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I no know say this guy too no too get sense like that. I been they think say na correct person. This one no get sense o.
I really wonder how they get so-called money.

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

Life is actually a tough one. I wonder if it's easy for anyone. I hate divorce! But life must go on...
If it must happen, then just brace yourself, you will be fine. There's nothing really special out there as far as I am concerned. Just be yourself, be disciplined, be content, don't expect too much and don't rush into any other relationship for now and have a plan on how you intend to cope and importantly taking care of the children. I hope your husband will still care for his kids.

Thandiubani:
A Nigerian man who has lived abroad for over two decades has died after landing in the country.

A brother to the late man, Mmadu Jude Egozor said that his late brother died after returning to the country to settle down and establish.

He added that his brother landed in Nigeria on the 2nd, but died on the 4th of January, less than 48hours after entering the country.

He however, didn't specify exactly what killed his brother.

See below a video of his brother while en-route to Nigeria:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fDzPLBQj6o

Here is a true Nigerian! A Patriot!! I will also end it here by God's grace, where it all started.

inoki247:
this one na Angelina....

comedian!

The Nigerian Soldiers are useless! Infact, all the security outfits are so useless. This country is one big joke!
People should and must learn to arm themselves and fight against any form of intrusion either from the bandits/terrorists/herdsmen and even the soldiers.

Aidejay:
amen ooh! you go complete am this year.

Amen sir.

AdeniyiA:
More blessings David, I enter/claim/possess into my own blessings this year in Jesus name �

Amen.

Aidejay:
this kind house for banana island dem go say make you bring 1 billion naira Asin 2,432,606.00 dollars.
LWKMD!!!

And person wey get the money go buy am easy.

my people wonders shall never ever end!!!

the matter tire me too...
And I been dey here dey struggle to build small 3bedroom bungalow inside bush for Ikorodu since. I never know how many years e go take me to complete am.
May God help me!

This picture does not look like someone that died from swallowing.... More like someone that died from an impact.

Location?

I am really surprised at how people are shouting "WIKE! WIKE!!". May be we like lawlessness, disorderliness and unprofessionalism which Wike is known for.
Everybody cannot be a thug or act like a thug. Governor Sanwoolu is an astonishing personality and Governor. I haven't met him or had anything to do with him but I like his manner of approach. He may not be perfect though. Infact, I love him!
We have a lot to learn from him if this country will have anything to offer.
Humility!
If it's Buhari now that doesn't listen to anybody, we will shout he is a Tyrant!

Kriss216:
Sanwo Olu lacks the pedigree to lead.

You can't be leading millions of people and still be naive. As a Governor of a State with power and authority, you can't come to such scenario and be using "Please", "Can you".
You talk with authority.


Only Wike's voice alone will send the abokki CSP into hiding.

This is not true! We operate a system and not a one-man show. The Governor was polite and respectful. There is nothing like assertiveness here but a misdirection of instruction. He shouldn't be asking the CSP to call his bosses in Abuja, the Governor should have called them himself, but it's seems he doesn't even have their contacts.

RevolverOcelot:
Great man. E no easy to win that Bbnaija. He deserves the accolades. I will be following his career with great interest.. Lol.

because you no get job to do.

Sleekfingers:
RIP to the young man.....

Thats why I always say this, never argue with a man with a gun. A man with a gun , is like a mad man.

What sort of statement is this? Is it only in Nigeria that we have gun-carrying agents?
This is simply madness on the part of that NA and it goes further to show how we keep running this country and turn around to expect a great country.
We can't keep misbehaving like this and expect cordiality or a good country. Better still, we can as well devide this country up and let each region go it's way in peace.

The Nigerian Army will issue a statement before the end of today, denying and lieing about this incident.

Swanzi:
Hahahahaha supply what ..?? Supply power keee u there how can u supply something u don’t have id1otic baboon keep deluding and comforting ur self with that lie haha
Stop disgracing ur self on a public forums at least a simple google search would inform u that Ghana has abundance of natural gas what do we need ur gas for mumu boy

It's obvious your IQ is far below expectation of an average being. Yet you have remained arrogant and insanely stupid in your ignorance.
I say no more... Go bleep urself!

Swanzi:
Hahahahaha supply what ..?? Supply power keee u there how can u supply something u don’t have id1otic baboon keep deluding and comforting ur self with that lie haha
Stop disgracing ur self on a public forums at least a simple google search would inform u that Ghana has abundance of natural gas what do we need ur gas for mumu boy

It's obvious your IQ is far below expectation of an average being. But you remain arrogant and insanely stupid in your ignorance.
I say no more... Go bleep urself!

Swanzi:
Another typical Nigerian ranting like a rabid dog…!!
Mumu and with all ur so called smartness of ur fellow country men u can’t have simple uninterrupted power supply abeg shut up…

Slowpoke! You have no knowledge Nigeria supplies power to your dark country. Ghana is even indebted to the tune of $100million to a Nigerian gas company. Go and do your findings more...
I bet you have never experienced one in your drowning country! And you can never experience it. You should burry yourself in hell.

Swanzi:
Stop kidding urself there’s nothing special about being here I’m here primarily because of F00Ls like you.
Its my civic duty to cure ur mumuness about ghana and Ghanaians.

Now GTFO

You are just a typical stupid Ghanaian! What do you know about "civic duty"? Go and cure the madness of your Shatta-nonsense first! And the stupidity of your country men.
Nothing special indeed...!

