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ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Do away with the missionary position....Try prone bone position, it will link your dick past her vaginal canal directly to the mouth of her womb...like your dick hole will feathering her cervix wall thereby making doubly sure your ejaculate goes throw the opening into her womb without wasting time in the vaginal canal which if it is too thick might not even let your ejaculate get up to the cervix thus delay conception...[[/color]

Broooooooooooooos! Haba, lie small small na!

Style can aid conception but not the determinant!

U can get pregnant sef without sex! Hope u know?

If u like, pour am into the tube sef, once certain conditions are not met, no conception o!

That's how God made it!

frozen70:
Where did you buy this fridge

Have you used it for 24hrs with steady light and its not working well

Some fridges have inbuilt condenser but I don't know why they did it so

Just take your complain to where you bought it

Of course, you are right but with experience, they don't work.

My neigbour uses LG 200litre deep freezer with the so called "inbuilt condenser cooler" but she's always having issues cos not external cooling fins.

I want to believe the ones without external cooling fins (passive cooling) are not built for Nigeria. U know weather is always hot!

NzeNaOgbunike:
God bless you my brother..

Just coming out from that shop,I have returned the Hisense fridge I bought yesterday.

Went there with my neighbor and we placed order for the type that he is using currently.(Haier Thermocool product)

Once the man delivers that one....I will let you all know.

Thanks once more for the advise and ur time.

Better jare!

U are always welcome sir

suco01:
My LG refrigerator doesn't use any cooling fan at all and it's work perfectly.

Congratulations.

Run this test.

Put 6 packs (72 bottles) or more of soft drink (coke or pepsi).

Then come back and share your testimony again sir!

Electronics equipments are designed to work in a particular way and also "in a particular region", hence, the need not to have cooling fins but i can tell u, it's not made for naija where the heat here can bake bread!

Try and touch your compressor and see how super hot it gets.

Lest i forget, electronic devices performance drop when they heat up! Laptop is a good example.

So any extra way or form to dispose of heat, is a welcome development!

suco01:
It's not about technologist. I am not disputing your claims. I already state one of the reasons it's inbuilt, also being inbuilt doesn'y mean it should make it hot, that's why I said if he feels it's isn't working well he should return it. Everything is not fight matter, you should read and understand

And i wasn't fighting u jare!

U simply didn't get my point either!

Everybody deserves to buy something good that will give peace of mind!

I am simply against all those "without cooling fins at the back" cos i have got plenty of them all around where i stay! Eventually, an external fan is always recommended when they don't operate as expected.

Hope u understand what i wrote up there?

NzeNaOgbunike:
Thank you very much my brother.

Some people suggested Haier Thermocool or Scanfrost.


Hope there are nice products?

Haier Thermocool is a good brand. I use their chest freezer!

U won't go wrong with that but whatever brand u finally settle for, ensure it has the cooling fins at the back to avoid stories that touch!

Then test it! Once its heating up, DO NOT BUY sir!

A good fridge or freezer does not need to heat up while working!

Ignore all these cooling engineers who are shouting upandan and buy what will give u peace of mind!

suco01:
Not all new products come with external condenser, all new refrigerator and freezers has an inbuilt fan attach to the compressor. This diagram will help you to know what's it means by inbuilt condenser. Note inbuilt condenser doesn't mean it is place on the body. 2nd and 3rd frame shows how an inbuilt compressor is in a refrigerator.

Mr fridge technologist, i know all these stuffs.

You think the companies that still went ahead to put cooling fins at the back of fridge and deep freezers don't know what they are doing, abi?

My deep/chest freezer is haier thermocool. Its got the so called fan you are talking about and "also" black coated cooling fins at the back!

And i love it that way cos it gets the job done and fast!

And by the way, the body doesn't get hot!

NzeNaOgbunike:
Greetings,

I just Bought this Refrigerator ( Hisense Product) today but it doesn't have external condenser and it's making the body of the refrigerator to be hot....

Am just not comfortable with it.

Please I need your Candid advise.....Does refrigerators with internal condensers last and How good is Hisense product(s) ?

If possible, pls return it and get one with external condenser fins.

My neighbour bought one LG deep freezer like that and the freezer has cooling issues!

