Softboy001:
I don't even know how to begin, but am going to try and make it short, I want to know if there is anyone in my shoes, please let me know in the comments section.

Firstly I like to say this I love sex so so much. Yea I do but it's so unfortunate that am not able to do what I love. It's fustrating. It's been 2 years now since I had sex. It's not that I don't want to but I don't just know, the reason I writing this is because the kind of konji that am feeling now is overwhelming, as in am no longer comfortable. It's terribly fustrating.

I just want to know if there is anything I can do to help my situation. So if you got any advice kindly let me know in the comment section. I didn't introduce my self just call me mr D. Am 27 years old.

So here are the reasons. I separated them into primary and secondary reasons. I'll explain only the primary reasons.

primary reasons
1. Finance. This is one of the main reasons, I don't have funds. As in I don't have 1 naira. Nothing at all so I feel there is no need trying to get a girl. I have tried and it always fail because I don't have even as low as airtime to call and keep the relationship going. let's face it relationship in Nigeria, you got to have money as a guy. Currently I have been going through some hard times, after I finish school in 2019. My serious gf that got me all focus in relationship stuffs left me and broke me.

2. I don't do olosho ( prostitute)

So some my friends find this strange because they know am a bad guy when it comes to sex. But the truth is that I don't do olosho. Apart from d fact that I don't have much. Olosho is a No No for me. As in not at all. Not to be considered. I just don't like it. I can give a girl money or do a favor but not in exchange or direct exchange for sex. The olosho is so so annoying for me. where I recently relocated to ( lagos State). That's what they do
They call it hook up. But it's just pure olosho
I guess I would have had sex by now and won't be feeling what am feeling currently if only I will agree to pay for sex. But I don't


3. Lastly I don't have a place and have been moving.

for the past 3 years. I have been moving. I have not been steady in only place to get to know people. Am always new where am going to. And it's not easy to get a girl immediately.i have staying 2 months here 4 there for the pass 3 years. Currently am staying with my brother and his wife. In a room and palor. And it's not been easy at all for me. I can't even be talking of konji now self. But the konji won't let me be

Secondary reasons.
4.am an introvert
5. Am not that tall. Am short
6. Lately I been having some kind of dislike for the ladies behave
This topic is getting to long. I hope I been able to explain enough sha. Kindly let me know if you have any thoughts on this.

Thanks for bringing this up,
I have being thinking for some time now if I am normal or okay.

Because for almost 23 years now I have not have sex? I know many won't believe me but that is there business, but ever since I have being reading the Bible and following God right from my teenage years through the Grace of God! Sir sex is better when you are married yes it's. I know no one is better and again thank God for this forum.

This is the best time to strive for the star, leave sex alone till you're married and ready.

tuzle:
If it were a 2year child who drew that, it would have been better. But for an adult to draw that nonsense, he deserves slap, a very hot one. But I like sanwolu sense of humour. If it were buhari, DSS would have arrested that guy and charge him for terrorist attack against the president.

Patrioticman007:
Beautiful,
Allah is the greatest.

Johnnoah1st:
I have 10years Facebook available 4sale

lessonotes:
I really believe you're on the right track as regards Tech, my only advice is as someone said, save some money and when you finally relocate to Abuja, look for a tech company and offer yourself as an Intern. You're still a fresher in the field, it might be hard getting a full paid job as an experienced developer. So internship would allow you learn more and align yourself with the experienced senior developers. If the owner of the tech company sees your vigour and willingness, he can decide to be giving you some stipends per month. Also look for software development meetups in Abuja. See https://www.meetup.com/


Good evening sir please I want to talk to you about something please how possible is it to discuss thank you

In all this, have patience and throw away pride, like you said, you're 26, be patient and be humble. What did I say Sir; be patient.

Tech stacks to focus on, I believe you know; JavaScript first, I repeat JavaScript. Why? Because it will lay your foundation for ReactJS, which is very popular and in high demand. There were some interns I advised in 2020 to learn JavaScript and eventually ReactJS and today in Abuja they're earning 5-6 figure salary. I mean some 65k and some 100k and above per month, as young guys and bachelors.

So if you feel, you're not yet strong with JavaScript, then I would advise you still wait and still be teaching in your current place of primary assignment, learn JavaScript again again and again, then learn ReactJS while still working in this school that's giving you steady income. Why because, if you leave this school and go to Abuja and you're not yet grounded in the skills of Software engineering, then it will be hard to get a job, and if you go in for internship and they don't pay you anything, what will you be living on; it might be hell.

So think wisely, don't make hasty decisions; I reiterate, if you are not yet grounded with JavaScript and ReactJS, continue learning and Teaching, at the end you would eat the good of the land.

I learnt web development at 24, was an apprentice (intern) for 4 years. Today am 41 through God's Grace. Be patient, there's a time and season for everything underneath the earth. Shallom!

But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing. - James 1 v 4

Ezemarcel:
sleep over your words .....read what you wrote again and ask your self if you are not a stupid man...

