₦airaland Forum

Midas01:
Judging 3.5 billion women because of the opinion of one woman. How sensible is that?

Please don't equate Nigerian ladies mentality with their counterpart in a foreign country. I am not against ladies wanting to be independent. If you choose to then act it and live by it. Not to come online and form feminist and do otherwise in reality. I have seen several ladies do these and you can also attest to this yourself . Some will brag from now till tomorrow then open a new account here to share her predicament in reality . I have one currently in my office now that can post heaven and earth on Instagram and other SM on why ladies should be independent but she attest to me that she won't mind to be the 6th wife to Ned Nwoko(as long as money is involved), in other news she is deceiving her gullible followers. I don't know Genevieve personally but if she says she don't need a man in her life. Who am I to go against that when I can see how she is working her way to the top by herself everyday. Her record is there for you to see that she is a woman phenomenon. People like her can come out and say they don't need a man's money but maybe for sexual pleasure alone because they have what it takes to stand tall with any man they want.

illitrate:
The mention of "my sugar Daddy", made it clear that:

This is a fallacious concoction, concocted to gain twitter likes and comments.

The girl's face is all over twitter. so are you saying she doesn't care about that and the friend that posted it won't care either for it to be false?

SLAP44:
Person wey pin someone on the ground will remain on the ground with that person.

Why allow the person pin you down in the first place?

SLAP44:
Na you go suffer, na you go taya.

The guys that will get it from her will also suffer too .. don't you think so?

A lady is trending on twitter who has contracted the deadly virus HIV from her sugar daddies has promised to start distributing it to any unlucky guy who comes her way. Guys who can't keep their third-leg intact should take special notification.


https://twitter.com/search?q=Esther&src=trend_click

Ryan03:
Its high time women understand that being independent is the best thing to happen to any human

Unfortunately most women don't want this in reality but only desire independent online. One told me on this same forum that she is supposed to sit at home and build her family so they won't get spoilt, and the hubby can go to work his ass out because apparently women belongs to the kitchen(like ur President said). Until they realise genuinely that they don't need a man to be happy and stop unnecessary entitlement on men they will still be regarded as jokes and sex giver.

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OoniOfIfe:
I have said it before nd will continue saying it, that rubbish called HIV/AIDS doesn't exist. It is just a manipulative tool by d whites, christians nd moslems 2 discourages sex by those who ar not married nd also by condom manufacturers to sell their products. If it trully exist how come no famous celebrity or any world leader has gotten it cos they sex almost every day without condom. They even lied that fella died of sex but how come none of his children or wife has it. AIDS doesn't exist

God will help you not to contract the disease through carelessness just because you believed it doesn't exist. I have seen someone who contract HIV. So my brother it exist and no child's play. This is a list of celebrities confirmed with HIV.. A popular one is Magic Johnson....https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.healthline.com/health/celebrities-with-hiv&ved=2ahUKEwjx6rOT3ZPmAhWBmFwKHRCODWUQFjADegQIARAB&usg=AOvVaw30iZ9Wgx7yuqOcpqN--ZS3

HRHQueenPhil:
oh pls, it's called sacrifice... Something u will never understand..many refuse to drop d career, dats why we have so many children who are mannerless

So it is the woman who has to sacrificed her career while the man can become Dangote, Jeff Bezos, Zukerberg. Someone like you won't find it offensive that buhari said his wife belongs to the kitchen in a foreign land where a woman rules the land. And people like Okonjo Iweala, Oprah, Alakija, Omotola don't have a home to build while building their career and their children are wayward ba...am so surprise that a lady in this 21st century can still boldly attest to what you just confidently acclaim. Be guided. My wife and I will pursue our career and raise the children along together. It is not rocket science my dear

@biGDhAp.... The speed in which you guys use this word "OLOSHO" is alarming...tagging every lady with a contrary opinion is wrong usage of it. That is why most of them call us dogs even when i know i am not a dog or behave like one.

Hamachi:
Go to quora and read findings of ovaulation

are you saying Ovulation and Ejaculation undergo the same prospect? pls let me know.. you can also learn more from this medical practitioner....https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/female-body/menstruation?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI4sT2urCM5gIVxrHtCh345Q0AEAAYASAAEgJKVPD_BwE

emapeteum:
My dear, falling in love with somebody who cares for you is not a crime. Most ladies always believe that they are too much for a common man to ask them out. Are we saying this because the guy in question is a security guy? It borders me when we try to create a class when there is none in the real sense of it. Blacks have serious problems.

If the said lady has been keeping a straight face and relate with him as her security guy who he is will he be able to look into her eyes and ask her out? or dare to say he has fallen in love? Only if he can do that then i will hail him and tell him what a nice shot and a brave man. But thinking she is fallible because of her kind gesture towards him then start saying i have falling in love with you ..haba brother think na. so that is how to fall in love abi...Very soon i will write on Twitter that i have fallen in love with DJ Cuppy and let's see how it goes from there.

jekks:
Me I am looking for a wife oh if you are here most especially a working class lady based in Lagos just send me a message I'll reply you.

A wife me!! Or you mean a lady to start a relationship with. If na like this them dey find wife....most men should be married by now..lolz..goodluch sha

uthlaw:
once I see a lady I like na too chop b my own.... answer the second question,is marriage an achievement?