We bought ours and i ensured it had the external condenser! And it works like a charm.

You may decide to keep it but be prepared to buy external fan to blow the compressor cos it will get very hot while working which is what u are experiencing!

veave:
Is it only her treating infections? If yes, Bro you've been reinfecting her so both of you should go for a thorough check up.
I've been married since 2018 and we're still waiting to get pregnant. Don't put too much pressure on yourselves please.

Wow!

Not trying to derail this thread but madam, u and oga should try and go for check up o! Na simple thing dey delay pregnancy.

Sperm count can read 200 million and still have bad quality and movement.

When all conditions of conception are met, you will get pregnant. It could be something as simple as even u not having enough blood to accomodate conception.

Ordinary folic acid sometimes could solve the issue!

And sometimes, pregnancy could take place but make oga still dey use his 3rd leg to remove it via deep penetration. So be on the look out o!

Every couple deserve to be happy and i ernestly await your testimonies ma!

Josephilemona:
I am interested sir, here's my number 08126837189

No problem bro!

I'll chat u up tomorrow! Or u could buzz me incase i forget: 0803 431 1147!

It is well bro!

Shoodboi:
I am so pissed off right now.

I wasn’t angry when I broke the card. I just wanted to make sure that:

i. I will not be able to use the card or account anymore.

ii. I will be forced to open a new regular bank account.


The Story (in brief)

I suffered a failed POS transaction yesterday.

I sent Wema ALAT a mail and they are yet to reply as of now (almost 24 hours later).

I called them this morning and listened to a recorded message about how my call may be delayed because of COVID-19. I quickly cut the call. Their customer wasn’t effective before the virus came along, so I wonder what to expect now.

I later visited their bank and the customer care rep told me the transaction will be reversed within 14 days, if they were sure that I was really unable to withdraw the money.

14 days? Why is this so?

The money doesn’t even belong to me and the owner is very angry with me right now. Someone sent it to her and she wanted to use someone else's account to receive it, but I convinced her to use me—and then this happened.

Worse, she needs it for feeding and I don't have any money to give her. (She wasn’t paying me for the service in case you’re wondering.)

I suffered the same thing in the hands of GTB. (Their regular customer service email complaints@gtbank.com isn't even working anymore.)

In fact, I opened a WEMA Alat account because of GTB’s failures. I thought Alat will be better since they marketed themselves as a “Digital Bank”, but it appears that I was wrong. They are “digital” in name only.

This should be the third or fourth time WEMA Alat is doing this sort of nonsense to me. And that is without counting the failed mobile and POS transfers.

I am actually not concerned about GTB’s and Wema’s failures. I just hate their terrible customer service.

Failed transactions are one thing. I actually consider them normal. However, poor customer service and unwillingness to quickly solve failed online transactions aren’t. And this is unfortunately common with most banks and businesses in this country.

Now, I’ve have made the decision to stop going cashless. I will start moving around with cash henceforth. I’m sick and tired of all these failed POS transactions and sluggish customer service reps.

I know I will still do some online transactions but that will be occasionally (online shopping, international payments, etc.)

That said, I want you all to answer these two questions:

1. Which bank is reliable for online transactions?

2. Which bank has the most effective customer care service in this country?

I’m thinking of opening a Union bank account since I can see they have revamped their business, but I don't want to jump into conclusions as I did with Alat.

Could you all help me out?

P.S. Please UBA and Skye (if this one still exists) are out of the equation. I used them in the past and can confidently say they are terrible. They steal money.

I don’t want Access bank too. I’ve never read anything good about them. They and fraud are relatives. I don’t want Diamond bank either since they are the new owners of Access bank.

So, any suggestions?

In matters like this, Wema na baba!

The matter may be like that for 1 year!

Why u may ask?

A neighbour of mine was owing me 25k and she didn't explain to me what happened!

As she begin dey drag fee, na hin i threaten to take the matter to SARS (na just shakara), the money show face!

But till now, wema has not resolved her matter since 4months ago!

As per Gtbank, that's my bank!

One thing gtbank is not good for is going to the bank physically to lodge complaints!

U will just fill form and it may be there for days!

My trick is to apply for dispense error myself via the internet banking platform!

