₦airaland Forum

Demdem:
Its presently being done but it seems as if the bible and koran doesnt give instant judgement. we needs the likes of OGUN, SOPONNA, AMADIORA and their likes for effective and quick judgement i guess

Thanks my brother, people know that the bible and koran are not as deadly as Amadioha, as a result, they have used it to their advantage to render the country poor and dry.
Once again, yes to oath taking.

brainpulse:
At this age and time? Under our constitution everyone has right of association. So you can't be forced to swear an oath even in law court. Can the evidence be provened? Then take her to court. Are will still barberians in this country? Even the barberians are now advanced and using IPAD . Everything we do in this country is always backward.

Our judiciary system in Nigeria is corrupt and unreliable. It is high time we pay attention to African justice system. People like Alao-Akala, Gbenga Daniel, Ibori etc should be made to take oath or swear before Amadioha. If Amadioha strikes them dead within 48 hours or afflicts them with deadly diseases, other politicians will be scared to steal.
In this instance, the woman should keep her bible by the side and summon courage to take the oath. Probably, guilty conscience is affecting her. There is a saying in Eastern Nigeria that our rivers does not swallow the innocent.

arsenefc:
You seem to not really understand. Anyone gallivanting around like they are bigger than they really are is my enemy.

Anyone can study IT and have great skill at using google, but they should never try to take any credit for what they dont know.



Sagamite has stopped claiming to be smart, intellectual and all those crapp that used to be his trademark, so few people now worship him and he is getting boring so there is not point going after him. Katz still has followers and even though I have reduced it by 50% in the past few weeks and demystified him to my hearts content, I think I can still do more.

Anyway, enjoy the show as Mr. Katz unravel in the coming weeks.

Thanks for educating me. Please forgive them.

WhyAWhy:
oath in this century?!!! Are you bleep'kidding me, what the hell?!!!!!!!!!

She should take no oath oh, those trado people de manipulate big time, who knows what they will set her up for?!

Oath taking is more reliable and delivers quick justice. It is our way of life. It should be introduced even at the national assembly.

arsenefc:
Great you are here observing and not chiming in with your copy and paste 4 pounds like you usually do. You seem to be learning fast.

Like my signature said, I will keep you on a very very very short leash. Be warned.


BTW, Tryna make friends, the Dale Carnegie way or is this is another Far Eastern philosophy you 'is' trying to use on Alj Harem and co? I have you well figured out. Just watch as I take over the throne!


[size=4pt]PS: If you like interpret it literally like a simpleton that you are, na you sabi.[/size]

Still de laff. I think say na Sagamite be your enemy, wetin Katsumoto do you na?.

Am against banishing her but to prove that she is innocent, let her take the oath. If she is innocent, nothing will happen to her. I suggest they go to a neigbouring state for the oath taking.

@THE POSTER, Calabar is a name of a city and capital of C.River state not an ethnic group while Ibo is an ibecilic way of displaying stupidity, it should be Igbo.
Back to the post, there is no clear difference between Efik food and Igbo food. In Efik kitchens, you see Ndigbo managing it likewise in Igbo Kitchens. Efiks do cook ofe Owerri, Ofe nsala, isi ewu, ngwongwo, nkwobi, ugba na okporoko etc. Ndigbo on the other hand do cook edikaikong and other efik dishes.
The clear difference is in Hausa, Yoruba and Eastern Nigerian dishes. Amongst the trio, the Igbo kitchen attracts more traffic than the other two. This is where comparism should come from.

Biko Igbo ndi nwem, gbalia nu n'ede na asusu Igbo.

@Chyz, I have read your post and I like what you chatted. I have always known it and believed it that there are large Igbo communities everywhere, there is no reason whatsoever one can not find a suitable bride or groom from those communities (Igbo).

[quote author=Sisi_Kill link=topic=782669.msg9354699#msg9354699 date=1318814467]This post confirmed the doubts I had about your mental state as I read your post. So it runs in the blood, huh? Eeeeya I hope the guys who married your sisters are aware of the issue oh and they aren't blindsided.

Anyway sha, I find it admirable that you freely admit something that most people hide for fear of castigation. Hopefully you will be a shining example to other people like you, it would make it so much easier to separate the wheat from the chaff.[/quote]Am happy you know where I stand and where we stand. Ndigbo for Ndigbo.

ceaser:
Hehehe. This na serious matter o.

