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[quote author=Mercy-u]People say iam hardworking,humble and gat nice figure[/quote]Sorry oh. I don't want to be rude. But my mama tell me sey when men begin compliment woman sey she dey hardworking na e b sey she no fine. So them dey use style look for one better thing tell am

silvertuke: Please people can you accept to be in a relationship without SEX?

No I will never. It is a selfish relationship. Relationship should be give and take. If one party wants to receive all, that person is selfish as hell. No sex in the relationship, then stay on your own and don't bother me.

Very nice and also true too

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I have a few nigerian female friends in varsity, they are content wit wat they have and they are independent...maybe u just choose the wrong women[/quote]No oh they are not. Outside this shores they pretend to be sensible. I know them very well. Let me not bore you. What hurts the most you see them crying (many fake it). Playing emotional blackmail. They are very smart and cunning. So I have to be one step ahead. I still go for tutorials cos our naija babes know how to update themselves like Microsoft anti-virus updates.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]and after saying something like that u strongly feel that u know how to love a woman[/quote]Oh no I don't pretend. I take good care of women. I stopped luving because naija babes have all sold their heart to the God of money

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]funny thing is I'm actually not nigerian! This is were u lose it, most of yall like disrespecting ur own women and at the end of the day u expect them to respect lmao[/quote]Oh my bad. I'm sorry. Our women think too highly of themselves but they are wrong. Very cunning, very pretentious, always needy. So I give them what they want and painfully I still feel robbed because they really can't offer much. they don't know how to luv. Money money money money is what you hear, if you don't hear money, you hear human hair, if you don't hear that, you hear blackberry, also clothes, shoes and when you ask them for sex, aaaah that's all you know - that's what they will tell you. But that's what they can only offer. You wanna know how stupid a naija gal is, take her to 5 * restaurant Jesus. I took one beautiful one and I still regret it. She entered the table the wrong way, she placed her napkin the wrong way. She was using the dessert cutleries for the main course meal because she could not differentiate. I was sweating and smiling and highly embarrassed too.

oluswaggz: most guy prefer marryin girls dat dey bliv ar decent. Despite d fact dat dey av already spoilt some girlz lyf. If every guy shud av dis motives toward girlz den i tink der wil b a lot of single ladies out der. Or wat do u tink?

Point of correction. No naija gal is decent. Na manage we dey manage them.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]u need divine intervention[/quote]I'm sorry I don't belong to that category of people. I know what I truly need and very detailed about it. I am not a confused person. Naija babes with their pretentious behavior (SMH). Always want to claim holier than thou, while they are all the same. I remember my doctor friend who was having issues with a babe, he has been on his good behavior and no glimpse of hope. He was crying about it, till I gave him some tips (no be naija babe). He still thanks me till tomorrow cos he has improved with the tip. I am no maestro, just that I can predict naija babes. They think alike and they are materialistic ain't u one of them. Lol

[quote author=eagle,eye]I don't understand how a grown azz man goes about begging for se,x like it is candy. Like 190 said, if you touch the babe at the right places and use tongue to play with the right objects... she will be the one begging you to do it.
I learnt this a long time ago, a woman enjoys se,x as much as a man.[/quote]Point of correction, they enjoy it more than men yet they refuse us and themselves sweet pleasure. They are hypocrites. I pity the op she will eventually lose it to a sharp guy and then she would wish she did it with the first guy.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]no, i wldnt let a man take me out to get drunk as f*ck on the first date not my type of guy [/quote]Your mate for UK they buy their own drink. You a typical hungry naija babe will have to wait for a guy to buy you a drink and yet you want to dictate whether you want to be drunk or not. Mtshweeeeeeee

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]no, i wldnt let a man take me out to get drunk as f*ck on the first date not my type of guy [/quote]Well it depends on where u hang out. I'm sorry dear, they don't offer water and malt where I hang out. Well they do, but nobody go tell u sey u dey fall hand if you order for malt. And I dont share my wines (I will never). I'm stingy with my Moët and Chandon. So u will get a full bottle and you better finish it cos I hate to waste money. And then while you are enjoying yourself, your dirty secrets would be mine to keep. A good gal is always a good gal (drunk or not) you would know. They slutty ones would be slutty (d alcohol just accelerate things and make me dump you faster). Honestly, naija gals are slutty. I'm not just talking. I know. They only change maybe when they feel they need to marry.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]like i said, its not like u are not a gentleman either, so for u to go on and bash someone who is practically the female version of u is rather silly u are the same person[/quote]Laughs..... U r funny. I can swear you ain't no different. So don't pretend.

luvmijeje: Op shebi is a date not sleeping with him,not even yes to a serious relationship.Just want to know him better.
Please the answer is IMMEDIATELY.