You want to update men because of a girlfriend....Kai....I swear your mumu too much o

shortgun:

So I should be the one to pay for him to meet my girlfriend abi. that's why you lots are wallowing in poverty... misplaced priority.

May God give you wisdom to solve your problem


With this your comments I don update men and told my girl to lure him...you fit hear scores for front page... brainless idiot

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Association of deranged sex starved perverts have finally highjacked the thread with the usual senseless talk.
No wonder we are where we are as a nation.. someone pays you to render a service, you leave your work start to follow nyash up and down...na this same mentality make many no dey progress for life .
When a grown man doesn't that there's a time for everything... when I talk, you tell me about maturity... Maturity kee all of Una der.

Untill he rape my girl or kidnap her and you low lifers will say she seduced him or was giving him green light...na red light go still kee una.

I am in my girl's house waiting for the unfortunate bolt guy to show up...what he will see will serve as a deterant to his other randy colleagues....na me they give people unforgettable memories

dazzlingd:
I knew daft people will come to ruin this thread, I suggest a simple IQ test should be conducted for people to comment on science related threads.

Seun, create a simple IQ test, and anyone that does not pass minimum requirement should be disallowed from commenting on science related threads.

Majority are daft in this part of the world, fools are irritating

Peace081:

All those names you mentioned above are worth more than your entire family

Sammy07:




The FUTURE is what again?

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Adadioranma79:
Murder was the intention from the onset, the rape was a plus for him, raping his mothers age mate for that matter. Cursed soul

Glink2018:


Domestic mumu, wetin IGP wan investigate? Wetin IGP too wan review? .no be his brother dey head all sensitive positions for Police Service Commission?
Forget all this charade and facade investigation....Nah today?

The investigation review or report will be determined by what oga at the top dictates.

I was even thinking that by now, Kyari Abba, should have set down from his present position as the FSAR boss in Lagos for them to do a thorough investigation about his involvement in fraudulent activities with hushpuppy but the status quo....remain...


I laugh in Swahili...

Deejay1000:

i just tried that sir. its still not working
cos i have two email account.
it seems the NIN has been captured or

Boss you have not answer?
something

Arrewa:
The only people that have the moral right to bash islam are Atheist!!!

Christianity is even worse than Islamic when it comes to hypocrisy.

The Christian Fundamentalists state God is
good, but the evil Bible teaches otherwise!

1. God drowns the whole earth.
In Genesis 7:21–23, God drowns the entire population of the earth: men, women,
children, and fetuses. Only a single family survives. In Matthew 24:37–42, the evil
Jesus approves of this genocide and plans to repeat it when he returns.

2. God kills half a million people.
In 2 Chronicles 13:15–18, God helps the men of Judah kill 500,000 of their fellow
Israelites.

3. God slaughters all Egyptian firstborn.
In Exodus 12:29, God kills all Egyptian firstborn children and cattle because their
king was stubborn.
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4. God kills 14,000 people for complaining that God keeps killing them.
In Numbers 16:41–49, the Israelites complain that God is killing too many of them.
So, God sends a plague that kills 14,000 more of them.

5. Genocide after genocide after genocide.
In Joshua 6:20–21, God helps the Israelites destroy Jericho, killing “men and
women, young and old, cattle, sheep and donkeys.”

Is Jesus a hypocrite??


Jesus is criticized by the Pharisees for not washing his hands before eating. He defends himself by attacking them for not killing disobedient children according to the commandment:

"He that curseth father or mother, let him die the death." (See Ex 21:15, Lev 20:9, Dt 21:18-21) So, does Jesus think that children who curse their parents should be killed? It sure sounds like it. 15:4-7

Kill Nonbelievers

They entered into a covenant to seek the Lord, the God of their fathers, with all their heart and soul; and everyone who would not seek the Lord, the God of Israel, was to be put to death, whether small or great, whether man or woman. (2 Chronicles 15:12-13 NAB)

You'll still see same hypocrites who believes in this evil book bashing Islam.

Do you know how many millions of people that were killed by Christian crusaders??

Do you know how many billions black people were killed by the white Christian colonist that conquered and forcefully christianized Africans??

Keep your religious book aside and read books... Religion is here in Africa to limit black people!!

Hypocrisy and stupidity are two of the things keeping Religion alive.

Renforce:
When I was in jss2, I took #200 to school. It so happened that I somehow got to school way before assembly so I was just goofing with my best friend until it was time

During break time I saw my friend in tears. When I enquired what the matter was, he told me Someone had stolen his #200. Out of the kindness of my own heart I offered up my own #200 since his place is much farther than mine.

Omo, the next day baba came to school with his


mom and they reported to our then computer master that I have been the one stealing his money. The most painful part was that everyone believed him and even moreso his money was marked exactly as mine was
Everyone saw his own #200 but I had no single witness in my own case.

I don't know how the issue was resolved but till this day Ejenavi & I stopped being friends.

Plus na that day I know say devil get power o but I learnt a valuable lesson that day that stuck with me till today