No go chop your future wife and clean mouth oo. You might never see her type again oo. It's a probability

HRHQueenPhil:
what do u define as Love? For me any man dat sees a lady on the first day and like her instanta is 90percent Lust,now it's in getting to know her better that the love begins to develop

Now I like this your bolded statement. How can you see someone for the first time and claim you instantly love her..haba what kind of lie is that. You can like her beauty, body structure and shape..that's it. Love is built over time.

funmisticqueen:
Truth hurts, doesn't it?

I know you are just joking around because you know ovulation can't be compare to ejaculation.

HRHQueenPhil:
it's a pure achievement, do u know what it means to convince a woman and her family to accept u and marry?u don't have dat audacity that's why u only chop and go

Please rephrase this your statement because marriage should never be an achievement else your stop growing immediately you get married. It bothers me so much whenever I see a lady drop her career because she is married. Pls be guided.

People tends to misused kindness to something else sometimes. Ladies suffer it mostly when they appear friendly or too nice to a guy. Before you know it the guy start misinterpreting it to she likes me, she don fall in love, bla bla bla. Well if she is polite enough she can turn him down politely and tell him how he might lose his tips if he continues.

ericsmith:
You remind me of an ex gurl friend about 3yrs ago, she is jus like you, she likes meeting people esp. guys, various hang out she wil even send me pix on whatapps n wen we meet @ nite she wil download d whole gist to me. ova confidence worry dat gurl no b small.
Now about me, i don't get jealous or get intimidated by anytin, @times i wonder if my heart beats sef ... buh i alway warn her she wil tease me that i am jealous ... las las her elder broda friend took advantage of her .. n it went on n on till i got to find out, saw dem kissin same guy she discard with he is my elder broda, am like a lil sis to him, baby am different b.s
Bottomline bdchange u are jus a human n that makes u fallible regardless of the ova confidence u feel, u could hangout wit a guy, he wil drug u walk u to d car n bang d shit out of you. we are men that u escape some doesnt mean u can escape all. if u must hangout wit men leave marriage n enjoy ur life. then we go support u

Pls I don't understand what you type at all..pls enlighten me

JaneKenedy:
Ok. Thanks.
But I can't since most of my contract comes from once a stranger and recommendations. I am selective too with people I collect or give my contacts. If you are not promising no reason keeping contact with you. Like that.
He knows that too.

Truely I don't understand what is wrong in giving someone a glass of drink you are not taking again. I didn't share, I gave out and stood to leave. I should have poured it on the floor or said no, I get but I don't understand in reality. I would just stop going outside no matter what even some days he would still be the one to bring me out, when it's already late. I might not have words to express all because I don't really want to paint him, I just want to know my fault fess (sic)

From your response so far I can see that you don't actually understand what marriage is all about. I think experience will teach you what it is all about. I hope by then it won't be too late.

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Ebonygirl1:
Hi Lady. There's this thing called "reverse visualization" that people do when dealing with other people or trying to develop self control. It simply means reversing roles or situations in your head. Re-read your story, then in places where you are the subject, replace it with your husband. I won't tell you whether or not you were at fault. Just do the exercise and answer the question yourself.

you are intelligent dear..spot on

@kobarney has explained what I have in mind and he is spot on. A very close female friend came to visit me just recent and I told her that immediately I get married all these our closeness will reduce,because by then I must be sensitive to my wife's emotional behaviour. Which is part of the sacrifice I made on the altar. And I advised her to do the same to any of her friends married now. Trust should be earned not given on a platter of gold not even to a virgin. You might be the free type but you must be sensitive to your partner's body gesture which is how marriage should be. Am already saying too much sef..

2SWT:
Truth is most people go into relationships without being willing to give what it takes to keep it.

Love is never enough to keep a relationship but people fail to realize

The love God proposed is ever enough in relationship or marriage but we don't practice such love.


So at the end the kind of love we practice is never enough like you said.

Starry321:
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Most of you guys are so adamant to believe that all ladies are trash. Some of us have had bad experience about ladies during relationship but had to move on. Our eldest sis got married to this man and was living in their family house. Within two years they were able to build their own house and start another one. She even did joint account with her husband even when my younger sis was against it. When I see her I always have faith that there are good women out there ready to support their husband to any level. The unfortunate thing now is that she is late and not available to enjoy her labour. Seeing her as an example I chose not to go around saying all women are trash and gold diggers.

Prettychichi21:
I'm an OND holder, I'm interested please
Goodmorning

You said you are in Benin and still want a job in Lagos.I don't understand ma

kristen12:
I'm interested but I have a BSc and not OND and I'm not more than 27years. I've sent a pm already.

I saw this now after getting your pm. I already instructed you to send your cv but after reading this comment I will advise you not to send it again. The bank really need OND graduates. So I don't think you will be contacted.

kristen12:
I need a job to help myself. Around yaba is very preferable but I can relocate if accommodation is available.

Thanks

Can you work in a bank as record keeper. Around Ilupeju, A contract job. OND and not more than 27 years. Salary range starting from 40k to 50k. If you are interested and meet the req. Then pm me then you can forward your CV. Don't bother if you did not meet the requirement.

Righteousness89:
Onety onety one

lolz..abeg you wan kill me here with laugh.

well I can go for Eleven eleventh