And if i get no response in hours, i email their headquarters!

To me, Gtbank is the best! Wema is worse but between wema and fcmb, i can't tell who is better!

OP use gtbank but apply for internet banking!

bigmodo:
I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her.

We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.

Eeeya, pele, oko iyawo ele.pon blue!

That silly love will clear from your eyes when the SS wahala comes up.

See, if you have never cared for a child that is SS that is very close to you, you won't understand how bad and seriously shitt.y things can get!

I don't pray u experience SS wahala! Some of my colleagues at work, despite earning fat salaries are in serious pains cos of the SS thingy!

A word is enough for the wise!

Josephilemona:
hello my people, I have been married for six months but my wife haven't been able to get pregnant, despite her treating infections both English and local method, I need help because my wife is really Disturbed even though I have been trying my best to encourage her never to give up, what could be the problem?

You see, you have just mentioned what the problem is and you have also failed to do the right thing sir.

When the issue of infection is to be addressed, both partners must be treated to be sure its not being bounced around.

Simply because u feel its only your wife that's infected is the reason she is not getting pregnant.

There is 80% chances you are also infected and once infection sets in, your sperm count, quality and other factors will also be affected.

Both of u should go and run test to know what is wrong and u must be treated together.

If its staph, omo, you go work hard o cos that stuff doesn't go away easily.

I'm not a doctor o but i've also battles some stuffs together with my wife and God gave us victory.

It is well!

If you would rather discuss privately, hit me up on whatsapp maybe i could recommend some stuffs u can buy to u. Purely herbal and cheap

Sanchez01:
I have an HP 8440p that has gulped 3 HDDs within the past 3 months!

A little history

I bought it on Amazon in 2018: a core i7 HP EliteBook and it has not given me an issue for a day until about three months ago.

Although I noticed that the BIOS was passworded when I got it. I couldn't bring myself to take it to Computer Village in Ikeja because of my past experiences with Policemen around that area.

The power pack got damaged about five months ago and had to change it immediately.

A month after, the original HDD that came with it crashed one morning without signs or warnings. All I noticed was media files kept freezing at intervals and I did a restart and that was it.

About two days later, I got another 500GB HDD. Mounted it and installed a Windows 10 on it. I had barely used it for three days before it crashed. Had to take it to the shop I bought it from and they outrighly declined a replacement and refund altogether. Then I got another 500GB (Seagate) which has been perfect ever since until this morning.

I noticed my programmes weren't responding and did a restart. 20 minutes later, it was yet to restart even though it said "restarting". I did a hard reset and it failed to boot.

Hard disk test says "read failure error". I had to remount the HDD but the response is the same.

Along with the one that came with it, this is the third HDD within 3 months. A part of me wants to smash a heavy rod or wood on the PC but irọ nla. It is a crazy strong PC and I love it.

I'm weighing the option of selling it off or taking it to Ikeja for a swap deal but those guys always negotiate items like they are stolen.

I want to know if I can still salvage the PC. Epp me, edakun.

Lalasticlala

Its most likely overheating! And there is every likelyhood those hard drives had issues before you bought them and the heat of a thing helped in accelerating their demise.

I use a 8540p and i'm also battling with the heat thing but it doesn't affect my hdd sha! The system used to shut down back then..

Try and check to be sure the under side of your laptop is not heating up

My favourite is:

Let righteousness cover the earth

Dyt:
What is Before, In Between and After?

Yeah we all know marriage is an institution between 2 persons with the aim to have offspring and companionship, but is this all we see and make of it?

I am a person that believes in relationship/marriage and tries to go far in making it work well except when it starts to affect my mental health (i cant go mad all in the name of i want it to work)

Some say marriage is easy while some say its a hard work, we all have different opinions..
I for one been married before, it didnt work not because i couldnt try but (my choice anyway)

I am considering going into another and all the things that we do that counts now may not in few years, I mean the sexiness, the kamasutra and all, well ofcourse i am not just gonna be offering just sex, we both got more to keep us going for a 100years to come (my favourite part is the friendship and companionship)...

I am scared sometimes waking up to him every other day and same way it excites me

How has it been with those married for 5years and counting? the joy, feeling, the tears, the arguments, the sex, I mean all of it....

