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HarunaWest:
Ok Bigl....am sure u wud Ave been promoted to SC by now?

Nooo ... that's level 11. I'm not there yet but i will get there!

Just find something to do while waiting jare!

BLUELemon:
what stuff

Promotion

SeeMeForLAPTOP:
Please who has an information on NSCDC recruitment

Its on hold for now till some stuffs are sorted for those in the corps already.

Once that is done, the recruitment exercise will resume

Gang90:
I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.

See, go and find solution to your health condition.

And as regards all these silly spiritual consultation about partners, they are all blatant lies!

I've seen people who were told not to marry cos "she is not is wife" or "he is not her husband" and today, they are married, with kids and doing fine!

And some that were told they are for each other, end up divorcing in months!

Is fcmb a bank?

If u dare fall into their scam loans, you own do done!

Try get a loan of 200k! U will end up paying 500k at the end of the day!

Loladearewa01:
I am a staunch introvert, the kind that stays at home all day I really hate small talks and I can't talk to people for more than 5minutes.

When I call a lady hardly can we talk for a minute. Infact I hate calling. Now I had this experience when I visited my aunty and an ex of mine happen to stay in the same compound.

I noticed her boo calls her for like 2hours and she's always laughing with him. This was when I started realising my mistake when I was with her I hardly call and communicate and this has been happening with most of the ladies I meet and things are not working out.

Is there anyone with similar experience?

Sure, u need to learn the ropes bro! I used to be like u too ... i could point u to some resources if u wish; to help take your ministry to the permanent site!

iLegendd:
I just tried again after reading this, yet same issue. Maybe, they don't want me to recharge. I have no choice than to follow the old way.

Eeya! Sorry about that.

Buzz them on twitter! They hate it and would dm u immediately and fix you up!

iLegendd:
I have been trying to recharge since yesterday with my GTB mobile app, but it kept saying server this and that.

Who is experiencing this too? Is this how we are going to run a cashless economy?

It has been sorted.

The issue had been on since last week: i couldn't recharge other phone lines with airtime or data, except the line registered with the bank but i could make bank transfers!

I tried again yesterday and it was working fine!

uzoma213:
do you mean the #500 2 days plan?

Yes bro! I just finished yesterday subscription today and i've done another one!

And most likely, would use 4gb!

Though i've noticed they don't spell out the 2gb bonus. They simple say "2gb data for 2days" but my data counter goes past 2gb but stops at 4gb!

uzoma213:
please what tariff plan are you on because when I tried that plan, I didn't get any bonus

ohh really?

I have 2 sim cards that i abandon for more than 30 days so while using 1, the other is completely inactive!

And i'm on Mtn Pulse!

The sim i use to browse is not my main sim!

Mekenz:
she is always on pad, because of blood dripping wetness coming out from her private part, even when she is not on her monthly cycle.

we have visited the general hospital, no major health complications,just a hormonal imbalance, irregular menstruation according to the doctor, they prescribed combination 3 for her,plus other drugs accompanied with it, to curtail the issues and bring her cycle to normal, she has been on those drugs, still no sign of improvement,the predicament is still persisting, she is still having that drops down there.

I'm afraid she is loosing blood, she can't continue to live like these. I need a permanent solution for her, she is a good friend to me, I need to solve these health issues, before I can be able to take these relationship to the next level.

I wished I can get the timely solutions here.

N:B I'm busy at the site, hence I have to be concise and straight to the point.
cc: lalasticlala seun

Eeya!

But have you ran tests at a qualified hospital where they know their onions?

It could be fibroid o! I'm not sure but you can't rule that one out!

Or is she on postinor?

May God open your eyes to what the problem is and how to solve it in Jesus name, amen!

SammyJac:
I'm always wary of MTN's GREEK GIFT.

Same here bro! But i'm smarter than them!

I use it on a 4G LTE mifi with accurate data counter!

Once i notice anything strange! Na operation bye bye!

But so far so good, they've been nice!

I simply use the plan to download some stuffs like that and the plan pay me pass others. E pay pass airtel sef!

Halezis:
Talking about the Airtel naw, I'm no longer eligible for the MTN

Nooo, this N500 2gb plan is for everybody.. its mtn's answer to airtel binge plan and everyone, i repeat everyone is eligible.

The one you might not be eligible for is the *131*65# welcome back plan.

tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.

I don't know what to do.

Help me

Eeya ... i know that feeling.

But lemme tell u, i have a sister in a church i used to attend several years ago ... i never knew she was hiv positive until our pastor called a speaker our to talk to us about hiv. And there she emerged. I had to go and hug her after the presentation. She was raped by some armed robbers.

Today, she has stepped into almost every country all over the world and she also got married and has a healthy bouncing baby girl today.

