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bukatyne:
The idea of seperating is to deny your spouse whatever benefits they enjoy been married to you so they can sit up. It's just like a parent taking all privileges of a child to correct a behaviour.

E.g. a wife doesn't have se.X with her husband (for no justified reason) and the husband has tried several stuffs which did not work.

He can leave the house for a while to the woman to sit up. When she begins to do things her husband traditionally does, she begins to weigh if her behaviour is worth the stress she is undergoing and change.

Again, this will only work if both parties really cherish the marriage else it's good riddance to bad rubbish and they go their seperate ways.

bukatyne:
Depends on what they are seperating for.

Most people who seperate here
do so because they do not want to 'divorce' rather than to solve a problem.

If hubby says ... I am moving out to XYZ (where he is accountable to people) till you need me, the wife will sit up.

Not seperating and start frolicking the town.

bukatyne:
Why don't you seperate instead and tell the whole world (not really) why?

That's if your hands are clean.

He who comes to equity must come with clean hands

bukatyne:
If your wife is withholding se.x, tie your prick and find a solution together.

I will never encourage adultery.

bukatyne:
This Keen & Tboss' scandal brought up the now popular 'no is no' in relation to sex generally and I came across a post today which reminded me of it. (A husband's spreadsheet flying around of a wife's rejection)

I am however concerned with marriage. Some peeps are of the thought that when a wife says no, no is no. Ditto a husband. Now I wonder, where is the place of persuasion and seduction in marriage?

If I tell my husband no at first, shouldn't he try to seduce me into making love to him? Will he just try twice & say ok, she's said no? I am truly not be in the mood initially however a little seduction can turn me on

I can't imagine my husband telling me no without a cogent reason (and i decide the reason that is ) and I just let him be? Whatever happened to old good Mouth Gig?

I am not encouraging forceful pentrations or violence where a party ends up with bruises; I nor dey dere.....
I am talking of seducing your partner and turning their no to yes...

Or just even doing it whether you are in the mood or not. Get lubricants and use it if you are not jn the mood.... might even enter the mood before the game is over.

Like I read once.... when your husband makes advances, say to yourself that you are not in the mood YET and let him work his magic. (If he has sha).

So for no is no proponents, if your wife/husband constantly says no, what do you do? (And cheating is not an option).

paulinoace0:
This guy they do like na force the girl they force am

Billyonaire:
For those who pay Tithes and Offerings, now you know how your sweat is shared, not among Angel Michael and Angel Gabriel, but your donations, tithes and offerings are shared among Wet Angels.

missyge:
Lol. it dosnt stop ur search jare.

missyge:
I am an Igbo woman, core Igbo, Imo to be precise!
Where I come from, women cook and we are very good at it.
I mean Great meals-ofe okazi, ofe oziza, ofe ugwu, ofe achara, ofe akwụ, ofe onugbu, ofe ọha, nsala etc. We don't do much of fried rice!
Our mothers cooked for their husbands.
That is our STANDARD and we are not deviating!
Infact our young men starts adding weight once they are married.
That's an effect of our cooking, yes we are good like that!
About our men, they are HUSTLERS!!!
And God do bless their hustles.
They provide, protect and fend for us (women) but that doesn't mean our women are lazy or incapable.
They only do more, women mostly support and encourage!
As you all know, most Igbo men are into business, just a few are into white collar jobs.
Their Sweat and Hustle is REAL but God is faithful!
A lot of them wear shorts and slippers and trek to shop, warehouse, sites etc just so their wives can dress sophisticated, drive exotic cars and visit the spa for skin treatments.
You see Igbo wives, looking all glamorous and stunning, my dear it is mostly at the expense of their husbands' sweats!
And you say we should not cook for these class of men??
You LIE !
We will pound yam for them join!

Share please and stop all this
# wifenotcook and # husbandnotATM nonsense.... # # happywomen 'sday in arrears

missyge:
Sure. One can meet his/her partner anywhr....

missyge:
Lol. I cannot laff jor. I bliv He still does direct jare

missyge:
Lol. its true. but religiously, i think God will direct those dat re faithful n seek him towards gettn d right partner.

missyge:
Abi o. Bsides even if u tell her to get pregnant bfre u marry, wats d assurance dat ure d father of d child.?

dovelike:
That's where trust, love and God comes to play

fineboynl:
it look like you haven't been to the poolside. try to be every week. you will get use to something like this. for real

fineboynl:
maybe clubs houses with ashawo as well

fineboynl:
but to be honest I don't see anything wrong with that. or maybe I am getting used to going to the poolside

Evaberry:
to the mod that banned me

you broke me last night

I was depressed and sad

I didn't even know what I did

u gave me my 1st ban. 5 years no ban and u destroyed me yesterday night

don't worry