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FamilyRe: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Benprass(m): 10:15am On Jan 08, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Someone is seeking advice and you are bringing your Jesus...this is physical and needs physical solution..Jesus have no business here..
Even if you aint a Christian that doesn't mean you will write of Jesus from this situation!

Christ is not interested in making situation bad but making them good. I sense you are a Muslim or a non believe, even if you are not what I just mention allow her involve Jesus because they are some situation that is only Jesus that can fix it. It is the Spirititual that control the physical.

Who knows? The husband might not be in his right sense so with prayers and good advice things might work out.

Having a devoice in Nigeria is not a joke especially when is not in the western world.
Nairaland GeneralRe: 2022: A Year To Be Extra Careful by Benprass(m): 5:20pm On Jan 07, 2022
KaluwisxPRO:
Anyone that believes charm, juju, sacrifice is used for FRAUD is a big Dundee.

To be frank is you that is the real DUNDEE.
YOU BETTER WAKE UP THOSE THINGS WORK
IT IS THE SPIRITITUAL THAT CONTROL THE PHYSICAL.
Fraud is Fraud, even those being asked for human sacrifice are being scammed by the herbalists themselves. Na for only Africa we take dey believe rubbish
RomanceRe: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Benprass(m): 6:20pm On Dec 29, 2021
GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.


See the way you duscribe the dick that God took his time to create na wa ooo

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.
PoliticsRe: Hisbah: The Poor Man’s Police by Benprass(m): 12:01pm On Dec 26, 2021
Instead of me to become a Muslim in this life I rather worship stone


Dominic religion
Demonic followers
CelebritiesRe: Olamide Shares Christmas Pyjamas Photo With Wife And Kids. by Benprass(m): 11:37pm On Dec 25, 2021
verybadmouth:
Is this not the Olamide that sang eniduro?
Nop this is not Olamide, this is 2 pack he sang

Water no get enemy!!
CelebritiesRe: RMD And Beverly Naya Hug On The Red Carpet by Benprass(m): 3:09pm On Dec 24, 2021
Aremwayne:
I am really tired of this RMD, because Nigerian girls see him as a handsome man we won't hear word again. Haba
My brother how many Nigeria girls get sense?


The man just dey package abag!!

See the way the way the girl is looking like 500 naria bread.
FoodRe: How Much Is Christmas Chicken In Your Area?? by Benprass(m): 11:36am On Dec 24, 2021
etchiep:
15k in Warri , but with plenty abeg & yanga u go kon do like say u dey go them go kon call u back to take am for 13k
Oga you are lying!

Why do people lie so much on this forum tufiakwa

Nigeria is not that bad that people are buying chicken for 15k.

How much is Goat meat?
SportsRe: Ramos Sent Off In Third PSG Appearance As French Club Struggles Continue by Benprass(m): 8:55am On Dec 23, 2021
hakeem4:
grin and Messi also. He has no positive impact to that team
Must you call Messi?
That is how you people say he doesn't have positive impact on Barcelona today look at were Barcelona are on the table!

If you like say is administrative miss management, that is not my business, infact what positive impact do you have on your own life and those around you? Tell me how Ramos saga have to do with Messi, is it now we know you can't separate Ramos from red card!
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Suleman: Don’t Give Money To Any Lady This Christmas by Benprass(m): 8:28pm On Dec 22, 2021
Will they listen?

Some have not buy thier parent anything before in thier life.

Some have not send even 1 naria card to thier parent

Some have never send food stuff to thier parents

Yet they can spend heaven and earth on a girl that is not even thier wife all because they want to Bleep rotten and domenic pussy.


As you are praying for children, pray for the one that will Remember you in life.
CelebritiesRe: Gloria Olorunto: Maraji Is Pregnant, Shows Baby Bump (Video) by Benprass(m): 4:36pm On Dec 21, 2021
Forget this generational children!

And to be frank nothing like getting pregnant when you are married.

I know someone out there may disagree with what I say but nothing like getting pregnant especially if you are married.
TravelRe: Inquire On Best Way To Relocate My Family To Ireland by Benprass(m): 5:28pm On Dec 20, 2021
Samken2:
How can I apply for admission into universities in Finland from Nigeria
Use your internet in your phone or type the name of the school you want everything you need to know will pop up.
FoodRe: Is Kapadoccia the Most Beautiful Restaurant In Lagos? by Benprass(m): 4:29pm On Dec 20, 2021
[quote author=heniford2 post=108665809]are you trying to say something[/quote



Yes ooo

My brother he his trying to say your money can't buy you anything there that you are poor.

