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CaveAdullam:
Spirit + Soul no longer in this god*amn sh!thole country, just body remaining.

The growing rate of dumb people in this part of the world is so alarming that if you don't take control measures you'll either downgrade intelligence or join the bandwagon. (Anyways, won't blame genetics which contributes a percentage of their low IQ as a population).

The insanity of the masses has a negative impact on the intelligent because it has been excused as the norm despite easy access to the internet for growth and improvement especially among the younger generation. Everything is just haphazard! Damn!

Sex is anathema in the religious circle whether married or not. Whenever it is mentioned, eyebrows raise, heart pulps faster as if it is a non-human activity. Lack of sexual discipline creates problem though but it's nothing related to a spiritual phenomenon. On the otherhand, people don't like taking responsibility for their mistakes and will rather shift blames in order to appear virtuous and escape punishment.

Saying I don't deserve this country is a kind word to me. Thanks.

You are trying to sound intelligent but what you have up here portray ignorance. Because you can't see something or because you have not experienced something, doesn't mean that thing doesn't exist or that others haven't experienced it.

sweetTai:
Did anyone send him to be having sex with a young girl he’s not married to?? Oloshi #2.

Boy be careful who you utter curse words to. It doesn't matter if it's online or not. You don't want to get in trouble.

harmargedon:
the sex dreams are natural because of the constant sex you've been having, it happens to almost every one. Whatever she is spiritually has nothing to do with you, The only thing to worry about is the bad luck she gives to you. Distance yourself from her, possibly a week. You can stay in your friends place, and see if things will get back in track. If they do, then she's the reason, if they don't then it's nature's fling of bad luck currently clutching you and it will clear off in due time.

No, it doesn't work that way. It's not normal for an individual having constant normal sex in real life to be having sex continuously in his dream. This is only normal for sex starved individuals who only think or fantasize about sex.

L1TTLE:
Come to God? Lol, I'm talking of serious issues here, you're saying come to God.

I got your point going by your comment above. God doesn't have time for human frivolities like your situation. We humans often think too much of ourselves. All the solution to your problem are here on Earth. Go and consult a credible Yoruba Ifa priest, especially if you are yoruba. There is a reason why their name interpret as "Father of mystery". They are there to help resolve problems like this. Note that genuine Yoruba traditional priests are worshippers of Olodumare because the grand priest to have ever existed, Orunmila, was a witness to creation and thats why he was able to hand over this knowledge to the Yorubas when he came to live with them in flesh. So, no need to fear that it's an evil practice. In fact, those who practice it in TRUTH must be devoid of any evil.

sweetTai:
You, yes you, you gangan, i’m talking to you. YOU ARE IN TROUBLE! You like to Phock abi? Now you are phocking yeyemoja. Oloshi.

Someone came online for advice because of an issue he is having and you have the madness in you to refer to this guy as "Oloshi". You must be a very cruel fellow.

You say that her name is a deity name. What is the prefix in her first name? Is she Yoruba?

If what you are claiming is right and considering the fact that she love sex a lot. There is a possibility that she has been used by Yahoo-yahoo boys or a evil ritualist who was her boyfriend at a point. Those kind of girls carry badluck around.

I heard from an elder who a yoruba traditional priest that if an individual continously dream of having sex in his dream, that such individual energy and good fortune is being drained. That the only time this is not the case is if such individual have not had normal sex in real life in a long time. So, it's kind of strange for you to be having sex in your dream since you are not sex starved and indulge in it often.

chatinent:
Timaya, go and do the needful before ogologoma flog you wotowoto.

Which one be Ogologoma o? I suppose that's the traditional deity of justice for where Timaya come from.

The north taking care of their own.

Nigerian men and lawmakers putting the women down. If this is an exclusive Yoruba national assembly, all those laws supporting women will pass. Go to any yoruba religious groups, you will find women leaders (Iya Ijo or Iya Adinni). In commerce, you will find Iya-loja or Iya-laje. In yoruba royal court, you will find Iyalode. And in Yoruba cosmology, you will find the Iyami's, the owners of the night. If you don't give them their due, you are doomed.

