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Trustme2:Abi oh. Nor be who get property dey write will. By the way, what is minimum investment amount in TBD? |
See something interesting in this computer age that didn't even garner 40 comments let alone FG. If it's Fapson or Otobo story now, FP straight. |
Atom57:Many are in prison innocently. But it's a disservice to real victims. It makes people doubt genuine ones which by the way are many. |
Sleekbabx: ![]() That she should be called Fapson and alleging rape. She should have just convinced the guy that fapping is the rage, not rape. Lol. |
desreek9:That na those days o. You didn't read here last week how a lady kicked her hubby out and brought her lover in? Some women don rugged now. ![]() Those days that family elders come and intervene has gone. If church elders meddle too much now, she will switch churches. There are dozens in every street nowadays. |
ladycomfort:Lol. At times men are scared o. What if the wife eliminates him and takes over everything. ![]() But in reality these days that monogamy is the norm, both should put their name on it. It encourages both to work hard towards a common goal. Properties are serious investment so not to be toyed with. Both should analyse it carefully. Some also put only names of their kids on it, if they have already completed their family. In some cases, if the worst should happen, the hubby's family can start dragging property with the wife and kids. A last will should sort that out. Never too early to make one. |
So the olosho karishika out at night what reasons do they have different from what you just listed? I have watched prostitutes being interviewed on TV. Their reasons were no different. You're not prostitute or olosho. Just a love-vendor. ![]() |
uboma:My brother I wonder o. But such a behaviour from a married woman is allowed in his place? Is marriage by force? Imagine a guy seeing another single lady like this. Can you imagine what our wonderful know-it-all feminists would say? The guy is either already filling the gap or seriously close too. Not new that neighborhood single guys bang many married women. Some even brag about it. If I was OP I'd do a DNA test on the kids, you never know. Opportunity makes a thief. Fact is marriage is not for everyone. Emotionally the lady is already detached from the man. She might genuinely like or love the single guy. If neighbors are reporting other stuff in addition to what OP already narrated, nna OP is so so single. Relocating her and the kids would not much change things. The guy can come over to the new location and lodge in an hotel. From the wife's attitude, she'd most likely go see him. She might even refuse to relocate sef. Suggesting relocating her and the kids could be a litmus test though. If she refuses, let her move on. |
FatGuy:They were not being honest, period. The lies were too much. They just hoped that OP would get tired and simply give up. They saw the thief/ole in CCTV images already. It is one of them and therefore bad for their image. Did you not read how they have even ignored the police invitation? Do you not think that considering police corruption, the shop people can go bribe them to kill the case? If she cannot get justice, the court of public opinion via social media is an alternative. |
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helphelp:People cannot go out and enjoy on a Sunday afternoon again? |
Oluhills007:I do not think the lady has male kids. Even boys as little as 4 years get it waking up in the morning. Before weeing. |
veneza:No dear. You know it varies. No real govt subsidy on fertility treatment. But conact UBTH IVF centre on these numbers: 08022160312; 08022535595 08065001008; 08153857887. Or Prof. Orhue in private capacity on :08164124696. Or if you live in Benin area, just stroll into his private Hospital, St Augustine at 51 Uwasota Street (Off New Lagos Road, not that far from UBTH), Benin City. Or Prof Aziken in Private capacity on :: 08037271271. I got these phone numbers a couple of years ago. I just pass them on to anyone who might need it. Some of the numbers may not be working anymore. |
Bmedels26:It's a big deal. Congrats on yours. Keep blasting. I know how much commitment it needs. Sure God gave you high ability. And you are using it. Not all do. But I would have liked to know the university he got his degree from. If from a Russel Group (Ivy league) UK university, brilliant. If from any other university, still very good. |
Leebeedo:Do you think even Aso Rock will have a defib never mind a retreat centre at Epe? The authorities need to popularise CPR. They should take the campaign to schools, market places, everywhere. So that ordinary people can learn it. Some years back a commissioner slumped during SEC meeting. No report of CPR being done. I read earlier toady of a lawyer slumping in court during a land case hearing in 9ja. Apparently even his "learned" colleagues took to their heels. Instead of coming to his aid. Superstition and fear. We are scared too much of mortality that we cannot even help someone in need. RIP Deji. |
I thought they said this boy got a first class degree. I would have expected him to behave more responsibly than the less educated lot. Na wa. |
