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is it just me? upon all the hoop he shoots, why the pot belly?
no Akpu for america, please someone should tell him to stop eating bk. he should be able to afford a chef now. BB on a guy is a No No.

so unfair to average african woman. i guess some like the role of supper woman so no complaint.
cooking, cleaning, washing toilets , general house work should be for both.
i grew up in a house where my dad did his fair share when he is not traveling.

lucky in love

so OP is now a wimp because he has not bought his flight ticket to go home and beat his wife with cane? so he is a wimp for not telling you how many lashes he gave his wife huh? you must be the greatest joker of 2011. if you are one of those mistreating naija women by hitting, you better stop the act. violence is Bad

Johndoe100:
The OP is turning out to be a wimp. We have told him to punish da biatch, and he is still here talking.
By now he should be telling us what punishment he chose and if she has shown remorse.

No backbone, most of these guys, sad.

am a gold digger, do your worst. if you can't stay, pack your belongings and leave the house
my philo is: show me your paycheck, and make sure it is big too 

smh, can a man hide anything from the woman he married in this age of tech?
should a man hide stuff (money, properties he acquired before, during and after marriage) from his wife including those he had before he met her? Capital No. only selfish and self centered men do something like that. you should never hide anything from your wife no matter what you think the outcome of the marriage is going to be.

May their soul rest in Peace.
We will miss you all.
You will never be forgotten.
SemperFi

God bless our troops and their families.

No, they should not. but you know they gain something from big O it make them feel good and they don't like condom as they prefer to feel the skin which = children and more children.

carrying women up and down is fun to them.

lol, david and jenny you guy bad o
girl, at this age, do not misplace your priority.
it is your body but don't make the mistake of misusing it.
face your academics, much more important for a girl than anything in the world.

how do i get visa from the nigeria ebasee in Lagos if i want to attend? which paper do i need to gather and submit?
i promise i won't vamoose into UK society if you could help me.
is anyone willing to write a letter for me?

Stress is the big part of some pple gaining weight after marriage and children.

tpia, i know! with all the pigs we have in nigeria no Rib joints? kai! what's hot weather for for eating ribs ofc
licking my fingers

for the woman you mean?? african marriage does allow individuality for the male and not female. which is why a man can do so many things and get away with it unlike a woman.
go to clubs in naija and see men all sitting and chatting plus soaking up beer and eating ngwogwo/suya. where is the madam? at home tending to the kitchen and the children.

philipine:
H mm African marriage  doesn't allow individuality @ all. You have to bury what ever you might feel and follow your husband . If you don't  your hubby might get a girl on the side and all that,  In my marriage my husband comes first it makes me sick to my stomach. However, l try to show what l feel it turns all sour!

Ujujoan:
I think you generalize when you say 'no woman will accept it'!

I'll be too glad to split the bills 50/50 if we'll split the chores 50/50. My arguemnt is that for ages now, men have been eating their cakes and having it! Women works as hard as men (sometimes more0 and yet for some reason, they are the designated housekeepers. That is the part I can Never understand about marriage!

me too. very true Uju. i think we should work at changing things and refine the men in our lives.

they don't slap balls but one ramming the butthole,
maybe the guy was just fed up playing the lady who gives his hole but got none  .

coogar:
if you are not g@y, then stop defending fagz. . . . . .
the thought of 2 men slapping balls together is repulsive. . . . .abeg, discontinue this discussion.
it sickens me.

great point there davidylan but one thing . . . and i'm not sure what you mean by
50:50 to bills and house stuff and the rest you do what you want without telling your wife?
what if you use the rest to pay for strip club shouldn't your wife say something about that?

kai, are you freaking kidding moi? me ode ke? you be double ode raise to power 20, amugbo ewu
must have hurt not getting your visa approved, better luck next time.
i don't cuss nor fight on NL as i don't have time to show say gbagbati pass gbagbati, so ride on and we go jam soon anuofia

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=725638.msg8840838#msg8840838 date=1312308167]Are you fking kidding me ? its folks like you that tarnish naija image all in the name of travelling out.ode[/quote]

imagine 21 years to prepare you for freedom
still better than hostel at nigeria colleges sha.

oh, gotcha

so hungry of okporoko stew with rice and ata rodo

gotcha.
i love fish stew but hate the smell of fish.
panla stew is very delicious but too expensive.

to do what at your gidan? i dont do guys with less than 95k
now go work on your paycheck before you even talk to moi

shekara gwoma, sa'anu

just seeing the thread, dont try discouraging eldee
throw some ganja my now.

tpia, so true. have you tried stockfish/okporoko stew?
you cook it till tender and then use it to make stew.
sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo delicious.

women are not born with pot, spoon and stove. better to go into the kitchen and cook. stop equating being a woman to mean cooking.

i dont like tea party, bunch of red necks. so Tayo you are a tea party member huh?

[quote author=Tayo-D link=topic=724870.msg8829485#msg8829485 date=1312164077]@topic,

So now that we have had the hateful and ignorant responses from aloy-emeka and cap28 (expected I might add), can we get some thoughtful responses from others?[/quote]

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kate's smile is that of accomplishment. it's like saying i got it all: a great husband, a great career, a great family then shows teeth. i dig her laughter

that chidi dressing na swagger style

mismanagement is a bad bad thing. if not the above listed pple should never ever lack money.
i enjoy Toni's new reality shows with her sisters, hope she is able to get out of the water without drowning in american debt (not a joke)

Trump: someone should take that cap from his head. i don't pity him, marrying too many woman is a yardstick for poverty, he should ask an african man  and learn from them.

Lindsay, miss her in parent trap but the young shall grow and grow with lots of debt too (welcome to new generation)

Sarah, pity pity. anyway, glad she is still in good term with her ex. at least some shoulder to cry on.

Cage, aha!! spend so much on vodka so not surprise.

Spears: ummm, she should have married a guy with head on his shoulder not some boys with puppy love and gold digging tendency. glad she moved on and hope she learnt a lesson and never marry a jobless man who will be dragging you for child support.

Baldwin, i fell for that their trademark eyes. it pierce deeply unfortunately he couldnt see the debt coming. too bad

yes o, give me recipe pls
i just wan chop eko and okro soup