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BusinessRe: CBN To Sell N252bn Treasury Bills Next Week by AreaFada2: 7:56am On Jan 28, 2018
Trustme2:
No be who get money dey invest. The economy isn't smiling for citizens. Anyway politicians will buy
Abi oh. Nor be who get property dey write will.

By the way, what is minimum investment amount in TBD?
ComputersRe: Largest Known Prime Number Containing 23M Figures Discovered by AreaFada2: 5:06pm On Jan 27, 2018
See something interesting in this computer age that didn't even garner 40 comments let alone FG.

If it's Fapson or Otobo story now, FP straight. shocked shocked
CelebritiesRe: Who Is Dorcas Shola Fapson? Meet Actress That Called Taxify Driver A 'Rapist' by AreaFada2: 4:08am On Jan 27, 2018
Atom57:
Guys, na just to be careful with ladies o, any guy can be falsely accused of rape.
Many are in prison innocently.
But it's a disservice to real victims. It makes people doubt genuine ones which by the way are many.
CelebritiesRe: Who Is Dorcas Shola Fapson? Meet Actress That Called Taxify Driver A 'Rapist' by AreaFada2: 4:01am On Jan 27, 2018
Sleekbabx:
My own concern is Fapson
Seems she came from a family of Vaseline crew cheesy
cheesy cheesy grin grin grin

That she should be called Fapson and alleging rape. She should have just convinced the guy that fapping is the rage, not rape. Lol.
FamilyRe: Whose Name Should Be Put On documents of Properties Acquired By Married Couples? by AreaFada2: 3:55am On Jan 27, 2018
desreek9:
Well the wife's name should be on the property cos no matter what happens she would not send the husband packing
That na those days o. You didn't read here last week how a lady kicked her hubby out and brought her lover in? Some women don rugged now. cheesy grin

Those days that family elders come and intervene has gone. If church elders meddle too much now, she will switch churches. There are dozens in every street nowadays.
FamilyRe: Whose Name Should Be Put On documents of Properties Acquired By Married Couples? by AreaFada2: 3:46am On Jan 27, 2018
ladycomfort:
The husband nah sharp guy o angry

Calling a thief her husband..... What if the husband marries a second wife cheesy

One chance
Lol.

At times men are scared o. What if the wife eliminates him and takes over everything. grin cheesy

But in reality these days that monogamy is the norm, both should put their name on it. It encourages both to work hard towards a common goal. Properties are serious investment so not to be toyed with. Both should analyse it carefully.

Some also put only names of their kids on it, if they have already completed their family.
In some cases, if the worst should happen, the hubby's family can start dragging property with the wife and kids. A last will should sort that out.

Never too early to make one.
RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why I'll Always Collect Money After Sex. by AreaFada2: 3:19am On Jan 27, 2018
So the olosho karishika out at night what reasons do they have different from what you just listed? shocked shocked

I have watched prostitutes being interviewed on TV. Their reasons were no different.

You're not prostitute or olosho. Just a love-vendor. grin cheesy grin
FamilyRe: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by AreaFada2: 3:05am On Jan 27, 2018
uboma:
What do you mean by this, divorce is not encouraged in my place....?


If what you reported in your first post is true, you have no business seeing her as your wife.


Being in a marriage isn't a do or die affair especially when your partner is acting this way.
My brother I wonder o. But such a behaviour from a married woman is allowed in his place? Is marriage by force?

Imagine a guy seeing another single lady like this. Can you imagine what our wonderful know-it-all feminists would say?

The guy is either already filling the gap or seriously close too. Not new that neighborhood single guys bang many married women. Some even brag about it.

If I was OP I'd do a DNA test on the kids, you never know. Opportunity makes a thief.
Fact is marriage is not for everyone.
Emotionally the lady is already detached from the man. She might genuinely like or love the single guy.

If neighbors are reporting other stuff in addition to what OP already narrated, nna OP is so so single.
Relocating her and the kids would not much change things. The guy can come over to the new location and lodge in an hotel. From the wife's attitude, she'd most likely go see him. She might even refuse to relocate sef.

