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Eeya, sowie bro.

What's your location presently?

1. Canon eos 80d or 70d or 60d
2. Nikon d5200 or 5500 or 5600

U can get uk/us used of those above within that range! And u should still have some small change to buy 1 or 2 kits

saxietohgbaskie:
Please tell me about it... Ntel? Or airtel

Ntel of course!

Read up here: http://www.ntel.com.ng/

Abojupupa:
I don't know if anyone has experienced what I observed in my vehicle.

I have 2008 Highlander V6 Limited Edition. The issue is that the engine starts suddenly and runs on for about one minute before it stops. This happens automatically at regular intervals, day and night.

I had spoken with the dealer from whom I bought it, but he waived my observation aside, saying that is how that model behaves.I have used the vehicle for 8 months plus and there has been no problem, but I just want to be sure.

Gurus in the house, can I trust my dealer?

Find this name on nairaland: Gazzuz! He will sort your problems out in a flash sir!

Though its like your suv is thumbstart, right?

Go to computer village na!

U will see plenty options based on your budget and purpose for the laptop!

Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?

Eeya, bros, i feel you on 4G LTE speed!

Myself and my wife had this issue when we gave birth last year!

Before baby came, we used to sleep "spooning style" ...

The moment baby came, my wife decided to put him in the middle...

At first, i went with it "mumuciously" but when agro wan kill me and i was missing the cuddle just like u are now, I rearrange sharply: my boy sleeps close to the wall, my wife, in the middle and me, at the edge!

And till today, we are cool!

Everything na sense e need!

U just have to use style to 1st re-arrange your sleeping positions!

Then the sex of a thing will naturally come back though u might not be able to have it in the room due to the kids there ... sebi una get parlour na ... go do am on top chair joor! Or go kitchen or bathroom!

Bros, innovate or else, konji go kee u finish o!

Don't allow your kids (which are, of course, bundles of joy) to destroy your marriage cos na so e dey begin!

If not, u might find yourself admiring your neighbor's house girl or one silly lady out there!

hephzibah204:
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Price nko?

Thanks

Abujaexpress:
My fellow employers in the house, I crave your indulgences to be guided on this issue, thus:
I employed a lady as my secretary. She had worked for about 3 months before she failed to resume work on a particular day and all my phone calls to her were not answered by her. After a few days, a friend that brought and guaranteed her employment with my firm called me that the girl said I shouted at her and flinged a document towards her, as a result of which she left.

The following day, I called the girl, this time around she picked, albeit reluctantly and I told her that since she has refused to show up at work, she should return the office key which was with her. A few days later, I did not know when she sneaked into the complex and gave the key to my neighbour, which he delivered to me.

I subsequently called the girl and asked her if she does not want to work again, she simply said that she is attending to her health in her village. I did not hear from her since then untill the 2nd of the following month, December when she called me to request for transfer of her salary to her. I initially asked her to come to office to resign and handover officially for me to work out her salary, but I later allowed human feelings to take hold me and I calculated/substracted the numbers of days she did not work for that month and transferred the balance to her.

Immediately she called to thank me and she again called on new day to wish me a happy new year.

Then suddenly on the 3/01/2020, she sent me a message that she would pls want to talk with me. I agreed to listen to her. She called me to say if I have not employed another secretary, that she would want to resume and that if I will allow her to work with me again. I simply told her that I would look into it and get back to her. Am yet to give her field back.

The issue now is, considering the nature of her leaving work AWOL, and now calling to beg to come back, should I accept her back or I should her engage a different person (already I have some applications for the job on my table).

N. B. Kindly note that her brief stay in my office have exposed the girl as a dishonest fellow and her penchant for excuses from office citing sickness and flimsy excuses is very her.

I need advice please.

Bros, u sound like she's helping your ministry "down there" too ... if not, someone who's discovered to be dishonest, goes AWOL and u are still asking if u can re-consider her?

Bros, my candid advice is "Don't consider her for any reason" ...