Like someone advised, if she is willing to play her part by taking her medications as at when due, you guys will be fine jare.

Lemme also give u another instance.

A broda friend in a very popular church was to get married to one pretty fine lady (we called them chikala). I wan log in self that time but people quick warn me say na "broda" get am o! So i backed off.

6 days or so to the wedding, the "broda" got to know that sister "fine gel" was HIV positive! He fainted for several hours. When he woke up, he had no choice than to go on with the wedding.

They are married today with wonderful kids!

The husband is hiv free!

These 2 cases are close friends and i am in touch with them.

So, if you can manage her and her condition, please, move on but please and please, keep this info from your parents and every other person.

And don't for any reason get angry and call her names o! Or that will simply kill her fast!

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

I think you still have not figured out who you trully are and what your purpose in life is.

Try to figure yourself out first.

Meanwhile, love is a decision and not just a feeling.

And as regards marriage issue ... every relationship will go through its own fire in 1st 0 to 10 years. If u can scale through the first 3 years, you can work out the rest.

Learn to love yourself and then you will love your partner.

I used to hate my dentition cos it wasn't as neat as that of some people .... but later, i got to know that even those with perfect dentition have some shortcomings they are battling with so, i learned to love myself just the way i am.

Wake up in the morning and tell yourself in front of the mirror "i love myself" "i love me".

And also, pray along!

efex01:
Good evening to you my lady, am Felix by name, Yoruba from osun state that was the introduction that led to another thing.

Less I forget, I started a new job in Ibadan as an accountant for a pharmaceutical store on Monday, in which I was introduced to all the staff in their branches but there is a particular lady in one of their branches that ask me a same question, can I meet?

After introduction the next thing she said is, you are not my type, you are too ugly to be my boyfriend.

My people, pls am I too ugly to be this lady boyfriend, cause I need to ask someone because I don’t have any girlfriend that I can ask

Hey bro. You are not the ugliest but i can also tell u, you are not ugly. U sure do look good.

Stop bothering your head because of some peoples opinion about your personality.

Everyone has a right to their opinion.

Does it mean if u had se..x with a lady and she said some things to make u feel bad, u will feel bad?

Please, shove your flat yansh along jare!

Your girl will come your way! Not all girls will like all men!

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

That's the shi.t that happens when u use your emotions to think instead of your brain.

See, call your supposed fiance and come clean about the matter.

And thank God it was while u guys broke up and not while the relationship was on.

Be very open and remorseful.

And be prepared to live with the consequence or else ...

If he finds out, even hours before the wedding, he will call the goddamn wedding off!

So, let him know what u did ok?

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

Please Front page

It all depends on u brova! You know her better than we do.

But if it were to be me, i'll never marry such a person again even if the wedding was tomorro.

One of the qualities of the worst kind of people to get married to is "emotional instability".

If she is not emotionally stable, she can decide not to show up on the wedding day. Can u handle that?

May God help u bro! But don't ever send such an huge amount to a ladies account just as proof of u marrying her or for whatever reasons.

Ladies of nowadays are only interested in money.

dynamic010:
I agree with you ..i do 2gig for 2day 500 now..and i always have spill over even after connecting to pc

The networks are obviously making more money but unless u are using the plans to download, you are losing. Hope u feel me?

Halezis:
What code are you using? The old one prompts me to the normal data subs list

*131#

Select Data Plans (option 1)

Selection Daily plans (option 1)

Select 99 for next options

You'll see N500 for 2gb (2days plan) (option 7)

That's how i do it!

No special code

Ladiva:
Hello Smarties, Please I need your guidance.

I need to buy a laptop just for school work, movies, music and other light use.

The options before me are:- 1. A Pentium powered HP 8th gen and 2. A celeron powered Acer. I don't have too much specifics on both beyond what I gave you.

I'm considering the Acer because of budget, but then HP is obviously better.

What do you guys advice?

If you are using the laptop for a lil bit of heavy lifting like editing video or audio, graphics design, etc, get the hp pentium.

But if its just browsing, ms word, and some other lite works, get the celeron: its battery friendly processor & more like a lite version of the pentium!

My observation is this:

Data plans with long term validity don't last long anymore.

Those with short term last longer but of course, it is what it is: short term and u have to come subscribe again!

DonCaxton:
Data that will finish after you open just two light pages on Nairaland.

They give you with one hand and take it back with the other. Thieving company.

Halezis:
Is anyone still able to sub for this?

Yes, i did yesterday! And i'm going to sub again today like 2 times to download my beefy files

Benjaniblinks:
That's what I have been using since.

Oya chop knuckle! U jasi!

OP is mixing things up. I'll help clarify it.