Swanzi:
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And what does Nigeria amount to …??
If is not kidnapping is international crime syndicates or cocain pushing in India or Thailand or terrorism boko haram and banditry and u got the nerve to utter that nonsense from ur useless mouth about Ghana u must be very sick in the head.
A country where innocent youth were shot and killed at close range by the military which are meant to protect them and nothing happened and u call this a country u need to have a bit of shame

If your God-forsaken Ghana is better then what are you doing on this platform? You are mentally deranged! Perhaps you live in Nigeria, God punish you!! Go back to your God damned country.

mdntiri:
I get you. Some of us have berated Shatta for his loose talk. I'm Ghanaian I know how some of us are. We can be envious, do pull him downs, feel entitled, think Nigeria is our mate, can be insulting etc. People should realise by now that Africans should support and lift/promote each other. Ghanaians especially should know Nigeria beats us at several metrics, has the influence and the power to do big ground breaking stuff, and we should support them, learn from them, collaborate with them, be even happy to have them come into our space to make things happen

Your own Ghanaian is different. Not many like you in that country.

This Shatta nonsense is really a bastard! First he called out Nigerian artistes and puts them on the spot that he is better. Now they have taken up your stupid challenge then he suddenly changes to a rape accusation.
This bastard is an irritant! A compete bastard!!

mdntiri:
Berankis Ghanaians are too useless the country can never amount to anything in Africa? Because you're God? I've heard some Nigerians say these kinds of negative stuff about Ghana and they've lived to eat humble pie because Ghana is prospering. We don't agree with Shatta but that's his style and he commands 1000s of supporters. You can jail him, caution him, have respectable people talk to him, he'd still go ballistics when he wants to. We know him

I have my reasons for saying such and I really don't care what anybody feels. Everyone was quiet before all these nonsense started coming up.
Saying Nigerian artistes that are Grammy award winners (and more) are shit is the height of undue attention-seeking. Why not work on your self more to be better than them instead of these hatred and envy.

mikeapollo:
Ghana attracts more international visitors and tourists than Nigeria.
Does that tell you something?

On what basis is Ghana better than Nigeria. Tourism? I can tell you based on economic performances that Nigeria is way above Ghana and that is the yard stick. A GDP of over $500 billion to $75 billion, less than 1/5.
How developed is Ghana in terms of infrastructure compared to Nigeria? Even Ghanaians know there is a clear difference. Let them keep running after Nigeria like they have always done.
-they unjustly close down Nigerians legitimate businesses within their country
-unnecessarily clamp down and even attack Nigerians for no good reason. Even as bad as it is, do you hear of such in Nigeria?

PrinceOfLagos:
Hear from burna boy first before spewing trash

For the records, shatta wale is envious of Nigerian artistes, if you've ever been to his useless page on IG, you will see he's so about Nigerian artistes taking the shine in Africa .

Shatta wale is a useless clout chaser

But unfortunately Nigerian artistes that are way above him are all falling for his trap. It's all a trap to get their attention for him to trend and be popular. Who know am...? Wetin him don achieve?
Well am not really surprised as Ghana has always been envious of Nigeria, always trying to out-compete or show they are better but they will never be up to Nigeria till this world ends.
Useless Ghana! That country can never amount to anything in Africa. The people are too useless.

dre11:
He was also said to have stationed policemen at the entrance, to ensure the enforcement of his orders.





https://gazettengr.com/cp-odumosu-locks-down-lagos-estate-arrests-security-guards-for-delaying-him/

It's the same feeling we get when your police miscreants setup road blocks everywhere checking for some nonsense we don't understand and causing traffic congestion without remorse.

When you too yellow and fine like person wey dey use private jet, why them no go ask you to buy car for them?

Trulydude:
Hello House,
Please I have a dicey situations here, can you give your input.
After concluding my youth service at Firm ABC in Lagos, the company wanted to retain me with a gross salary of 100k, but I don't want the job, I am an engineering graduate with average skills and so much potentials. I hate the job just because of it's description, it is base on trial and error and sometimes a lot of energy and effort is used to deliver some services, Moreover, the job is frustrating and tiring and also I don't think I see any likelihood of carrier growth from that job; because as an engineer you are to work under the supervision of a registered engineer before you get COREN certification.

Then, company CDE gave me another offer for 70k Gross, and the company is Telecoms company and I see a lot of potential with this new company, though the pay is something else.

So, please I need some experts views, comments and recommendations; which one should I go for?

Truthfully, I think some of these posts do not really need any input, as the bearer could easily analyse his/her gains and losses with the options available and settle for anyone perceived to the best for oneself.
But for the sake of giving us something to read about... Thank you!!!

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

Sorry about your situation. You are not at fault here. You have done your best! And this is not also enough reason to break up your family, just re-advice and re-instruct your wife to stick to the rules of engagement with your mother, that's all.
Most women are like that, they always think they work harder than their husbands and easily feel maltreated or cheated. I think it's in their gene.
Just straighten things out with her and move on. Thank God mama is still alive and she will live long

Nigeriadondie:
Thr idea if kneeling down is what I don’t like. It looks so dehumanizing. If I were the pastor, Inwould have lifted or prevented the man from kneeling down in the first place.
Also, publicizing this is not necessary. The principle of what your right hand does do not let your left hand know has been violated

I had to watch the video to see the kneeling down part and to be honest, I don't see anything wrong in that. It's not worship, it's just a show of appreciation. I would even prostrate I if given that kind of gesture to show gratitude. The preggy wife also knelt but was quickly raised, he tried to raise the man but he chose to remain. Absolutely nothing wrong.

amnesty7:
Congratulations to them.
Thank God they are both from Bayelsa...if you know, you know

Infact, until they wrote from Bayelsa, I already believed they were Hausa/Fulani. I had to see Bayelsa the 2nd time to be convinced.

Aburada:
Not surprised always hungry of attention.

Someone that has $30 billion dollars in is account is bragging of making 22 million dollars

$30 billion bawo? Someone cannot play with you? Is that how you used to do...?