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How is someone able to steal a car parked, with all the security: sensor, keys etc that Oyinbo built inside the vehicle? I always wonder... the day I accidentally lost the chip in my key fob, my slept outside.

braine:
This is the best advice I've ever read on this topic.

More wisdom to you sir.

God bless you!

Gamesmart:
This is a stupid analogy.

There is no option not to be alive or not to be a Nigerian from the start.

There is an option not to marry from the start.

"Stupid analogy", only to a stupid minded one.

1. Dont you regret being alive sometimes? But it doesnt mean you want to die.
2. Dont you regret being a Nigerian a lot of times? But it doesnt necessarily mean you want to stop being a Nigerian, so same too is marriage. Sometimes, you regret and some other times you feel it is the best thing that has happened to you.
You just have to understand that being married doesnt necessarily mean you have full control of your wife, her parents still have a great influence over her and must respect it and vice versa. She also has some level of freedom too and you must accord it.
Things dont always go as planned or as expected, just take life as it comes and try to make the best out of every situation.

Yes it is not but putting ring in your nose like a bull is an achievement.

Dobson43:






I would give you a mature advice since that's what you want. Your present boyfriend is just your boyfriend. He is not betrothed to you neither has he paid your dowry. Don't limit yourself at this stage of your life. Experiment, try new things, discover yourself. If you feel the urge to move on, do move on. You clearly have a thing for this guy and one can conclude that all you need is a push.



Based on your level in the university, one can determine your age. Some callous folks would call this stage you find yourself a whøre phase, but the true is we all have this identity crisis. We do not actually know ourselves. Certain people we see typify those characters we do have but can't express. They inspire this qualities in us to be birthed.




I don't want to go too philosophical, but I am going to tell you this: twenty years from now, you would wish you were more adventurous, you would wish you tried new things and you would understand that life is worth living and you would not allow yourself wallow in bondage because you are in relationship. Ships are supposed to move you in a certain desired direction. Either it moves you or you jump ship.




But the real truth is, you have broken his heart and emotionally screwed him over. Have the decency to break it up

Please, don't try any stupid new things. Focus on your studies! Twenty years from now you will look back and wish you could turn back the hands of time to correct your wrongs. This "being adventurous" will cost you a lot... A word is enough for the Wise.

I am sure it men like you who cannot help their family members or friends that spend like a mad man on women!
The girl is a punishment upon you, continue to spend or you don't want to reap the fruit of your labour?

Hornbill

Las Las she go still break up with you on a serious note. Women like this don't last long with a man.
They make you feel like they can't survive without you but all na still nonsense, the next thing is a break-up (not a prophet of doom but just to keep you in check with reality).
Make your studies your priority for now pls. Keep a girlfriend if you want to, keep females friends too but never at the cost of your career plans or pursuits.

Be a wise woman and a humble one. Bring your son home, tell your husband he is just coming to greet, after 1 or 2days beg him like a woman, like his wife. He will never say no and he can stay with you all.

Charleys:
How does someone video herself crying. I don't understand

Only women can answer it

Wickedfacts:
There's nothing like brand new standard.

Is the mileage also brand new standard?

It's a make-believe statement, something any good sales person would do (I'm sure you would do far more if in his shoes). A sales person should sound convincing and build some level of confidence in the minds of intending buyers.
I'm a sales person (but not Auto sales).

Lol!
I believe you are a young chap, just continue to grow yourself in your job, work, school, you will later realise it's just a piece of cake.
Don't memorise, just be honest with your feelings about her. The words will flow when you are honest with your feelings and don't over-expect.
Let her know how special she is to you, you may not even ask for her number the first time. Just give her something to think about when she remembers you.
You will get her number another time....
And when you finally get her, always remember how you trembled for her and never maltreat her.

He said "brand new standard".

How much sir?

850k?

This guy laughing cannot make heaven. Even the person that was shoved didn't take personal.

SultanOfAbia:
I Swear Afonjas No Get Levels
You dare not shake a Chief in igboland
Like He is your Boy Boy
Just Negodu a Whole Oba
Somobdy u should shake with 2 hands With Respect, Chaii ...

