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SammyJac:
I'm always wary of MTN's GREEK GIFT.

Same here bro! But i'm smarter than them!

I use it on a 4G LTE mifi with accurate data counter!

Once i notice anything strange! Na operation bye bye!

But so far so good, they've been nice!

I simply use the plan to download some stuffs like that and the plan pay me pass others. E pay pass airtel sef!

Halezis:
Talking about the Airtel naw, I'm no longer eligible for the MTN

Nooo, this N500 2gb plan is for everybody.. its mtn's answer to airtel binge plan and everyone, i repeat everyone is eligible.

The one you might not be eligible for is the *131*65# welcome back plan.

tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.

I don't know what to do.

Help me

Eeya ... i know that feeling.

But lemme tell u, i have a sister in a church i used to attend several years ago ... i never knew she was hiv positive until our pastor called a speaker our to talk to us about hiv. And there she emerged. I had to go and hug her after the presentation. She was raped by some armed robbers.

Today, she has stepped into almost every country all over the world and she also got married and has a healthy bouncing baby girl today.

Like someone advised, if she is willing to play her part by taking her medications as at when due, you guys will be fine jare.

Lemme also give u another instance.

A broda friend in a very popular church was to get married to one pretty fine lady (we called them chikala). I wan log in self that time but people quick warn me say na "broda" get am o! So i backed off.

6 days or so to the wedding, the "broda" got to know that sister "fine gel" was HIV positive! He fainted for several hours. When he woke up, he had no choice than to go on with the wedding.

They are married today with wonderful kids!

The husband is hiv free!

These 2 cases are close friends and i am in touch with them.

So, if you can manage her and her condition, please, move on but please and please, keep this info from your parents and every other person.

And don't for any reason get angry and call her names o! Or that will simply kill her fast!

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

I think you still have not figured out who you trully are and what your purpose in life is.

Try to figure yourself out first.

Meanwhile, love is a decision and not just a feeling.

And as regards marriage issue ... every relationship will go through its own fire in 1st 0 to 10 years. If u can scale through the first 3 years, you can work out the rest.

Learn to love yourself and then you will love your partner.

I used to hate my dentition cos it wasn't as neat as that of some people .... but later, i got to know that even those with perfect dentition have some shortcomings they are battling with so, i learned to love myself just the way i am.

Wake up in the morning and tell yourself in front of the mirror "i love myself" "i love me".

And also, pray along!

efex01:
Good evening to you my lady, am Felix by name, Yoruba from osun state that was the introduction that led to another thing.

Less I forget, I started a new job in Ibadan as an accountant for a pharmaceutical store on Monday, in which I was introduced to all the staff in their branches but there is a particular lady in one of their branches that ask me a same question, can I meet?

After introduction the next thing she said is, you are not my type, you are too ugly to be my boyfriend.

My people, pls am I too ugly to be this lady boyfriend, cause I need to ask someone because I don’t have any girlfriend that I can ask

Hey bro. You are not the ugliest but i can also tell u, you are not ugly. U sure do look good.

Stop bothering your head because of some peoples opinion about your personality.

Everyone has a right to their opinion.

Does it mean if u had se..x with a lady and she said some things to make u feel bad, u will feel bad?

Please, shove your flat yansh along jare!

Your girl will come your way! Not all girls will like all men!

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

That's the shi.t that happens when u use your emotions to think instead of your brain.

See, call your supposed fiance and come clean about the matter.

And thank God it was while u guys broke up and not while the relationship was on.

Be very open and remorseful.

And be prepared to live with the consequence or else ...

If he finds out, even hours before the wedding, he will call the goddamn wedding off!

So, let him know what u did ok?

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

Please Front page

It all depends on u brova! You know her better than we do.

But if it were to be me, i'll never marry such a person again even if the wedding was tomorro.

One of the qualities of the worst kind of people to get married to is "emotional instability".

If she is not emotionally stable, she can decide not to show up on the wedding day. Can u handle that?

May God help u bro! But don't ever send such an huge amount to a ladies account just as proof of u marrying her or for whatever reasons.

Ladies of nowadays are only interested in money.

dynamic010:
I agree with you ..i do 2gig for 2day 500 now..and i always have spill over even after connecting to pc

The networks are obviously making more money but unless u are using the plans to download, you are losing. Hope u feel me?

Halezis:
What code are you using? The old one prompts me to the normal data subs list

*131#

Select Data Plans (option 1)

Selection Daily plans (option 1)

Select 99 for next options

You'll see N500 for 2gb (2days plan) (option 7)

That's how i do it!

