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BadRadio:
our maker should help us there too...

the maker never helps us there.... all they threaten us with is lake of fire.... a threat which ive accepted... the whole thing is unfair. also there are many who wait until marriage then get disappointed that the partner isnt giving them sex.... they get stranded; or they got divorced - so they should spend another 3 years waiting for another marriage? just to have pleasure... is God the God or is sex God? Which one is God out of the two biko. No sex before marriage is crap. I would say what makes sense is reasonable care should be taken to only have meaningful sex.

AskiaHarem:
Dang your so r.e.t.@.r.d.e.d it's pathetic.
The intervention in The Gambia overthrowing that dictator that was president for 20+ years

Sierra Leone?

Liberia?

Guinea Bissau?

North Mali Islamist?

Economic integration?

Shut your d.u.m.b @.s.s up mouthbreather

No such things happening in Nigeria keep dreaming mouthbreather.

the gambia guy was president for 20 years to protect the country from British colonizers - same as south africa... they are not dictators. merkel of germany has ruled germany for over 10 years and is not a dictator....?

Amos1423:
What does ECOWAS mean and what's has been their proposition since it was established? What difference does ECOWAS make with the likes of Buhari, Mesuveni, Ramphosa and the rest of African dictators? In the truth Africa has not been able to paint a true picture of itself after the era of neo-colonialim.

Congratulations to Mali!

Ramaphosa, Buhari and Mugabe are not dictators.... these leaders are protecting their countries from British and French colonists - thats why they hold on to power.... took me a long time to realize this.

UN and EU love elections in Africa because it allows them to rig in and put in their candidate - they need to do this because western europe is poor though you will not believe it.... they i.e. uk france and germany and italy have nothing and hence have to rely on colonization and imperialism otherwise they would be poor....

FalseProphet1:
If not for the whites and foreigners that gave South Africa the development they're boasting of, that country would have been nothing more than a cave riddled with rapists, robbers and other criminals.

I see apartheid returning back to South Africa.

This I have seen.

U have been brainwashed. Many Africans have been psychologically damaged by western European media and it will take generations to recover from (I hope not).

Why did british soldiers loot Benin bronzes? Because they had never seen bronze work before.

Western Europe is poor so they have to present themselves as black man savior as justification for trying to unseat Africans from their land.

There are so many Africans in science etc. Africans dominated science but colonists bullied Africans out of it same say they said Mungo Park discovered river niger.

Emancipate yourself from mental slavery.

seunmsg:

OP don mad.

Instead of advocating for Magun, let’s de-emphasize marriage. Marriage is a trap that does both parties no good. They are just trapped there in sadness.

People who are attracted to each other should be able to do whatever they wish without the guilt of marriage. Infidelity in marriage will continue to grow until we all agree to end the damned institution.

I agree with you whole heartedly. what if after marrying you see someone you are more attracted to a month later??

endallinfection:
Well ...As a Christian to me , it's not bad .It's very much Okay ... It's the Force and mandatory order women give that man should take them to Court for Marriage that is Nonsense !

they say that so they can chop your money if you decide to leave them...

Joyceaile:
My thoughts though, just wondering why church wedding has being made mandatory to new couples, Some elders told me it’s a white man's belief, that the most important is the dowry paid to the parents of the girl and the traditional, then to legally show or proof you are married, the court wedding comes in whereby you are handed the certificate of marriage.

So why the craze for the white wedding? Educate me, I am open to learning.

avoid church wedding oh! that's the one that ties one man to one woman for life. even if u meet someone more attractive. me in on my doing traditional sha cos traditional allows for multiple partners....

haakeem2:
Thank GOD you know that she isnt ur type.............
Do u fornicate? If yes bleep her twice or thrice then dump her.

The question should be: "are you a sexually active male?"

Which one be do you "fornicate".

Christianity takes human behavior and labels it evil.

I believe only sleeping with a married person is evil or sleeping with a prostitute....

funshint:
I shiver anytime I hear IMF giving a country advise. Those people are demons!

this is the truth. if you know you know!

jaxxy:
Never make business decisions for women based on emotions. Most are imcompetent and very ungrateful. They are very selfish and self centered if u allow them, they have terrible sense of judgement about those who help or sacrifice for them.