Nothing will work in any society where women are subjugated or put down. The Yoruba spiritual oral record by Orunmila told us what happened in the early days of creation of the earth. Olodumare sent down some divinities to come and make the earth habitable before the creation of humans. The male divinities neglected the only female divinity (Osun) in the team because in their mind they assumed because she is a female energy, her presence or input was not needed. Osun represents water. Without water there can be no life. So, when they all got to earth to perform the various tasks, nothing worked right. After all the failures, they returned and complained to Olodumare that nothing has worked for them in their assignment on earth. Then Olodumare ask them where is the female divinity (Osun) that was to join them on the assignment, they responded that they did not invite her because they assumed that her input is not required, being a female energy. Olodumare send them to go and beg Osun for forgiveness. She accepted their request for forgiveness, and returned to earth with them to work on the assignment Olodumare gave them. From then everything worked for them.

The lesson here is that nothing will work in Nigeria except our women are accorded their due. You men think you are strong? I pity you. We are in this state because foreign religions and colonialism taught us to subjugate our women (at least in Yorubaland). In Yoruba tradition, women are still accorded their rightful due. "Meji meji la da ile-aiye", meaning "the world is created in duality". Man and woman, positive and negative, good and bad. It's all intended to achieve balance. It must not lay too heavily on either side.

Look at Rwanda as a good example. I am a man myself. So far a woman behave herself, just as any individual, she must get her rightful due. We know that not all women can perform "magic" because the possibility of them performing well is high. We had a good example in Dora Akinyuli, and still in Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala. More opportunities for women mean more brilliant female achievers in government.

Aufbauh:
It is also asserted that the worst side of democracy is better than any form of military rule.
However I feel that Nigeria in particular and Africa in general still need the military rule cus of the peculiarity of our politicians.

How is the military different? Is it not the same military that took us down the door to the road leading to this state of chaos. Same military that steal money meant arms to fight a war and ledr young men and women to die because they want to use such stolen money to build houses, cars, train their children, and marry more wives.

Loewe:
The way Nigerians conclude on certain things without reasoning baffle me a lot.

What if they were assassinated and their naked bodies were dumped in the car to mask the murder?

How 2 people can be having sex and both would die at the same time is what people should ask themselves.

It's simply illogical and highly suspicious. Were they both poisoned? Where were they coming from...

Was it suffocation? If so, they would have been able to roll down the windows and get some air wouldn't they?

A lot of Nigerians won't even question the possibility of other things, they'll just jump into conclusion.

It could be due to carbon monoxide (CO) poisoning. Maybe part of the exhaust was leaking CO into the vehicle. They had the windows up and most likely the AC was on. It kills without warning. Or maybe both used drugs.

There is a reason why Nigeria is the way it is now. It's filled with the most hopeless set of people. Only a hopeless politician will steal from the people. And only a hopeless Nigerian will prefer to go fight for a country where his people are discriminated against.

KingEverest:
Hmm he has been living there for some time so he's not just fighting for Ukraine he's fighting for his safety too, nobody should criticise Africans fighting for ukraine because it's our stupid leaders who have messed up Africa so badly now Africans prefer to die for other countries

Only a stupid African will do that. Are these not the same people that prevented our people from crossing the border because of their skin colour? Such people don't deserve any support.

Kabongo1:
You don't reveal your hand till you are in a strong position. No need to create enemies for yourself before you even contest.
A broad base of acceptance is needed to become president, so shooting from the hip before time isn't advisable in my opinion.

Your point is valid only in a society that have a culture of deception, where people are used to lying to one another. And that's why Nigerians are doomed. You all ain't getting out of the shit you have dumped yourselves.

SANDAT:
Truth is he stands no chance of becoming a Nigerian President. Let him continue to run his mouth at least he will have an excuse as to why he lost.

And you all continue to live in penury caused by leaders who continue to deceive you. You are all getting what you deserve as a people.

Kingosytex:
How I wish Nigerians could summon the courage to vote in a young, vibrant, and pragmatic president!!! Them carry old cargoes swear for una?

Nigerians? Those lovers of darkness over light. Those who would choose falsehood instead of truth. Don't get disappointed. They will do exactly what they have always done before, which is to elect the same set of leaders that will ruin their lives.

Loverofpeace:
Good evening nairalanders I have a little challenge I am facing in my workplace at the moment and I am suspecting my boss to be responsible,I started working in this new company December last year it's a a real estate company,but the office were I work in particular we run a pos there too,so I when I come to work in the morning I first go to my bosses place to collect cash for customers withdrawal.