Afonjas no get levels kee you dia!
You people are just insatiable! If he decides to carry himself like a King he is now... You people will be the shameless ones to come and be bad-mouthing here, because you don't just have a life of your own. You live by what others do or say.
This is just to correct wrong impression/expression.

buoye1:
yes there was kidnapping,i work in rigachikun, the village next to maraban jos and from the report i got when i got to work on wednesday, over 20 persons were kidnapped and more than 20 killed while a lot were injured...A luxirious bus was involved too, i just hope he's alive

This is why they don't want operation Amotekun!

Is it that these bastards derive joy in ridiculing Nigeria youth all the time they conduct their useless recruitments? Which one is 50,000 applicants applied for 1,000 jobs? Why these madness of stating these senseless reports all the time? To achieve what? Is is to depress the youth or create more hopelessness?

My advice is just don't give up on your Pharmacy quest, I assure you it will worth all the pains once achieved but meanwhile, the SLT (though I don't know the meaning) you currently study should be a plus too, so don't mess it up.
Keep trying and strive to achieve the pharmacy on or before completing your current programme.
You will make it.
I remember reading Marine Science 'cos I couldn't secure admission into Pharmacy and now after 13years of graduation, I'm planning to go back and read Pharmacy.

czarina:
Did you or did you not fling the document at her? It didn't have to "touch" her.


The disrespect behind the act was what made her quit. There are better ways to pass your message, not throwing temper tantrums at your staff.

Again, work on your temper! Then, consider setting boundaries. But work on your temper first. Not everyone has the patience for nonsense.

My advice;

You can let her come back on the condition that you work on your temper, let her know your expectations, then set boundaries.

You can choose not to re-employ her but work on your temper.

I've worked with bad-tempered bosses in the past, staff no dey last. And it's bad for business.

See this stupid Tuart talking about temper. The same ones that would slam the head of their maids on the floor for little things.

shakaZuIlu:
God bless United States of America
God bless POTUS
terrorists are scared
Buhari is scared
yeroba Muslims are not happy

but the children of God are very happy
the world is with US
#istandwithUnitedStatesofAmerica

Speak for yourself you Idiot! What has this got to do with Buhari and Yoruba Muslims? By the way, I am a Yoruba Christian and I do not stand with oppression or the Oppressors!

IstandWithGod:
Track all of them and send them to Sambisa forest so they can go and abuse Shekau's father there.

You are maddest;

In my opinion, I think men are becoming more reckless than ever. Your girl cheated, yes! But you can separate in private without causing so much havoc & publicity. Why wait till a day before wedding or during wedding to do this?
Truth is you have also smeared yourself in public. If my wife/girlfriend cheats on me, I would rather resolve everything in private either in separation or reconciliation. I can't bring this shame to the public, never!

I am going back at 38.

Don't kill yourself because of skin rash. Man that will love and marry you will.

edo3:
Anybody experiencing bet9ja network failure? because i wan injure dem 2day o.







As for d fuel,, no amount of talk can change anything because ds people ruling us know say Nigerians are cowards..Do anything to us,, one week too far everything dies down.


Abeg who go help me beg UBA?? Yesterday dem just remove like 500naira for my account.. The money i wan use drink beer to help my BP so that I no go just die like that..

Carzy werey man!

First, I feel ashamed that there are men who treat their wives like this. I may not be making any mistake to say that your husband is treacherous. The earlier you can start preparing yourself for a future without (or with him but Independently) the better you and your kids too.
My dear this your husband na one chance and I feel ashamed. I feel sorry for you.
Please, discuss with your parents and family members that can help you with your relocating abroad, most importantly because of your kids.
God help you!

First, I feel ashamed that there are men who treat their wives like this. I may not be making any mistake to say

I don't have any advice really. I lost interest at the point you began stating how you pay rent and feed the family from your salary. I hate this statement! He was paying the family's bills and feeding everyone before he lost his job and nothing was posted on social media or broadcast around, how come its when a wife helps that the whole world will get to know how you have been taken care of your own family?

It is a step in the right direction, even though it is coming on the heels of the Presidency asking the ICPC to probe the National Assembly members' Constituency Allowance expenditure. The NA now resorted to also scrutinizing all the Federal Departments and Agencies in turn, but it's all for the good of the nation. Let's carry on...