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KnowAll: Where there are plenty troops, business opportunities follow suits. I think it is high time some of u un-employed Nigerians relocate to Maiduguri and make some money. Pepper-Soup joints and beer parlours are business opportunities that follows in tadem with troops deployment, so would be the asewo buisiness too.

And risk being killed by a suicide bomber? People should be going in the opposite direction.

So what if GEJ does not win a second term?

It is possible, he has not done enough to feel that a second term is guaranteed. 2015 is still a very close call.

bukatyne: God bless you!

They are denying the fact that the society is male dominated in the first place.

@bolded: so true.

The objective is to make it a just society.... not the reverse.

Have you seen divorce laws in the West? They are totally skewed towards women. This has a major effect on certain communities. It needs to be more balanced.

There is only one approach to dinosaurs... evolution.

When teaching in schools, religion can be taught as a separate subject. I believe it should be compusory to take classes in religion/religious studies. However, in regards to science there is only one approach. Religion should be kept out of such things.

tobechi20: biblical approach to dinosaurs.

What is the biblical approach to dinosaurs? They were never mentioned in the bible?

okpara ugo: Fyne, i have told you to leave kaduna and you refused....

Life is more important than white collar job. Nah people pikins dey die no be chicken...

This is not about a job, this is their ancestral home. Where are they going to go?

@ OP

I do not believe the divorce, child support/protection/custody and other similar legal rights brought in are bad. I believe it is the implementation of them that is the problem.

Most of these laws are essential to balancing a slightly male dominated society. I think it has been overdone and hence we are seeing the negative results today. They need to work back to try and get some balance and leverage.

She has attachment and emotional issues. She can handle it however if she has the willpower.

Logicboy03: It is inevitable where there is freedom of speech and tools for research

The bane of a religious zealot.

Goskian: You're craz.y ; me plan D for any lady? He no go happen... *smiling*

You might even be plan Q

Flaubert Ajiero: Many women are in relationships with guys I refer to as "still single" and "seriously searching" it's a very challenging situation to be in as a woman. From a man's perspective here are the 7 ways to dictate it.

3: He's Not Interested In Meeting Your Friends: If your guy has no desire to meet your friends or vice-versa,you’re probably just a temp girlfriend.It's a matter of time before you realize,there isn't any relationship.

5: He Doesn't Answer The Phone In Front Of You: We're meant to be open and honest with each other, right? So why is he off you to take a call if he's not hiding something.

I am like the above with my wife and we have been together 11 years now.

tobechi20: just wandering,does it have to do with academic performance

Because they tend to think more. Scientists understand the physical world more and are more open minded to new ideas etc.

kemisuga: Where is the Love to fight for? I dont know if true love still exists. Arrant Nonsense

Dont you plan to one day marry the man of your dreams and fall in TRUE love?

Goskian: Your guess's quite right.
@Atheist: you mean like a reserve/ plan B?

Maybe a plan D. You will be her plan D. Slowly working your way up to A unless she gets married of course

musKeeto: ^^^^^
All hail the Flying Pig, Pork so sweet, Mud so nourishing..

You don turn oomad o..

Btw, it takes nothing away from Christianity. Those pastors were never Christians to begin with.. lol

Really? So what were they?

The dubious pastors will never stop lining their pockets and hence can never become atheist. The true ones working hard are beginning to see the light

secondmonkier: You sound like my friend. Lol.
IF he still loves me, he will return to me when he gets back to his senses, that is IF I am still available.
Love is complicated, gosh.

It is complicated but the truth is only the parties in the relationship can accurately assess the dynamics and the attitudes of both parties. People have to be smart in relationships. Some men can be weak and silly, it does not mean that there is no love. Some women can make the mistake too.

It is only in the latter stages you get a lot of complaints. Most women are very relaxed with men and dating when they are 18-25. From 26+ they start to complain more because things start to get tougher. They are becoming less youthful with every day.

I dont think it should be too much of a problem because age also has its benefits. IF women can utilise experience both in dating and in the bedroom they can still have an advantage. The problem is with some women who in their latter stages prefer to act like they are still teens and are immature, intolerable, impatient and lack appreciation (or understanding) of men and relationships.

Dont worry. You will one day become a boyfriend. When they have no better alternative or their current love interest collapses you will be their goto guy and their will be lots of freaky se.... Well you get the picture

It depends on the circumstances, the relationship dynamics and of course what both parties have to lose.

What if the man still loves you and the kids but this new hot girl is really turning his head. It might be worth fighting to keep him in those circumstances.

rezzy: Scientists are liars

Scientists are liars

Hmmmmm.......

striktlymi: Hallo Oze,


#There exist more than enough evidence to support God.

