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Naturelle05:
No previous qualifications?
If you have no previous professional qualifications or experience, our Certificate and Advanced Certificate (UC) are the starting point for you:

Experienced?
Experienced?
Do you have a minimum of at least two A-levels (or international equivalent), or at least 2 years' business experience? start with diploma

Thanks for this explanation. However i want to ask if someone have experience in field like marketing,Business development, project management can such a person start at advanced or Diploma?

Congratulations. I need an explosive version of this miracle as in my case.

Nigerians have very very short memory. In 2015 Wike threatened INEC workers with rig and die. An innocent corper was shot dead. The order is illegal but that isn't the problem. The problem is that Our security agencies cannot be trusted with implementation.

The last time Wike made this kind of statement an innocent corper paid with his life.

Forcing your way some times may be the main reason for the cringing.

Family planning and getting help may be a way out. Also are you providing for the family or your wife is hussling as much as you.

I like her stance,however only one rule closes this case

Thou shall not commit fornication. If you can keep this one rule,every other thing na jara. Once there's no touchery you sieve the corn from the chaff.

I am sure this topic has been overflogged on this forum but yet when i see expectant mothers die over refusal to have CS i wonder if the awereness is really enough. A church member and a family friend died yesterday evening because she and her husband refused to have a CS. She was booked to be sectioned in late Jan as a result of high Bp and baby position but she never showed up. We got a call on two Sunday's ago that we should pray for her that she is in labour but had no idea of what was really going on. To add salt to injury,this is the first time she carried to term after having two pregnancies that ended in miscarriages.
They abandoned the health center and visited a traditional maternity home to reposition the baby but moved back to the hospital 16days later after things turned bad. Finally her baby has died in the womb for about 4 days and she also gave up in the bid to save her life. Doctor said they would have gone ahead with the procedure even if the couple had no money. Their charge is only 20k for the procedure as it is heavily subsidized and in addition their HMO has offered to pay 14k,so only 6k was needed to offset hospital bill. Now hospital bill is over 200k and HMO has pulled out. What a tragedy.

I defined CS as a life saving technique to save pregnant mothers and their babies in a complicated situation. A supernatural child birth is one that both the mother and baby came out alive. Parents please teach that to your children when they are about to get married. As a young couple seek advice from experienced elders and help when in need. Do dont swallow phlegm(ukwara in Igbo) because of useless shame.

And finally,everthing is not prayer. Back up your faith with real life actions. There's nothing wrong with paying a doctor for his services. Money paid to doctors is not a waste as many people proclaim. God has placed them,school trained them, experience taught them to offer life saving services.

chii8:
Come pick your kids immediately school dismisses.

Very true. This an issue I am currently battling with. My daughter is usually the last child to leave,I pick her by 6. One day i saw something uncomfortable and asked her she called all the names in her brain that they touched her bombom. She's 2yrs plus so her answers were incoherent. I reported to the school and also we are making adjustments to be picking her early. I am even considering quitting my unprofitable job because of this issue. Abuse is real.

Checked86:
in addition, even having a sex with a consented lady, one should be careful. She may come out and accuse you of going down on her when she never wanted and the guy probably was doing it just to please her. all this can be attributed to rape. wen a married woman dey come say her husband rape, wetin come be entering hotel room. what about porn start accusing partner for rape during a porn shoot. I am answering you because i think you are a female and probably do not reason like average guy.

Yeah I am female. Didn't know the lady was drunk. Not every lady go to meet a man for sex. I remember when I do business travel with my ex boss. Most times we stay up very late discussing and strategizing,I can imagine if he start making advances on me just because we are in his hotel room. CR7 really made a huge mistake, you don't just go down on a random girl. However I think the lady by being greedy after a payoff may not really be innocent afterall. It may be a set up from the very beginning. Ronald's mum is defending her own that's natural.

victorypeace:
Why not request for another venue or meet at the Hotel Lobby? If you are meeting the guy in hotel for business then why going to his room or you want to tell me something else.

Where do you think politicians stay and share the huge cash,in hotel lobby?

Checked86:
So any woman that visits a guy in a hotel room should be fncked?

No. It depends on what they went to the hotel room for. In this case what do you think is their business?

Hate speech by Buhari's man

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decatalyst:
What a fertile and productive land



You are reading this with pain in your heart because "childless" had or is becoming your tag, i pray for you today, the almighty God will make you fruitful and multiply.

Sorry and sad no more, just put on the garment of praise and your testimony shall arrive quick.