See am typical naija babe - very hungry.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]u actually sound much worse than the girl u are talking about, at least she said it whilst she was drunk...u are sober i guess it means both of u dont have class kikikiki[/quote]Oh u angry. But it's the truth (don't pity naija gals). If they know you are smarter than them, they begin to play the emotional blackmail game. However, if they are smarter than you, just kiss your heart and account goodbye. They want your love, your time, your money and your attention. Yet what do they offer - just punnany and food (some na only income and egg them sabi). Ain't naija gals selfish and wicked. Yet one of them has the gut to rat her usefulness mouth on this thread. If you respect yourself, I will respect you. If you show me your bitchy side, I will finish you. Shey na money you wan chop, no problem - how much you fit finish in a day? Hungry babes. You want to reap where you did not sow.

I heard these stuff on the radio today. The radio presenter was giggling like a fool like she discovered some new theory.

A naija mother advising her 4 years son

Mother: my fine bobo, my sweet handsome son,. Kia naija gals go hear am. All those foolish gals. My pickin, mek you wise up. If you see naija gal, scope am. If she ask you money, no give am, if she ask you luv, no luv am. If she throwey leg open for you, chop am, no waste time and no forget to clean mouth join. U dey hear me so?

Son: Yes mama, I no go f,uck up mama.

dederocs: check yourself,might be ur pride...or are u ugly,dirty-or u smell down there?

She is cheap, with no class and has nothing to offer a guy. Many naija babes have nothing to offer rather than punnany. So the guys have to chop. Lmao.

Gal shine the Congo and quit pretending. Because you will eventually burst the bubbles maybe to an older guy who can pay better. It's rather you burst it for luv and enjoy yourself. Or I forgot you are a naija babe, you are waiting for the highest bidder. Virginity no the rain again (FYI)

All these hungry Nigerian girls. I was having a conversation with one yesterday (pretty girl, I thought she was properly brought up). Guys do you know she was initially pretending and after a full bottle of champagne (I order it on purpose, I gave her one whole bottle). She started confessing her nonsense, giving examples why gals double date because of money and the profession that has the highest number of stingy guys. I was gutted, did not know the pretty face was part of the sluts we have in this country. What do Nigerian gals take us for? - money bags! You are all kidding. Yes, we will straff you and don't pay, because we don't look like your daddy. When you know your standard, probably we might consider dating you.

Guys, if you are dating (una know sey naija girls too pretend) give am champagne (or rather Andre rose, if champagne is too expensive). The truth go commot for her mouth. Nonsense hungry girls looking for Mugu.

Calabar should continue. They have created a niche for themselves. Calabar is now viewed by the world as a tourist city. So painful I missed the carnival. I am preparing for this one. Peeps you cannot like everything. Not everyone will conform to your high standards. Some people just want to have fun. Let them be and face your morals.

I think Jonathan is surrounded by hypocrites. People are feeding this man with lies. He think he is truly working. Someone should tell Jonathan that there is no improvement in power. If his advisers are quoting 4500 mega watts increase, he should go and confirm it from an independent source. I also hear there is regular supply of power in Abuja (maybe that is why the president is deluded in thinking power is improving). Since Barth Nnaji left we do not know what has become of the power transformation agenda.

On corruption, the president is a joker. I saw how he placed his answer on oil theft. Corruption is not only oil theft. Has he declared his asset? When will the subsidy thieves be prosecuted? The president needs an independent body to audit all facets of government ministries and prepare monthly publication. Jonathan advisers are deceiving him.

This is not an achievement but what should have been in place. Please understand what achievements are. That is why I get infuriated when government blow its trumpet that they have built roads - that is not an achievement, it is called repairs please.

I think Nigerians just want the government to be more transparent and accountable. People should also include their state governors and local government chairmen because they get allocations monthly. Honestly, Jonathan is still one of the best president so far. However, the rate of progress is slow and corruption is still on the high side. If only monthly publications of government spending ca be published and this can be confirmed by all and sundry, then we know we have an all inclusive government.

