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Just dump the babe. Never ask her for the money. Move on. She would always regret. It's hard getting guys who give generously these days. That would be her loss.

Honestly I feel this thread is not about kneeling down but the insensitivity of our government and not just the president alone. We need good people in government. Pastor Bakare is not afraid to tell the government how insensitive they are. We need more people like him and not tithe collectors (who just don't care).

Wadeoye: So, a tithe collector who said/lied he drove his car without fuel is now to be compared with queen elizabeth?

Guy you are funny - tithe collector

Man I feel u have self esteem issues. You need to practice very hard on how to woo a woman. Even if it doesn't work out don't give up. Before you know you would get better and you will not only get a girl friend, you would start magneting girls towards you. But make sure you are clean and you dress well.

What government image? Must our leaders always be defensive? Police college Ikeja has been abandoned for years. Sincerely I do not want to hold the president responsible. There is the inspector general of police, there is also a ministry of police affairs. Do they want to explain that the police college Ikeja has never been on their budget.

The women in the forum are truly wicked. Why make s*tupid assumptions. One thing I know for certain is that one a woman is so determined to mess up your life, you would go to every extend. Nobody is talking about the huge cost of legal fees here, and from the post I'm reading it is so clear that the women here do not work for a corporate organization

bjcole: D guy shoud do more 4 the sake of the kids, this woman is witch, she is wicked but the man should go extra mile for his children, i think thats d arguments of d women even though they failed to admit one of their own is a devil.

Exactly my point. See how fast they switch the case on the poor man and refused to talk about the wickedness displayed by their sister.

davidylan: I ask a simple question again - what should he do if the wife accuses him of sexually molesting his daughter and actually coaches her to lie about it?

Left to me this is a very wise father. He still mails in child support checks without fail, he has made extra effort to build a relationship with his kids (picking them up, buying a phone so he can reach them when he wants and vice versa)... each time he has been rebuffed and handed over to the police on false charges. When does it end? When he is finally behind bars?

@david leave these women. It is so strange how they are coercing the man to do more and not talk about the wicked behavior of one of their own. No female here has actually and bluntly written anything about the wicked attitude of the wife. Rather the man should go to all extent to ensure he sees his children. Abi when he enter prison, will he see the children again. I am totally shocked at the ladies here. If the wife wants to end up with a tattoo murderfu.cker, let her do so. Abeg if the man can read this, bros no go anywhere.

The man is simply wise and could not be predicted by his wicked wife. The man has tried. He should not go to jail because he wants to see and be in the lives of his kids. That is traumatic. He loses his job and his freedom because of one stupid wicked witch. @OP what you can do is to remind the kids that their father loves them but cannot see them because of their wicked mother.

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ALADE4J2: Pls note that STUDYING is different from READING; reading makes you half-educated while studying makes you learned. Most people on NL do are half-educated as far as the Bible is concerned and that is why they are wrong on many topics they comment on. Half-education is actually worse than no education, because someone that is half-educated believes he is right when he is actually wrong. May God help us all. God bless u.

Are you fully educated in the Bible?

rasputinn: Somebody told the story of his birth,why some people chose to post comments loaded with hate for the revered pastor is just unfathomable.If envy is the reason,well there's nothing the simpletons can do about it for they will NEVER in their lifetime achieve a tenth of what this man has achieved.

Again,he just told the story of his birth,he didnt make a political statement,neither did he even say or do anything to warrant the senseless attack on his person here on this thread.I'm sure he doesn't visit this forum,but I hope he stumbles on this thread so he can pray God to forgive all you unfortunately envious lot

I am replying you because I believe the highlighted is a typical Nigerian mentality. For me (I cannot speak for others), there is nothing to be envious about Adeboye, as a matter of fact I respect the man not because he is a MOG, rather because he is an influential leader (achieving the feat of having over 2 million followers, regardless of whatever medium used, is remarkable. Even Jesus during his time did not have up to that). However, I am not happy with the so called practices of acclaimed MOG. They occupy a position that can be used to influence positive things in this country but they choose to be quiet. An average Nigerian cannot boast of having a 3 square meal, yet you tell them to pray that God will provide, an average Nigerian do not have a good means of transportation, yet you tell them to pray that all will be well and you have private jets and live in mansions. I am not saying that he should distribute his accumulated wealth (the one he took from his members) but he can begin to talk to our deaf politicians to live up to expectations. To make matter worst, blessing and praying for Jonathan!!! For what. He should be telling Jonathan to change from his wicked ways.

We might not like him but I think Obasanjo is the most respected man in Nigeria, globally and nationally. You might hate him but there is this respect he commands.

Adesiji77: @AJ...You have analysed well but the ''10 packets of St Louis sugar'' saga is controversial. Some Access Bank staff say that they were given only that while a few contended that it was not true having received a bag of rice and vegetable oil in addition. Only God knows...

The sugar stuff is not true. They were given a bag of rice, oil and sugar. The sugar was first distributed before the other Xmas packages. However, I wonder how come Aig is Thisday person of they year

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Joebeck: A man that beat his wife is a beast. Infact such a man is even worst than a beast.

Same for a woman who beats her housemaid and kids. Beating is not acceptable.

These okada guys are even lucky I am not Fashola. Outright ban is what I will do. I will also go after reckless bus drivers. The best way out of this is to involve private companies. Sell route to them with renewal license. Let them provide neat and adequate buses plying all route in Lagos. While I concentrate on ensuring good roads and security. Then mek I see where criminals wan take come from.

