Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Doesn't Want To Debate Ahead Of The 2024 US Presidential Election by Aurelius1(m): 5:56am On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Business › Re: How Do I Send Money From Kuwait Please � by Aurelius1(m): 10:27am On Apr 25, 2023 |
tundepy: Thanks bro, I'll try that, even tho I'm not into bitcoins, kuwait can be frustrating most times , transfer companies here don't care about Nigeria anymore.. Please how i travel to Kuwait for genuine hustling? Please help brother. |
Sports › Re: Oyinlomo Barakat Quadre Wins C-USA Women’s Tennis Champion by Aurelius1(m): 8:27am On Apr 25, 2023*. Modified: 2:23pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Jerryherd:

Omoluabi
President Bola Ahmed Tinubu Anthony Joshua Isreali Adesanya Oyinlomo Barakat Asisat Osuola Wizkid Davido Tem's
Odua a gbe wa oo
Ase Eledumare!!!
. Is this necessary? There are Nigerians from other tribes who have achieved a lot and they are not bringing in tribalism into their achievements. |
Romance › Re: Price Of Abortions Medicine Mifeprex And Cytotec by Aurelius1(m): 8:27pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
mikaael: My wife used Misoprosptol for 4 weeks old foetus and it was successful No complications But use according to prescription Please how did she administer it? I'm currently faced with the same issue. |
Health › Re: Motorcycles Carry Corpse In Dr Congo - (Graphic Pictures) by Aurelius1(m): 5:27pm On Apr 22, 2023*. Modified: 9:26pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Pastor Joshua Ajagunigbala Divorces Wife As Herbalist Dies On Top Of Her by Aurelius1(m): 8:09pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: What happens to forgiveness, what did Jesus say about forgiveness. This pastor is a case of " practice what I preach but not what I do" If you are a man (which I doubt ) may your wife commit adultery repeatedly and you in turn keep on forgiving her. |
Education › Re: My First Semester Result Without Any Expo (pics) by Aurelius1(m): 10:25am On Apr 21, 2023 |
ErnestNc: I own a small business . It means I'm self employed(in my leisure) and I also keep my day job. So yes, technically I'm all of the above for now. Nice. Kudos . |
Education › Re: Sudan Conflict: 1,262 Nigerian Students Demand Evacuation, 330 Residents Killed by Aurelius1(m): 10:20am On Apr 21, 2023 |
divinehand2003: Nigerian students are everywhere. We are like Chinese and Indians when it comes to migration. But why go to a place like SUDAN for higher education? Na abokis wey jamb don frustrate and them get small change for hand na dem dey go study for Sudan. |
Education › Re: My First Semester Result Without Any Expo (pics) by Aurelius1(m): 8:59am On Apr 21, 2023 |
SUFFERInSMILIIN: This so-called great men have made Nigerian last in the world in everything. Going to school does not mean you know how to develop. In United States of America Nigerian film The universities. But when it becomes to employment they are 92 immigrants in America and 96 immigrants in income 2022. Because you go to good school because you go to good universities does not mean you know anything the white people are using the Education to milk the African and subsidize their own education. This is why when a African goes to university and comes out he performed nothing only a piece of paper is what they are but when you put it in a jar he cannot perform anything.. collecting their money and giving people piece of paper with good grades is the system today with Africa all over the world.. Is my comprehension skill waning? Can somebody help to summarize this because I cannot grasp a single thing here. |
Education › Re: My First Semester Result Without Any Expo (pics) by Aurelius1(m): 8:52am On Apr 21, 2023 |
ErnestNc: Commendable result. It took commitment and dedication to achieve this feat. I myself was also a good student during my study years. But I must tell you the truth, the men you mentioned did not become successful because of their talents or grades but because of how they branded themselves.
Visibility and promotion is key. Learn how to sell and market something of value to start taking money from the society , else your education might just be summarised only in that piece of certification and the oath and vow of poverty might be your consolation anthem.
School programs you to become an employee as it certifies your intelligence in the area of performance but doesn't prepare you for reality. only intelligent people are employed to work. The average smart individual learns how to market his brand, sell his idea and employ intelligent people to work in the rat race.
I'm not negating the place value of education in the society but there's a high chance extrapolating from your written piece that you are very much a good candidate for an employer to exploit, if you believe the delusion that school will give you the required success you desire.
Even your average university lecturer is fake as he is not a true professional In his field, not talk more of being successful in life without financial literacy, good business acumen and marketing prowess. The men you listed have the aforementioned skills and they weren't taught in school.