No special code

Ladiva:
Hello Smarties, Please I need your guidance.

I need to buy a laptop just for school work, movies, music and other light use.

The options before me are:- 1. A Pentium powered HP 8th gen and 2. A celeron powered Acer. I don't have too much specifics on both beyond what I gave you.

I'm considering the Acer because of budget, but then HP is obviously better.

What do you guys advice?

If you are using the laptop for a lil bit of heavy lifting like editing video or audio, graphics design, etc, get the hp pentium.

But if its just browsing, ms word, and some other lite works, get the celeron: its battery friendly processor & more like a lite version of the pentium!

My observation is this:

Data plans with long term validity don't last long anymore.

Those with short term last longer but of course, it is what it is: short term and u have to come subscribe again!

DonCaxton:
Data that will finish after you open just two light pages on Nairaland.

They give you with one hand and take it back with the other. Thieving company.

Halezis:
Is anyone still able to sub for this?

Yes, i did yesterday! And i'm going to sub again today like 2 times to download my beefy files

Benjaniblinks:
That's what I have been using since.

Oya chop knuckle! U jasi!

OP is mixing things up. I'll help clarify it.

The N500 for 2gb (2days plan) is for everybody.

The *131*65# plans are welcome back plans only and with it, u get:

N100 for 250mb (3days)
N200 for 1gb (1 week)
N1000 for 4gb (1 month)

I use the N500 for 2gb cos i do get additional 2gb bonus making 4gb for N500 but its same 2days validity and anyone can subscribe!

So, don't get it mixed up.

Use their N350 for 1gb or N500 for 2gb (daily plans)

I use mtn N500 for 2gb (2days validity) and i also get a 2gb bonus.

Meaning N500 for 4gb!

but its just for 2days o! I simply use the plan to download pretty beefy files though!

iaamxavier:
I'm writing this post with a heavy heart

So I'm 21 and I finished secondary school at age 17 (2015) and to be honest I just got admission this year to study pharmacy while my mates are in their final year and it hurts alot because my mum keeps telling me that my cousin is in final year and is about serving next year and I'm just gaining admission to a university, she even uses her friend's child as an example and it made me go into a Little depression, I actually felt sad because for the first time a comparison actually hit me...

She claims they (my parents)are supposed to be resting and not paying school fee. That I'm stressing them and ever since I was a teenager I always vowed that I wanted to leave my father house before 25yrs of age

Now I'm studying a 5 years course (7 years to become a full graduate) and by then I'll be 28 I actually feel ashamed because this isn't what I wanted since I left secondary school
I wanted to finish on time and remove the burden from them

I've never failed jamb, my least Score was 245 but circumstances kept dragging me back

I finished my ND program in 2017 (Distinction in SLT Yabatech)

So it feels more like I'm parambulating up and down and don't know what I want for my self but I actually do!!

I need an advice or something to make me feel better or confident about my self

Eeya, i feel your pains brova but lemme help u a bit.

It doesn't matter whatever anyone says to you; what matters in life is what you to yourself and that is capable of affecting your destiny.

So, if u want peace of mind, just ignore them.

Let them rant and rave and say whatever they like; u just focus on achieving your goals in life.

On the other hand, why not acquire a skill that takes a short while to learn and start making money for yourself?

It doesn't stop your schooling. I mean something like photography etc that requires low capital start up and learning curve.

Once u are not overly dependent on your parents for even socks N100, they will start taking you serious.

My dad too didn't want me to leave my aunts house when i was 24. I ignored him and moved out when i had the skills to make small money to support myself. He will call me 5am in the morning and say all sorts of things but i will simply thank him and just do my stuffs.

Years later, he told me he was happy i moved out back then.

So, do your thing man! And don't let anyone make u feel sad or depressed!

cnboy90:
Oh no, honey, the British police have identified the 39 as Vietnamese.

This news is just the BBC's nonsense.

to google.

Ohh ok. Thanks for the info!

Eeya, may their soul rest in peace! Amen!

But i don't understand something ....

If china's economy is as good as some of our chinko supporting brothers are shouting upandan, why would Chinese citizens leave their wonderful country and travel, not even by ship but inside refrigerator? And not even 1 or 2 or 4 but 39?

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....

I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..

I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Well, since you were not really explicit on what you meant by "not being loved" and "coupled with some other marriage issues", i'll talk generally.

1. Every marriage will go through its own "fire" during the first 0 to 10 years duration. Your maturity etc will get you guys through it.

2. Secondly, are you and your bobo "friends"? As in are u guys "paddy"?

If not, develop the friendship as you learn to love and also discover each other.

