₦airaland Forum

Unless truly you have another job opportunity, don't play with lies. That apart, secure an accommodation and move out of the house. Meanwhile, be respectful and diligently carry on your duties with the best of your ability. Make yourself generally indispensable and eventually you will be sought after while on the look out for another job.

This is the reason why a woman should not go wayward like her male counterpart. The difference is very clear. Men do not get pregnant, but women do. Except some few countries, men paid the dowry. Be faithful to your partner either sex. Is not easy to bring up a child and be declared not "yours"

How will she feel if the "king" got married and the wife believes that as the wife, the mother has no business with her son anymore and fought her using foul language. These ladies just have to know that one day, they will be elevated to the glorious position of mother in - law and look back at their doing and undoing when they were wives to their husbands that eventually revolved. Just like politicians, they will forgot their own deeds and shamelessly threatened fire and brimstones to their daughter in-laws.

If care is not taken, the rules governing Islam as a religion and as being interpreted by the scholars may eventually found us asking whether other people not Muslims were not created by Allah. Gradually Arabic language of Arabs is made superior to your own language even to address your creator.

My candid believe is that we all met these religions on earth and definitely just like our forefathers gone, we will all leave them on earth. I am only Muslim or Christian or Idol worshiper etc depending who gave birth to me. I may or may not change my religion upon reaching adulthood. What makes someone special if any of the religion was not interwoven in your birth. There is heart, lungs, kidney, eyes teeth, ears etc. These we are born with. How l wish religion should have been made this way in our lives right from creation. We die with these organs and left religion still on earth. Before religion, people gave birth and before religion people die. Human beings existed prior to religion. We learn how to dress with the invention of clothes by human beings. One can continue on human inventions that religions have now taken as divine instructions. Possibly if airplane was invented before the advent of religions, we would have had divine interpretation on how to use it religiously. How l wish we live peacefully with each other and stop cheating ourselves with some people feeding fat cashing on our faith and beliefs.

If we're fighting over oil, it can be understood. But we are fighting over how to dress. Whipping over religious sentiment on imported religions. Well, we are good at building mosques and churches instead of schools and manufacturing buildings. Our pastors and imams are busy telling us how God will welcome us to heaven, a place non has gone and come back. They are speaking with authorities from Holy books whose authors are human beings. Dare question and you are referred to as unbeliever. These advanced countries are all going to hell, they don't worship God as stated in the holy books that descend from "heaven" .

Most of the commentators are either living in big towns or towns or big villages. Go to hamlets settlement and you won't be surprise. In any case child abuse etc is a foreign innovation to a poor Nigerians. Suffice it to say that no parent wants his children to suffer if he can afford it. There are genius; the loosing and tightening can be done by his father. Don't blame the poor man, rather blame the society. His is trying to make ends meet in a dignify manner rather than sending the poor boy to beg in the streets. You can never satisfy a human being. Either way you will be criticized. Those shouting blue murder should please render help otherwise keep mute. While the children of wealthy Nigerians are paying millions in private schools, the children of the poor are busy begging in the streets to eat not to talk of schooling.

This administration has manage corruption that any administration other than this will equally engage in anti corruption war by using the same tactics. Indeed the anti corruption war will continue while the ordinary Nigerians will keep on wondering what's happening to his livelihood that has nosedive

YouTube will end up showing nothing going by this stand at the end of the day.

Rather than emulating these advanced nations, no, we are busy memorizing the holy books that will only help you alone to know your God. Technology is the way forward not churches or mosques. You can pray to God in your abode.

Why are they hiding his date of birth. Mistake number one.

It seems some women do not like the truth or at least some among these celebrities. Just take a look at some of their comments and gosh you won't be surprise why some of them can't make a good wife. However, there are good celebrities that merit that honor, but they are very few. What l find funny is for a daughter in law looking down on her mother in law forgetting that she also with blessings from God will in future be mother in law. How will she feel if her son's wife looked down on her. You were not around when the poor woman was running helter skelter finding ways to train and equipped her son to the standard you met him only for you to claim the status of wife ignoring the vital role played by his mother. With patience, the old woman will pass away leaving you with your husband. Indeed, if you handled your mother in law with respects and dignity you will have the best of your husband. No son born of a woman will ignore his mother to the advantage of his wife

Some people called Nigeria a zoo. Accepted. If you go to a zoo do you go inside the zoo to meet the animals so of them wild. Certainly if you decide to enter the zoo instead of staying outside then please don't talk of human rights or unarmed. Animals don't know rights. Insulting a whole sovereign country and demand a right seems to take the sense of reasoning too far. You don't call you siblings an animal and demand rights from an animal.

I wonder who employed each other. ASSU or FG.