Anyone can become anything, just go to school and become. But if your lecturer is fake, then you will be fake. If you must become, truly, you must learn from someone who is currently thriving in that field.
But If I would commend anyone to go to school, it's to learn how to be financially literate, a good sales man or marketer. Money rules the world and you need to learn how to win . That is how you win, also not negating the importance of spiritual, emotional and physical balance and enlightenment. Good one. Are you currently employed or self employed? |
Car Talk › Re: Do You Still Remember This Old School Volkswagen? by Aurelius1(m): 11:12pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Failure2019: Drive this car now
People go laugh and mock you tire.
Many folks no longer drive vintage cars in Nigeria because of mockery. Na illiteracy dey cause am. Dem neva travel naim make am. If I can get a Peugeot 404 for sale I would be happy to buy and refurbish it. |
Romance › Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Aurelius1(m): 9:07pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again Forget that girl before you develop HBP. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Vooks, This Is A Call Out by Aurelius1(m): 12:11pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
vooks: Wassap my Negro, Go ahead, make my day Hey vooks, it's been long negro, Just checking on you. Halla back so I know you are okay. |
Career › Re: Must It Be In A Mortuary? by Aurelius1(m): 5:38pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
I'd rather study courses like sociology, Economics, French, Geography and regional planning than study Anatomy. Nigeria is not diversified enough to accommodate such fields. |
Culture › Re: Emami Presents Fake Ologbotsere Insignias To Olu Of Warri by Aurelius1(m): 1:12pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Aust1n: Áfọmàsín! Áfọtsẹ! À tsé ùrún ùbẹrù má bẹrù! Ẹkùn! Ogbowúrù! Áfọwẹrẹ-tséwẹrẹ! Úgbó-bríkítì! Ódìhí N’amẹ! Oba N’Ame! Áfẹfẹ-lẹghẹlẹghẹ Ọlẹrùbìbá!
Ogiame suoooo!!! I'm Itsekiri just like you. I hate it when men ascribe titles meant for God to their fellow men. God is the only Afomasin , Afowere and Afotse I know. Not man. |
Family › Re: Aa by Aurelius1(m): 9:06am On Apr 16, 2023 |
edoncast: I have already spent a lot replacing these items .The money i used to make these replacenents are the money i kept to get a new apartment after expiration of my rent this month.
Spent 150k already .The mattress alone cost 60k excluding marwa charge ..i have moved on but my documents and flash are important Are you scared of involving the police? Coming to nairaland to complain should be after you've used the police to bring her to her knees. Act fast or else you may never see your documents or any of those properties agian. |
Crime › Re: Suspected Thief Nabbed For Stealing Laptop In Bayelsa by Aurelius1(m): 6:53am On Apr 16, 2023 |
otuomasirichi: 😎
It's high time Youths started dealing with Politicians looting Nigeria dry 💯 Sorry bro, this will never happen. The youths themselves are even the one cheering the looting politicians on. We have them here on nairaland. The vulture griller is a good example. |
Business › Re: Regulatory Compliance: CBN Grants Fountainpay Commercial License by Aurelius1(m): 10:30am On Apr 15, 2023 |
Emarex: These online Banks are taking over Why won't they take over when the conventional banks are not living up to their responsibility. |
Business › Re: Regulatory Compliance: CBN Grants Fountainpay Commercial License by Aurelius1(m): 10:28am On Apr 15, 2023 |
ariesbull: i use both and i think Opay is best due to the ATM card which Palmpay doesn't have I use both, but I think Palmpay has an egde due to network stability. |
Health › Re: Slept With Her And Discovered Bruises On My Pen:s by Aurelius1(m): 5:40pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
Lucasinho:
Danger
If it's not up to 48hrs, rush to any FMC, Emergency ward and collect PEP drugs Is PEP free? |
Business › Re: See The Man I Saw Using POS Machine Selling His Gurasa Suya In Birnin kebbi by Aurelius1(m): 5:21pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
Godons1: Do you know how the Akpu that IGBO People eat is processed? The Casava is stored in a stagnant water. It will be stored for weeks till it is infested with magots. Before it is cooked, pounded and ready for consumption.
From the picture bellow. You will sight those white sacks in the dirty murdy water. That is Amighy AKPU. Which is stored in the stagnant water for weeks. You will notice that, the same water is used to wash dirty clothes. 