The N500 for 2gb (2days plan) is for everybody.

The *131*65# plans are welcome back plans only and with it, u get:

N100 for 250mb (3days)
N200 for 1gb (1 week)
N1000 for 4gb (1 month)

I use the N500 for 2gb cos i do get additional 2gb bonus making 4gb for N500 but its same 2days validity and anyone can subscribe!

So, don't get it mixed up.

Use their N350 for 1gb or N500 for 2gb (daily plans)

I use mtn N500 for 2gb (2days validity) and i also get a 2gb bonus.

Meaning N500 for 4gb!

but its just for 2days o! I simply use the plan to download pretty beefy files though!

iaamxavier:
I'm writing this post with a heavy heart

So I'm 21 and I finished secondary school at age 17 (2015) and to be honest I just got admission this year to study pharmacy while my mates are in their final year and it hurts alot because my mum keeps telling me that my cousin is in final year and is about serving next year and I'm just gaining admission to a university, she even uses her friend's child as an example and it made me go into a Little depression, I actually felt sad because for the first time a comparison actually hit me...

She claims they (my parents)are supposed to be resting and not paying school fee. That I'm stressing them and ever since I was a teenager I always vowed that I wanted to leave my father house before 25yrs of age

Now I'm studying a 5 years course (7 years to become a full graduate) and by then I'll be 28 I actually feel ashamed because this isn't what I wanted since I left secondary school
I wanted to finish on time and remove the burden from them

I've never failed jamb, my least Score was 245 but circumstances kept dragging me back

I finished my ND program in 2017 (Distinction in SLT Yabatech)

So it feels more like I'm parambulating up and down and don't know what I want for my self but I actually do!!

I need an advice or something to make me feel better or confident about my self

Eeya, i feel your pains brova but lemme help u a bit.

It doesn't matter whatever anyone says to you; what matters in life is what you to yourself and that is capable of affecting your destiny.

So, if u want peace of mind, just ignore them.

Let them rant and rave and say whatever they like; u just focus on achieving your goals in life.

On the other hand, why not acquire a skill that takes a short while to learn and start making money for yourself?

It doesn't stop your schooling. I mean something like photography etc that requires low capital start up and learning curve.

Once u are not overly dependent on your parents for even socks N100, they will start taking you serious.

My dad too didn't want me to leave my aunts house when i was 24. I ignored him and moved out when i had the skills to make small money to support myself. He will call me 5am in the morning and say all sorts of things but i will simply thank him and just do my stuffs.

Years later, he told me he was happy i moved out back then.

So, do your thing man! And don't let anyone make u feel sad or depressed!

cnboy90:
Oh no, honey, the British police have identified the 39 as Vietnamese.

This news is just the BBC's nonsense.

to google.

Ohh ok. Thanks for the info!

Eeya, may their soul rest in peace! Amen!

But i don't understand something ....

If china's economy is as good as some of our chinko supporting brothers are shouting upandan, why would Chinese citizens leave their wonderful country and travel, not even by ship but inside refrigerator? And not even 1 or 2 or 4 but 39?

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....

I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..

I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Well, since you were not really explicit on what you meant by "not being loved" and "coupled with some other marriage issues", i'll talk generally.

1. Every marriage will go through its own "fire" during the first 0 to 10 years duration. Your maturity etc will get you guys through it.

2. Secondly, are you and your bobo "friends"? As in are u guys "paddy"?

If not, develop the friendship as you learn to love and also discover each other.

For instance, my wife is my paddy and gistmate.

We do have our moments when we quarrel but we ensure we resolve it before going to bed.

Sometimes, she has a point but i will simply refuse to acknowledge it immediately. (Of course, i do tell her that later).

The reason why i mentioned that concept of being friends with your hubby is that "when the love gets cold, your friendshipness will keep you guys going".

The friendship thingy will help sail through the storm without having resentments.

Meanwhile, if what you meant by not being loved it that someone somewhere is pointing out what your hubby doesn't do for you, to you and u are going with it, you are not being smart.

Read about the 80/20 rule pls.

Noblejay7:
Please, how do i politely tell a colleague who has mouth and body odor to take care of it without the person picking offence. I can't stand it anymore as she likes speaking in my face.

If u guys are "paddy" and u joke, u can stylishly tell her one day like that.

Just tell her, wow, Atutupoyoyo, u look great this morning and smell nice ... then quickly add, "one more thing though, have u been eating garlic?"

Of course she will say no and will get the message and further ask u if she has mouth odour. Tell her yes (with all seriousness).

She will appreciate it.

Though most mouth odours are not coming from the mouth; some are from the stomach/throat. A lil anti biotic sometimes does the trick.

* I had it some years back *