It can't work in Nigeria and to some extent Africa in general due to religion. Yes, the food may not have been prepared according to my/our religious beliefs. Instead of advancing technologically, no, we are onto religion. Rather than be a pious state devoid of corruption, no we are even advancing in corruption than some western countries that have little to do with religion. We filled religious houses worldwide and (forget)

If what FFK said is true, then we are certainly in a serious problem. Whatever law as regards to media must be made to stand the test of time. 2015 must be lesson to whosoever is in power today. The recurring decimal

If our youths from all sides know what we went through in 1967 and even off recent boko haram they would have find a better way to use their energy. It's not easy when it comes to war. It knows no religion or ethnicity. The pains of war can better be imagine than real. I hope the elder of these youths should call them to order. We should not allow these youths to lead us to war with their reckless behavior and high sounding grammar that will come to nothing when the first shot is released. Nigerians are very good in citing events that they don't understand the foundation.

The western countries that we ran to do not bother themselves on how you live your life provided it is within the laws of the land. Here, it's either my religion, my wife, my children, my mother etc, how do you develop when everything is viewed in the above stated lines. It's free world. No one stops or forces you to watch or buy their music or video. I will teach and control my children for what l believe on if any of them followed my teachings, fine. Civilization would have been curtailed if it were left for us to decide because our religion etc would have frowned at it. If l do not force you to do my bidding and you have the right to look the other way then what's your problem. Let's collectively frown and call to an end of kidnappers, armed robbery, boko haram, herds men, hard drugs, gun running and terrorists of any dimension. These are harmful issues that forced you to do one thing or the other not those shaking their bums that you can always chose to avoid.

Rather unfortunate for the affected staffers. No man should rejoice over the misfortune of a fellow human being. However, this is how millions of Nigerians are being thrown out of their jobs citing 16 years of misrule. I doubt very much if those whose jobs are taken away those already in the labor market will buy this advertisement of 16years or corruption fighting in good spirits. Possibly that's the change. Yes change

I like the reaction from the presidency that it is only the 'law' taking its course. How l wish l can save this particular comment for future reference. Nigerians are quick to forget events when the table turns. Are we not setting a dangerous precedent. If the law is as lawfully executed, no problem. Those at helm of affairs today may be at the receiving end tomorrow.

Telephone itself is HARAM. Yes because the voice you are hearing from either sex does not belong to your husband or wife. At times l wonder what is HARAM. Some Technological inventions used by Muslims are classified into haram or halal depending on who is talking. I think we should go back to the olden days way of life to live a halal life deviod of haram. Is it possible? I think we should tune down our haram stance otherwise we will loss the battle. Why are we fighting boko haram then with this extreme views

I wonder where our youths learn the habit of disrespect to our elders in spite of our various religious backgrounds. The irony of it all is that these youths are commenting on an issue that they know next to nothing about its happenings. The beginning and the end. I would not be surprised if the children of boko haram will wake up one day and start hipping insults, twisting history and accusing leaders of yesteryears on happenings far beyond their understanding. A sword has two edges. Anyway this is democracy where one is free to say what comes to mind. However insulting or abusing an elder in any society is not a good practice from our youths.

We human beings tend to be very funny at times or how else should someone just get up from the wrong side of the bed and create intentionally what can be damaging to one's reputation. Let's not encourage damaging journalism. Kindly put religion away from this mess. The madam can always end the matter if she so wishes by doing the needful.

I am confused. Magu l learnt is from Borno state and Ndume l also heard is from lmo state. They are far apart so senator Ndume has a case and a very good Nigerian to defend vehemently a nominee from another part of the country. Seriously the name Ndume cannot be from South East. But maybe a namesake. If it proves Ndume is from Borno state, then Nigeria has a long way to go

An unfortunate comments from a retired army officer. Very unfortunate. By this comment, he himself is belittling an entire organization simply because of a retired army colonel. Once again very unfortunate.

At times l wonder where some commentators in nairaland got this culture of abusing or insulting others in the social media especially where you were not attacked. This to me is not the best. You can express your opinion without using abusive or insulting language.

If it is true that an agreement was reached prior to the appeal court rulings, then Sheriff has no business of resignation. Rather arrangement should be on top gear to hold the party's national elections at the earliest and put an end to this unnecessary squabbles that deprived the country an effective opposition party.

Well it's Kano. If the government is getting too harsh, then relocate. Of course it's not easy but then they will kill ones talent all in the name of religion. There must be permission to trek and permission to sleep and to wake up.

Yes, in those good old days where a woman stick to one man, she can easily know who fathered her child. I doubt very much if a woman who in her fertile days in a given month slept with two to three or more men without pregnancy control methods such as condoms etc can reasonably tells you the father of her child. It must be guess work from such a woman hence the DNA to those who can afford it. We all agree to technology in our daily life, but nature is wonderful and can only be manipulated to some extent.

Going through the information minister's news one is tempt to assume that this man believes we all kids that easily forget events or at best takes us to be fools. What?

Is there any damage to my smart phone battery if l use it simultaneously while charging. NEPA has not been kind to our ward in terms of power supply. Help.

Such lecturer does not deserve to lecture in university.