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edo3:
Anybody experiencing bet9ja network failure? because i wan injure dem 2day o.







As for d fuel,, no amount of talk can change anything because ds people ruling us know say Nigerians are cowards..Do anything to us,, one week too far everything dies down.


Abeg who go help me beg UBA?? Yesterday dem just remove like 500naira for my account.. The money i wan use drink beer to help my BP so that I no go just die like that..

Carzy werey man!

First, I feel ashamed that there are men who treat their wives like this. I may not be making any mistake to say that your husband is treacherous. The earlier you can start preparing yourself for a future without (or with him but Independently) the better you and your kids too.
My dear this your husband na one chance and I feel ashamed. I feel sorry for you.
Please, discuss with your parents and family members that can help you with your relocating abroad, most importantly because of your kids.
God help you!

First, I feel ashamed that there are men who treat their wives like this. I may not be making any mistake to say

I don't have any advice really. I lost interest at the point you began stating how you pay rent and feed the family from your salary. I hate this statement! He was paying the family's bills and feeding everyone before he lost his job and nothing was posted on social media or broadcast around, how come its when a wife helps that the whole world will get to know how you have been taken care of your own family?

It is a step in the right direction, even though it is coming on the heels of the Presidency asking the ICPC to probe the National Assembly members' Constituency Allowance expenditure. The NA now resorted to also scrutinizing all the Federal Departments and Agencies in turn, but it's all for the good of the nation. Let's carry on...

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Appeal kee you dia! You will never learn!! You better start looking for money to pay damages

Welcome to reality! Welcome to Nigeria!! This is not the US where you sue for 'rape' of 20yrs, 30yrs... And they prosecute. Here, no hard evidence, you get nothing but damages to pay...

kenir:
I still do not understand how losing a bet killed the him

as in eh, why will you die bcoz of one spineless team's foolishness?

It is not impossible if one has incurred debts as a result of betting. Near miss can kill by demoralizing and depressing the one involved...

Amarachi, everyone that has commented has one good reason or the other but my own advice for you is to be patient. I believe your husband doesn't dislike you, he is just frustrated. 90% of men will behave like your husband in the same circumstances. I do too! Men always bluff with "you can leave anytime you want!" I cannot count how many times I have said this to my wife but deep down I cannot afford it. So, in the midst of all the commotions, please, build yourself up (with a job or work), keep believing, keep praying, seek medical help and invite him into the ones you can.
If you have had miscarriage before it means you both are fertile, it just requires a little more effort. Your family is blessed and it is well with you.
Please, don't be afraid of anyone or anything and never give up come what may...

maynation:
Fashola is now SanwoOlu's spokesman.

You obviously didn't read it. Its not the Fashola Minister, this one is the Director of VIS.

These pics made my evening! Thank you @op.

I am sorry, a woman like this cannot keep marriage!

delishpot:
If people die in that car now, they will say its village people that caused it. Nigerians can wipe out a whole village if it will bring them 100 naira profit.

Sad! But you are very right!!

magicminister:
I hate the way a lot of Nigerians think.

What he did was extremely unprofessional and can almost be defined as stalking. Even if he felt a great connection with a paying customer, he should have asked her if she’s fine with him texting her later in the day and asked her to write her number down. Using her data in such a manner to satisfy his personal desire is a huge breach of trust

Now, his ego is hurt and he feels that the girl is looking down on him because her response was unanticipated.


Contacting her in the first place was rude. He was the first one to cross the line.
The girl was nice and courteous and he misread that to be a “green light”.
If the girl was rude and snobbish, people like you would still accuse her of being “pompous”.

There’s nothing wrong with shooting your shot but there’s a time and place for everything and even if you must shoot your shot, politely say

“hey, this was a very short trip and I really enjoyed our conversation. It would be awesome if we exchange numbers, assuming you’re fine with that and I wouldn’t be offended if you say no, just that I’ve been doing this for a while and come across a lot of people but never really had any meaningful conversation with them”.

That way, the girl will have a choice to accept the shot or deny. You can’t inject yourself into someone’s life and call it shooting your shot!

You are good!

If you are gonna read up... sex & erections are both physical and psychological. But your approach at handling the issue (if there is any) will only ruin what's left of your self-confidence.
You have to believe in your self first, then I will advice that if you have a girlfriend that is willing to let you lay with her, do it (but with protection). This will improve your self-confidence a lot.
I am sure with time you will re-discover yourself and gain more control. I believe there's nothing wrong with you cos you still get erection, would have been different if there was none at all.