For instance, my wife is my paddy and gistmate.

We do have our moments when we quarrel but we ensure we resolve it before going to bed.

Sometimes, she has a point but i will simply refuse to acknowledge it immediately. (Of course, i do tell her that later).

The reason why i mentioned that concept of being friends with your hubby is that "when the love gets cold, your friendshipness will keep you guys going".

The friendship thingy will help sail through the storm without having resentments.

Meanwhile, if what you meant by not being loved it that someone somewhere is pointing out what your hubby doesn't do for you, to you and u are going with it, you are not being smart.

Read about the 80/20 rule pls.

Noblejay7:
Please, how do i politely tell a colleague who has mouth and body odor to take care of it without the person picking offence. I can't stand it anymore as she likes speaking in my face.

If u guys are "paddy" and u joke, u can stylishly tell her one day like that.

Just tell her, wow, Atutupoyoyo, u look great this morning and smell nice ... then quickly add, "one more thing though, have u been eating garlic?"

Of course she will say no and will get the message and further ask u if she has mouth odour. Tell her yes (with all seriousness).

She will appreciate it.

Though most mouth odours are not coming from the mouth; some are from the stomach/throat. A lil anti biotic sometimes does the trick.

* I had it some years back *

adult91:
Yesterday my gf left for school ABSU precisely saying she wanted to know what to do on using matric number wrongly in her IT. I don't even understand that. Being a gal I want to marry and my people know her, I had a little assurance that she would behave or respect me in my absence. But I was worried cos she finally shaved her pubic region after refusing to do that for so long for fear of rashes.To my greatest surprise, I called her and she told me she was in a friend's house and it happened he is a guy bestie. (Video call revelation). Her excuses was that only final years were allowed in the hostel for now and all her friends had gone to see their boyfriends, hence why she stayed with the guy. fast forward on that, after denying for so long was that she admitted having sex with him. I pretended to be fine that she said the truth as I was not going to be with her if she goes back fully. I know it's the wrong time to hold on to her but we have even gone for fertility tests together. What's the best way to part with her because I know I cannot live with it if I continue with her. Advice needed cos I want to do it like Joseph but I fear she might go pleading in various ways thereby making our matter known publicly. I don't want this dirty linen washed in the sight of people who know me. Thanks

Stop being sentimental bro!

Relationship decisions need to be taken with all seriousness.

You are simply bothered she will call your family members to come beg u or something and that is bullshit!

If she could cheat on you this way, she will do it again!

She knew what she was doing and she took u for granted cos "she knew u loved her deeply and trully".

So, don't play with fire bro! She will do it again and again.

Call it quit and damn the consequence!

Anskid:
Hello everyone, please I would like to know if there's any cause for alarm if one's ATM card gets lost or stolen. If it falls into the wrong hands, can they use it to get access to your money without having the password?

PS: I didn't lost my card and I also know it's better to block it immediately if it gets lost, but please I just need to be enlightened. Thanks.

Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Seun, Dominique

Anyone who has your atm card can, and i repeat can buy things online without the needing your password or pin sef.

Bank will debit u in micro-seconds.

But this is applicable to Master cards (Naira or dollar) or Visa cards.

Now, lemme give u an example.

I have a naira master card and i do buy a particular service every month which is $10 and i've been doing that for over 1 year.

The only thing needed are the name(s) on the card, address and the nos on the front and back side.

Once i enter those, they debit me and listen: They will not send OTP or ask for token or password or pin or anything.

You shall be debited directly if you lose your atm card (master/visa) so keep it safe and if its lost, block it immediately!

If u need further clarification, quote me

LolaO:
My relationship of 5 years ended in the most heartbreaking way.

He got transferred to Asaba from Lagos and months later just stopped talking to me, no communication, no closure, nothing, just like that.
It’s been 5 months now.

This is someone I had planned my whole life around.

Distance does not make the heart go fonder.

I am so hurt, it hurts.

Why not give him a call?

U don't have to always wait for him to call cos he's the man.

And u cannot tell, what if he had an accident on his way and he's being hospitalized?

So, don't assume.

I hope you eventually re-connect but if not, "Shove your ass along lady" ....
.... life is good and it goes on and on and on ...

IamBlanco:
For those of you who are wishing for China to become world power because of your hate for the greatest nation on earth USA. Watch this video of how the Chinese communist government has been forcefully harvesting organs of her citizens and prisoners for many years. They even sell vital body organs on the internet! Is this what you want for Nigeria and indeed the world at large Think well o...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9DG8jzE4wA8

Thanks jare for bringing this up!

