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Shimzyy:
"You don't want to fornicate before marriage" then better get used to disappointment.

I was like you 3 years back chasing after girls which always disappoint but now girls are chasing after me
But y? Because I give them what they want now adays, I give them hard sex so they always come back for more and also don't wanna lose me.

luvyaself95:
your approach is bad and is not bad
because to good woman is not bad but to bad woman is bad
and actually being redpill is the best way for any man to deal with women.

victorian:
To save yourself from heart aches or any eventualities don't check.
What are u even looking for in the phone sef?

My pastor always advice the married, women stop following your husband like a detective when he's going out. Stop checking his calls and numbers. What you are hoping to see, one day u will see it.

He said he doesn't check his wife phones and she doesn't check his too.

They both trust each other .

So why check in the first place? What are u looking for?

As you don't see it as a big deal? Why waste some minutes of your time checking phone?

That means it's a huge deal to you.


My brother stop o . Trust her and remove eyes.

luvyaself95:
Guy will you stop being a kid
redpill can't stop you from getting married but it does help you get marry to right woman.
just play the game right and accordingly.

victorian:
Don't. Mind guys confusing you here.

There are still good women out there, and they are celibate. Don't give up, u will meet your wife soon.

I'm celibate and in a celibate relationship with a guy. We both understand sex shouldn't be the basis of our relationship and it's moving well between us.
Although we don't check each other phones, because we trust each other. Trust is very crucial in a relationship.

So don't worry yours will come. I have been having various hard knocks on the head dating wrong guys for years until I place my foot down and decide celibacy or no deal.
Keep it up. You will. Be happy at the end.

ekoson95:
Nigga u need to understand that dealing with women in its entirety is a game...whether you like it or not. if you're not the one playing, then you're been played. it hurts like crap, but its the fact.


you cannot have a 'normal' plain and fair relationship with women, no. somebody must be pushing some buttons, somebody must be manipulating the other. thats how it is.
this might not make sense to you...you know why? bcoz u're approaching relationships from a logical perspective... while the woman is flowing with her emotions.


you dont expect her to remain 100% faithful to you simply bcoz u guys laid a solid foundation. Yes, your love is a decision, but her love is a feeling. no matter how good u are, once another guy comes and bamboozle with emotions, she must deviate.

the earlier you understand this, the better for you.



Learn to play the emotional game to keep your woman, and stop relying solely on logic, it will fail you as far as women are concerned. you dont have to hurt her, just learn to play the game in order to keep your woman.

Ciao

Budex40:
Read up more of Ubunja's tutorials, u wont be disappointed. That Girl has been fvcking someone else since ur "relationship" began. She's just playing you. RUN..!! I SAID RUN...!!!


#Swallows_a_gallon_of_RED_PILLS

ShakurMY:
Ubunja is right, she is not for you. Just be thankful you know all these very early.

chinos20:
Won the champions league? All thanks to Salah and Mane

Jayslicky:


Messi has twice gained from the injustice done against the Dutchs, van dijk deserves this year player of the year, he was outstanding but FIFA has always been in Messi's favour.

IMASTEX:
Instead of praying for the price of goods to go down. While not pray to have more money. So you could afford it easily. Sex isn't taken like life depends on it. But there are some annoying performance that can't be tolerated. Hence the need to be fit sexually. Even if you get a virgin, she will hear tales from friends & read about how pleasurable it should be.

desvi:
oh my ..
someone help this boy

MariaLavina:
Lol they will die when they are old.

MariaLavina:
It is written

I will not die but live to declare the glory of God.

eyefordetails:
Well in my own thoughts, one word for the other side is "Tranquility"

MariaLavina:
My life can not end now.

nauttyn:
guys abeg i need una advice,
i meet dis girl during dis break, and things con sort of heat off.
next i don disvigi her
now de girl just dey send me love message anyhow
truth i like her,but my concience no wan leave me
abeg make una advice me ohh
she dey ss3 and 17yrs, and i be graduate and 23yrs.

LilMissFavvy:
Should be a God fearing type

Should be working

Faithful......not the skirt chasers

A man with a good conscience

His family background must also be checked.

bukatyne:
Ideally, your dad.

And it is not a question and answer situation. It is training her with the right values over time so she can recognize original.

For instance, telling her that a husband should respect his wife is not as effective or impactful as raising her to have great self-esteem and self-respect. In the second scenario, she would naturally pick a respectful man.

If she is also trained on the difference between healthy self-esteem and arrogance, she would also know how to relate with the respectful man respectably.

LilMissFavvy:
Should be a God fearing type

Should be working

Faithful......not the skirt chasers

A man with a good conscience

His family background must also be checked.
Unfortunately most people don't know what a God fearing person should appear as. And most just say it and never act on it.

Rossycee:
Long distance relationship works for some but it takes two serious and sincere individuals for it to work.

FEGEITOK:
My girlfriend loved me.

I loved my girlfriend.

BUT

My girlfriend loved to go to America more than she loved me.

Today I am in Nigeria

Today she is in America.

Be sure you share similar goals with anyone you get involved with in a LDR.

And she is no longer mine.