Nigerians cannot make heaven! So between 9pm Saturday night and Sunday Morning the escapee Lion had devoured all the goats (how many goats were they)?
Na goat barbecue party him do abi him invite him friends come the merry. Some people have committed fraud here...

NwaNimo1:
Make dem freeze am na?

Or make stew and freeze am?

Or 'cann' it for export to another market.

Or chop am!

Please let it not go to waste.

Sunday Rice.......R.I.P!

How many them wan chop? These people no look like people wey fit freeze anything. It's just a pity for both countries. Nigeria is trying to make unprecedented sacrifice towards self-sustenance. We just hope it will pay off at the end of the day. God, let us not suffer in vain. Amen!

- You are both young and impatient with eachother
- Do you work? If not, in what other way(s) do you really add value to him?
- You are never equal to your husband in a marriage, though, you are not his slave or househelp too (don't always stand shoulder-to-shoulder with him).
- Stop leaving your home to your parents (5times within 2years is not good), your mind is still in your parent's house.
- He is obviously young (I seriously believe) and inexperienced in marriage but can learn and should learn, continue to teach him how you prefer to be treated. He will get it.
- Lastly, you can NEVER find that "love", "respect".... outside, the best is what you have got. The best man for you married you. Where were the others before you both got married? Nowhere!
Marriage is not a joke. It is hard work! Work hard together...

madridguy:
Evil like this invite the wrath of God Almighty to the land. How could one be so wicked to this level. Wicked to slaughter fellow human also slice away her breasts.
Who ever that committed this abomination will forever be tormented.

Rip.

Amen!

baby124:
South Africans look weird. They look different. It’s easy to tell West Africans from South Africans. Kind of like how East Africans look different too.

Not weird, they look ugly! They are mostly ugly with dull hairless faces. Only their women have big bumbum but still ugly.

Revenge is sweet! I love the sound of this "Nigerians react..." Yeah! That's the message to fvcking south animals.
Xenophobia won't happen again soon if at all....

Then you break into the shops of those in legitimate business to rob them? Because others are selling drugs? These guys are inhuman, Nigeria should take this beyond mere Twitter banter, let's dish out real reprisals.

Realdeals:
Hypocrite, if MTN, Shoprite, StanbicIBTC and other SA interest in Nigeria closes shop today, it won't affect South Africa much as it will hurt Nigeria, what are the percentage of S/african's working in those firms compare to Nigeria.

Tell him the MIFI was not manufactured in South Africa, even the SIM.

Nigeria may be affected but t's far less compared to what our country men have been going through in that country for some time now. Besides, there is none of those institutions that we don't have substitutes for. Nigeria will survive without them.
Thank you.

ValCon888:
$1.1billion between Jan to July. These guys are stealing the yearly budget of some countries.

Funny but true!

Hear the guy wey carry camera dey instigate others to violence without getting involved. He kept shouting "Iya yin, e ni lo! E ma je kolo!!" While standing at the back row. Nice one
But true true, they should free this guy. Enough abeg!

hahn:
The same god that has done nothing about his disability? I don't think so

God helping him does not necessarily means replacing his legs but blessing him even in his disability.

Kingosytex:
Na shisha dat girl dey blow like dat? Would Regina have dumped Somadina for Ned had it been Ned was poor? The answer is "NO". Money buys love, this is a FACT. Enjoy your baecation.

Money is love! The moment you start buying a girl's stuffs & gift, she immediately believes you love her and develops love in return.

Nigerians are just crazy Sycophants! How does reciting the national anthem improve or undermine anyone's contributions to nation building?

You people should come to Mile2-Badagry road, it's party unending... But somehow, am getting worried with this Sanwo-olu. E be like say this man go fall our hands.

The one way pain me pass na vehicles of over 15yrs...

Officialgarri:
I'm for Buhari but this Ruga settlement is unacceptable.

I mean, the rumors of islamization can be true after all. This is how they gradually penetrate territories and strike from within when Jihad comes.

We have decayed to a fault that we from different ethnic background can no longer live together in harmony for long. The situation is beyond redemption already.

North has the largest land mass, they should stick to their territory.

My thought as well. I campaigned for Burari all my life but I have been seriously disappointed with this RUGA setup strategy. It's very fishy and will not be allowed to stand. It won't stand. I hope Tinubu is fully aware of this development.