Marriage can be both easy and hard!

It all depends on who you get married to and that is a super dupa big, if not, God factor sef!

Its like a boat! If both of u paddle your sides, the boat moves forward... if not, and 1 person paddles, the boat will go round in circles ... no progress niyen o!

So, your worst fear should be "getting married to a donkey" .... and if you are careful enough, u will end up with the right person.... one just have to be objective and not reason with emotions!

Takeit2017:
God why? Why me?
I dnt have confidence speaking good English always Craming what to say?

Please help me.

Eeya, its quite simple to fix!

Buy this books: Brighter Grammar 1, 2 and 3. Shouldn't be more than N700 each!

Within few months of reading, you will learn to speak correctly and that, will boost your confidence!

Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.

I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my inadequacies and reflect on them. I am now significantly calmer due to the determination to make my marriage better and as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me and the environment we find ourselves in. First thing she did on getting here was to cut of my entire family. She said she doesn't want to have anything to do with any of them anymore. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, as all she does is endless picture taking and editing for social media hyping. I know this might be due to the initial ''euphoria'' phase cos she is coming abroad to a big house, big car and having no limits on most things we used to manage back in Nigeria, and she thinks things are bread and butter. You would never think for a second that she is a married woman if you check her profiles on social media!

She has become even more toxic person than she ever was in Naija. Now very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, ever ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates with me as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with the constant noises from our house, and finally her threats have now tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for all the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no wan hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.

The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with the threats by constant calls to the police and other services, making spooky and baseless career ending accusations and allegations against me.

I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.

I discovered that she has signed up on dating sites and when I even caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that if I am convulsing like this over just a sex chat, she's waiting to see what I'd do when I see a man on top of her.

My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.

I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them here hoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my citizenship and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!

For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.

THE SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!

UPDATE:

Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.

So sorry about your issues bro but i'm sure some of these traits she is exhibiting had always been there but u didn't notice or you thought she will be a better person closer to u and also, in a advanced/developed country.

But unfortunately, most people can't handle success or such environment!

Try and read up on privacy laws as per what u can do with a secret camera, etc then get like 5 or so it! Install and gather video evidence over some days or weeks! Like someone said, move faraway from such woman pls!

If u don't act fast, she will get u all deported and that will be devastating.

Most ladies, knowing fully well that the law favour them in advanced countries end up playing games cos they know the properties will be split and they may end up getting big chunks! So, they marry u, put up a fight, divorce and they earn! They usually go ahead and do that to like 4 men and guess what? They are rich and made!

That's whats up bro! So wise up and get her sorry as.s deported fast if she won't conform!

I am anti domestic violence against women and also against men!

Una dey obodo oyinbo country to have access to better life/opportunities and not settling scores!

But believe me bro, an average naija woman can't handle success! Quote me anywhere!

Millennialaku:
i am just tired

i have used cc cleaner to clean registry
i still have 180gb remaining in my HDD
i updated some of my drivers recently
i use ctrl alt delete to resign in no way, which results in me removing the battery every time it freezes

I NEED HELP

i dont know what the issue is, I AM JUST TIRED

NOTE: i bought it brand new 2018

Most likely, you have any of more of the following problems:

1. U installed an antivirus that's using most of the processor resources, hence, leaving u with little power to do your own work eg avg, etc
2. You have no antivirus, hence, virus/malware have built an estate of duplex on your computer ... install free avast! Its been working for me for over 5years
3. Your hard drive is super slow! Consider upgrading to an ssd! I use mine and most times, i am left with 10gb and yet, the speed does not reduce!
4. Your computer is overheating, hence, to protect the hardware, the processing power is being automatically reduced! Clear your heat vents with brush or air cleaner!

Check your task manager to view resource usage or post the screenshot here!

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Eeya, sowie bro!

I feel your pains but this matter is quite easy.

Every woman, once they get married, start churning out some rules (giving timetable for sex etc) that usually spells dooms and disaster for them! So your case is not special!

They will even go to the extreme by not caring about how you feel etc and its always like that so don't get mad bro!

And as regards money, you should be smart enough to create a budget! Once it is exceeded, she should know she is on her own!