Guys for those of una wey dey throwey pure water sachet anyhow una fit mek money oh.

Ujujoan: I intended to ignore coogar and his myopic views but then I have to comment again . . .

for those saying he had a hidden agenda for asking her to meet him in a hotel . . . Did he actually request the meeting be held in his room? What if he had the intention of meeting her at the lobby or bar or restaurant

I wonder why it's so easy for people to jump to baseless conclusions!


For those saying she could be molested, wouldn't that solve the problem if she went in the company of her colleagues or even husband

What exactly is this 7-page argument about

I so badly wish you are the OPs wife and I pray you fall in a similar situation. It is so easy to comment but how would your perspective be when it is you.

armyofone: Aren't you being double standard eh? Here is a woman who is in need of money and someone is offering her the money-OP didn't say she will be collecting the money in the 'hotel bedroom' or at midnight.

that's why we pray to marry guys with real head on their shoulder. a real man with good and real head on his shoulder should be able to provide for his lady. maybe money for doing business etc madam here is working hard, spare her jo

For real and you are still fighting for equality! Since you want equality, share the financial burden too. Nonsense

Graphy: pls can i get the address text to my phone number,08038511685,tanx

Where is ur location

shymexx: What do you guys keep creating new handles everyday to attack the voice of reason and the truth? I'm a black man and Nigeria is the biggest black country in the world, with the greatest potentials... I also don't need to remind you that I'm Nigerian as well(though some I might disagree and call me a fake Nigerian lol).. And as long as I stay black and continue to stay connected to my roots, I shall continue to critique Nigeria for being a disgrace to the black race...

OK WELL DONE

shymexx: Nigeria isn't a sinking ship with BZM and Bakassi threatening to declare separate countries? - With BH wrecking havoc in the North; attacks and counter-attacks in Jos; Tivs and Fulanis in Benue; Christians and Muslims everywhere; and the different ethnic groups buying up arms(in large quantities by the way) and preparing for the inevitable civil war?? How many times have cargo containers containing arms been seized in the last two years alone?? - yet you think Nigeria isn't a sinking ship, no? smh

You're living in denial, mate..

STOP TYPING THIS STUFF. WHAT WILL YOU GAIN TO SEE YOUR COUNTRY DISINTEGRATE. WHAT KIND OF A HUMAN BEING ARE YOU? WHAT RIGHT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT THIS COUNTRY. WHAT HAVE YOU DO FOR NIGERIA. YOU WANT CHANGE BUT YOU SIT YOU FAT YANSH ON YOUR COMPUTER AND DO NOTHING. PEOPLE ARE HAVING CONFERENCE ON FEDERALISM AND CO-EXISTENCE OF ALL ETHNIC GROUPS YOU ARE BUSY ON NAIRALAND WISHING THE COUNTRY BAD. PLEASE GET YOUR HEAD RE-EXAMINED.

Barth Nnaji I truly miss you. Since you left, epileptic disease you were trying to cure has returned back.

solomonkane: Then the SSS must be a collection of even bigger idiots than I ever thought possible. I wait to see under what laws they will charge him; all he needs is a good lawyer, he will sue their backsides off and come out more popular and richer than ever. SMH.

You dey make noise. Just pray those guys don't come close to you (true experience)

Ricoluv: The press war raging between Dr Cosmas Maduka of Coscharis Group and Mr.Ifeanyi Uba of Capital oil and gas Ltd is one which has been in the news for some weeks now.
It is sad to see two brothers of Nnewi origin, descend so low as to engage in a public mudslinging and image defamation contest
I for one am disappointed in the way Dr. Maduka has chosen to make public this issue know fully well that the consequences of a full investigation would be dire for him and Access bank.
Dr. Maduka, being a non-executive director in the bank, has been using his position to extend credit to Capital oil and gas to which he and Ifeanyi Uba have been enjoying the proceeds.
Here lies his mistake.
As a member of the board of directors of Access bank, he is prohibited by law to influence any credit facility for which he has a personal interest in.(BOFIA Act,1991.sect,17 subsection 1a.).
Also, with the recent directive from CBN to all banks, restricting credit dealings with Capital Oil ltd, this is about the wrongest time for Dr. Cosmas to fall out publicly with Mr.Uba.

Looking at the whole thing playing out, I just hope that these two men would sheath swords and try to resolve their differences amicably.

YOUR BOFIA ACT is outdated

gp66: Be prudent guy. Dont spoil babes with flashy things because i knw all dat glitters does nt last. If u hv married her then give her d world class gift ur money can carry. Remember ur girl frnd is neva ur wife so there is no bond. She can Bleep u up anytime. My advice is dat give her something little dat is neva worthwhile and see if she will appreciate it whole heartedly. If she does appreciate it genuinely then surprise her heavily after marriage except u dnt want to marry her. Gluck!

I like this

candieangel12: Take her out on a nice romantic date, after u guys r done eating and sipping some nice wine, take her out on a nice romantic stroll while the sunsets. After that blind fold her and take her back to a hotel room, which you have decorated with roses and chocolate and wine/champagne. Unblind fold her and let her reminisce over the scenery and then suprise her with a nice necklace, bracelet, or any other jewelry item. Remember to be a total gentleman through out the evening, open the doors 4 her, hold her hand, pull out the chair, carry her to the bed, etc. Trust me, she will never forget this birthday

Na too much movies dey worry you

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