I don talk my own!

don't come back here with "stories that touch the heart and tickles the bumbum" ooo

March 15!

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

Nothing like that jare!

Just stuffs created for those who choose to swallow it!

That's how they will say "if u miss who you are supposed to marry, you have missed it"!

All na lie! I'm a strong christian but I read my bible right!

AK481:
You will pay more for underground economy activities.this is in basic macroeconomic theory.

How do u mean bro? Enlighten me pls!

Vortex369:
Ha Ha.

People wont stop fuccking naw. And as religions have stated, children are gifts from God.

So we will keep "borning", until we beat India and Chinko people. We no deg carry last.

Yes o! Fucccking na serious biz jare!

Abi o!

Vortex369:
If Federal Government was as wise as Chinese Communist Party, na dem supposed biy laptop and pay data foe all these jobless boys.

We need inflow of dollars and pounds and Euro into this economy to power industries and generate jobs.

Critical times need desperate measures.

How are we going to feed 205 million people my friends ?

You are very much correct!

Chinese govt are super wise! They will allow u to bring in any amount (dollars) but u must spend it!

That's why they say "Any dollar that comes to China, stays in China"

And also, lemme correct u ma: we have grown beyond 205 million o! We should be approaching 300 million with the rate at which people dey drop babies like its hot!

psucc:
They have been calling me to pick a loan and one day i went to the marketing dept of their Ikot Ekpene branch and started shouting at the top of my voice wh they should be troubling me with their outrageous loan when UBA is giving same loan at 24%.

They started begging me to leave. They persuaded me strongly as many people were processing a facility with them.

Just watch na!

I go show dem pepper next year 2020!

They will end up paying me millions if they are not careful!

Samakus:
Following the directive by FG that workers in the federal civil service will receive the new minimum wage this December, has any Federal staff received it or the arrears from the consequential adjustment as opined by FG?

I reliably learnt that Federal Civil Servants have started receiving December salary from yesterday, December 23rd. Has FG kept to its words or na audio?

Can we get inputs from Federal workers?

Nope! Nothing till now 24th dec 03:35pm

stunt89:
I need urgent help with good anti-virus to remove HETS virus from my computer....

2 Softwares i use since are

1. Avast anti virus - the free edition (with every update)
2. Malwarebytes - free edition too!

Malwarebytes is capable of removing malwares with strong head if they manage to enter. While avast keeps them away from entering!

Best thing is to put your computer hdd into a usb case and use another clean system with the 2 above named softs to do a full scan

lahizak:
Ģood day guys. I just removed a sata hard drive from a very old damaged hp laptop. Please is there a way i can test it to see if its working before spending 2k to buy hard disk casing. I stay in ibadan and whats d price of hard drive casing in ibadan?

Just borrow external sata-usb connector from a friend and test the hard drive.

Those casings vary in quality.

They can be as cheap as 1k or as dear as 4k (if u are buying transcend casing)

Read up:

https://www.nairaland.com/5583580/dr-bukola-bello-mum-went

Mum who went back to school after 4 kids! Graduates with PHD!

So, whats your excuse?

xtremeTall:
Hello!!,please kindly spare your 1 minutes and advise me because i think ive been following the wrong path for 5 years...

I completed my secondary School Education in 2014 and since then I've been Applying for the Nigeria Armed forces recruitments,i had wrote their Aptitude Test Exams like 8 to 9 times before i eventually passed the Airforce Exams for 2017.

i went for their Physical screening in Kaduna,we undergo staunch health Screening."Thier medical facilities there are Top notch o"..anyway,i was disqualified for ill health reason,(i have a short sightedness),with tears in my eye i inform my Dad who had been very supportive the news.


To cut my story short,i had been doing some work i don't really like since i gave up Career in the Nigeria Armed force.I am determined to go back to the university and study Law,,i know my parents would be glad to know i had came up with this idea but I'm thinking at 23?..IS IT POSSIBLE..i need your advise pls


Mods pls help

rexlims:
i heard list is out

Which list?

