there even though she was freaking out.

She wrote on her Instagram handle;

"Allow me to Reintroduce Myself....

Ms. Nofisat Akinsanya, BSN, RN. I’m officially a Registered Nurse in the states of Georgia. I passed my NCLEX with the Minimal Number of questions and even though I was freaking out; my support system did not back out once.. Will be working at Northside and I can’t wait to begin this journey

According to Cardi B “My careers taking off, these hoes jogging in place”"

https://www.instagram.com/p/CLfJLvEnG6B/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Congratulations dear! I utter by the power that makes changes in nature that anybody who kills other people's children and deprive their parents to enjoy them, may same fate befall them! They will know no peace! They will run from pillar to post! Their wealth will be useless to them! I utter this by the power that brings changes to nature!

Ogonimilitant:
This is like a husband and wife quarrel.
Igbos stay clear. It's a family affair

See ur Coconut head! The igbo prople lick hausa/fulani ass more than theYoriba. Okorocha, Umahi, Onuh, Ngige, etc! All the major leaders of ur people were born in the North! Igbo people love Hausa mad!!!

jesusjnr2020:
The Rapture: Before Or After The Great Tribulation?

This is a topic that appears to be generating a lot of hot debates among Christians presently. I don't think there's much doubt about the rapture taking place, because that's generally agreed upon by Christians to be a certainty. But the bone of contention was when exactly it would take place, if before or after the great tribulation.

I must admit though that this topic is one that I'm not well informed about, because It's not been an area of interest to me. Anyone of them was good enough for me because I was made by Jesus to be prepared at all times for all kinds of situation just as the apostles.

Luke 12:35-40 (KJV)

Let your loins be girded about, and your lights burning;
And ye yourselves like unto men that wait for their lord, when he will return from the wedding; that when he cometh and knocketh, they may open unto him immediately.
Blessed are those servants, whom the lord when he cometh shall find watching: verily I say unto you, that he shall gird himself, and make them to sit down to meat, and will come forth and serve them.
And if he shall come in the second watch, or come in the third watch, and find them so, blessed are those servants.
And this know, that if the goodman of the house had known what hour the thief would come, he would have watched, and not have suffered his house to be broken through.
Be ye therefore ready also: for the Son of man cometh at an hour when ye think not.

Hence i'm not really concerned if the rapture takes place before or after the great tribulation, because I'm always ready as my loins are girded about and my light is always burning as the Master had instructed. And I believe that ought to be the same for every one of His followers.

However last year I got a rapture dream for the first time in my life. That was sometime in June. Since then I have had two more and one great tribulation dream. The most recent being the rapture dream I just had a few days ago.

It gave me the impression gave that the end was very near, hence people needed to be warned about this so that they can repent and be ready for the rapture.

So although such information may not be of much significance to me, there were yet those who need to aware of such. therefore being God's servant, i was meant to warn them about what was imminent, which explains the rapture dreams I've been receiving.

And that's what I've been doing since. Although repentance has always been a key part of my message, now it's become even more urgent because it seems there's not much time left going by the timing and frequency of the endtime dreams.

For more details on those rapture and great tribulation dreams, you can go to this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6386851/just-woke-up-third-rapture#98508258

I must also admit though, that because of the rapture and tribulation dreams I was now more informed about the rapture than I used to be beforehand, that I intended to share my view about it. However when I realized that i was still not informed enough to give a definite position on that subject, I had to suspend my initial plans, so as not to mislead others.

Therefore it's only when i'm ready for that, i would do so, although as things stand now, I'm more inclined to the position of tribulation before rapture, and that I believe is a safer position to be in the meantime, that may yet change along the way.

But for those who are completely sure of when the rapture would take place, this is an opportunity to convince those of us who aren't if the rapture would take place before or after the great tribulation.

As I said earlier though, regardless, the most important thing is for us to be ready at all times for all possible scenarios as Jesus instructed us to be.

God bless.

Dear OP,

I write to demystify the idea of rapture as a literal thing to take some people to a place for a 1000 years! Those things are fantasies that were once embraced by some poor people who were being deceived by their rich priests who kept on ruling their minds in Asia Minor and later in Europe both Eastern and Western Europe. That was about 400 years ago.

However, OP the narrative is long changed! A lot now know that they have heen deceived! What more do u demand after having lived in this beautyful world for some years and u are still yearning for another place in a non-existing paradise!

Live a good life here and be happy. Enjoy whatever u want for u WILL die one day. Humanity goes no wea! U did not choose ur humanity and u cannot choose any afterlife destiny. Christianity and Islam are the religions that have deceived a lot with eternity! The books are full of old shits with a lot borrowed from ancient wisdom!

You better forget all these fantasies about ur rapture and live a full life b4 u die! U may wish to DM on my email for discussion.

Stephen4800:
I just created this account, last week my wife told me she hardly gets butterflies whenever I touch her, just wondering how

Please, rekindle ur love. Women are funny at times. Any of ur little demeanour may turn ur woman off. Check ur sef. If u knw u are doing ur best, then ask her why she is feeling that way. She may have started cheating on u or abt to start.

Jones4190:
they worship what they don't know

Says you. Do u knw Jesus or Allah?

SoftP:
Thank God u did,
That Nigg was highly irresponsible.

Which grown ass Man will comfortably seat out with a sleekly pant and his manhood dangling while wrapping a puk of Marijuana if not mentally derailed.

People pappa

You are simply an idiot!

ogbe1983:
and did u report the yahoo boys to the appropriate authorities

Police? Offcourse. They said i shud deposit 150k to start.