If your salary is 50k and every month your total recurring expenses is 20k, budget 10k for yourself and let her know! Keep 10k as something to fall back on and give her 5-10k for her personal upkeep.

She should know your financial upper limit so that u don't end up spending far above your income!

And always have a backup plan for funding business opportunities that comes your way.

Back then when i wanted to start a biz that would bring in money, a silly lady i was dating back then was against it! I didn't mind her. I just went ahead and started the damn biz! When the thing begin bring in some money to augment my take home, then she understood what i was trying to do.

Our ladies hardly understand the business side of life! Hence they tend to hold on to money, even if u wan use 10k do small web design business to make 30k, they will refuse!

As per your malaria thing, bros, you must belong to our AA O+ group! If so, then always ensure u have artemether + lumefantrine based malaria drug(s) always handy! And ensure u treat it once in 3 months or less (depending on how frequent the thing comes).

Sit her down and discuss.

Don't quit that marriage, rather make it work! No relationship is perfect!

Her present pregnancy period might be messing with her emotions so she needs u just like u need her!

samicine:
Greetings one and all. I'll try to make my lamentation as short as possible.

My mother accused me of stealing her 2k, but I assure you, I didn't. The money got missing on Thursday night according to her and my 13 year old brother. I won't do such a thing, because the times are hard and the pandemic is fueling this hard times. I'm not lazy, I kind of work from home, I write for opera news hub and to some extent I get money from there, currently I have 19k in my account. I have no motive of taking her money, but she insists I took it, and is currently threatening to throw me out of the house.

This is not the first time such thing has happened. When I was still in secondary school, money got missing often and she'll blame me, beat me and starve me for stealing her money, but God helped me and the culprit was found, my other brother was caught, he is 18 now and doesn't stay with us anymore. He stays with my dad. She never apologized for what she did and the scars of that emotional and physical abuse still ripples across my body. But this time I'm not sure I will forgive her if the money is found. I'm planning on leaving home and starting my life somewhere, it's hard, it might just be my naivety speaking, but I need your advice.

The only skill I have is writing and web designing, which I'm almost getting good at. I just need help and guidance. I'm a 200level student and I major in psychology. I'll be 21 by November.

Hell yeah! She wants u outta the damn house brova!

So man up!

You have what it takes to sustain a family!

Just try to up your game and make good money from your skills!

MOve out and become a successful person and watch as she will change her testimony!

evansjeff:
Recently I've been very bothered about myself. I'm a guy of around 30 but some things that still worry my heart is really disturbing. I will start like this.

1. Something embarrassing happened some time last year when I travelled home for visit. They bought a goat and was looking for who to kill it, me knowing I'm the most senior man at home jejely went into ghost mode, everyone started looking for me, in the end I had to come out but shamelessly told them I can't kill it. They had to call a 16 year old opposite neighbour to do it while my younger ones helped him hold the goat. I couldn't even stand the sight of seeing the goat struggling for life while receiving knife in the throat. I left there immediately.

2. You might think it's normal for goat until I tell you that I can't kill a chicken or rat, last Christmas, I badly wanted to buy a life chicken because I beleive it's more healthy, but who will kill it? Bae was around, I don't want any embarrassment so I jejely bought frozen chicken . There is a wall gecko strolling around my room for weeks now, but I can't kill it, it becomes embarrassing any time I have a visitor

3. The most recent is, there are two birds trying to build a house in my lobby, I kept destroying the house but they didn't give up, it got to a point, I felt bad for the poor birds, what if they don't have a house? what if I'm the one building a house with all my strength and government keeps destroying it? I had to leave them to build. My neighbour said he killed the birds that tried doing that in his house but me can i do that? No. i just tire.

4. Lastly, When travelling and there's an accident, people rush out to watch but I dare not else the trauma will remain for months, I can't stand the sight of blood and body cuts.

Any time I think about killing an animal, I ask myself, what if I'm the one being held by boko haram or killer herdsmen and about to be slaughtered? How excruciating the pain can be.

Any time I think about crushing a cockroach, I ask myself, what if I'm the one trying to cross the high way and dangote trailer crushes me?

So guys, am I normal? Do I need to see a doctor or a psychologist?

Its very normal.