Hello striklymi,

Really? More than enough evidence

Is there evidence at all? I would say there is zero...0.... evidence. This is why faith is required. Baar in mind that there was no evidence provided to doubting Thomas too. Christ had to physically show himself to Thomas before he could believe. Why cant we experience the same? Why do we have to be shortchanged with spurious claims of people who came back from hell and seeing God in DNA strands?

kambo: theyre scientists who disagree about d theory of evolution. But d views of these opposg sects are never presentd in d popular textbooks. Except for d internt most of these knowledge wudnt b known ..

Some of these people are "quacks" masquerading as so called scientists. They would not need to go on the internet (where any nut can post nonsense unverified). They would publish their research through a more reliable means i.e. their university etc.

There are many scientific theories that have opposition within the field that is substantial. Few theories answer all the questions. The opposition however is reliable, able to express their opposition and usually published too.

snthesis: u still miss d point, even if the event is recorded on live tv, some one will disprove, say it was doctored anything just to satisfy his non "belief' in the supernatural. face it Atheism is a religion based on the "belief" that there is no God- and it is that "belief" that keeps an Atheist going

With proper evidence it can be investigated and then proved/disproved. Why do you guys hate providing evidence of such things. There are loads of dodgy photoshopped pics and videos but they can still be investigated.

What about UFOs? There have been loads of dodgy pics of them. No one is saying they exist/do not exist, there is just too scant evidence to draw a decisive conclusion that they exist.

Emusan: @OP - First of all, how high is your spiritual life? I mean your relationship with Holy Spirit. Have you received Holy Spirit baptism?
Forget about what unbelievers are saying, most chritians fail today because they have neglected the aspect of the Holy Spirit.

I have a similar problem but in other way. In my second semester HND I, I involved in politics which drop my GP to Lower Credit during the end of same semester I was chosen as an EXCO in my fellowship which I don't have option than to drop my political ambitions. First semester of HND II, I don't have much time for book because of church activities during the exam I will just tell God , help me in this exam then I will choose like six topic and read it with my last strenght. The funny aspect of it is that any topic I choose must surely comes out that make some of my friends to always come to me that I should give them area of concentration. To limit my long story, that semester I be the first student to in my depertment to write DISTINTION not upper credit (it was the result that pushed my lower to upper again). The time I was pursing my political ambition with hard study I failed. It might work for me or other people but the fact still remain that you're a christian but what is your attidute and relationship toward God. Many people have been in christiandom today yet they haven't baptized with Holy Spirit without the Holy Spirit christian are nothing. No pastor will ever give you Holy Spirit they can only guide you and help you build your faith in christ, you need to seek for it yourself with an open mind because Holy Spirit searcheth the heart not our look.

Pls don't lose your faith and hope in God, you might see people fallen on this forum never mind is in the Bible already. If God does not exist I won't claim He exist, I'm not a pastor I'm a practice engineer, I have read many science textbook both astronomy, evolutions e.t.c if not because I was baptized by Holy Spirit I would have become an atheist. Serving God doesn't stop me to become what God has destined me to be.

God with US!

Sorry to hit you hard like this but are you sure you are a graduate

Islam is a joke. An even bigger joke than Christianity. Can you believe people living according to someones teachings, laws and codes 1400 years ago. No modernisation or updates or amendments to take into account the modern aspects of society.

At least with Christianity these topics are being constantly brought up, gay bishops, female bishops, abortion, contraception etc. Some agree and some refuse but at least there is some debate. In Islam they still live like they are in 700AD. The religion needs t otake into account modern society and try to align itself with it.

wazobia_for_u: YES yES YEs



I only answer the toppic not the Story

Pregnancy test is not justify, they should rather do virginity test, pregnancy test is bias and rubish

So virgins wont be allowed to marry

Paschal007: Yes they are. Cowardice. Except for Logicboy surprisingly.

What about me

bolaino: I'm bringing this up cos of the recent ruckus caused by seun's law that forbade castigating muslims or islam, although the law was later abolished, but it got me thinking, freethinkers on nairaland are of the habit of writing demeaning things about christians and christianity (myself included) but I've never for once seen muskeeto, ooman, plaethon, wiegraf, or the rest of the musketeers write any negative thing about islam or muslims, is'nt this the practice of double standard among atheists?

In this present era the world is in, It's rare to hear of christians killing people in the name of jesus, but almost everyday we hear of muslims killing people in the name of allah, but atheists do not go about condemning these evil acts, but they go about telling. Howling and crying about how pastors are robbing gullible people blind of their money through tithes and offerings,

My fellow freethinkers? Are'nt u guys behaving like hypocrites? Why can't u all see what's evil and say it's evil, instead of engaging in selective judgment, I leave this to the house.

I write on Islam every now and then but no one responds

Lol. Yeah right.