Akpu is IGBO People favorite food. Must you mention Igbo? The kilishi that people are hyping everywhere do you know how it's prepared? |
Romance › Re: His Ex Set Fire on him (graphic Pix) by Aurelius1(m): 11:23am On Apr 13, 2023 |
ettaetta: be careful how you hurt people, not everyone has a forgiving spirit, avoid toxic people at all cost, That's why it's good to avoid dating people who are too clingy and those with unforgiving spirit. |
Education › Re: The Lady Who Married Two Presidents by Aurelius1(m): 10:42am On Apr 13, 2023 |
Donbunchis: Let her come n marry me You want to kill yourself?  Imagine a young man in his late 20s or early 30s pumping a granny in her late 80s.  |
Family › Re: . by Aurelius1(m): 7:44pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Tk4all: i'm begging anyone who is staying in abj or around to come to my rescue.
i was kidnapped by unkwown people for almost week, its a wrong story but i wish to explain my ordeal when i get home.
i did not take my bath for days, i can easily pass as mad man presently.
i dont also have access to my phone and opay again cos they are sending otp to my lost line.
pls i beg anyone aroud here to help.
i hope to update this thread with the whole story once i get home Don't you have friends and family? Beg for a phone you can use to call any of your folk's number you can remember, tell them your story and ask for money to be transferred to a POS for you to go home. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Germany To Expel Chad Ambassador, Mariam Ali Moussa, In Tit-for-tat Move by Aurelius1(m): 7:29pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
alfredo4u: Africans needs to wake up
We should always fight back whenever we r hit by this foreign powers...
That's why I love Malema of South Africa...
We have to speak out always.....no time for exploitation again... Chad needs Germany more than Germany needs Chad. It's like a poor man trying to keep enmity with a rich man - the poor man suffers more. |
Crime › Re: Delta Man Arrested After Teenage Friend Dies Of Tramadol Overdose In Apartment by Aurelius1(m): 8:14pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Sebastine1994: I am a druggie, I sell drugs but I never consume it. The whole of gwarrimpa 4th avenue Abuja are my customer.
I know the dangers of using drugs but my profit comes first. The whole of federal secretariat Abuja, close to abia house, under bridge, I am the alpha.
Senators sons exchanged their fathers car in exchange for drugs. One incident a former IG of police wanted to arrest me for car theft. I produced all my papers and evidence. His son sold the car to me.
Although I no longer operate in Nigeria, I operate in Dubai now. Where there is good money to be made. To reduce the risk of arrest, there is no physical exchange of goods here. Everything is online, pay and I will give you coordinate of where to pick your package
Come and see myself and my Igbo brothers making it here in Dubai, God bless the Igbo people My advice to you is - Save money and relocate to a western country where you can get a decent job. If you continue with this job one day the cops might get onto you. |
Science/Technology › Re: Sea Cow Caught In Muregi, Kin Nupe, Niger State (Pictures) by Aurelius1(m): 4:32pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
ikillbrokegirls: A Cow Fish Known as (Nangbakun) is Caught at Muregi Somewhere in KinNupe today.
The Cow Fish Catcher (Kuta Eduti, Donbashi Sarkin Ruwa) That's one giant Mannatee. |
Family › Re: Marriage Has Failed Me! by Aurelius1(m): 4:20pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
BrighterThanDay: As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.
After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.
Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.
After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.
Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.
I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.
My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.
I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.
She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.
For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.
Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.
Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.
Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.
When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.
My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.
I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them. Leave for your own sanity. It's not worth it. The mistake you made was resigning from your job. |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Titans (BBTitans) 2023: Live Updates Thread by Aurelius1(m): 1:29pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
finallybusy: Thabang go come Naija, abi? I go break bottle for that child head. He reminded me of Jay Jay who always antagonised Tayo for no reason. SADC kept that pest till the end of the show to frustrate our boy. That Tayo didn't win still pains me today. Worse was how his Nigerian friends distanced themselves from him when the winning position was impossible. He deserved it sha, he did a 180 during the last week of the show. Tayo lost the money as a result of SADC gang up. |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Titans (BBTitans) 2023: Live Updates Thread by Aurelius1(m): 5:55pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Why Ebubu dressed like a prisoner in the picture above? |
Family › Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Aurelius1(m): 8:08pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
IceColdVeins: “ I called him ungrateful human being” Women and emotional manipulation are 5 n 6. Imagine trying to gaslight a 15 years old boy. Don't do this bro. You have no idea what she's been through. |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Titans (BBTitans) 2023: Live Updates Thread by Aurelius1(m): 10:36pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
finallybusy: Nigeria vs SA no concern me. All I cared for was the best entertainer. No mistake was made yesterday night. Na so una dey talk naim make our country spoil so. Pit a Nigerian ape against a South African in any game I'd always chose the Nigerian ape because of that inborn patriotism in me. |