I am a type of person that barely misplace my money or phone,these two things are very important to me so I am very careful with them,but since I started working in this company it has being a different case,there is no week I don't loose up to 6000 from the pos money I will try all my best to trace the money with the machine transaction history but I will never trace how the money went ,and the most painful part is that I usually pay the depths with my salary so end of the month I usually go with half of my salary as a result of debt.
There are 3 reasons why I suspect my boss,no one the first month I started work a friend of mine told me that he doesn't like my boss,that he looks diabolic to him I laugh and told him to stop being too supersticous because I don't believe such things he told me his instincts don't disappoint him.
Secondly there was a day I borrowed money from my boss I told him I want to buy some stuff that I am broke at the moment ,since I have worked half of the month I need a little change from my salary I only requested 10k,after thinking hard for about 10 minutes he gave me the money,actually I wanted to use the money to pay a loan app I was owing so I payed 5k and kept the remaining 5k to get a t-shirt the following day ,I put the money inside my deep pocket and went to work in the morning even when I was on the road I check my pocket and the money was there,did you know immediately I got to my shop I swept the floor of my shop and tidied the whole place,as I was about to leave for the market to my surprise I deep my hand inside my pocket and the money was gone,I searched evety nook and cranny of the shop i didn't see the money,I just laughed and shook my head.

Thirdly, there are two workers my boss just employed because we have up to three branches in my area,one is a girl and one is a boy,the girl seem to like me dlso much she always like telling me how the work is going for her she usually tells me about every issue she has with my boss, did you know this girl has lost up to 20k in the pos money in just one month of work?..
One day I went to our head office to check our debt book because we always have a book we all money we borrowed from boss plus or shortages are recorded did you know this two new workers have lost more than their salaries,I went through the boys record I saw ,5k,3k,4k etc there is no day this guy doesn't loose money I usually blame myself for all my mistakes until I saw that I am not the only one.now the girl has stopped work.

Pls nairalanders,I am tired of working for people I want to quit start up my own biz but capital is the problem if I can get up to 100k between now till May I will start up my own biz ,can someone just help me with a good idea on how to make money online because I don't always lack data here in the office you contributions will be appreciated thanks .

Can you send your email contact to this email address: hubknob2021@gmail.com

Also to be sure it's you. Send me your email address here on Nairaland as well. Now, I will come back here only within today to see if you have responded. Beyond today, I may not visit this thread again.

You can come back here to delete your email later, after I must have received your mail.

luminouz:
Will you keep kwayet

Judgyass nigga

It's a fair question. Had to hold myself back.

TruthSocial:
Give a woman a good sex, in the process, ask her “what can you not do for me” I bet you the answer would be NOTHING.

If you give a woman good sex, I mean really good sex, and you coincidentally happen to be an ambitious guy with lot of potential and something to show for it. Accept that after the first sex, she already figure you out in her mind as a potential husband.

Abbeylinton123:
Yes,the first time me and my ex had sex,the babe was telling me she wants to be with me forever and get married to me after strong dicking,now she don go marry another man ooo

Probably for economic reason. Most women put "economics" of marriage above their need for good sex or even love.

okoroemeka:
no more constant dramas anymore,I have passed that stage I am an elder role model now,my wife is a true and practical African woman that is not naive on the ways of African men,but seriously which woman will not like her husband to be friendly with a chief judge,come on man ,we are talking influence, connection,money,safety,etc,but spending 3 months on holiday in the same hotel room in America is just a bit too much,illegal honeymoon that's the word my wife used.

Gawd! It's sick though. It says a lot about your woman and some Nija women generally. Does that mean you as a man would also tolerate your wife to that level if she is the one befriending a chief judge, aside from the American trip.

Pareyz:
There was this girl i dated some years back. I used to hit her vagina walls she never knew existed and she enjoyed it so much that she told me she'd always come back to have more from me even if she gets married to another man, lol.

This seem to be common. I remember I once heard the same from a lady.

saphiere:
While Big Wiz is breaking limits, Davido is there erecting barriers upon himself.

The gods of Igbo land neither sleep nor slumber

You people are just too petty. Especially in an issue that doesn't concern you.

Kilotat:
Americans are Regretting ever voting for Biden, Here is why:

- Gas under Trump is Cheaper than Water (1$ to anything under 2$). While Gas under Biden is 6 dollars and still going up now because of Russia-Ukraine War

- Grocery Stores shelves are going empty which means business is not striving because of Inflation and people are not buying as they should because there is no Money (this is familiar, Bubu style)

- There was peace in Afghanistan I.e A Single American soldier was not kill for 17 months when Trump started talking with the Taliban chief. (Trump showed the taliban Chief the picture of the chief house and encourage him to take peace) but Biden Handover Afghanistan to Taliban

- Putin Could not enter Ukraine or any country close to Russia under trump but he is taking Over Ukraine as You're reading this just like he took over Crimea under Obama and Georgia under George W Bush

- Trump is the only American President to Enter North korean after he bully the republic by threatening to Annihilate Kim Jun un by destroying all north korea, and this is in his United Nation Speech

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Say someone residing in Nigeria. I am right here in Texas, and what you put up there are thrash.