Please include illegal parking by commercial bus drivers. We need some sanity in Lagos

OmidanOjuloge: After reading people's comment I can now boldly say Nigerians are stupid and sentimental people! For Bleep sake Bakare is right! Stp being sentimental and face the fact! U lot worship these religious leaders lyk they are God, why can't we av som1 lyk Desmond Tutu who would speak out againt all the curruption nd problems we facing in Nigeria? Why can't Adeboye speak out for ppl? Why can't he use his post to defend the people? Instead they wine nd dine with these politicians and some stupid and dumb nigrians will call them men of God. U lot are the problem of Nigeria, if u ppl can't start thinkin straight then am sorry we aint movin forward! Call a spade a spade! Nigerians are suffering, we need a change nd it starts wit our thinkin! Let'sfuction witout religion nd I bet we'll move forward as a nation. I respect Bakare so much, glad he spoke d truth! Anyone who thinks he's just jealous is sick and needs his or her brain checked, awon alai nironu aragalatia #mshew!

Honestly you have made valid points. I was so angry when so dumb people hijacked he thread and turned it to a kneeling down thread. Tunde Bakare said the truth about corruption and insecurity. He also talked about poverty. But these dumb nairalanders, just for the love of a man who enriches himself with their tithe and offerings and refuse to be speak about the poor attitude of our leaders, decide to talk foolishly about Jonathan kneeling down. They just displayed their ignorance and exposed themselves to selective reasoning and reading. When will this biased behaviors of Nigerians change. This is just so stupid.

Ravenwolf: Guys let me tell you a true story.... it happened to me.

The Girl in question is 24 going to 25, i am 19 going to twenty, i met her at work, she's the friend of one of my bosses.
She's is petite, about 5'5, i am 6.0, she is a 300 level student of law at Uniabuja, i am a 100 level student of Economics at UNN, i was working the job cuz i am on break,
it so happened that i got talking to her, after a while a certain level of intimacy developed between us, she was so comfortable and mature in all her dealings with me, very intelligent too, that made me fall head over heels for her, after a while i asked her out, she didn't accept, i asked her the reason why, she didnt tell me,but i suspected it may her something to do with the age difference between us,after i asked her out, it seems that was when we got even more closer to each other, hardly a day passing without us speaking for about 3hours, we couldnt get enough of each other... she would call me up at random times, just to hear my voice vice versa, she invited me to her house, i met her younger brothers who look like my fathers...lol
she came to my house, met my parents... I could just stare into her eyes forever....Its was one of the most remarkable days that i have had in a very long time, it was a surreal dream,one that i didn't wanna wake up from, one that totally enveloped my whole me, i had morphed into an addict, an addict to a certain brown eyed belle!! meanwhile she hadn't accepted my proposal...

She invited me to her house on a certain day, when i got there, she had my favorite dish ready..what a surprise, i didn't even actually remember telling her.... midway into the meal, my phone rang and it was a chick form church who i really liked but hadn't seen in a very long time, i spoke on the phone with the chick for a few minutes,all these while my babe was looking at me, without saying anything, when i had finished,i told her her who i just got off the phone with...case closed. i then brought up the issue of our dating, she said she couldn't, although she wants to but there are things limiting her, she then proposed that she be my girlfriend for two weeks.... wow, this was strange.. i replied that i didn't want her for two weeks, i wanted her for as long as i have breath in me...her eyes misted a bit and she excused herself.... she emerged a few minutes later, it was obvious she had washed her face, washed off the tears she had shed.after a while she showed me around her estate, while on our way she said she would very much like to date me, but that wouldn't be the wisest choice for her... i pestered her to tell me why, she said she couldn't but when i am on my way home she would text me the reasons why she cant date me to my phone...

I got home that night with a heavy heart, food didn't appeal to me, Boondocks on Sonymax started and my sisters came to call me, but i wasn't interested... Boondocks is like my religion, to have rejected it meant something was definitely wrong with me.... i had just come to like my babe as i use to call her so much to the point of addiction. Shortly afterwards,my phone purred with a message.... i hurriedly grabbed it looked at the sender and it read ***(CHICKS NAME)
"Dearie, there would have been no barrier to building what you wanted,if not for the massive age difference and distance.
I dont want to beat around the bush,the reason it wont work is the age difference mostly...sorry i didn't tell you upfront but i am 25.
make no mistakes about it i dearly love you and that is you and about you.