I used to be like that some years ago but i talked some senses into myself and today, i can kill a horse (just joking) but u get my point?

Nobody can help u overcome this shi.t but you & yourself only!

As per seeing a psychologist or something, it might be in order but i'll rather have u face the stuff head on!

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

You are indeed the King of fools and dumb heads!

How can u do that for a girl you have not married sef?

All nairalanders supposed flog u with 10 strokes of koboko each to reset your black paint coated brain!

Always open your brain bro!

These hoes ain't loyal!

Break up with her right now before i open my coro coro eyes or else .....

Man up bro! She is playing u big time and has your Over-Drive-Mumu-Button!

junior20202020:
Help Me Recover My Glory

THIS IS MY STORY

I started masturbating partially at the age of 19, I was a shy guy I don't have a girlfriend, everyone taught that I was a virgin. This masturbation became serious at the age of 24. I decided to quit Masturbation.

I said let me visit a prostitute, I paid her 3k, we started romancing each other, but I noticed that my dick did not erect. I was highly embarrassed, I thought because the lady was older than me, she was 33 yrs.

I visited 3 more prostitutes which are young girls in their twenties, it was the same thing, the dick did not erect at all.

Note: I normally have rock erection Even when a lady sit on my lap, early morning waking up I also use to have rock erection before I meet the first prostitute. From there I went back to masturbation again partially. At the age of 21 I made my first 1.5 million naira through business, but I noticed since I started visiting this prostitute my business collapse I could hardly boast of #200k in my account.

Around 2018 I decided to get a girlfriend, because all prostitute I meet my dick cannot rise to penetrate them. My first girlfriend was cute, I love her and she loves me. One certain day something led to something we got intimate, I romance her very well she was already screaming, she wanted me to put my dick inside but I noticed it was flaccid no erection at all. She noticed and got up and dress herself. After that day she started giving me attitude and that was how I broke up with her.

I got about 4 more girlfriend all of them broke up with me when the notice that my dick does not erect. After all this I felt like the whole world is gone, I finally got another girl friend. Anything that would lead to romance I normally tell her that as Christian we must not have sex until we are married. She would say that this is the first time she is dating a guy like me. That she loves me with all her heart. We have dated for one year now without sex, I promise her that we would have sex on our wedding night.

I am currently 27 yrs and I feel dejected. Does it mean that I may never have a child of mine own. I got tired of my situation I went into 3 days dry fasting praying to God to deliver me from sin and to restore my lost erection. ..

On the second day of the fast I was in a trance and I vommitted a lot of poison. I woke up and thanked God. After that fasting I don't normally have bad dreams of evil spirit pressing down my spirit. But I noticed that my erection have not yet been restored. Please I need help. I need God to restore my Glory. I would never use it for masturbation or fornication. Help me on what to do. I am in distress

Your problem is purely psychological and not spiritual if u ask me!

Just stop masturbating, eat good food and take multivitamins and watch it come back.

Anxiety is affecting you from getting erection!

Even guys who don't masturbate and have been traumatised in one way or the other do find themselves in your condition so no biggy!

Your masturbation was probably at PhD levels so it will take a while for your body to regain energy lost!

Stop bothering your mind and get busy with life!

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

My dear brother, you are doing just fine!

Our timelines are very different!

Seen people marry very early and yet are single today!

I"ve also seen people marry late and they are still married and doing fine!

Learn to run your own race without comparing your life to that of others!

You are unique!

As soon as u get married, make it all count sharply o!

As in give birth to not more than 2 to avoid sending kids to school when you are in your late 60s!

Oh yeah! Welcome to nigeria!

Na so dem dey do us too!

Together, laslas, we go all dey okay na!

Risingsunn:
I think there should be a default password. This philip na nonesense tv.

Though I'm loving other things about it.

Check this manual to see if there is a default password and/or how to do a factory reset to default!

https://www.download.p4c.philips.com/files/6/60pfl8708s_12/60pfl8708s_12_dfu_eng.pdf

drealdude:
Good morning All,
i will be brief, my Dad hail from south
AS his son, i have noticed that my dad family members are always conniving against our interest
and treating us in such a way that suggest they had an agreement to fustrate us. what is worse is that my dad is oblivious of their plan and treating them nicely like brothers(2)while they plan behind him.

