Yhungsarm: This incident happened last week Thursday. Am a 300L student of Unijos and the girl happens to be my coursemate.
Normally, me and these girl no dey the same level, she can't even talk to me in school but ASUU break happened and i didn't want to go back to Lagos so i stayed back in Jos.
One day i was chatting with her friend who happens to know her and he told me she is still in Jos, so i chatted her up since i was bored and i didn't lie to her, i told her i was bored and i needed someone to talk to for the main time. she accepted quickly and even told me why i didn't chat her up sooner than this. she promised to come to my place and on Thursday she finally came through.
This is the most astonishing part, she knew i had sex with her best friend so she asked me about it and i did not lie about it cus i know she knew and we talked about some nasty stuff related to sex. i was seated on a mini-cushion chair and she sat on my laps literally dropping her boobs in the middle of my face.
As a guy i thought that was the signal, so i carried her straight to the bed and i wanted to gain access and she denied it so i just stood up and left. After a short while she came back again now saying if she handles me and all those stuff, i tried again and she denied i was angry and i wanted to tell her to start gping but i calmed down. she started seducing me badly and i was confused so this time i dropped and dragged her jean with her, we started dragging but she was just saying am trying to rape her and it is unfair, if it is what i do to girls all d time.
i was fingering her at the time but i did not penetrate and i felt it was tense and if i penetrated then what she is saying is true so i stopped and controlled my urge.
She zipped up and started crying, I was like but i didn't do anything and she was like i did everything i want to do with her and it is fault bcus she came to my house.
After a shortwhile, she stopped crying and asked me if it was sex i want or friends with benefit...i was very confused at that point like wetin bring all does one enter so i didn't reply then she said she knows am a rapist and i just want to sex and all dat shit.
i kept my cool after some time she started saying am not normal at all and she jst can't believe what happened, she also said she will tell me something when we she is out of my house.
So i paid her Tp and she went home, i did not chat her up at all. fastforward to Saturday i saw her message saying her forcefully had my ways wit her and jst ignored her so she will deal with me and i will pay for it.
i won't lie to you am very scared, i don't even know what she wants, i started asking her what she wants from me exactly but she is not replying at all. I seriously don't know what to do am very confuse, I don't even understand why i fell for this plot of hers. What do you think i shud do
Note: I did not have sex with her at all and i never wanted it, she was jst all over me and doing all those stuff. Sex isn't my problem on a normal day bcus am a handsome guy and i get it most time.
This one go learn the hard way say presidential ticket is not for sale or to the highest bidder
StoriesUpdate: *KADUNA TRAIN ATTACK- Presidential Aspirant, Tien Jack Rich Visits Kaduna State Govt Donates N15m to victims.
A foremost presidential aspirant on the platform of All Progressives Congress APC, Tien Jack Rich has visited Kaduna State where he condoled with the government and people of the state following the terrorist attack on Abuja-Kaduna bound train in which somel persons died while others sustained various degrees of injury.
He also made a presentation of N15m cash during the visit to families of the victims and support in the treatment of the injured ones. Tien Jack Rich, the President and Founder Belema Oil who was received by the Deputy governor of Kaduna State, Dr. Hadiza Sabuwa Balarabe expressed sadness over the incident and prayed God to console the families who lost their loved ones.
Nasir el-Rufai Movement, a support group of the state Governor, Nasir el-Rufai announced Jack Rich's visit in a social media post on Friday 1April, 2022. They also thanked the presidential hopeful and his delegation for identifying with the government and people of the state and the country at large at these trying periods.
The post reads, "Her Excellency Dr. Hadiza Sabuwa Balarabe today received a delegation on a condolence visit led by Tien Jack Rich, the President of Belemaoil and a presidential aspirant. Jack Rich, who said he is in Kaduna to express his heartfelt condolences over the recent security challenges, said he believes in a corporate Nigeria and has come to express his solidarity with the government and people of Kaduna State.
"The Deputy Governor, who received the delegation on behalf of Governor Nasir El-Rufai, thanked the delegation for the visit and for the show of concern to the people of the state. Jack Tien also donated the sum of 15 million naira to support the families of the victims and for the treatment of those injured." Jack Rich, an outstanding philanthropist is known for his undying love for the country and support to individuals, groups and organizations in an effort to touch lives for good. https://www.africapresstv.com/2022/04/kaduna-train-attack-presidential.html?m=1
Na lamba ..ignore her or insist on taking her to do a test where you are present and insist on DNA test after child birth. Oga hold your preek for Naija ooo ...especially as you be foreigner and married. You will hunted for ticket out of Naija so beware
I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.
I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.
I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.
On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.
When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.
Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.
She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.
When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.
I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.
I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.
To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.
If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome. Please don't judge me.
She's your wife and not a slave. You guys married because of the love you both share. Love is caring and sharing, not all time you quarrel. If she says her head is not in the mood to do anything, it's up to you to pet her.
If you ask me, you lost the chance to romanticize your relationship with her. 1000% wrong you did no matter how much time you've cooked or helped her. In women hormones guide our behavior so you need to understand this.
yinkaOdutuyo: So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.
I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.
When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.
After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.
She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.
I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.
And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.
I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.
Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.
I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.
I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.
So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.
To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:
BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.
At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.
I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.
I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.
But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.
Check them out and you will discover that they got it because of their strategic relationship with the US and were victims of terror.
God1000: I understand you, but some African countries have f-15, f-16, Apache helicopter gunship and other sophisticated weapons From the west, countries like Egypt, Algeria, Kenya etc
Its more about companionship at this later stage of their lives any more than for the knacks so let them be.
Oluomofx: Dear nairalanders, I lost my mum recently due to illness, will you advise your 83years old father to remarry a 60yrs old woman to keep body and soul due to loneliness.
Queen....you can't be fokking and let her mother be hearing her screaming naaau How una go take face each other for breakfast How una de manage with the kids around and still fokking with loud screams?
My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house. FROM A MY COUSIN:
I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.
My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.
This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.
My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?
I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.
Seriously and on nights when it rains and you expect cuddling, the thoughts of which street road or main road would be flooded at that time and in the morning, cuts the zeal to zero
Depending on where you stay and where you work, leaving home at 5am is already late for you to get to work. At close of work, if you leave later than 5pm you can be sure of getting home midnight. How preek wan take stand for this Lagos
Munzy14: As in...A close business associate, 4am she is making a video of her self driving to escape traffic in lagos
Imagine! When her mates for Owerri still the sleep, some are getting the early morning drills while some are at the battle front dealing with satan .
She is already out to work..I had to ask her what of her hubby and family in general, she will say normal normal..Thats stressful living in Lagos.
Must be Abuja and Zamfara people because if na Lagos, how oga preek want take stand? When you have to think about traffic and other vices, omo sex go bi the last thing you will get on your mind
Beebah2000: So, una dey knack before una go work in the morning?? Chai! This country no get joy ooo But, the kpekus no go run na.
Nigerian actor, John Ikechukwu Okafor aka Mr Ibu has addressed reports that he's critically ill.
The Nollywood star who spoke from the hospital bed admitted that he's on admission at a kidney center in Abuja.
He said reports that he is in critical condition and not walking are false.
He added also that his Instagram account and his bank account have been taken over by hackers who are asking for donations on his behalf.
He said the calls for donations under the guise that he is in critical condition, are not from him, but from hackers trying to take advantage of his ill health.
He said people are trying to sell him because he's sick but God won't let their plans work.
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
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