He even say that you can't buy pure water talk less of food.

He say no level for you.
PoliticsRe: 'Now We Realize Jonathan Was Nice, Buhari A Failure' - Protesting Northern Woman by Benprass(m): 9:53am On Dec 20, 2021
Fake news
FamilyRe: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Benprass(m): 9:41am On Dec 20, 2021
Pumpumking:
brother..if u waz hear in london, the will refer u to Mental psykatrick ward for stupidity & if u were in Nigeria, they wil nomaly say maybe yor head is not corrrect......the reason why everyone tink u dumb & stewwwpid is becuz how can u teach a grown man how to raise his own kid & how to behave?......u dont like wot u seee. ...u get that hell out...You aint payin his rent!!!!! ((WORDS OF WISDOM)))..no ofeinse!! angry
What you people won't allow to happen to your own children that is what you want others to experience in thier home!

Now I see why most children of this generation are nothing to write about.
Forget is how you raise your children up that will determine how far the next generation will look like.

Like i always say if you aint ready to take care of children dot bring them to this life.
CrimeRe: Frustrated Yahoo Boy Rain Abuses On Lover Who Refused To ‘invest’ Her Money by Benprass(m): 8:51pm On Dec 19, 2021
Dam nigger young brother
RomanceRe: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Benprass(m): 8:48pm On Dec 19, 2021
When praying for children parents try and pray for the one that have the following

Sense
High self esteem
Responsible one
The one with the fear of God

Now I see why some couples have delay in getting kids. Must time God want them to know how to train their kids up properly.
CelebritiesRe: Traditional Marriage Of Adedimeji Lateef & Oyebade Adebimpe (Photos) by Benprass(m): 11:35am On Dec 19, 2021
Iretii0511:
What are you saying sire?
In an easy explanation!

He say the coming of JESUS CHRIST is close and the day for him to take home that are ready, holy and clean is near.


That we should try as much as possible to be set for him on that day.
FamilyRe: My Wife Fought My Mum by Benprass(m): 11:21am On Dec 19, 2021
When they say study the person you want to marry you think they limit it to the wife/man alone!

Nop but study her family, background, everything although people can hide things but pray over everything especially when it have to do with marriage.

One cow is taking about depression that is why the wife acted that way, why can your chase her own mother with knife.

Oga you just have to be careful with your wife, she might have anger issues, and again start praying for her so that God will change her stone heart, if not she might stab you one day.

May God not allow us marry an evil woman.
RomanceRe: I'm Suspecting My Girlfriend by Benprass(m): 10:24am On Dec 19, 2021
You have not take your mom out for for vacation even if is just 5 minute

You have not take your sisters out for vacation even if is just 10 second


Then you have the chrisma to take a lady out not just for a day but for weeks! Men you must be crazy!

I pray God will give us good children in this generation.


May that girl break your destiny not even your heart.
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Sprays ₦1000 Mints On Self Amid Fight With Tonto & Mompha (Pics, Video) by Benprass(m): 8:13am On Dec 19, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Bobrisky the bomber and keyboard warrior

He go dey pretend...the grindr master


Yes na...make I teach you how Bobrisky take dey run am

na gay format Bobrisky take dey huzzle for grindr
Him go ask any of he friends for overseas probably

..all those Arab countries like oman, Bahrain and Kuwait make them help am logging

Immediately them logging for am then he profile and online details for grindr go dey show overseas whereas he dey Nigeria.. then those Arab gay men go dey add am
Hmmmm are you sure you not a fay too?

Anyway what do I know! You guys are into the same act.
PoliticsRe: Reno: Buhari Has Borrowed More Than All The 14 Presidents Before Him Combined by Benprass(m): 8:07am On Dec 19, 2021
benuejosh:
If only Jonathan's government did what was right with our money instead of buying bra up and down.
So you want to tell me the education your gave to you was useless? Do you know the damaged this Apc has done to Nigeria? I hope you aint sick.