Suggesting relocating her and the kids could be a litmus test though. If she refuses, let her move on.
BusinessRe: Coldstone Creamery Is Trying To Cover Up A Theft At Their Lekki Outlet by AreaFada2: 2:48am On Jan 27, 2018
FatGuy:
Wait!
First and foremost, I admire the way you write, it shows you are educated.
Secondly, you sound rich, and I believe you are.
But what I don't understand is bringing this to a public forum after reporting to the Police! Why is everybody suddenly trying to get sympathy from the public at the detriment of others? Truth be told, what those guys Coldstone Creamery were trying to do was just ''playing safe'', and you should have given them reasonable time even before reporting to the police.
They were not being honest, period. The lies were too much. They just hoped that OP would get tired and simply give up. They saw the thief/ole in CCTV images already. It is one of them and therefore bad for their image.

Did you not read how they have even ignored the police invitation?

Do you not think that considering police corruption, the shop people can go bribe them to kill the case?

If she cannot get justice, the court of public opinion via social media is an alternative.
BusinessRe: Coldstone Creamery Is Trying To Cover Up A Theft At Their Lekki Outlet by AreaFada2: 2:43am On Jan 27, 2018
FrancisDozie:
Such petty theft happen in Lagos state, yet they

keep lying to us, that is heaven on earth.

What a poor customer service they got.
BusinessRe: Coldstone Creamery Is Trying To Cover Up A Theft At Their Lekki Outlet by AreaFada2: 2:39am On Jan 27, 2018
helphelp:
They should have had "Bags, phones and other valuables are kept at owner's risk"

I'm sure una go carry una bags go buy the ice cream.

12-5pm....una no get work
People cannot go out and enjoy on a Sunday afternoon again? shocked shocked
FamilyRe: "I Am Tired Of Seeing My Husband's Hard Joystick Every Morning!" - Nigerian Lady by AreaFada2: 2:32am On Jan 27, 2018
Oluhills007:
But the lady is funny sha....morning erection is just a normal phenomenon..... It does not mean you want to have sex...most times bois get erect because they are holding back a bladder full of urine not cos he is in the mood
I do not think the lady has male kids. Even boys as little as 4 years get it waking up in the morning. Before weeing.
HealthRe: A Comprehensive Ranking Of Fertility Clinics In Nigeria - FertilityHubNigeria by AreaFada2: 5:15pm On Jan 26, 2018
veneza:
Do you have idea of what it might cost to do Ivf and both IUI in ubth
No dear. You know it varies. No real govt subsidy on fertility treatment.
But conact UBTH IVF centre on these numbers: 08022160312; 08022535595

08065001008; 08153857887.

Or Prof. Orhue in private capacity on :08164124696. Or if you live in Benin area, just stroll into his private Hospital, St Augustine at 51 Uwasota Street (Off New Lagos Road, not that far from UBTH), Benin City.

Or Prof Aziken in Private capacity on :: 08037271271.

I got these phone numbers a couple of years ago. I just pass them on to anyone who might need it. Some of the numbers may not be working anymore.
EducationRe: Mosa Oladele Had Best Thesis In UK University, 6 A's In WAEC by AreaFada2: 3:24pm On Jan 26, 2018
Bmedels26:
so? i had 10 A's in SSCE and scored 295 in jamb, it is no big deal!
It's a big deal. Congrats on yours. Keep blasting. I know how much commitment it needs.
Sure God gave you high ability. And you are using it. Not all do.

But I would have liked to know the university he got his degree from. If from a Russel Group (Ivy league) UK university, brilliant. If from any other university, still very good.
PoliticsRe: Deji Tinubu Slumps, Dies During Football Game by AreaFada2: 6:31am On Jan 26, 2018
Leebeedo:
Possibly angina pectoris or acute myocardial infarction. High quality CPR with defibrillation could have most likely kept him alive
Do you think even Aso Rock will have a defib never mind a retreat centre at Epe?
The authorities need to popularise CPR. They should take the campaign to schools, market places, everywhere. So that ordinary people can learn it. Some years back a commissioner slumped during SEC meeting. No report of CPR being done.

I read earlier toady of a lawyer slumping in court during a land case hearing in 9ja. Apparently even his "learned" colleagues took to their heels. Instead of coming to his aid. Superstition and fear. We are scared too much of mortality that we cannot even help someone in need.

RIP Deji.
CelebritiesRe: Davido Shows Off Wards Of Cash, Expensive Chains And Wrist Watches On Instagram by AreaFada2: 6:06am On Jan 26, 2018
I thought they said this boy got a first class degree.