Nchenches:
Yahoo boys can defraud only fraudulent people.

You are Yahoo. I see! So, for me to entrust u with my money to buy me a car from the US means I am fraudulent? May the Nature deal with u negatively!

madridguy:
Government thugs killed him.

R.I.P hero.

Please, stop this nonsense! Yahoo boys are happy with this! I was duped 2.3 million by yahoo guys! I hate yahoo guys! End Yahoo nah! #End YAHOO in Nigeria!

Righteousness89:
Unforgivness ,Malice and the Tongue are Major instruments that may Hinder People from Heaven..

If u can curtail these 3you can curtail the Rest

Where is hell, OP? Have u been there?

Zzor:
i wish she can see this your post

Send it to her nah!

Zzor:
So much for a man you're not married to,na wa ooo, what if they break up tomorrow,what if she gets married to another man,how will she be feeling after all these things with an ordinary yeye boyfriend.smh

Na my wife I should be bending like crayfish? Only sex outside marriage is bomb!

UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in the name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

A sexless relationship iis senseless relationship!

sinkhole:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/202

0/09/breaking-labour-suspends-strike-2/amp/

Ayuba is the weakest NLC president ever elected! Why should government not reverse with immediate effect the hike in fuel price and electricity tariff b4 u make a U-turn? I bought power 2000 naira worth of power yesterday and I was given just 40 units! Pls, how much is my salary? I cant buy full tank again! Haba Ayuba Wabba!

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I ended the call telling my wife that I was busy and would speak to her when I get home.

But my wife kept calling and calling. I became angry. I did not answer. Soon, as I got home, from the door…she said we need to talk. That now, I have joined the men that are sleeping with the compound slut. That every man in the compound has slept with that our neighbor‘s wife and now its my turn.

First, I never knew this woman was sleeping with other men in our yard. But that is not enough for my wife to assume me too was sleeping with her. My wife showed me chats from two women from our yard that told her that her husband is this woman’s latest catch.


That made me angrier. That my wife was gossiping with other women in the yard. I told her she was belittling herself by talking to these women. But my wife just went on and on. I told her I did not want to continue the conversation with her because she was acting very childish and annoying.

Next thing I heard was commotion in the compound. My wife went to this woman’s apartment and was shouting at her to leave her husband alone. Called her all manner of names and this woman was ready to fight my wife if not for people holding her.

I am seriously boiling and I feel like asking my wife to leave my house before my anger drives me to lift my hand and give her the beating of her life. I have sworn never to beat my wife but if this is how she thinks, I am not sure if I can keep that promise.

Our marriage is just 2 years old, no child yet and this is the first time something this crazy is happening like this. But this is too extreme and embarrassing. Even if the woman is a slut…did she catch me with her?

Truly, I did not expect this from my wife…please tell me what to do cos I truly feel like sending her packing for disgracing me in the entire yard…now, the woman’s husband will think am among the men that have f**ked his wife.[/quote


Please, settle it bro. Women are like that. They nag over simple matters. See, it is because they care too much. They do that to their children as well. Please, settle matter with your wife of youth. The matter is too trivial and petty to stir up divorce. I am a man like you. My wife nags more than that. We still love each orher like turtle doves.

Righteousness89:
The Events of the times have Overwhelmed our Scientists..
They have been Rattled.
Many of them Cannot Define or Explain what is Happening..

The Truth is that Man cannot know or Explain beyond the Capacity God Almighty allows..

Whatever Scientist or anyone Says that is not in the Handbook (The Holy Bible)God gave to Humanity is Simply guess work. It Cannot Stand ! Neither will it Come to Pass.

What God Gave to Man is this Earth. This Earth is Coming to a Close. It is Sinking..

The Rapture of the Saints is the Event that will Mark the Beginning of the End .
After the Rapture, the 7year Tribulation period will follow , which will be a period of untold Suffering and Destruction on Humans and the Earth respectively..

This Great Tribulation period will make The State of Isreal to Know and Believe The KING of Kings, Jesus Christ as the Messiah.

The Event of Isreal Accepting and Believing on JESUS Christ is what will usher a Whole New World. Then We will see New Earth.
Then we will see Heaven on Earth..

Anything apart from these Truth is a Figment of the Imagination ..

Your idea is the figment of the imagination. What truth have you told? Christians escaping tribulation? You are a liar! Death ends it all!

ggirl4real:
No

If she had any unconfessed sin before she died, she is going to hell straight, not minding if she's been righteous all along.

That is what my Sunday School teacher used to teach me.

The blind leading the blind. How much of Godism do u know? Are u God? Or ur SS teacher? Did u create any soul? All souls belong to God. And God is not man. The Bible is not the book of judgement. Keep quiet as much as spirituality is concerned. Walk ur own path in the world. God created no man for fire. God did not as well create any fire to roast his beings. All souls return to God. Force no belief on anyone.

vince2016:
The time is so short now! Christ Jesus is coming for His own. Luke 21 vs 36. The rapture of the church is one sure event that will happen that will change the course of everything. Things have not fallen apart because the Christians are till here. Immediately we are caught up to meet the LORD then things will begin to turn upside down.
Accepting Jesus into your life is the only way out.

You will be caught up to where? You are all deludedand disillusioned thinking some people will disappear at one paticular period! All those things u read in the books of Daniel and Revelation were visions that already took place. Stopall this ur folly! Rapture is a modern construct that some stupid people use to console themselves! All these pastors wud not spend billions building cathederals and porsh cars if they believed in being caught up! Awake, live ur life for death is the way of every mortal! Death is rapture!