Stevenson20:
I don't think Nigeria as of today needs state police. The actions of our governors with their power drunk attitude will convince you. State police will be their tools in fighting their perceived opponents or enemies.

Also, we can't have an effective State police without restructuring this British establishment called Nigeria. Even if you have state police now it will be answerable to FG unless the constitution is properly addressed.

Please, stop being mentally lazy. There is always a way around a problem, not by throwing everything away and running. This is only possible in a country where people don't have the habit of making things better as a way of life. The usual Nigerian way of seeing a problem and not fix it, and be expecting the problem to go away.

Baba1234:
It is important that you make efforts in bringing those who are being held in a country against her freewill. The first circular that stated that in the event of war outbreak, Nigerians should fend for themselves in Ukraine. This made clear the intention of the Nigerian government towards its citizens in Ukraine. This is appalling,.

And by the way apart from the women, ladies and the young ones. For those who called Ukraine their home, and those who are willing to stay after studies. WHY ARE U RUNNING FROM THE CHALLENGE THE COUNTRY IS FACING? What happens to helping in any way you can.. even if you can't bear arms? Patriotism starts from NOT running away from the things you like at every slightest provocation.

Are you on drugs? What a crazy fellow you must be. You asking people, foreigners for that matter to remain in a war torn country. It's like "heaven" decided to drop some set of callously dumb set of people in Nigeria.

SeunWedsLinda:
Government of statement. Na only to release statement dem sabi. India released her statement in the plane conveying her citizens back home. That's how a top government that care for her citizens behave.

Government of statement and inshallah.

Abeg I hear say Ukraine dey look for volunteers to help them fight war. Where the form dey?

And some senseless fellow was shouting "giant of Africa" in a related post. Evil people.

TheGift:
When you leave Naija and Africa is when you’ll know that Nigeria is the giant of Africa.

Stop hating and badmouthing your country. If you want to relocate, relocate in peace . Leave us and the rest of your family you left behind to face and resolve our issues. Face your own problems , for wherever you go, you will have them.

Throw that giant of Africa thing into the thrash. You can never be what you are not. It's not by mouth or braggadocio. Or by land mass or size of your country population. There are smaller country like Botswana in Africa that deserve such tern. Not a good for nothing geographical space that is filled with injustice, corruption, terrorism, nepotism, mass killings, evil politicians and all not so palatable human traits.

Shikena:
This shouldn't be a time to be divisive. This is a time to appreciate what binds us together. You don't have to rub it in. The agitations are not baseless, we only need to build bridges and form better alliances.

I understand your point though, some (North, East, South, West) are so blinded by hate and divisive spirit that they simply don't see any way out other than outright hatred, separation or even war but we can't allow them drive our collective narrative as Nigerians, the battered giants of Africa that will eventually rise again.

Stop fooling yourself. I was even more hopeful than you until I began thinking critically with no emotion. A country that is devoid of justice can never rise up. Add corruption and a corrupt 1999 constitution to that, and thats why the country is like a man on a sick bed.

Bishopino:
Guy stop tribalism talk, it will not help

That's the truth. Buhari went to Saudi himself to negotiate the release of a northern girl who claimed to have been falsely imprisoned for drug trafficking. Do you know the number of southerners facing similar situation? But no federal government assistance.

Oblongata:
Nigeria is a great country! Bad leaders but great country !!!

Please, remove that word "great" from that sentence. You may add "potentially great".That will make more sense except if you do not know the meaning of the word. For example, a great country would have made arrangement for its citizens to exit Ukraine before the war. Not this fire brigade approach.

Bahamas95:
Oga nothing like emotions here, it's reality. Stop pretending as if you don't know what am talking about. A whiteman will be walking on Nigerian street and people will rush outa their houses and be starring as if he/she fell from heaven. You'll hear "see oyibo, see oyibo". Will they admire a blackman like that in their country?
The Nigerian security personnels which you and I know will rescue a white man first before Nigerians......Even at gunpoint I will still say same thing. Na Nigeria we dey, we know wetin dey sup here.

Your analogy get "k" leg. Let a black man go to any part of the world, in a non-black country, and in a place where no black person has ever visited before. He or she would get the same stare and finger pointing. People are just curious about what they often don't see every day.