@ Chima. Is he really an Igbo youth leader? Oh, I'm shaking, I'm shaking.

A youth leader should be at the forefront of promoting unity and not instigating interethnic alienation as Andre had displayed, and really, he said he's not pretending.

But seriously, I don't really have anything against having an Igbo wife and matter-of-fact, I was set to be different and break that barrier then. Only it didn't work out as the story goes.

I am not a Nigerian youth leader but an Igbo youth leader. My allegiance to the Igbo first and foremost. We are all Nigerians, that not withstanding, ethnic affiliations comes first before nationality, am o.k with that.  It is not just me but Ndigbo in general, Yorubas, Hausas etc. Only yesterday in Camden London, there was an Iri ji festival of Igbo Youths in The U.K as well as a Nigerian carnival on the same day. The Iri ji recorded more people than those who went for the carnival. That is Nigeria for you.

ceaser:
Thanks Jason. This guy scares me a lot. I said the lady ran out on me and now he's heaping insults on himself (not me). Oh, I see. He didn't understand that use of english. Na wa o. What kinda dude is this guy?

Don't be silly lil boy, what kind of person am I?. I am that kind of person that will skin you alive if you bring your unkept self to one of us.
I understand your english, it is just that I differ and I don't pretend.

[quote author=alj_harem link=topic=782669.msg9354583#msg9354583 date=1318811742]come'on stop being silly

did you even read his post at all

"There was the usual parents wahala and understanding was to be reached and the differences settled. However disaster struck. The lady listened to people like Andre Uweh and she ran out on me just when the challenge was almost over.

Devastated of course, but life went on. Five years down the line, and she's still single. According to her, she'd only been meeting several unserious suitors from her tribe, so she'd occassionally relived our times together. Of course, I'm married with kids, so that's outta the question. What I am trying to say is that it's both ways, and not strictly a girl problem as Andre Uweh would want you believe."[/quote]You are the one who is silly here as you are putting your hand in your finger. In my earlier posts, I wrote that people should look before they leap. If the girl in question had been careful, she would not have fallen in love in the first instance. An eastern Nigerian saying goes like this '' in friendship, befriend someone who is marriageable''. There is no harm in being careful while making choices.
Alh, am sure you will not be happy if for example one Jukunman messes your sister up and dumps her.

POTUT:
Love takes on deeper sacrifices after marriage. If you truly love your yoruba boyfriend (and vice versa), both of you will be willing to see the other's parents as yours.

On no account should you both go ahead to get married without the consent of the two sides. If you want to push it, then go on a convincing mission. At some point, they will yield to your passion. However, you have to remember that same passion in order to stay in the marriage.

Secondly, make sure it is love, because love can sometimes be the square root of sacrifice.

No they should not marry. Their parents have said no, they know better. People should not advice them to go ahead.

ceaser:
Andre Uweh. Easy conclusions drawn from your responses so far has shown your dislike - to use a lighter word - for an ethnic group. While not offering an impressive solution to the poster, you've mostly succeeded in wrongly analysing all in a desperate effort to drive home your outlook or "belief" to the poster.

Sicklers in your usage context, refers to those other ethnicities aside from Igbo, I think. Sicklers are often seen as stigmatas on families that have 'em. So other tribes to you, are stigmas. Why don't you change that outlook to a healthy one?

People with AS genotype are not sicklers, they are carriers. And while sicklers are apt to live well, they have a good chance with spouses of genotype AA.

As a Yoruba, I had time with an Igbo lady and I was so into her that I was ready to go all the way with her damning the consequences. I wouldn't trade her for the world. There was the usual parents wahala and understanding was to be reached and the differences settled. However disaster struck. The lady listened to people like Andre Uweh and she ran out on me just when the challenge was almost over.

Devastated of course, but life went on. Five years down the line, and she's still single. According to her, she'd only been meeting several unserious suitors from her tribe, so she'd occassionally relived our times together. Of course, I'm married with kids, so that's outta the question. What I am trying to say is that it's both ways, and not strictly a girl problem as Andre Uweh would want you believe.