I would have expected him to behave more responsibly than the less educated lot. Na wa.
FamilyRe: "My Husband Can’t Go 3 Rounds Anymore" - Nigerian Lady Complains by AreaFada2: 6:03am On Jan 26, 2018
CAMNEWTON4PRES:
If she was married she would flaunt her finger aka ring. She’s just craving for attention . Meanwhile stress decreases libido, so men being the hardest hit by the recession are definitely under a lot of stress , hence the lack of sex drive . Male privilege is a hoax .
For where?

Sex relieves stress. The only joy the poor & unemployed have. Ever wondered why the poor seem to produce babies so much?

A man running around building his business leaving early & returning home late at night will have less time for sex.

One reason the wife of a rich guy might be sleeping with a driver, gate man or another lowly employee.

Konji is a serious bastard. It's like hunger. You yearn more for it when you have little means to afford it. grin
HealthRe: A Comprehensive Ranking Of Fertility Clinics In Nigeria - FertilityHubNigeria by AreaFada2: 1:58am On Jan 26, 2018
salt1:
Mention those two or three government-owned hospitals that are tested, proven and affordable.
It may help others
Several teaching hospitals now offer the service. University of Benin Teaching Hospital IVF Centre has had some success in recent years. Especially with Prof. Augustine Orhue. He's now retired. I guess his colleagues like Prof. Aziken & Prof. Osemwenkha are still there.
FamilyRe: I Caught My Wife Selling Her Nude Pictures To Other Men. What Should I Do? by AreaFada2: 12:18am On Jan 26, 2018
BiggyB242:
Who told you is not an option, but is an option if it is wife battery. Ladies are so biased in their judgement.
Check all topics about wife's or women's wrong doing. 90% of women defend fellow women no matter what. Soon some will argue that the man is stingy.

But the fact is this: It might come as a shock to OP but this is fairly common these days.

The lady in question is even smart because she collects money for it. Most girls do it for free. At least not "pay-per-sent-pic" as the wife does it.

Hopefully her face pics are not in it. If not some bad guys could use these pics to blackmail her and coerce her into sex, just to avoid the pix being made public.

Most women will not be that surprised by it I assure you.
PropertiesRe: Need A Plot Of Land In Ikorodu Under 650k by AreaFada2(op): 11:53pm On Jan 25, 2018
Kayrich:
Land for sale at Mawere via isawo agric-ikorodu. Selling for ₦500k/plot & ₦3m/acre (6plots). Mawere town is one of the community lying along the ongoing dualization of agric-isawo-arepo road linking agric-ikorodu with lagos/ibadan expressway. Call us on 07061295782/08024559706
Which land title documents are there sir?
RomanceRe: Lady Warns Yahoo Boys: "Come With Your Work ID Before Asking Me Out" by AreaFada2: 11:43pm On Jan 25, 2018
ibroauthen:
Chai....
This girl no wise at all...
For computer age?
My brother beauty nor be brain o.

She thinks a yahoo guy cannot get all those documents easily. Lol. grin grin cheesy cheesy
RomanceRe: Photo Of An Extremely Busty Corper At Kaduna Camp by AreaFada2: 11:40pm On Jan 25, 2018
Hmmmm. I just pity her back. Back pain.
FamilyRe: Man Ends 22-year-old Marriage Over Wife’s Trousers by AreaFada2: 3:13am On Jan 25, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
So this man did not see any tangible reason to divorce he now came out with the dumbest reason ever.
The marriage ended long ago. She once left for a whole year. And not sleeping together for years. Obviously both are playing away. Why not just end the sham thing.

Instead of waking up one day to such headline as "man murdered his wife to marry a younger lady or Woman connived with lover to murder her husband".
EducationRe: What Will Happen If You Boil Egg Inside Oil Instead Of Water? by AreaFada2: 3:10am On Jan 25, 2018
Na vaseline you go take fry live wall gecko next time. grin cheesy shocked
Christianity EtcRe: New Photos Of Stephanie Otobo In Court As Sex Scandal Case Continues. by AreaFada2: 3:06am On Jan 25, 2018
desreek9:
It's devilish cos suleiman is a married pastor and that's adultery. Adultery is not natural
This is what happens when we ape Westerners.

Our ancestors married many wives. If not we might not even exist today. Having many kids ensured some survived the over 50% mortality rate from infections, sickle cell anaemia, accidents, drowning, war, famine, etc.

We do not need many kids now but are we really wiser than our ancestors?