Infact sacrificing too much for a woman is a red flag ure with a leech and the wrong woman. A good woman woman won’t let u run urself down for her, she will have patience and manners not patience with manipulation and attitude.

Ure wife is currently selfishly manipulating u and doesn’t see the adverse effects cos of her greed, poor judgement or bad character.

Actions to take: U better ignore her completely for now till she returns to her normal senses.

If there was a way to like this x10 I would.

And you forgot to add - they always only do what is convenient for them.

OgbeniOptional:
It’s good to empower a woman but I think it’s high time men stop sacrificing their professional growth for that of a woman, always end in tears, talking from experience. I don’t know why m some women are like that though and it’s really challenging mentally for men.

I know a man based in London that married a woman based in the US. After the marriage,the man left his base in London to go and stay with the wife in US. Basically the man only does whatever the woman wants..... men need women more than women need men it seems...

Francismeek:
Brother there's a reason they said men love unconditionally but women love opportunistically, women love only on the bases you provide something, what you did for them in the past doesn't matter once you ain't doing it continuously,... Don't be frustrated ,just pray to God to improve your finance that's all... But know women can change on you anytime any day ,... Their loyalty is only to their feelings.

Their loyalty is only to their feelings and to whatever is convenient for them.

Davash222:
A man will kneel and beg a woman to marry him
Same man will still pay bride price
Same man will still train and set up the woman

Just for procreation


We need to revisit and readjust some ethics in this institution called marriage.

And never mind the woman don old finish at the point they wanna marry and don fukkk tire.

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

What you are experiencing is the sinful nature of man....you cannot help yourself. You need Gods grace (me too im like that). Say this prayer:

LORD Jesus Christ. I believe you are the Son of God. I believe You came into the earth 2000 years ago and died for me on the Cross. I am a sinner. Wash me with Your Blood. Save me from my sinful evil nature inherited from Adam. I choose to serve You from today onward.

You will notice that you no longer feel jealous much after this.

Nothing else can help you because it is the sinful nature of man.

emmanuelewumi:
It is 0.7% with Stanbic IBTC Stockbrokers

really?? since when?? Morgan capital don crash prices well well.

vibratingpenis:
Blaming the atrocities of the worthless and useless cave dwelling mecca pig mohammed on others have been the default mode of stupid headslamming mark of the beast worthless muslims.

nah...nigeria is better off ruled by Muslims and better off as an Islamic republic....

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.

The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).

This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event.
Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions.
How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.


God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
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farano
Please help move to front page for wider view.

the woman is playing man. disgusting.

fergie0o1:
The US had issued an advisory on October 26, on a possible terrorist attack.



CNN Africa


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MP7o_ph-b4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IyOGYHaH9eA

the West are at it again; training rebel groups and trying to destabilize African countries.

ArewaNorth:
You need to remember how Christian Nations form an ally and terrorised the whole world. Iraq, Afghanistan, Somalia, and Libya were living peacefully before the crusaders put them in a state of mayhem.
They bombarded Syria and many Muslims Nations in the name of democracy. Wether they like it or not in the next 30yrs Muslims will Govern those Crusader Nations. If u terrorised, invade and made them homeless then they'll migrate to ur home and seek for shelter thereby becoming the owner's of the house!
The nuke bombers are responsible for the current insecurity across the globe. People should be allowed to live in accordance with their culture and traditions!

I agree

IkpuMmadu:
na black man... They are slaves to fair skin

This is wrong... What Ákwá Ibom did was so wrong... Can't they build the city and manage it... Now they have sold our their land and a city would be built by China and they can't even be stakeholders

This flight is from Shanghai to Hendai city. Colonization don start.

chukxie:
Leaders set standards for their citizens to emulate. Therefore, a dysfunctional country is a reflection of its leaders. The problem begins from the very top.

Not true... just an easy way to pass blame. Leaders emerge from the stock of Nigerians

chukxie:
Not "had" but has. Nigeria still has all the potentials to be the biggest and greatest thing out of Africa and the entire black race. The vital components it lacks are visionary and selfless leaders! I currently live in China, and I witness daily how the third-tier city that I live in is run. From waste disposal to roads maintenance, housing management, urban and suburban developments, security, to the very last detail that makes life worth living, everything is done with the citizens in mind. Is there corruption in China? Yes! But things get done. The reverse is the case in Nigeria. Our leaders make leading appear as though it were rocket science.

the nigerians are just as bad as their leaders bro/sis.

adamsmith914:
What Force, is that what your parents told you, or you learnt that in elementary school?

its like you dont even know what colonialism is. the british sent an army in 1857 to conquer nigeria - the british took over and thats how the colonial government administration started...

oldtruth:
It was also a Chinese restaurant.