HarunaWest:
okay sire cool....No worry by this time next year we sef go don hang One star.

Ok ooo! All the best deacon haruna!

Oluwadare:
sorry please, any idea when this promotional exercise will be conducted? Thanks...

Hopefully January 2020!

HarunaWest:
Ok Bigl....am sure u wud Ave been promoted to SC by now?

Nooo ... that's level 11. I'm not there yet but i will get there!

Just find something to do while waiting jare!

BLUELemon:
what stuff

Promotion

SeeMeForLAPTOP:
Please who has an information on NSCDC recruitment

Its on hold for now till some stuffs are sorted for those in the corps already.

Once that is done, the recruitment exercise will resume

Gang90:
I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.

See, go and find solution to your health condition.

And as regards all these silly spiritual consultation about partners, they are all blatant lies!

I've seen people who were told not to marry cos "she is not is wife" or "he is not her husband" and today, they are married, with kids and doing fine!

And some that were told they are for each other, end up divorcing in months!

Is fcmb a bank?

If u dare fall into their scam loans, you own do done!

Try get a loan of 200k! U will end up paying 500k at the end of the day!

Loladearewa01:
I am a staunch introvert, the kind that stays at home all day I really hate small talks and I can't talk to people for more than 5minutes.

When I call a lady hardly can we talk for a minute. Infact I hate calling. Now I had this experience when I visited my aunty and an ex of mine happen to stay in the same compound.

I noticed her boo calls her for like 2hours and she's always laughing with him. This was when I started realising my mistake when I was with her I hardly call and communicate and this has been happening with most of the ladies I meet and things are not working out.

Is there anyone with similar experience?

Sure, u need to learn the ropes bro! I used to be like u too ... i could point u to some resources if u wish; to help take your ministry to the permanent site!

iLegendd:
I just tried again after reading this, yet same issue. Maybe, they don't want me to recharge. I have no choice than to follow the old way.

Eeya! Sorry about that.

Buzz them on twitter! They hate it and would dm u immediately and fix you up!

iLegendd:
I have been trying to recharge since yesterday with my GTB mobile app, but it kept saying server this and that.

Who is experiencing this too? Is this how we are going to run a cashless economy?

It has been sorted.

The issue had been on since last week: i couldn't recharge other phone lines with airtime or data, except the line registered with the bank but i could make bank transfers!

I tried again yesterday and it was working fine!

uzoma213:
do you mean the #500 2 days plan?

Yes bro! I just finished yesterday subscription today and i've done another one!

And most likely, would use 4gb!

Though i've noticed they don't spell out the 2gb bonus. They simple say "2gb data for 2days" but my data counter goes past 2gb but stops at 4gb!

uzoma213:
please what tariff plan are you on because when I tried that plan, I didn't get any bonus

ohh really?

I have 2 sim cards that i abandon for more than 30 days so while using 1, the other is completely inactive!

And i'm on Mtn Pulse!

The sim i use to browse is not my main sim!

Mekenz:
she is always on pad, because of blood dripping wetness coming out from her private part, even when she is not on her monthly cycle.

we have visited the general hospital, no major health complications,just a hormonal imbalance, irregular menstruation according to the doctor, they prescribed combination 3 for her,plus other drugs accompanied with it, to curtail the issues and bring her cycle to normal, she has been on those drugs, still no sign of improvement,the predicament is still persisting, she is still having that drops down there.

I'm afraid she is loosing blood, she can't continue to live like these. I need a permanent solution for her, she is a good friend to me, I need to solve these health issues, before I can be able to take these relationship to the next level.

I wished I can get the timely solutions here.

N:B I'm busy at the site, hence I have to be concise and straight to the point.
cc: lalasticlala seun

Eeya!

But have you ran tests at a qualified hospital where they know their onions?

It could be fibroid o! I'm not sure but you can't rule that one out!

Or is she on postinor?

May God open your eyes to what the problem is and how to solve it in Jesus name, amen!