Amen

Atiku really surprised me. He is definitely not perfect but he's far much better than Buhari. If we cannot discussed with our leader then where is he leading us to? Atiku you got my vote.

Is it really true that Yusuf and his sisters are now directors in NNPC? I 'm just hearing this one? I dey this country so?

Attention seeker.

Horrible news. May GOD save the passengers. This has been happening for ages now if not that a big transporter like Agofure was involved no one will hear about it. the media and the govt of Rivers are doing a great dis-service to the people.

Congrats to all the winners. Thank you xfire for this wonderful competition. There's hope for Nigeria.

Left all alone as if she has no one. Nigeria is a jungle not a zoo.

You two bleep,she got pregnant,lost her job,was admitted for 32day more likely a risky pregnancy,hospital bills paid by mostly her parents,christening and dedication and birthday you are an attendee, you kept distance, buying irrelevant things instead of basic needs. My Anambra brother something is wrong. A baby need both parents so I don't support your baby mama but bro try abeg. Ndi be anyi anaghi echu afa. It's not in our blood.

The building collapse in Port Harcourt comes to mind. Whats the hope for Nigerians

Juliearth:
Good morning! The keyword I picked from that Igbo slang based on how it was explained to me ws "redundance." That was why I felt insulted and dished same to you. I retract my jabs and I am deeply sorry too, pardon my ignorance for misunderstanding you. You are right about my being an amateur and I guess I should keep mum and learn from experts who are going through/ have gone through that phase.

It's alright,I wrongly assumed you were Igbo when I made that comment,my fault. Don't be hard on yourself,you are not an amateur but a young woman so don't keep mum express your views and learn from others. And sincerely money is not a ticket for a woman to be lazy. We as women should be productive and still take proper care of our families. A help should not take over our core motherly and wifey duties. Striking a balance is the key. God bless you with a happy family and a good life/career sis.

I was inspired. Thunder fire poverty

He's obviously a fake pastor. I remember one i watched on Fatal attraction that killed his wife cut her up and stored her body in the freezer for 2years. He still goes to church and preaches and all that. He even got his most senior daughter pregnant and was sleeping with the one next to her. When he was exposed even his general oversee defended him. Finally the truth was revealed and church people scattered.

Disi What

cassidy1996:
The Lord is Good..........

All the time

Innovative Kudos

Juliearth:
Refer back to your reply under my comment( the part in Igbo) you cannot play the victim card after insulting me, it doesn't work that way.... You are an Engineer and so..? I bet you think nairaland is a hub for low lives who are still battling with JAMB. Engineer Alabosi you can refer back to this thread and comment after you have bagged a PhD. Until then, hold your peace.

I didn't insult you. Ejighi afufu Anya isi is an Igbo saying and it is not an insult. Incase you didn't understand it means suffering is not something to boast of. So definitely you misunderstood me. I stated my own case and how it's tough to cope without help and simply put up a popular Igbo saying. Thus there's nothing wrong in getting help. And getting help is not laziness. And i said if not for lack of funds I will have as many help as possible. Poverty is a bastatd. That's not an insult but having a different view. I work 8-5 to pick my child from school at 6 everyday. At that time my child is the only child left in school. I run like headless chicken every evening. Some days I close as late as 7.30pm. Get to her aunty house 8.30pm exhausted pick an equally exhausted crying child and head home to do homework,cook,feed,clean etc.

However if you felt insulted,I am so sorry. My comment that I'm an Engineer has nothing to do with you. And I never had in mind that I was talking to a jambite(afterall the discussion has nothing to do with education) but I knew I was talking to a young woman who had no experience on what her mum passed through and was using it as a ref. We strive to have a better life than our parents. However you kept crossing the line on a simple discussion you are having with a fellow woman. I am not getting a PhD in this life and next. So let me end the discussion forever.

Do you still run this training?

Juliearth:
Marrying a "big" man is not an excuse for laziness,but then again, it's different strokes for different folks. Thus, you can hand over all motherly responsibilities to your maid, nanny and all as a "big" woman that you are. You can even decide to birth your children through a surrogate...

Well even though my comment didn't deserve this bad belle response,i won't feel bad. Yes,as a big woman I will spend the money and enjoy my life. No time baby. Hiring help does not mean neglecting responsibility. I'm an engineer and I know how to balance equations very well. Most of our mothers had help yet we didn't turn out bad. And the last time I checked children of the high and mighty in the society are still staying top. And yes whats wrong with hiring surrogates if you need to. I know some people who can afford flight from East to Lag but they will rather squeeze in a bus than spend the money. Life is once and I will live it to the fullest. So help me God.