The other day on one of the threads, some people were telling me to shut up that what do I know about china/communism, etc!

I guess they will soon come here to defend their supposed "incoming world power".

If china dare become world power, we are in deep shit!

NimrodEndOfDays:
The West and the communist like Very evil. But China and Russia have taken evil to a whole new dimension.

Can you please increase the volume?

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

Its understandable bro!

Body no be firewood!

Why not try Implanon?

"The birth control implant is a tiny, thin rod about the size of a matchstick. It's also called Nexplanon and there's a slightly older version called Implanon. A doctor inserts the implant under the skin of your upper arm. It releases the hormone progestin to stop you from getting pregnant".

Ensure u get it done from a qualified medical practitioner o! Implanon does work!

Don't mind those shouting "self control" upandan!

Pearl1996:
Nairaland famiy I need help.

Somethings been eating me up. I had sex with my boyfriend some weeks later i started falling so sick I will try to point out all I can remember
*Came down with what I felt was fever was burning hot so hot you just need to come close to feel the heat

*at night I sweat. Not just the usual sweat but one I have to change my clothes two times a nigbt(this happened for like a week)

* I started feeling so cold especially in the morning. Doctor said it was pneumonia + a cough that lasted for three weeks plus.

*and the rashes I ve never have in my whole life spreaded all over my arms and back as well as my breast region.

* I also had serious muscle ache. Serious that my mom had to help me massage it. My neck did hurt too it felt like someone hit me with a blank on my neck

* nodes on my neck, groin, as well as ear.
* I started having blurred vision and sores on my lips like fever blisters

* and then injuries in my mouth, weird ones
* I have oral trush at least thats what I thought them to be. White tongue I have had this before but this onr is different. With slimy white things in my mouth every time

*I also experienced dehydration and dry mouth.
* also had a delayed flow

The symptoms are so much I can't even mention it all. Most of these lasted for about a month +. I still have cold till this day. I shiver most times and its my major fear. And the rashes are still there.

This Is the major problem. The nurse who was handling me said it might be an STD maybe HIV I took plethora of test including HIV after 3 months all came back negative, I was told to wait 6montgs to check for HIv again it was still negativr. During this month I have seen so many doctors, private and government all they do is givr me drugs but I still experience the pneumonia cold( no cough) and occasional mouth sores as well as the rash. My boyfriend now my ex took HIV too it was negative.
Please doctors in the house what can this be. I have read so many threads here on naira land of people who had same experience but some later turned + they might be lying though.

I heard after 6 months and test is still negative then its not it. My question now is. What is wrong with me. I have spent so much on drugs and test. And no doctor is able to say what my problem is. Its making me crazy as I am even scared to shower because of the cold and I can't let people see my body due to rash.

I need help.

Thank God the tests shows negative for hiv/hepatitis, etc.

But its most likely to be staphylococcus.

Just keep running tests to be sure of what is really wrong. And keep praying girl.

I hope and pray you get well and over come this stuff!

And when u do, lets know what it was! Take kia!

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

Bros, don't give up on life!

There is still a work around. It does mean u can have sex while lying in bed so you are not impotent.

Secondly, its the valves that are supposed to close and hold the blood that are either not in contact (check attached pix but I'M NOT A DOCTOR O)

Maybe they are supposed to grow farther than their length presently.

I believe you will be fine bro!

Stop adding to the issue at hand by getting unnecessary worried.

Those with normal erections sef do have other issues u might not have.

Live your life jare! U might even meet a lady who will love u for who u are and not necessarily your condition. Or how do u think some people with worse conditions get married?

You are not impotent bro! Always tell yourself that!

feji12:
Please house can anybody show an affordable place where i can learn computer programming, software design and graphic design in Lagos . Am thinking of relocating from Delta state to Lagos state to learn maybe stay back after learning or come back to delta state. I have graduated for about five years now. You can contact me through through WhatsApp. 09057606523 thank you

You really don't need to migrate to lagos.

You can get programming videos (depending on what aspect of programming u wish to learn) and learn at your own pace.

But this option might not work for u if you are not disciplined.

And its far cheaper to learn at home/on your own than migrating to lagos.

The only thing you need is high speed (4G LTE) access to the internet

Nice designs bro!

Keep charging!

Guys like you are the reason the industry is getting better and better!

Christmasdon:
Do you toO love the smell, ? i would love to know.
. i see.! I mean the blue smell is very sweet. Meanwhile, while at school i learnt more about benzene. Discuss?

The kain love u get for raw gas, is strange! Like the poster above me advised, be extremely careful ooo!