Christygenius, it's always challenging getting married outside one's tribe, both before and in the marriage, even with the parents' acquiescence or approval as the case may be. But the blessings of the elders cannot be over-emphasized. If parents from both sides aren't willing to reach a common ground, then walk away, call it quits and move on. There're always better people out there. That's what I keep telling the lady I quoted above - that she shouldn't build her fantasy around me and that there are guys that'll offer her better than I'd do. But one thing is DON'T GIVE UP WITHOUT DOING YOUR BEST IN TRYING TO CONVINCE YOUR PARENTS FIRST. That way, you'd have a clear conscience that you didn't destroy the relationship with your fiancee. That's it.

You are an evil man. That is why I advice Igbo girls to shut the door for people like you. You have messed up her life and abandoned her. You are now married and she is not. When I preach that Igbo should stick with Ndigbo, some tend to crucify me while am right. She is not married yet because you have messed up her life. Which Igbo man will go into that woman that you have jumped in and out. One day she will end up marrying a non Igbo because Ndigbo do not go for rejects.
Anyway, for that Igbo to date you in the first instance may be that she is a wowo girl. Instead of a being a lone ranger, she chose you instead. Believe me, you were just her last option.

Aigbofa:
You do not hate Yorubas, but you are glad you convinced your niece not to marry a Yoruba guy because of your preconceived idea of what a Yoruba would do to her. Should we just say you are ignorant then?

My niece is now happily married and has moved on. She does not regret marrying the chap from Kwara and will not regret it.  I will still do the same again. Am so glad he got rid of the guy and married locally.

[quote author=mr.official link=topic=782669.msg9354444#msg9354444 date=1318808630]Now I see reasons not to start a relationship with an Ibo girl all in the name of LOVE.

SEE AS VENOM DEY FLOW.[/quote]May God bless you as you do so.

jason123:
I am not against you but your advise is a bad one. In fact, its so terrible, it should be accounted to you on judgment day! You do not know how much this guy loves this girl YET, simply because he is Yoruba, he has to go. You are married man yourself and a happy one. Will it be just as equally fine for your wife to just live you because you are from Imo state and she is from Enugu (an example).

Think about God and pity the people involved. You are happy but you do not want others to be, why To me, your advise is W.I.C.K.E.D.
Well, God will judge all you tribalist!!! My girl as also been worried about what her parents will  say but my parents are totally fine with her. You (an Igbo youth leader) make Igbos look very tribal. Make thunder pafuka gi your mouth if you accuse other ethnic groups of being tribal!

@Jason, May AMADIOHA destroy your wisdom as you always clap with only one hand. Am married yes, and I did not search outside Igboland for a wife. That is how it should be. I don't think you are dating an Igbo lady, if so, let us know whom she is. Don't be shy to do so.

[quote author=alj_harem link=topic=782669.msg9354363#msg9354363 date=1318807252]Andre andre, Na wa for u o How is my wife and children

I wonder what you have against yoruba people

Why you HATE them soooooo much that you can not even think rational again

Remember you school in yorubaland, whathappen that you HATE THEM SO MUCH ?

Or did they bu.tt ra, pe you  

Talk true[/quote]@Alh Uche, it is Ileke who hates Ndigbo here. I do not hate the Yorubas. I was with them during my formative years, I do not hate them. Sometimes I chip in where ther err. At the moment I have been contributing money to my alma mater at Ibadan for new classroom blocks. Is that not love?.

jason123:
@Andre

YOU ARE VERY WICKED!!!
So because he is Yoruba and she is Igbo, they should not marry abi?? I'm going to meet my fiance's parents for an official intro soon, they dare not bring up this tribal poo to my face. That will be the day!!!

WICKED and HEARTLESS SOULS!!! Very tribalistic in nature! Igbo people?! SMH!!!

showstopa:
Andre Uweh, such bitterness. You are not just a tribalist but  a sexist too. I am so sorry for you, and I pray bitterness lets you make progress

@ Showstopa: Shut up your smelly mouth, I have made my opinion known and no going back. It was the same advice I gave my niece sometime ago and it worked good.
@Jason, am not surprised at your attack on me. Since your day 1 here, you have always been against me. Even if I had adviced the girl to marry the guy, you will still go against me. It is expected.