Our ancestors created the highest quality arts like Benin Bronzes/ivory, Ife Arts. Oyo, Owo, Nok, Nupe, Igbo-Ukwu, etc. We that are are wise (imitators of Westerners, is there any original thing that we produce that rival those original achievements of our ancestors? They also created societies and government system back then. Especially monarchies.

In civil law adultery is not a crime. Morality is a private or community thing. You cannot force your religious ideals on others. Assuming there is any judgement day each will face his own.

By the way my grand dad and dad was/is monogamous. Me too. But it should be OWN choice. Not forced on anyone.
PoliticsRe: Lai Mohammed Replies Obasanjo's Letter To Buhari (Full Statement) by AreaFada2: 2:45am On Jan 25, 2018
dukie25:
,
Obasanjo is so busy he did not notice our economy is booming. Lier Mohammed sure have a PhD. in lies.

Anyway the achievements he listed on behalf of this administration were all Jonathan initiatives.
From TSA to improvements in rail and Agriculture.
Kikikikikikiki cheesy grin
This Lai Mo is something else. So a man as experienced as OBJ cannot notice if food and fuel prices are affordable or if employment has increased or if people generally better off? Chai! Na wa o.
PoliticsRe: Yorubas Always Regret Associating With Northerners – Doyin Okupe by AreaFada2: 10:56pm On Jan 24, 2018
oooduancalmdown:
You still have hope for Nigeria after 60 years it became independent? Baba okupe, your hope will die with you because there is no hope for Nigeria.
One day, Nigeria will experience another war. I see this coming. The north have always felt they own Nigeria. A country as ethnically and religiously diverse as Nigeria will not progress. A country where one feels he is superior to another will not last. Nigeria will never progress. We just like to deceive ourselves.
If he said otherwise the North would frame him for treason. grin cheesy
Give him Oduduwa Republic and see if he will refuse it. All na style. grin
FamilyRe: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by AreaFada2: 10:24am On Jan 24, 2018
AntiBrutus:
E sure me say you no read that story grin
Surprisingly I took time to read the very long story before replying.

She should not allow herself to be pressured into marrying a guy she does not love. Her mother will not spend 50 or even more years with the hubby, but this girl will.

So following her heart means following who she loves. Do not marry out of pity, gratitude or pressure generally.

I do not have to write a reply as long as her epistle to make sense sir.
FamilyRe: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by AreaFada2: 12:11am On Jan 24, 2018
Follow your heart.
SportsRe: Kanu Nwankwo And His Wife, Amara Unfollow Each Other On Instagram by AreaFada2: 3:37pm On Jan 23, 2018
MARKETfund:
You hold your life Sir.
What am saying in a nutshell is that Kanu shouldnt jump into the fray before public view(like unfollowing the wife on instagram). It portends more harm than good for hom and his family. He should take whatever action he deems fit privately.
Lol. Don't you think things might have been bubbling privately underneath for both the public outburst and unfollowing to happen?

I do not know Kanu personally, but I know a couple of people who played football with him when he just broke into the Super Eagles in the 1990s.

They both speak highly of him as a model professional and very cool-headed guy. I do not think he will do anything rash.

As everything seems to be about Kanu's money that Amara wants to protect, what if she wants to take her cut now and go? What can Kanu do?
Remember he may not be getting as much money in as he used to while playing football. Most women nowadays have no time to waste.
SportsRe: Kanu Nwankwo And His Wife, Amara Unfollow Each Other On Instagram by AreaFada2:
MARKETfund:
And I guess it is maturity on the part of Kanu to unfollow the wife or vise versa?
Both are acting childishly Kanu being indicted here should the media take this inroad to deal a blow on the marriage.
Maybe all was not well already. Her public post might just be the final straw.

Before she can post such publicly, she might have been pestering her hubby privately to keep his brother at arms' length. May be he has not done that.

Women of nowadays want "me and my hubby only" stuff like oyinbo. But they forget that the growth of an average African of Kanu's era involved some collective family effort at some point. Unlike oyinbo.

Her BIL might not be a role model in behaviour regarding independence but a public outburst shames the entire Kanu family. It shows that women nowadays do not see themselves as marrying into a family. Just her hubby. That does not bold well for African values. Take it or leave it, when we had values family breakdowns were less. Elders (rich or poor) could resolve marital issues because we respected them. Now we respect only money.
Family breakdowns lead to social instability, crime/vices.

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