There is an undercurrent of strong hatred towards us and they act in stiff competition against us even when we try to act as one family towards them. they try to show off / compete in terms of who have more money, whose children is better off etc.

i suspect they meet to plan against us.
Whenever we go to family events that brings family people together, there is subtle nuance and body language that suggest strong hatred but faking smile at your face.

My questions are

should i go all out against them, tell them to their face / confront them as enemy and tell them stay clear？

is the paternal family important in events like woman marriage(sibling) becos i know they likely shun？

What should be the best and wise way to act in terms of future？

WILL STRONGLY APPRECIATE ALL ADVISE

This is one of the annoying things parents do.

And they can't seem to define a clear cut line between their sons/daughters and family they came out from.

My dad too did something similar and it was a traumatic experience.

Best thing, concentrate on being a super duper success in life and ensure you are "stinkingly" rich (legit o)!

When money talks, bullshit takes a walk so don't ever bother to confront them bro!

With time, your success will put them where they belong!

And when they eventually get friendly, don't fall for the bait! Cos they might have hidden intentions against u.

As per the woman/marriage thingy, almost anybody can go to court with their wife/hubby and get married!

The law doesn't say "families must be present for them to consummate a marriage".

Above all, pray about it! May God's wisdom guide u

charles009:
Hello folks, I have to put this here, cos I feel I have had enough. Please nobody should quote me cos I intend taking this post down afterwards.

I have issues dealing with a very weak wife(27), mostly where her friends and neighbours are. Since I married her 4 years ago I have allowed her handle things her way and its always from one issue to another. Always disturbing me with irrelevant gossips that wouldn't put food on my table. I paid heavily for a fashion designer school, still same issue of madam versus students bullshit. In feb I asked her to stop, so I can have peace, thanks to covid 19. When I decided I have had enough, I told her I wouldn't want to see anybody in my house going forward, since they have turned my house to a gossip zone whenever I am away at work. Once, she hears peoples voice, she opens my door and starts hailing people who its obvious are unhappy with my decision, they even teamed against her. I see her actions as plain weakness.

I have tried dialogue, yet no improvement. So I decided to go very hard on her. I told her that anytime I see her with those click of friends, I would not hesitate to embarrass her outside. This morning, she had gone to get mop then begins the regular gist, I had to immediately shout her to go inside.

Its obvious that my mode of life contradicts her way of life, I have decided to bend a little bit to accomodate her. Once I drive out, kapish my house becomes a meeting ground, all sorts of gossips in the estate are disclosed.

Am I going too hard on her or is there any better way to handle this.

Please DONT QUOTE ME..

I think you should have known the person you were getting married to in the first place!

And now that you had married her, you should have considered the fact that you don't want her gisting up and down and rented a flat.

Above all, the same way you were able to woo her, use same technique to talk to her about this issue.

Women generally are fond of this "gisting" stuffs ... except u married a nerd who would prefer to be in all day long.

Just go with the flow. Going hard or soft sometimes don't produce the effect u want unless your message is well understood

pabllov53:
Thanks boss, but please which specific 4G?

Ensure it is 4G LTE. Just check that!

Also, buy a 4G sim for full speed!

4G LTE is a type of 4G technology. LTE stands for Long Term Evolution and isn't as much a technology as it is the path followed to achieve 4G speeds. ... 4G LTE is about ten times faster than the older 3G technology, so the difference in speed is often quite noticeable when users switch from 4G to 4G LTE Copied ooooooo!!!

U can buy huawei universal modem but most times, some branded 4G LTE that can be unlocked or has been unlocked are better!

pabllov53:
Hi bosses, pls recommend a universal mifi for me.
Thanks

Buy a 4G LTE mifi (not just 4G o cos difference dey).

U could get the alcaltel mw40 (sold by airtel back then)!

Its super fast and easy to unlock!

That's what i use and i've unlocked it to use any sim!

U can get the used if u check online for 4-7k

stillwerise:
I think that any woman or man who lies about money to their partner has experienced something bad with the person .

That's not always true.

Some people are just like that! And majority are transferring stuffs they experienced from their past relationships to their current!

That's also why most relationships fail these days!