I think it is high time some groups especially the other large one on the other side of the great divide look into why their men are abandoning them for IGBO ladies, even the rejected and the wretched of Igboland. This is serious.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=782669.msg9354117#msg9354117 date=1318804112]So what's that got to do in an Igbo or Yoruba thread esp since you're advising her against her Yoruba sweetheart? [/quote]It is an advice for an Igbo wishing to marry a non Igbo.

Onlytruth:
Perhaps the most important information you need is to be aware that most Yoruba men would have second or third or more wives before they go out of their prime. If they don't do that, they get "baby mamas" outside of your marriage.
Your dude may be in love with you today, but he would likely also be in love with more women later (after you've been trapped with two kids). Be warned.

My brother, you have done well. I pity some Igbo girls.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=782669.msg9354052#msg9354052 date=1318803443]Next time you need to make up a story about Yorubas this and that as you usually do in the other threads, try to seem as truthful as possible.

I hope that Taju and Taja live a long life. Even though Taju is not a yoruba name, we'll also look past that.[/quote]Did I say Taju was Yoruba or not?. I only wrote that he is from Kwara state.  
Just avoid my post and move on as you don't usually understand me.
The poster wanted an advice and I have done that using my niece as an example. No going back.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=782669.msg9354012#msg9354012 date=1318802976]ROTFLMAO!!!

What a bunch of loser.

I'm sure bliss4lyfe is lusting after one Yoruba dude. I'm guessing he's in politics [/quote]So what made me a loser in this case, is it your superior argument or what?. You came here and made your opinions known, I respected your opinions and didn't even reply your post. So why do you go about spotting English lang. lapses from my post. That I wrote she instead of he by error is now the thread topic. Take your time poor girl.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=782669.msg9353966#msg9353966 date=1318802478]You also meant HIS and not HER.

That's what happens when ppl lie.

HERE is a typo error, not SHE and HER.[/quote]Monkey, pay attention to the thread and stop spotting English language lapses here. This is not an English lang class. Eadiot.

airmark:
@ Andrewuweh , so Taju is a l.esbian . To hell with Taju.

It won't suprise me dude. Na so Andreuweh told us fictitious Taju's story on page 1. You also have come with yours. What's your gf name. Taja?

For God's sake, It was a typo error. Who hasn't made a mistake before while typing. I meant HE and not she. Anyway the good thing is that HE lost out.

arsenefc:
@Andre Uweh,


What is Taju doing now?

I don't know, probably he has gone back to her native Kwara state to search for a wife. Or May be he is looking for another Igbo girl to deceive.

euphoria:
Andrew u r very dense!!!
My advice to you(christy) is dat u stick by eachother.With prayers your parents will support the union.  I married a yoruba guy and we both went through this phase.  Its time for Nigerians to drop this tribalistic bullshit!!!

U no get shame. Anyway, the Igbo women I know who married Yoruba men are the rejected ones. They are not attractive enough for fellow Igbos, secondly, they are badly brought up that suitors don't near them, thirdly, they were hawks and has had so many stories of abortion upon abortion or have dropped two at home out of wedlock. Most sane Igbo women I know married Igbo dudes. Anyway, goodluck to those failures as some tribes likes Igbo rejects.

airmark:
Bad advisers full here. Especially Andrew uweh. You think husband is like opa, which you can easily pick one and eat. The rate at which Igbo girls go for Yoruba guys is not far fetched. They are more handsome and caring. I lived in enugu for over a year , i know better.

Boy this is a serious matter. You hardly see a Yoruba girl disobeying her parents because of an Igbo man. There are equally handsome men in Igboland and Igbo girls should be proud of whom they are.
Has any of your sisters fled from your house because of her love for an Igboman. I thank God my own sisters are not sane to be involved in this sort of silly things.

[quote author=onye_ngbu* link=topic=782669.msg9353506#msg9353506 date=1318797534]Why wuld an igbo gal want to marry a yoruba guy sef?
A guy dat wil soon take another wife.
Tufiakwa![/quote]Some how I feel the dowry and bride price paid on some Igbo girls mothers is a waeste. Some times I feel the earth should open up and swallow them.

decode55:
abegi! leave the dirty scum joor, follow your parents' advice o, d way some of you behave annoys me @ times. now all these yoruba go.ats will start feeling as if they're important, mtcheeeeeeeew

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