Stop beating yourself, many have done worse and still standing
Supremedrizzy: Someone gave me a simple job of making an existing static site template responsive within 24 hours and I blew it. A simple task that should take few hours, it looked all good on my localhost only to test it on netlify and it turned out to be a disaster. I'm just so ashamed of myself.
I've been learning web dev since mid last year though its been a case of one month on three months off, I've been grossly inconsistent due circumstances beyond my control. I haven't even coded this year because I come back from my menial hustles with battered bones and weak muscles. You can imagine trying to code after offloading a trailer load of cement all day. I even had to use bet shops around for the gig amidst the pangs of hunger I felt while working coupled with the noisy and distracting environment I was working in which contributed to my legendary blunder.
At the age of 30 and unemployed I've always seen programming as my way out of poverty but it seems I'm not good enough. I'm painfully watching that little flicker of hope fizzle out before my tearful eyes. Which other skill can I dabble into product design?? I suck at designs reason why my frontend skills is below average... should I try backend?? I'm just confused, frustrated and down casted not knowing the next step to take while time is no longer on my side.
Life currently has no meaning and direction to me, I just seem to be flowing aimlessly with the flow. My situation is giving me sleepless nights and I now rely on drugs to sleep for even three hours a day.
I really need someone to talk to, I'm really tired of trying to work out things on my own. I'm 30, broke, lonely and depressed, single has been a constant in my life's equation cos I don't even like myself for who I am presently so I don't expect someone's daughter to like me in this my miserable state.
Someone should please show me the way, this dark tunnel is fast turning to a maze that I can't navigate on my own.
The wealth you create from loans are not yours until you fully pay back the loans
tempest01: This isn't a wise take from Pst Oyedepo.
In order to create wealth, you need capital.
In his area of operation there is a multitude who directly and indirectly contribute to their capital. Ordinary business people don't have that.
They need to source for capital with debt. As long as their debt to equity ratio is kept healthy, you can take that risk, take that debt and invest wisely .
Those that are not wise are those with no investments and living on stolen money still taking on Loans.
Ideally you should take loans to expand on an already working enterprise that can service the loan.
Escalation is what the fool is looking for. He knows he can't win outright and even after winning (if he ever wins) his country would be in doldrums and is now trying to drag others down. Avoid fighting with a pig else you get muddied
Stop carving. Instead of that let the barber clip off the under growth. Carving kills the frontal cells gradually. Also avoid barbers that would be carving as if they are cutting your skin and leave behind healing lines after a few days. Avoid carving as a whole.
Explain this to her and also make her know your true worth. If she's refusing you to assist her own family, then it tells you she may be scared of you guys' future financially.
I will make this as short as possible. Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,
I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can. While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.
But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything. She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.
What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.
I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.
But right now am seriously confused it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.
I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .
Report them to your bank as wrong debit and request a reversal. Copy CBN and EFCC on this
TeamLeader: I took the loan and it's was due for repayment yesterday. On my own I was waiting for funds somewhere so I can set off the loan. Then A lady from the company called and was just ranting, I wanted to explain to the girl to have patience till 5pm she wasn't just listening, she was just ranting and bang the call on me.
Luckily for me few minutes later the money am expecting entered and I pay the loan immediately I do the repayment but seems the lady didn't notice and the app wasn't cleared. I didn't even noticed myself because I had low battery and I was on transit. Lagos traffic
Then around 10pm I got another debit alert from the company immediate I notify the lady through WhatsApp with the proof of payment I made earlier and what she said shocked me. She said the company can't refund the money that I should keep the debits alerts and took another loan but I refused say na my money I want but she is insisting that I will have to take another loan.
I don't want to take another loan am done with those loan sharks but how can I get my money back please. Should I take the risk because I don't know the game she wants to play o.
The S22 Ultra is the most powerful of the S22 series line up which includes the vanilla S22, the S22+ as well. The S22 Ultra is shaping up to be Samsung's most ergonomic S series ever, simply because it's the first S series to house an S pen (Stylus), without any added accessory. P.S: We get the snapdragon version in Nigeria, no longer exynos.
