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Failure44:
That's the problem.
She's almost perfect in terms of character, her only problem back then was she had this habit of snubbing but apart from that her character was perfect.
She even said I was her exact type of guy, so when she turned me down it created a temporary kind of hatred towards her within me.
Now after seeing her pictures and video, i can't stop thinking about her

Then deal with it in ur mind, since u can't help or control d situation. Try as much as possible to distract ur mind when her though crosses ur mind.

Just use her bad attitude/character to suppress the feelings each time d though crossess her mind from u ll write her off from our mind.

*The incident happened on Thursday night, September 16*
Op God have mercy on u.

ehinmowo:
Having Buhari as a president of any country should be included in one of 1000 ways to die!

I have come to realize that northeners (especially northern Moslims) puts religion ahead of reality. Even if they are dying, they wouldn't kick against their own. I could remember how thousands of Bayelsans came out en mass to protest against fuel hike during GEJ time.

If Buhari was a southerner, he wouldn't have entered the second time. because he was a monumental failure the first time. But once some politicians dangle religious card in the face of northerners, forget. They all follow sheepishly.

We always know this cause we live among them and face many persecution hence our support for GEJ during the 2015 election but our brothers from the South thought we are crazy they even went as far as drumming their support because of osibanjo.
Well, I hope they have learned the hard way.

Should be between 1k-1.5k. it shouldn't be more than that.

MagnumXL:
Either you were someone that didn't understand her when she was trying to explain what was going on with her and you didn't try to
OR
She wanted to leave to explore.

But you have to move on.
You just power through the pain. She will return and then you can ask her everything you want to ask her.

But for now focus on your success. I have been there and faced pain that I didn't know how I would survive but now I am better, I have even faced some more pain but I feel great.

So just power through mehn

U re right, I have since move on and learnt my lessons. U can't understand someone that can't express herself nor her feelings to u.

BluntNigerian:
Gynaecologist or Paediatrician..
(Now a Civil Engineer)

Need a mentor boss, in d same field but relatively in practicals. Base in Abuja.

How much and how can one living in Abuja get it?

MagnumXL:
I have met a couple of virgins in my life. I have dated some of them.

This is how I handle them.

I don't have sex with them.

That's right.
Many of the girls that I was friends with when they were virgins who ended up losing the virginity to their boyfriend at the time always regretted it. They regretted it even more when the relationship turned sour.
This is especially true for girls who really wanted to keep that virginity but lost it because of pressure from the boyfriends they were in loved with at the time.

Why do I have this mentality?
I believe that virgins, the ones who want to keep their virginities should be encouraged to do so.
They should be shown what love is like without sex.
They should be shown that there are other forms of intimacy aside sex; Conversations, trips, gifts, quality time and non-sexual physical touch.

It helps to show them that there are guys who are gentlemen, who will love them for who they are and not what they hope to get from therm.

I always date girls with the mentality that we might not date for ever.
So why should I take something permanent from you in a temporary relationship?
And If I do intend to marry you, then I will still get the virginity anyway so why hurry?


Does anyone else share the same view?
Let me know

Yeah, my virgin ex girlfriend whom I eventually got engaged but later dump me for obvious reasons known to her.
I dated her for a year and half, slept on the same bed severally without touching each cause I was saving her for our wedding night.
On her broke up message she acknowledge I'm a complete gentleman but her major reason for breaking up isn't about love but lack of understanding which am yet to rap my head with. I just have to let her go and move on without looking back. It's painful if one follow this path.

Can someone explain *Valhalla*

PeacefulNG:
visit tyontrust.org/about-us/ you will see the phone numbers and contact e-mail.

Is it when I paid d 5k that I ll be able to access d training or any of their services??
I submitted my details online as in, registration

No phone number

U people don dey scare me o. My girlfriend is in her early thirties and me too.