What does bra have to do with what is on grand
PoliticsRe: Reno: Buhari Has Borrowed More Than All The 14 Presidents Before Him Combined by Benprass(m): 8:04am On Dec 19, 2021
I won't try to hide anything but let me just say it like this

An average northern is dull
Especially those aboki
Most northern have nothing to offer they just to occupy public office so that they will have thier name on the history books

If you remove the north and his people from Nigeria within one week Nigeria will be great.

The north, buhari and Islamic are the biggest problem facing this country.
FamilyRe: Do you envy those Who Have Villages To Visit This Festive Period? by Benprass(m): 5:03pm On Dec 18, 2021
yanabasee2:
Why would anyone feel envious about people traveling to their village...??


Used to have that type of zeal as a kid.... Until I went to the village and began to suffer.... go to farm and do better job..... Then return to walk miles away to fetch water from the stream.... My younger cousins who knew how to paddle the bicycle would have it easy... while I will put the bucket and climb hills....




You better be thanking your father ... There is no fun in the village...


Carnivals in the cities.... Cinemas in the cities and parks and gardens are there with rich kids.... But you want to go and be struggling local champions with village people... And their festival that they organize to kill their brothers that is living large in the city...
One man food is another man death trap.
FashionRe: Shatu Garko Wins 2021 Miss Nigeria Pageant (Photos) by Benprass(m): 4:52pm On Dec 18, 2021
Nice hope buhari will not go and ask her to Marry him or any other old foolish Islamic teacher I know what those animal can do
SportsRe: Meet Faiq Bolkiah, World's Richest Footballer, Richer Than Ronaldo, Messi by Benprass(m): 6:15pm On Dec 17, 2021
LandOwners:
Rich kid.
Spoiled to the core with money.
He is probably playing football to catch cruise.

Even if you have to starve, buy a piece of land. Build a house and have a garden where you can grow food.
Don’t buy another iPhone, or another designer outfit, or aso ebi, until you have started on the journey of home ownership.
Don’t wait to buy a house.
Rather, buy or build a house and wait!”
Words from Mr Reno
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Departs Abuja For Turkey (Photos) by Benprass(m): 3:59pm On Dec 16, 2021
Hope he wont come back.
RomanceRe: My Temperamental Girlfriend by Benprass(m): 4:16pm On Dec 15, 2021
Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.




I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?
Sometime I just think and ask myself who gave birth to people like you? A man for that matter, you have not marry her see the kind evil and wicked words she is using on you, Men your brain need surgery, can you imagine the relationship will not just need to marriage but it will take you to heaven, Kia you almost spoil my day.

Let me not just say you are useless, bro you are mad
PropertiesRe: Re: 10 Most Beautiful Buildings In Abuja by Benprass(m): 4:08pm On Dec 15, 2021
psychologist:
If this is all you and asomarchitect can come up with, then Abuja truly have a long way to go compared to Lagos
The only thing Abuja is better at when you are comparing both Abuja and Lagos is road network.
PoliticsRe: #NorthIsBleeding Protest Erupts In Abuja by Benprass(m): 2:29pm On Dec 15, 2021
Fake news

North is safe.
SportsRe: Ramos: I'm Going To Fight To Death For PSG In The Game Against Real Madrid by Benprass(m): 9:12am On Dec 14, 2021
Aufbauh:
Real Madrid is unarguably the most informed team in Europe right now. You can argue it if you've not being watching them.

Their fluidity and transition when attacking is their greatest weapon.
PSG has great individuals in their rank but team game is still lacking.

The ease they dispatched their top close rivals like Barca, Seville, Inter Milan, Athletico is fearsome.
Leave all this English, we all know must of you dot like Psg cuz of Messi, but you people forget that in football anything can happen. Football of this days is winning that is needed. Anyway Psg will win both home and away
CrimeRe: 3 Headless Bodies with missing private parts Found Under Ondo Bridge by Benprass(m): 9:05am On Dec 14, 2021
meccuno:
These people actually think rituals can make one rich. grin grin grin grin
You dot know anything! You think people kill just to use the human part for money?

Some is for power.
BusinessRe: Fight Breaks Out In Banking Hall As Bank Refuses To Reverse Customers' Money by Benprass(m): 9:54pm On Dec 09, 2021
ucheheart:
This can only happen in uba. That bank is something else.
Evil bank

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