Samsung S22 Ultra 5G Specs
• 6.8” QHD+ AMOLED Display • Aluminum frame • glass back Gorilla Glass Victus+ (Front and back) • Snapdragon 8 Gen 1 •108 MP + 10MP + 10MP + 12MP • 40MP Front Camera • 8GB RAM + 128GB RAM/Storage (Up to 12GB RAM + 1TB Storage variant) • 5000mAh Battery (45W Fast Charging) • Android 12, One UI 4.1 • 163.3 x 77.9 x 8.9mm • Weight - 228g • IP68 Dust/Water resistant • Single SIM/Dual SIM Price - Price: ₦749,000
See selfie camera comparison with the iPhone 13 Pro Max below (reduced for NL)
"This celebrity and how they behave. @timaya nearly killed my sister this morning. She hit her with his car and run. At Ikate few hour ago, he hit my sister car and she came down to ask him to look what he did, this heartless human was asking for number and she told him he would block her, rather for @timayatimaya to do the needful. He hit my sister with his car and ran away. She is at the hospital right now in serious pain and funniest part is me messaging him on Instagram to do the needful but this needless fellow blocked me after reading my message."
Hmmmm ....I don't think he did bad if he requested for a number. It may not be safe for him hanging there amidst a lady shouting at him to look at what he's done. Yes he did wrong by hitting her car, learn to resolve the issue amicably.
Give him your number, take down his vehicle's number and wait for the call. He probably would send his manager or insurance company to resolve the issue which is fine but instead you decide go de hang on top the car like LASTMA ...we are too angry in this country really
Popular Nigerian singer, Timaya has reportedly been at the aged after allegedly damaging a lady’s car in Lekki and driving off after he was being confronted, IGBERETV reports.
A video trending on social media captures the moment Timaya was being picked up by the police for questioning.
According to reports, Timaya hit the lady’s car with his car and when he was being confronted by the lady, he drove off while the lady was still hanging onto his car as he drove off.
The lady was said to have sustained serious injuries on her body and was hospitalized in the process as Timaya escaped with the offense.
The lady who shared this news on her Instagram story is identified as whyte_26. She also alleged that the singer blocked her on Instagram after numerous efforts to contact him to do the ‘needful’ on her sister’s treatment.
Exactly. If you convert £4k to Naira that's almost N2,220,872.40M which after tax would reduce to what you currently earn in Nigeria BUT you get more worth for your money in the UK
obailala: Shut your stinking mouth! I live in the UK and I pay all the so called taxes you talk about. But I've also got friends and family all around Nigeria and I visit Nigeria ever so often, so I'm not as chronically ignorant as yourself. Nigerians may not pay taxes to the government, but to survive comfortably in Nigeria, you end up still spending on basic amenities just about the same figures people in the UK spend on taxes and bills.
In the UK my taxes cover my healthcare, security, roads, access to steady water and electricity, etc. In Nigeria, you have to pay physically for these things and you end up not still getting them efficiently. Do you have a clue how much it cost to run a diesel generator for 12 hours daily in Nigeria? DO you even have a clue how much a unit of electricity cost in Nigeria today?
Meanwhile a £4k salary monthly in the UK after tax is equivalent to about £70,000 annually; a person who earns that literally earns more than over 90% of salaried earners in the UK. For you to say that's not a good salary or for you to even attempt to make a comparison between that and N1.5m, I dont even have words to describe your ignorance.
Is pregnancy a disease? Why feel bad about it? Celebrate with her and support her all through it. The way parents treat their children leads to all of these, don't try to strong arm kids cos any little freedom they get, they explore beyond the limits. Congrats in advance
tunjilee003: I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes.. To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....
Can you share a picture of the continuous blood trail?
Franzinni: Good morning people,hope you had a nice val... (my friend) has been having a strange occurence intermittently for about two years now, when he wakes up in the morning he finds there is blood stains on the floor at equal distance from each other ....about a foot apart in a straight line and sometimes it will be bent ... but always starts at a point and ends somewhere further down with a good number of grops .. I have seen it happen several times and they always wake up to discover it.
Does anyone have a clue what might be the meaning behind this ?
See pictures of the present(last night) occurrence below.
Kingosytex: This man stole billions but couldn't build a standard hospital for his people. Now he's been flown to UK for treatment. The question is, what becomes the fate of the common man?
I wonder how these type of people keep finding themselves in the corridor of power.
Greedy political thieves
National Assembly should pass a bill mandating all elected governors to build one fully staffed and equipped teaching hospital in their states during their first term in office. This way every four or eight years, we are sure of all the states having one or more teaching hospital.
These things need to institutionalized in our constitution. We can't be electing governors who will do nothing and end up leaving office to go abroad for treatment.