MondayUche:
Thank you so so very much. God bless you for the encouragement words. I just don't know what to do. Even this night it is the beans that my father inlaw who is currently sick gave me that I have just prepare anyhow just for us to eat but my son who will be 2yrs by next month doesn't like it and doesn't even want to eat. Now I don't know hungry is really going to do us a lot and I don't even know how to leave them to go and hustle. My plan is to bring my younger brother from home but I don't have the transportation to send to him as they said from Imo State to Lagos now is about 9/10k I'm just tired of this life already no single food and medication at home for the kids not at all

That's the problem, instead of accepting ur fate and face the reality, u are here busy opening book of lamentations. U think u re d only facing problems. May be she was right to dump u because I believe u keep complaining instead of facing the reality.
U don't have any plan yet u went ahead and birth children u can't take care of.
Abeg shift.....

Ayemileto:
So, what do you want us to do?

Give her husband

saaphiere:
He was the best. Very calm. The problem was not having time.

He died ni

One of the most serene environment in Nigeria.
Stayed there for 5 years

Aren't u guys in Abuja??

IneedSugarMumy1:
In case you're in Abuja you always use bolt you can contact me oh, I will be driving you to your destination

Since I started the job I've carried few prominent people like, Mr Shogun Shewomi Atiku spokes person, Efe big brother, and I've entered Villa twice
National Assembly many times


In case you need cool relaxation places in Abuja I know many, good hotels, etc



Lalasticala

Let me get ur contact bro much interested

IneedSugarMumy1:
I save 100k weekly aside feeding, bills fueling and car maintenance

Airport trips is the best but it doesn't come at ease

Attached is picture of what I see this week between Monday till yesterday Friday 85k
Including bolt commission and fuel money oh

Bolt commission is 20%

Fuel money is 4k daily in 5 days it's 20k
The rest is mine

Bros, I ll like u to my mentor. I just finished learning driving with 700k to buy a car and start d business. What's ll be ur advice?

VEXT:
Op you r right, Christians love forming the educated and enlightens ones.. Where as what most of them doing r wrong... The act of insulting pastors and churches on social media is mostly common among the southern youths...Have you ever heard or seen a northern Christians insulting a pastor or calling him names... "Never"..We Christians in the north have pass through alot, but we still stand firm... Southern Christians have alot of work to do..

I was about to say the same thing, u just took the word out of my mouth. If they (southern Christians) face half of d persecution we faced in the northern part believe me u, there won't be Christianity in d southern part. Just imagine the kind of insult they insulted Jonathan then.
The funny thing is, they ll never learn, they always foam educated.

Yeah, my ex girlfriend breakup with me via text message after trying to find a fault in me but couldn't, only to sent a message that she isn't feeling the relationship and hence the break up.
I replied her via text and that was it since 2 years now no communication what so ever between us.
What pain me most, i was having exam that day and she knew it.

soulstalker:
55 years

Wow, ur mum is 2 years older than mine. My mum birthday is 2 days after mine. Since I started work in 2015 I make sure I celebrate her birthday each year. D last birthday I was able to got her two set of shoes at 5k each cause I over heard her complaining she don't have shoes. So, u can ask stylishly or check for yaself what she lack within ur budget.

Diamondvicky:
You no dey stay one place

Welcome to the age of innocence and commitment.
Avoid pretending that u are too young to achieve anything..
As the days go by, u re approaching ur tomb, be a blessing to someone.
Always have a positive mind set.

pakingzzzzz:
Please kindly rephrase your question for a prompt response

Operation and maintenance cost

Wow I found it so inspiring and motivating. Thanks for sharing.

What's the operating and maintenance like??

Timely. Thanks op

ZINIBANKS:
All this epistles you typed is not part of it the main
Thing is just have money

Thank u, let d op continue to mentioned inconsequential things. The main thing is own basic things like it personal house, car and be financially strong and see how these Virginia personified ll be all over u.

mrsteel:
Are u referring to guzzape?

Not really behind d guzzape. Relatively OK, there is an empty sef con in my compound, good enough with light but no water, we buy water from a close neighborhood of 2 min walk. 130k