CAMNEWTON4PRES:For where? Sex relieves stress. The only joy the poor & unemployed have. Ever wondered why the poor seem to produce babies so much? A man running around building his business leaving early & returning home late at night will have less time for sex. One reason the wife of a rich guy might be sleeping with a driver, gate man or another lowly employee. Konji is a serious bastard. It's like hunger. You yearn more for it when you have little means to afford it. ![]() |
salt1:Several teaching hospitals now offer the service. University of Benin Teaching Hospital IVF Centre has had some success in recent years. Especially with Prof. Augustine Orhue. He's now retired. I guess his colleagues like Prof. Aziken & Prof. Osemwenkha are still there. |
BiggyB242:Check all topics about wife's or women's wrong doing. 90% of women defend fellow women no matter what. Soon some will argue that the man is stingy. But the fact is this: It might come as a shock to OP but this is fairly common these days. The lady in question is even smart because she collects money for it. Most girls do it for free. At least not "pay-per-sent-pic" as the wife does it. Hopefully her face pics are not in it. If not some bad guys could use these pics to blackmail her and coerce her into sex, just to avoid the pix being made public. Most women will not be that surprised by it I assure you. |
Kayrich:Which land title documents are there sir? |
ibroauthen:My brother beauty nor be brain o. She thinks a yahoo guy cannot get all those documents easily. Lol. ![]() |
Hmmmm. I just pity her back. Back pain. |
Ladyhippolyta88:The marriage ended long ago. She once left for a whole year. And not sleeping together for years. Obviously both are playing away. Why not just end the sham thing. Instead of waking up one day to such headline as "man murdered his wife to marry a younger lady or Woman connived with lover to murder her husband". |
Na vaseline you go take fry live wall gecko next time. |
desreek9:This is what happens when we ape Westerners. Our ancestors married many wives. If not we might not even exist today. Having many kids ensured some survived the over 50% mortality rate from infections, sickle cell anaemia, accidents, drowning, war, famine, etc. We do not need many kids now but are we really wiser than our ancestors? Our ancestors created the highest quality arts like Benin Bronzes/ivory, Ife Arts. Oyo, Owo, Nok, Nupe, Igbo-Ukwu, etc. We that are are wise (imitators of Westerners, is there any original thing that we produce that rival those original achievements of our ancestors? They also created societies and government system back then. Especially monarchies. In civil law adultery is not a crime. Morality is a private or community thing. You cannot force your religious ideals on others. Assuming there is any judgement day each will face his own. By the way my grand dad and dad was/is monogamous. Me too. But it should be OWN choice. Not forced on anyone. |
dukie25:Kikikikikikiki ![]() This Lai Mo is something else. So a man as experienced as OBJ cannot notice if food and fuel prices are affordable or if employment has increased or if people generally better off? Chai! Na wa o. |
oooduancalmdown:If he said otherwise the North would frame him for treason. ![]() Give him Oduduwa Republic and see if he will refuse it. All na style. ![]() |
AntiBrutus:Surprisingly I took time to read the very long story before replying. She should not allow herself to be pressured into marrying a guy she does not love. Her mother will not spend 50 or even more years with the hubby, but this girl will. So following her heart means following who she loves. Do not marry out of pity, gratitude or pressure generally. I do not have to write a reply as long as her epistle to make sense sir. |
Follow your heart. |
MARKETfund:Lol. Don't you think things might have been bubbling privately underneath for both the public outburst and unfollowing to happen? I do not know Kanu personally, but I know a couple of people who played football with him when he just broke into the Super Eagles in the 1990s. They both speak highly of him as a model professional and very cool-headed guy. I do not think he will do anything rash. As everything seems to be about Kanu's money that Amara wants to protect, what if she wants to take her cut now and go? What can Kanu do? Remember he may not be getting as much money in as he used to while playing football. Most women nowadays have no time to waste. |
MARKETfund:Maybe all was not well already. Her public post might just be the final straw. Before she can post such publicly, she might have been pestering her hubby privately to keep his brother at arms' length. May be he has not done that. Women of nowadays want "me and my hubby only" stuff like oyinbo. But they forget that the growth of an average African of Kanu's era involved some collective family effort at some point. Unlike oyinbo. Her BIL might not be a role model in behaviour regarding independence but a public outburst shames the entire Kanu family. It shows that women nowadays do not see themselves as marrying into a family. Just her hubby. That does not bold well for African values. Take it or leave it, when we had values family breakdowns were less. Elders (rich or poor) could resolve marital issues because we respected them. Now we respect only money. Family breakdowns lead to social instability, crime/vices. |
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