I am totally broken, but i am learning to get over her... but i really liked her...

Awe so sorry dude.. You know what don't let her go just like that. Keep in touch. Probably when she no see husband still 28 she might consider you. Well the bad side is that you might not like her again because you might feel like a leftover

babyosisi: Na joke abeg
Man don marry me already put for house kemgbe uwa

Being married doesn't make you matured. In fact you just revealed some more stupidity.

ifihearam: You talk like a foo,in this world there are prophets,we have minor and major prophets.Let me educate your ignorance,Elijah was a major prophet in Israel,before then there were prophets,he handed over the baton to Elisha,you will recall that. When he parted jordan,there were sons of the prophets on the other side watching him,and when they saw he did what Elijah did,they all bowed before him because he has taken the position of the only major prophet.

Back to the topic,Baba Adeboye is a Major Prophet in Africa,and he is in charge of Nigeria,so any leader who recognises spirituality must seek his prayers and support. He is the father of all prophets in africa,I pity some of you here that calls him names,you don't know what you are up against .
A woman gave a testimony in one of RCCG congresses,she saw him and said in her heart that he is a fake man of God,oblivious to him,his God went into action,and she became barren for well over 15years,all the spiritual places she visited told her same thing that she has offended a very highly annointed Man of God and without his forgiveness no man on earth can rescue her from her calamity,so she went about until she came back to apologise to baba,he only utterred a few word and she conceived in less than 2 months. The moral of this story is for some of you to becareful hence you incur the wrath of his God.

Liar

inufele2: They won't change because they are blinded by religious and tribal sentiments...

So sad. Just like we can blame our political leaders for corruption and failure to provide social and developmental infrastructure, we can also blame our religious leaders for their ineptitude and lack of concern. For tribal bigots, it is a terrible shame for us to continue to thrive in this disease (tribalism). Tribalism and diversity is a scam, our political leaders failed to address because they want sentiments to continue. What has our kinsmen in public office done for us?. We all share common problems, regardless of our tribe and our problems are starring at our faces. I forgot to mention that at the top of the social strata, those guys do not see tribalism, the looting is all inclusive. The only tribe they know is MONEY so why and what are we fighting ourselves for instead of fighting our common enemy.

vislabraye: The article goes beyond whether GEJ knelt down or not. There were more important things he talked about.

The corruption is too much in the country. What he said about OBJ are so weighty. He would be the first to suffer if there happens to be a revolution. I hope he reads this article.

I have to question GEJ kneeling down in front of a large crowd of witness. Such actions that could lead to controversy should be avoided. It could be seen a charade in order to win the sentiments of Nigerians.
If these so called men of God can use their position to speak to politicians, Nigeria will go a long way. Any church where politicians can sit down comfortably and chat with the pastor without qualms is suspect.

Well said.

Just don't understand your point of argument. True, many of us do not pay taxes but external borrowings, giving the selfish nature of our leaders is bad. We know that once these funds are available to them, the next thing you see on the streets are brand new ferraris and Bentley (customize models). Only 40% of these loans may be channeled to infrastructure development and due to lack of fund, these projects would be abandoned. So Nigerians have the right to kick against borrowings because, those loans must be paid off with little to show for what the loan was used for. Hence, a cycle of persistent poverty.

I am terribly shocked at the comments I am reading. I believe those commenting on just why GEJ knelt before Adeboye, did not read the entire interview. Previously, I cared less about Bakare, however I think this man has earned my respect. Why are we refusing to see the big picture here. Are we not tired of our sufferings? Our leaders since independence care less of the citizens/followers but care about looting the treasury. We need leaders who can tell their followers the truth and not pretentious MOG who are just like our wicked politicians. We need people who will constantly checkmate the excesses of our government and not those who pray for them to steal more. We need people like Desmond Tutu who would face a corrupt government and tell them to change from their wicked ways and not those who do recitals from bible because God will not come from heaven to change Nigeria. If we need Nigeria to change, the change will definitely come from us. Open your sleeping eyes oh Nigerians, our mumu don too much.