Infact, just call a Taiwanese "a Chinese man" and see their reaction. Most Asians detest Chinese. There is a reason for that.

They always destroy other people to make themselves look good. They are a never a good businessman. They might be good in IT but Chinese people are never a good businessman. Always dubious

but they are much better than the british who commanded their army in 1857 to invade nigeria with force and set up a colonial administration...

oldtruth:
You are lost my brother. Don't be too blind to what your brethren are pointing out to you.

I can bet you free this construction, some places won't be available to the blacks. Chinese are the most ridiculous people ever. Look at what they are doing to Taiwan? It seems you don't know how power drunk the Chinese are?

A good project but construction should be handle by our locals. Let me tell you one thing. You can't export finished products to China from developing country because they believe it won't create job for their youth in China. That is why they prefer taking things raw to China for processing so as to create jobs over there.

So many things wrong with the Chinese system. Accepted it is a good project but if we dey cry, make we dey see

Shey there was a restaurant in VI, Lagos that was "no blacks allowed". Google it...

ChangedMan1999:
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OK it is a private investment.


Now, why call the Chinese to aid in the construction when our universities produces quality engineering graduates.


Is it a bad thing to pay our engineers the money that would be paid to these Chinese in the end.


Every action has its consequences.
These Chinese won't consider us humans. Try to understand this.

I get your point and I kind of agree, why cant we call Ghanian, Moroccan or Rwandan engineers? We have to go to far China! But we can argue that they have more experience and expertise...

generalwo:
Hope dangote can go to China and build his own city there too? This is how it starts.... Why build a city inside Nigeria and give it a Chinese name? What kind of government do we have in this country?

The Chinese name is what I dont like....

dasparrow:
Honestly, I have my reservations when it comes to the Chinese. No group of people do anything for nothing. What's in it for the Chinese? Not only that, these Chinese are the same people who threw Africans out of their homes in China and tried to blame Africans for coronavirus. The Chinese are extremely racist and their presence in Africa makes me nervous and concerned. This is how Whites came to Africa back in the day bringing 'greek gifts' and acting like they have our best interest at hand and before we knew it, our people were enslaved and shipped away to God knows where while those who were left behind were colonized. I don't trust other racial groups not because I am racist but because history has shown that they never mean well for us. Just saying.

This project is done on a pay and execute basis. The Akwa Ibom Government tells them what they want, the Government pays and then its done. Its business. The people you have to fear are the British who sponsored the Igbo genocide during the Nigerian civil war and the French who supported the genocide in Rwanda and are currently trying to take over Mali.

Ilaumoh:
Chinese investors acquire 120 hectares of land in Akwa Ibom for Hendai city..



www.vanguardngr.com/2021/11/chinese-investors-acquire-120-hectares-of-land-in-akwa-ibom-for-hendai-city/amp/

This is a welcome development. Nigeria-China cooperation is what we want. Not cooperation with British colonists who invaded Nigeria in 1857 and looted the country dry - UK and France have nothing to offer Nigeria and Africa. British colonists came as election observers to meddle in Anambra elections (they dont mean well). While French colonists are currently trying to take over Mali.

franchasng:
My friend you don't need all those nonsense public drama they call engagement.


You are not an entertainment celebrity, so public engagement won't earn you any income or image boost. Just sit her down privately and tell her you would love to go see her parents soon, that which day or date in the month would be okay?



Most times it's broke people looking for foolish attention that do all those public engagement just to trend for some hours, you don't need those stuffs.


What you should be doing now is saving for your marriage, solidifying your finances and making plans on how to solidify your family financially after marriage so that you, your wife and kids will have a smooth life after the wedding

I like your last paragraph. Most people focus on the wedding and not after the wedding realities.

Who the f**k is a girl that men do all these stupid proposals to? I no dey do any stupid proposal to this selfish gender.... maybe with a N1000 ring sha....